How should I deal with a very persistent Thai male?

[bob smith]

I have this thai acquaintance that i know through mrs smith.

He came into my life about 5 years ago or so.

first time i met him I could sense something wasnt quite right about him and in fact after our first meeting i told my wife that i didnt want him to come to our house again.

mrs smith was adamant that he was OK and I should give him another shot.

so i did.

 

Since then i have blocked him/ceased contact with him on numerous occasions but he always seems to wriggle his way back into my life somehow. Sometimes he shows up at my house totally unannounced, beers in hand.

 

its hard because his wife works with mrs smith so I cant remove him completely.

He is a bit of a nutcase i think

some of the stuff he comes out with beggars belief when hes had a drink.

To be honest im bored of him but i know that even if i block all contact one day he will just show up at my door again.

 

do people like this never get the message?

what should i do?

Should i tell him to his face that i hate him or just continue to placate him when he arrives at my house uninvited and milk him for everything he has got?

 

he claims that he likes farang but when he is drunk you can see the jealousy/envy/animosity in his eyes.

he is of Thai chinese heritage. 

 

another thing is he likes to copy me. the way i look/dress/act etc. its as if he is a doppleganger. 

what motivates such people?

 

Its a tricky one....

Edited August 24, 2023 by bob smith

[stoner]

bob why not just give in to temptation ? all i read here is a story filled with unquenched lust. 

[bob smith]

2 minutes ago, stoner said:

bob why not just give in to temptation ? all i read here is a story filled with unquenched lust. 

I hope you mean on his part! ???? 

[norfolkandchance]

Get him to become a member on here. He'll soon get the message.

[stoner]

8 minutes ago, bob smith said:

I hope you mean on his part! ???? 

he clearly wants more bobby time in his life. maybe when he is leaving next time throw this out there.

 

hey somchai.....don't forget to bring condoms with you when you come again. 

[fredwiggy]

I fully understand what you're going through. My ex wife's brother, who lives less than a kilo away, has always wanted to be "with" me since I first met the family back in 2015. He's bisexual, and has lived and worked before in Pattaya. He likes farangs, and has been with a few according to him. After the first time my ex left with my daughter, effectively kidnapping her for 2 months, he immediately started hitting on me. At first, I just explained to him (speaks English okay) that I only liked women, and that his sister was my wife and that's another reason, meaning I don't cheat anyway. He came around to the house, not wanting to leave. I videotaped him with him saying he wanted to do you know what. I even posted it on FB for awhile so he might get the picture and back off.I told him to leave. He said he could sleep in another bedroom. I said no, get out before I called the police. I didn't want to forcefully evict him because he was just being a nuisance, so I just waited until he left. Now, after I divorced his sister, he occasionally comes around, two weeks ago the last time, and asks the same questions. I said, "do you think I turned gay all of a sudden"? He tries to grab me but I just push him aside and tell him to go. Persistent bas**rd he is.

[ezzra]

I too have the same problem with a young and voluptuous lady who will not leave me alone, any ideas as how to keep her away from me?

[observer90210]

Why not try to serve stale spring rolls to the pest ?

 

Or do things the opposite way.

 

Start to pester him and drop in at his place at odd times that would cause a nuisance to his family ?

Edited August 24, 2023 by observer90210

[stoner]

Just now, ezzra said:

I too have the same problem with a young and voluptuous lady who will not leave me alone, any ideas as how to keep her away from me?

take your pants off.

[bob smith]

1 minute ago, fredwiggy said:

I fully understand what you're going through. My ex wife's brother, who lives less than a kilo away, has always wanted to be "with" me since I first met the family back in 2015. He's bisexual, and has lived and worked before in Pattaya. He likes farangs, and has been with a few according to him. After the first time my ex left with my daughter, effectively kidnapping her for 2 months, he immediately started hitting on me. At first, I just explained to him (speaks English okay) that I only liked women, and that his sister was my wife and that's another reason, meaning I don't cheat anyway. He came around to the house, not wanting to leave. I videotaped him with him saying he wanted to do you know what. I even posted it on FB for awhile so he might get the picture and back off.I told him to leave. He said he could sleep in another bedroom. I said no, get out before I called the police. I didn't want to forcefully evict him because he was just being a nuisance, so I just waited until he left. Now, after I divorced his sister, he occasionally comes around, two weeks ago the last time, and asks the same questions. I said, "do you think I turned gay all of a sudden"? He tries to grab me but I just push him aside and tell him to go. Persistent bas**rd he is.

wow.

 

that is pretty hardcore.

 

my 'friend' has not made any advances on me as of yet.

he has a pretty hot thai wife who i actually wouldnt mind bangin at some point.

 

she is one of the only reasons I still give him any time.

she always wears a mini skirt when she comes to our house.

[Sigmund]

2 minutes ago, bob smith said:

wow.

 

that is pretty hardcore.

 

my 'friend' has not made any advances on me as of yet.

he has a pretty hot thai wife who i actually wouldnt mind bangin at some point.

 

she is one of the only reasons I still give him any time.

she always wears a mini skirt when she comes to our house.

maybe they are both looking for a 4 some ?

[2baht]

27 minutes ago, bob smith said:

another thing is he likes to copy me. the way i look/dress/act etc. its as if he is a doppleganger. 

what motivates such people?

Celebrities Bob! 

[2baht]

14 minutes ago, ezzra said:

I too have the same problem with a young and voluptuous lady who will not leave me alone, any ideas as how to keep her away from me?

Stop paying her, Ez!

 

 

Edited August 24, 2023 by 2baht

[bob smith]

2 minutes ago, Sigmund said:

maybe they are both looking for a 4 some ?

I thought this myself.

 

I hope its true. That I can get with.

[scubascuba3]

Maybe he's your wife's secret boyfriend 

[bob smith]

Just now, scubascuba3 said:

Maybe he's your wife's secret boyfriend 

I doubt it.

 

my wife hates him more than i do at the moment.

[fondue zoo]

42 minutes ago, bob smith said:

another thing is he likes to copy me. the way i look/dress/act etc. its as if he is a doppleganger. 

what motivates such people?

 

Just start wearing costumes..  let's see just how far he's willing to go for love.

 

 

      

 

 

 

And start being more "theatrical".

 

 

 

 

 

Edited August 24, 2023 by fondue zoo

[scubascuba3]

4 minutes ago, bob smith said:

I doubt it.

 

my wife hates him more than i do at the moment.

It's amazing really, the secret thai boyfriends even move in under the charade of being a worker or brother 

[KannikaP]

53 minutes ago, bob smith said:

another thing is he likes to copy me.

Poor fellow. Needs mental treatment.

[Adumbration]

Sigh...more make believe content.....

[foreverlomsak]

1 hour ago, bob smith said:

I have this thai acquaintance that i know through mrs smith.

He came into my life about 5 years ago or so.

first time i met him I could sense something wasnt quite right about him and in fact after our first meeting i told my wife that i didnt want him to come to our house again.

mrs smith was adamant that he was OK and I should give him another shot.

so i did.

 

Since then i have blocked him/ceased contact with him on numerous occasions but he always seems to wriggle his way back into my life somehow. Sometimes he shows up at my house totally unannounced, beers in hand.

 

its hard because his wife works with mrs smith so I cant remove him completely.

He is a bit of a nutcase i think

some of the stuff he comes out with beggars belief when hes had a drink.

To be honest im bored of him but i know that even if i block all contact one day he will just show up at my door again.

 

do people like this never get the message?

what should i do?

Should i tell him to his face that i hate him or just continue to placate him when he arrives at my house uninvited and milk him for everything he has got?

 

he claims that he likes farang but when he is drunk you can see the jealousy/envy/animosity in his eyes.

he is of Thai chinese heritage. 

 

another thing is he likes to copy me. the way i look/dress/act etc. its as if he is a doppleganger. 

what motivates such people?

 

Its a tricky one....

like your postman admirer or was he a she

[bignok]

1 hour ago, bob smith said:

I have this thai acquaintance that i know through mrs smith.

He came into my life about 5 years ago or so.

first time i met him I could sense something wasnt quite right about him and in fact after our first meeting i told my wife that i didnt want him to come to our house again.

mrs smith was adamant that he was OK and I should give him another shot.

so i did.

 

Since then i have blocked him/ceased contact with him on numerous occasions but he always seems to wriggle his way back into my life somehow. Sometimes he shows up at my house totally unannounced, beers in hand.

 

its hard because his wife works with mrs smith so I cant remove him completely.

He is a bit of a nutcase i think

some of the stuff he comes out with beggars belief when hes had a drink.

To be honest im bored of him but i know that even if i block all contact one day he will just show up at my door again.

 

do people like this never get the message?

what should i do?

Should i tell him to his face that i hate him or just continue to placate him when he arrives at my house uninvited and milk him for everything he has got?

 

he claims that he likes farang but when he is drunk you can see the jealousy/envy/animosity in his eyes.

he is of Thai chinese heritage. 

 

another thing is he likes to copy me. the way i look/dress/act etc. its as if he is a doppleganger. 

what motivates such people?

 

Its a tricky one....

So he eats kfc, wears beer chang singlets and gets drunk

 

 

[bob smith]

11 minutes ago, Adumbration said:

Sigh...more make believe content.....

no. its not.

[Adumbration]

15 minutes ago, bob smith said:

no. its not.

Whatever dude....whatever....

[BritManToo]

1 hour ago, bob smith said:

what should i do?

Lock on the front gate is the obvious move.

[BritManToo]

1 hour ago, bob smith said:

I doubt it.

my wife hates him more than i do at the moment.

Does she hate him more than she hates you?

[Celsius]

It's just a bro showing love for the sister

 

You know Thai families, no?

[richard_smith237]

1 hour ago, bob smith said:

He is a bit of a nutcase i think

some of the stuff he comes out with beggars belief when hes had a drink.

This part does it for me....  cracked me up !!...   thanks for the laugh this morning bob... 

 

 

[richard_smith237]

1 hour ago, bob smith said:

what motivates such people?

He read your topic on Aseannow yesterday and is responding to your cry for help ????  

 

 

 

[Mutt Daeng]

Water seeks it's own level.