Totally lost interest in marriage

[proton]

2 minutes ago, bignok said:

Why you on this forum?

 

Can't even talk about anything.

 

 

Try pensions!

[transam]

1 minute ago, proton said:

Try pensions!

Good advice, but I think he will be lost there at UK pensions.....

[norfolkandchance]

1 minute ago, transam said:

Good advice, but I think he will be lost there at UK pensions.....

Or 'Birds in your Garden'

[KannikaP]

45 minutes ago, ChaiyaTH said:

Seems you spam the forum since stopping to drink alcohol.

You hit it on the head there.

[KannikaP]

11 minutes ago, bignok said:

Why you on this forum?

 

Can't even talk about anything.

 

 

Any member can talk about ANYTHING, but some of your subjects are hard to understand, or completely silly, as are others, not just picking on you..

[bignok]

1 minute ago, KannikaP said:

Any member can talk about ANYTHING, but some of your subjects are hard to understand, or completely silly, as are others, not just picking on you..

Topic is marriage. Anyone over 18yo understands marriage.

[transam]

2 minutes ago, bignok said:

Topic is marriage. Your posts are trolls.

If one is weird, then one must accept responses/replies, nothing to do with trolling.................????

[KannikaP]

What a lucky girl!

[save the frogs]

13 minutes ago, bignok said:

So you trolling to? Can't discuss the topic.

I guess you could say that. 

[bignok]

1 hour ago, ChaiyaTH said:

Seems you spam the forum since stopping to drink alcohol.

Adults discuss things like marriage.

[norfolkandchance]

We could always report his posts but I love the thrill of the chase.

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[bignok]

My marriage was real. Was great mostly.

 

Thought we would last 50 years but didnt. Such is life. Still talk.

 

It is what is is. That's life.

 

Good luck if you last 30 or 40 years. Most don't.

[bignok]

20 minutes ago, norfolkandchance said:

We could always report his posts but I love the thrill of the chase.

Stop trolling. Marriage is the topic. 

[Isaan sailor]

1 hour ago, bignok said:

I agree. Pick your gf type, short or long or chill.

 

Marriage is no good unless she's got more $$$

 

 

Not always.  1st wife had trust fund income, plus large assets. After she went through all her money—she came after mine via divorce.  Thai (2nd) wife had few assets, but so much better for me.  No regrets.

[Jenkins9039]

17 hours ago, bignok said:

Im young enough to try again but whats the point. First one lasted almost 20 years. Couldnt be bothered trying ever again.

 

What about you? I think gf long term is fine. I see no point in marriages. All you do is waste money.

 

 

 

No upstanding woman in Thailand would enter into a long-term relationship, without marriage... 

 

Avg Bar Girl (or like might), but it's peer pressure from village, family etc, marriage is expected.. 

[bignok]

1 minute ago, Jenkins9039 said:

No upstanding woman in Thailand would enter into a long-term relationship, without marriage... 

 

Avg Bar Girl (or like might), but it's peer pressure from village, family etc, marriage is expected.. 

Rubbish.

[4MyEgo]

17 hours ago, bignok said:

I see no point in marriages. All you do is waste money.

I see marriage as a business or a good long term investment.

 

You get from a marriage what you put into a marriage, same as a business or a good long term investment.

 

16 + the best years of my life, that said, most marriages fail because like businesses or investments, no enough was done to make the business work or enough research was carried out on the investment, i.e. possibly incompatible in the first place, ego, gave up, drank too much, had an affair, gambled, became abusive, (either partner), all recipes for failure in a marriage.

 

I have invested a few mil into my marriage since we met 16 + years ago, wedding, house, car, bike, furniture and holidays of course, but that investment has paid off very well for me.

 

Breaking it down over that period would mean my investment cost me around 500 baht a day, and for what I have received in return over that period to me means I have done extremely well.

 

Now you might want to be single or pick up the odd girl every now and again because you think marriages are an open pit to pour money into, but to me, having a partner that is compatible means you want to spend the rest of you life with them, and is far better than being single in my opinion, that said, I also go on the principal of you only invest as much as your prepared to lose, and if your marriage fails, then you walk away with what you were prepared to lose and without blaming your partner for your lose because you knew what you were getting into, i.e. it takes two to Tango ????.  

[bignok]

4 minutes ago, 4MyEgo said:

I see marriage as a business or a good long term investment.

 

You get from a marriage what you put into a marriage, same as a business or a good long term investment.

 

16 + the best years of my life, that said, most marriages fail because like businesses or investments, no enough was done to make the business work or enough research was carried out on the investment, i.e. possibly incompatible in the first place, ego, gave up, drank too much, had an affair, gambled, became abusive, (either partner), all recipes for failure in a marriage.

 

I have invested a few mil into my marriage since we met 16 + years ago, wedding, house, car, bike, furniture and holidays of course, but that investment has paid off very well for me.

 

Breaking it down over that period would mean my investment cost me around 500 baht a day, and for what I have received in return over that period to me means I have done extremely well.

 

Now you might want to be single or pick up the odd girl every now and again because you think marriages are an open pit to pour money into, but to me, having a partner that is compatible means you want to spend the rest of you life with them, and is far better than being single in my opinion, that said, I also go on the principal of you only invest as much as your prepared to lose, and if your marriage fails, then you walk away with what you were prepared to lose and without blaming your partner for your lose because you knew what you were getting into, i.e. it takes two to Tango ????.  

500 baht a day is 2 massages. Over 10,000 from 16 years.

 

 

[2baht]

18 hours ago, bignok said:

All you do is waste money.

You'll be ok, girlfriends are free, right? ????????????

[4MyEgo]

8 minutes ago, bignok said:

500 baht a day is 2 massages. Over 10,000 from 16 years.

 

 

In those 16 + years, I got to live in this huge house, drive a nice car from new, have a pretty woman to look at, who cooks, cleans, washes, Irons, and gives me a massage and that happy ending whenever I want.

 

Sounds like your paying to much for your investment ????

[bignok]

8 minutes ago, 2baht said:

You'll be ok, girlfriends are free, right? ????????????

Cheaper than losing half a house.

[bignok]

Just now, 4MyEgo said:

In those 16 + years, I got to live in this huge house, drive a nice car from new, have a pretty woman to look at, who cooks, cleans, washes, Irons, and gives me a massage and that happy ending whenever I want.

 

Sounds like your paying to much for your investment ????

10,000 women vs 1.

[4MyEgo]

Just now, bignok said:

10,000 women vs 1.

Time to take your hand off of it ????

[bignok]

Just now, 4MyEgo said:

Time to take your hand off of it ????

Or their hands.

[2baht]

4 minutes ago, bignok said:

10,000 women vs 1.

Even if you got them for a dollar a pop, bigbird, that's 10,000 bucks! ????

 

 

Edited August 16, 2023 by 2baht

[bignok]

6 minutes ago, 2baht said:

Even if you got them for a dollar a pop, bigbird, that's 10,000 bucks! ????

 

 

Think about it. Visit 200 towns get 200 women to give you an oil massage. Not a bad life.

 

Not saying you should do it if you don't want to but it probably beats most marriages.

 

 

[2baht]

3 minutes ago, bignok said:

Think about it. Visit 200 towns get 200 women to give you an oil massage. Not a bad life.

 

Not saying you should do it if you don't want to but it probably beats most marriages.

 

 

It's NOT free bigbird!

[bignok]

5 minutes ago, 2baht said:

It's NOT free bigbird!

Never said it was. Still cheaper than half a house.

[2baht]

1 minute ago, bignok said:

Never said it was. Still cheaper than half a house.

10,000 oil massages at approx 600 baht per hour equals 6 million baht, I think you could buy a nice house for that, bigbird! Even at half that price, it's still a pretty fair house!