My lady call me Big boss

[rodrigo alonso]

Lots of ladies using this for their boyfreinds ,,What is that mean big boss ?is there any somthing behind this ? 

[bob smith]

its a good sign.

 

let her keep saying it.

[save the frogs]

sounds like a "red flag" to me.

 

[bluebluewater]

She knows from where her bread is buttered.  That is not such a bad thing.

[Joe Farang]

You're either a big fat Bas***d, or she has learned that Farangs like the term.

[sidjameson]

Probably worried she will use the wrong name.

[BenStark]

I think someone just signed up, started a thread, and replied to it with his other username

[save the frogs]

1 hour ago, BenStark said:

I think someone just signed up, started a thread, and replied to it with his other username

oh no ... not another troll thread ....

 

we're not gonna take it !!

 

 

 

[Middle Aged Grouch]

The "boss" is usually the main supplier of the food chain I guess. But at least she seems to admit it.

 

Some make abundant use of the generous flow of the monthly pension???? but do not manifest due respect and recognition.

Edited August 16, 2023 by Middle Aged Grouch

[GammaGlobulin]

4 hours ago, rodrigo alonso said:

Lots of ladies using this for their boyfreinds ,,What is that mean big boss ?is there any somthing behind this ? 

If I had to guess, I think this is a literal translation from the Chinese, as one of the following:

 

老板 = boss

老大 = boss (but sometimes this is boss in the gangster sense, as in head of the ZhulianBang, the Bamboo Union, which is a famous gang in Asia)

老爸 = this means father, but often more than father, as the head of household, and usually quite old with much power in the family (not always exactly this meaning)

大班 = Taipan (you recall the Clavell book, probably)

 

So, from the Asian perspective, your significant other, GF, or some random girl, is just being respectful and flattering you, because she want you to think that she thinks that you are powerful. 

 

I am sure that someone has already written a book on this topic.

Or, if not, then someone should write a book on this topic.

 

This is a patriarchal society.

However, this does not mean that it is the women who actually hold the power in society.

We can know this from an analysis of Kinship Terminology.

 

 

[Gsxrnz]

It's a Thai play on words.  They are actually saying Big Bot, because they can't say Boss.

 

BOT = Bank of Thailand.  Big Bank of Thailand.

 

Or maybe Big Bot Darkling. 

[swm59nj]

Women I dated in Bangkok always acted like they were the Big Boss 

[save the frogs]

2 hours ago, swm59nj said:

Women I dated in Bangkok always acted like they were the Big Boss 

and if they call you boss, it's to throw you off to make you think you're the boss. 

[AjarnMartin]

It’s just a clever way to lull men into a false sense of security, but quite endearing, I think - better than shouting “Dad!” across the supermarket ????

[Ralf001]

Accidently taught my assistant the word t.w.a.t.

 

My name now is apparently t.w.a.t..... easier to say than my real name she tells me... but I think she's dribbling porkies.

[2baht]

On 8/16/2023 at 9:41 PM, rodrigo alonso said:

Lots of ladies using this for their boyfreinds ,,What is that mean big boss ?is there any somthing behind this ? 

A good salary! ????

[alanrchase]

Her and her friends realise she is taking the pi$$, your ego makes you think you are some sort of big man.

[LaosLover]

A crude, conehead-like attempt at flattery -like actually thinking that calling me sexy papa will get me to pay them for sex.

[BritManToo]

On 8/16/2023 at 9:41 PM, rodrigo alonso said:

Lots of ladies using this for their boyfreinds ,,What is that mean big boss ?is there any somthing behind this ? 

Better than her calling you 'the farang'.

[phetphet]

Its easier for her to say than your name Rodrigo...Lodligo.

 

Now if she calls you Anaconda, that's the time to puff out your chest and start strutting around. ????

[hotchilli]

On 8/16/2023 at 9:41 PM, rodrigo alonso said:

Lots of ladies using this for their boyfreinds ,,What is that mean big boss ?is there any somthing behind this ? 

You are the main sponsor.

[NedR69]

Does she use this term around other people, or just to you?

 

I wouldn't approve of being called that around others, for my own reasons.  

[brianthainess]

Just call her Maa-dam in reply. Woof woof 

[BritManToo]

1 minute ago, brianthainess said:

Just call her Maa-dam in reply. Woof woof 

How about Dark-Ling ...........

[blazes]

 

 

If you're American, she thinks you are powerful and have access to Mr Joe "Big Guy" Biden.

[The Theory]

On 8/16/2023 at 9:41 PM, rodrigo alonso said:

is there any somthing behind this ?

You pay, she spends. 
you are the big boss ????

[ravip]

If its not for fun, then its pure flattery - feeding and pepping up the ego.

[newbee2022]

On 8/16/2023 at 9:41 PM, rodrigo alonso said:

Lots of ladies using this for their boyfreinds ,,What is that mean big boss ?is there any somthing behind this ? 

Decide by yourself.????

What is big??? Any idea if you're lucky?

At least maybe big spender?

[ujayujay]

On 8/16/2023 at 9:41 PM, rodrigo alonso said:

Lots of ladies using this for their boyfreinds ,,What is that mean big boss ?is there any somthing behind this ? 

.....wait, until you run out of money

[BadBouy]

It's not a term of affection, maybe your a big pain in the arse.