kcpattaya Posted November 7, 2023 Share Posted November 7, 2023 Haha... She was probably disappointed in his performance... And an argument started. The guy left on his own accord and she went to file a report at the police in anger. I hope she had CCTV at home. This whole story is just unrealistic. 1 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post JustinCredible Posted November 7, 2023 Popular Post Share Posted November 7, 2023 12 hours ago, retarius said: Why would a an American woman want a guy with a small penis for? They like 'em big over there. Is that why you spend so much time in Thailand????? 1 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RichardColeman Posted November 8, 2023 Share Posted November 8, 2023 2 hours ago, nausea said: I must say that a young woman allowing some strange young man to stay overnight is a recipe for disaster Think I was in bed with my wife about 8 hours after meeting her for the first time in real life at BKK airport - together now near 10 years with 1 kid, I'm not a weirdo ! (some debate that) 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
norfolkandchance Posted November 8, 2023 Share Posted November 8, 2023 But after work OK 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Cory1848 Posted November 8, 2023 Popular Post Share Posted November 8, 2023 22 minutes ago, hotchilli said: Maybe you are the perfect gentleman... and made that obvious. Most are not and take an invite back to the bedroom as a green light. Ladies ... if you don't want to be raped don't invite people back to the bedroom. One does not have to be a “perfect gentleman” to not get off on physically forcing oneself on a woman who is trying to shove you away. In fact, one has to be an animal to want to do that, sort of like the primate pictured as your avatar. Blaming the woman in a case like this, as many posts here seem to be doing, is outrageous and disgusting. 2 1 2 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post BritManToo Posted November 8, 2023 Popular Post Share Posted November 8, 2023 2 minutes ago, Cory1848 said: One does not have to be a “perfect gentleman” to not get off on physically forcing oneself on a woman who is trying to shove you away. In fact, one has to be an animal to want to do that, sort of like the primate pictured as your avatar. Blaming the woman in a case like this, as many posts here seem to be doing, is outrageous and disgusting. If you don't want to have sex with someone, it's probably best not to invite them into your bedroom. No blaming, just common sense. 3 1 2 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
itsari Posted November 8, 2023 Share Posted November 8, 2023 1 hour ago, mstevens said: When the first response to a thread is this, I rest my case that this forum is going to the dogs. Gone to the dogs would be more accurate. 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
newbee2022 Posted November 8, 2023 Share Posted November 8, 2023 39 minutes ago, hotchilli said: rape is rape... except No, there is no exception! 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hotchilli Posted November 8, 2023 Share Posted November 8, 2023 17 minutes ago, Gottfrid said: Men, try to listen to the woman, and control your urges. I guess that was an unknown concept, right? In Thailand yes. 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hotchilli Posted November 8, 2023 Share Posted November 8, 2023 1 minute ago, newbee2022 said: No, there is no exception! But there are some grey areas. 1 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post newbee2022 Posted November 8, 2023 Popular Post Share Posted November 8, 2023 3 minutes ago, hotchilli said: But there are some grey areas. That's men used as excuse only. No means no. 2 2 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
impulse Posted November 8, 2023 Share Posted November 8, 2023 (edited) He needs to be strung up by his nuts and she needs to stay off Tinder until she learns how to use it responsibly. Edited November 8, 2023 by impulse 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ChipButty Posted November 8, 2023 Share Posted November 8, 2023 even duct tape cant fix that level of stupidity 2 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Freddy42OZ Posted November 8, 2023 Share Posted November 8, 2023 8 hours ago, FruitPudding said: What exactly did he do? It says sexual assault and then calls him a rapist. Did he actually rape her or did he assault her? Quality journalism, as always. Rape - “The penetration, no matter how slight, of the vagina or anus with any body part or object, or oral penetration by a sex organ of another person, without the consent of the victim.” Sexual assault and rape are often the same thing. I'm disgusted at some of the replies so far. Just because a woman agrees to let you come home with her and agrees to let you sleep in the same bed, DOES NOT mean you can 'try it on' and see if you can change her mind if she's said "No sex, I want to sleep". 2 1 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Cory1848 Posted November 8, 2023 Popular Post Share Posted November 8, 2023 (edited) 38 minutes ago, BritManToo said: If you don't want to have sex with someone, it's probably best not to invite them into your bedroom. No blaming, just common sense. Sure, if she really liked the guy after their date and wanted to see him again, he should have been happy to get her phone # and go back to his own flat to sleep. So maybe she lacked common sense and took a risk, having known the guy for only one date. But she said “no sex” up-front, and frankly I’ve never known any men personally in 60+ years who would have forced themselves on a woman against her will regardless of whether they were invited to her flat, and many men I’ve known are not “gentlemen.” If a guy has that hard a time controlling his sexual urges, he probably needs therapy. Edited November 8, 2023 by Cory1848 3 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gottfrid Posted November 8, 2023 Share Posted November 8, 2023 15 minutes ago, hotchilli said: In Thailand yes. And you seem to have taken that to heart and agreeing with it? 13 minutes ago, hotchilli said: But there are some grey areas. NO! 1 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ignore it Posted November 8, 2023 Share Posted November 8, 2023 What a nieve twit she is. Comes from a fem lib culture where "No means NO" and "if not YES means NO" to chauvinistic Asia where "NO" means nothing, but opportunity means "Go for it" and if a woman allows herself to be alone with you generally it means "yes". 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hotchilli Posted November 8, 2023 Share Posted November 8, 2023 10 minutes ago, Gottfrid said: And you seem to have taken that to heart and agreeing with it? NO! IMHO... you have yours.. I'll agree to differ. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post josephbloggs Posted November 8, 2023 Popular Post Share Posted November 8, 2023 26 minutes ago, hotchilli said: But there are some grey areas. No there aren't. I know you like to reply to every single thread on this forum no matter what the topic, and I am used to some of your idiotic replies, but even for you this is shocking. I have to say I am disgusted by this site. The majority of replies in this thread are victim blaming someone who has been sexually assaulted and that seems to be ok as the posts are left to stand, even the ones talking about Chinese penises like that has anything to do with anything, and only the most insecure of racists make comments like that. RIP Asean Now, you've been dying for some time, now it is time to finally put you out of your misery. 1 1 2 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Scouse123 Posted November 8, 2023 Popular Post Share Posted November 8, 2023 So you meet a guy on a dating app. We know why people use these kind of dating apps. Especially Tinder and Grinder. They are used as sex hook ups. He asks to stay at your place, even though you have just met him, you agree. Around the world, and with different races with different cultures and values, people get very different ideas about what constitutes ' flirting ' and ' invitation ' At the very least it was ' foolish ' to allow a man she has just met on a dating app to stay at her place when she was alone. Stupidity and not protecting yourself and your personal space comes to mind. It could have ended far worse, she could have allowed a Psychopath into her apartment who kills and dismembers her, it's happened before through dating apps. All those screaming Rape is Rape, we know what that is. Those kind of things are always going to happen with dating apps and allowing somebody you don't know to stay at your place on the first night. Blind stupidity. 6 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post PremiumLane Posted November 8, 2023 Popular Post Share Posted November 8, 2023 And people wonder why most women who are raped or assaulted do not report it to the police, just take a look at reactions from this cesspit of a forum to get an idea why 2 4 5 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hakuna Matata Posted November 8, 2023 Share Posted November 8, 2023 Was she stupid enough to invite a stranger to her apartment? What did she expect? 1 3 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Cory1848 Posted November 8, 2023 Popular Post Share Posted November 8, 2023 12 minutes ago, Hakuna Matata said: Was she stupid enough to invite a stranger to her apartment? What did she expect? More victim blaming! She expected that he would respect her wishes, as almost all men would; that he would not suddenly become an animal and assault her. Posts like yours are not so much misogynistic as man-hating, you seem to have so little regard for the civility of your own gender (assuming that you’re a man). 2 1 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
soalbundy Posted November 8, 2023 Share Posted November 8, 2023 Mirrors the Chinese-American diplomatic tensions at the moment. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NedR69 Posted November 8, 2023 Share Posted November 8, 2023 9 hours ago, FruitPudding said: It says sexual assault and then calls him a rapist. Did he actually rape her or did he assault her? Quality journalism, as always. Hey Fruitcake - Rape is a form of sexual assault, but not all sexual assault is rape, you must be schewpid 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lopburikid Posted November 8, 2023 Share Posted November 8, 2023 3 hours ago, MangoKorat said: Maybe she didn't know what Tinder is used for.................................. Everything I have ever read about tinder is it's used by hookers, bored housewife's and people looking to hook up for a few hours. Under the description...dating App. Maybe wrong! 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ChicagoExpat Posted November 8, 2023 Share Posted November 8, 2023 1 hour ago, RichardColeman said: Think I was in bed with my wife about 8 hours after meeting her for the first time in real life at BKK airport - together now near 10 years with 1 kid, I'm not a weirdo ! (some debate that) You might want to change your profile pic if trying to avoid the "weirdo" moniker Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
stoner Posted November 8, 2023 Share Posted November 8, 2023 9 hours ago, Celsius said: 14 hours ago, retarius said: Why would a an American woman want a guy with a small penis for? They like 'em big over there. How do you know he has a small penis? Envy. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post BritManToo Posted November 8, 2023 Popular Post Share Posted November 8, 2023 10 hours ago, Celsius said: How do you know he has a small penis? Probably same was as the rest of us, looking at the condom sizes in 7-11. Haven't you noticed how small they are? 1 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Scouse123 Posted November 8, 2023 Popular Post Share Posted November 8, 2023 44 minutes ago, Cory1848 said: More victim blaming! She expected that he would respect her wishes, as almost all men would; that he would not suddenly become an animal and assault her. Posts like yours are not so much misogynistic as man-hating, you seem to have so little regard for the civility of your own gender (assuming that you’re a man). We are dealing with the real world here, not your opinion of it and how people are expected to ' behave ' through your ' rose colored glasses ' Nothing to do with victim blaming. If people like her were not so dumb and thought a little more, there would be less rapes and crimes. It's about protecting yourself and your space, and not allowing a complete stranger, who you have just met on a bloody sex dating app, to stay the night at your apartment when you are alone. "Respect her wishes", What planet are you on? This is Bangkok, a melting pot, a metropolis where people come together from all over the world, and is one of the sex capitals of the world. If only the world was how you wanted it to be! 2 2 2 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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