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3 minutes ago, Sticky Rice Balls said:

a life without love and passion...hence the grumpy old guy that yells at you for being on his lawn and keeps your frisbee.......sits in front of the tv all day or online and feeds off the hatred...

Could be lifestyle, diet, drinks, sleep, hormones ? Low self esteem? 

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1 hour ago, BritManToo said:

So she pays 50% of everything in your relationships, 50% of restaurant bills, utils, housing, food?

.......... I think not.

Yes. You think wrong. In fact when I was younger, they would often pay more. If I had more I would happily pay, but it wasn’t an issue in any of my relationships. 
I wasn’t joking when I wrote that your experience has skewed your thinking. But that’s not a big deal. We are all shaped by our experiences. Thank goodness we aren’t all fighting over the same woman. 
What works is what works. If you are able to sustain your relationship when others cannot, who is right and who is wrong? 
I have my way and you have yours. But when you make definitive statements that are waaaaaaaaaaaayyyyy off the mark, they need to be challenged. 
I’ve had girlfriends who used to buy all of my clothes and jewellery etc I didn’t ask, they just did it. I doubt that I’m the only one. 
 

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Just now, Seamaster said:

Our phone internet is about b120 each pm. That can't be right. We have 70gb (300mbs allegedly ????)

 

Food is cheap and bg Issan food cheapest.

phones are ฿350 each (service & fast int) and house int is 631 a month.

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1 hour ago, Hummin said:

The question should have been, how much you should pay a girl to rescue you and take care of you! Save your life from degrading yourselves in Thailand, do all the mistakes you possible can do and end up sour, grupmy, annoying and or alchoholic

That happens to many who hook up with the ‘wrong’ woman too. 

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1 hour ago, bignok said:

Why not just live your life. Thats what I do.

My life is keen to know why I should have (as a foreigner in Thailand) a vasectomy.

 

If you dont think I should ask this question you are more than welcome to jog on and pester someone else.

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2 minutes ago, NextG said:

That happens to many who hook up with the ‘wrong’ woman too. 

Then you have a choice to stay, or leave! Of course difficult if you make someone pregnant and also invested to much in a life in Thailand. 

 

Since we are here at this topic, three basic common sense rules!

 

Take your time, there is no rush to get to much involved to early. 

Know her family and her friends. 

Do not invest more than you can walk away from without looking back. 

 

And last but not least, yesterday was yesterday, and today is today. Doesnt help to much to live in past, and use that as an excuse for tomorows sorrow. 

 

It is so simple, yet so complicated. 

 

 

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1 hour ago, Lacessit said:

Luk Kruengs are not treated well in Thai schools.

Tiger Woods is a luk krueng, a big exception.

Who is tiger woods and why should I know him (I assume it is a male you refer to)?

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1 hour ago, Hummin said:

My wife have a full time work, taking care of the farm together with me, and where did I say a wife with full time job is not a decent woman? She can stil be in charge of the household? Right. 

 

I think we just complicate the matter of who is in charge of the monthly budget, and spending time on not so important issues here ????

 

 

‘She can’ and ‘she is’ is not synonymous. 
There is no rule stating that she needs to be in charge of the household. I have no issue with the sharing of responsibilities and deferring whenever appropriate. 
Your situation suits you. I don’t need to pay for my women. They have their own. What works is what works. 

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2 minutes ago, Hummin said:

Then you have a choice to stay, or leave! Of course difficult if you make someone pregnant and also invested to much in a life in Thailand. 

 

Since we are here at this topic, three basic common sense rules!

 

Take your time, there is no rush to get to much involved to early. 

Know her family and her friends. 

Do not invest more than you can walk away from without looking back. 

 

And last but not least, yesterday was yesterday, and today is today. Doesnt help to much to live in past, and use that as an excuse for tomorows sorrow. 

 

It is so simple, yet so complicated. 

 

 

I’m not interested in the local women….

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1 minute ago, scubascuba3 said:

the more you pay the more the lady dislikes you

I never mentioned anything about ladies, merely that for some people 50K a month is not a lot of money.

 

I've spent more than that with a nice meal and night out lately.

 

Not all people here are pensioners just 'surviving'

 

Personally, i'm under 50 and F*&king loaded.

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3 minutes ago, PJ71 said:

I never mentioned anything about ladies, merely that for some people 50K a month is not a lot of money.

 

I've spent more than that with a nice meal and night out lately.

 

Not all people here are pensioners just 'surviving'

 

Personally, i'm under 50 and F*&king loaded.

50k is enough... for two weeks.

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6 minutes ago, PJ71 said:

I never mentioned anything about ladies, merely that for some people 50K a month is not a lot of money.

 

I've spent more than that with a nice meal and night out lately.

 

Not all people here are pensioners just 'surviving'

 

Personally, i'm under 50 and F*&king loaded.

No you haven't And no you aren't. ???????? Must be a sad existence if lying to other old men on the internet in an attempts to impress said old men is how you spend your time.

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If you choose a bar girl you are playing with fire and you are fully aware of this and you want to continue playing and winning because you are smarter than the others who have lost everything.

Good luck because that's what this is all about.

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6 minutes ago, HandsomeTallFarang said:

No you haven't And no you aren't. ???????? Must be a sad existence if lying to other old men on the internet in an attempts to impress said old men is how you spend your time.

OK bubblegum whatever you say.

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One may want to have in mind the possible risk in such a situtation if the fine long term hired lady has a secret Thai boyfriend, lover or even a husband back up in the North (or South!)

 

The union can end up tragically for the falang ca$h cow, as per the stories one regularly  reads.

 

Hope I am wrong however ...

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Just now, observer90210 said:

One may want to have in mind the possible risk in such a situtation if the fine long term hired lady has a secret Thai boyfriend, lover or even a husband back up in the North (or South!)

 

The union can end up tragically for the falang ca$h cow, as per the stories one regularly  reads.

 

Hope I am wrong however ...

One doesn't have to be with a bar girl or ex bar girl for that stuff to happen................:whistling:

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Just now, transam said:

One doesn't have to be with a bar girl or ex bar girl for that stuff to happen................:whistling:

Obvisouly and even not just in Thailand, fully agree.

 

But if I may, the topic here was on the bar girl so obviously the initial comment was related to that.

 

Thank you,

 

Have a nice evening.

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9 minutes ago, transam said:

To an old bloke.......:coffee1:

Anyone, any age, as I got here @ 45, after the divorce here, all of 47, still wouldn't bother with P4P, as too easy and more enjoyable to go to the buffet ????

 

Personality dependent of course, if you have one.

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