BritManToo Posted December 9, 2023 Share Posted December 9, 2023 (edited) 8 minutes ago, smew said: take away the $$$ and see how long she'll lasts by your side..... 3 months max.. and on with the next I view that as a bonus rather than a problem. Next! Edited December 9, 2023 by BritManToo 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
smew Posted December 9, 2023 Share Posted December 9, 2023 Just now, BritManToo said: I view that as a bonus rather tha a problem. Next! yes, agree an dsee you point ... delayed comprehension ! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jimn Posted December 10, 2023 Share Posted December 10, 2023 (edited) 20 hours ago, proton said: Why put ages on an open forum if it's nothing to do with anyone else? but are happy to let us all know you married a bar girl and you probably think she married you for love. So you were 58 when you married and she was 22 -when she won the lottery, not that is has anything to do with the topic of course. You claimed a 15 year old bar girls is a grey area, it's not and as an old sex tourist seeking out young girls in bars you, and others, really ought to know that. We are quoting ages because this is the subject of the topic we are discussing. The reason I said its a grey area is because many people think the age of consent in Thailand is 15 and not 18 as it is between Thai and Foreigner. Is it not the expectation of a customer who visits a bar to assume a girl is at least 18 years old? But as we know this is not the case. The problem over here in Thailand is that many many girls especially the smaller ones look young and underage but are in their twenties. The problem with people like yourself is that you think you are morally right to lecture other people. Of course it is wrong to actively groom a young child under the age of consent especially if it then turns into something sexual. It is different if a tourist visits a bar and goes with a girl and she turns out to be underage. This goes back to my statement that its a grey area in the minds of the tourist, but I agree not in the eyes of the law. By the way, there is absolutely nothing wrong with meeting a girl in a gogo and marrying her. My wife is a diamond, she demands nothing from me and I certainly do not pay her a salary or anything like a lottery win. Edited December 10, 2023 by jimn Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
scottiejohn Posted December 10, 2023 Share Posted December 10, 2023 13 minutes ago, jimn said: the age of consent in Thailand is 15 and not 18 as it is between Thai and Foreigner. A very confusing statement in my opinion! My understanding is that 15 is the legal age of consent but if the woman is between 15-18 she may make a complaint; From the link below; "Thai laws state that any sexual relationship with minors aged 15, 16, and 17 is a compoundable offense. In other words, the authorities will not pursue the guilty party of their own accord, but the underage participant can still press charges. In short, it is possible to date someone who is aged between 15 and 17 years old. It’s even possible to have sex with them. However, by doing so, you’re exposing yourself to the risk of being reported to the local authorities by her." Thailand Age Of Consent: 15 or 18 Years Old? – Dream Holiday Asia Thailand Age of Consent & Statutory Rape Laws Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
stoner Posted December 10, 2023 Share Posted December 10, 2023 On 12/9/2023 at 7:16 AM, soalbundy said: as opposed to what? the standard 500b fine and a wai ? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
proton Posted December 10, 2023 Share Posted December 10, 2023 3 hours ago, jimn said: We are quoting ages because this is the subject of the topic we are discussing. The reason I said its a grey area is because many people think the age of consent in Thailand is 15 and not 18 as it is between Thai and Foreigner. Is it not the expectation of a customer who visits a bar to assume a girl is at least 18 years old? But as we know this is not the case. The problem over here in Thailand is that many many girls especially the smaller ones look young and underage but are in their twenties. The problem with people like yourself is that you think you are morally right to lecture other people. Of course it is wrong to actively groom a young child under the age of consent especially if it then turns into something sexual. It is different if a tourist visits a bar and goes with a girl and she turns out to be underage. This goes back to my statement that its a grey area in the minds of the tourist, but I agree not in the eyes of the law. By the way, there is absolutely nothing wrong with meeting a girl in a gogo and marrying her. My wife is a diamond, she demands nothing from me and I certainly do not pay her a salary or anything like a lottery win. Nothing to do with what I think or grey areas, it's a matter for the law and commonly held principals, which agree that children should not be employed as prostitutes. Sex tourists in their late 50's seeking out teenage bar girls and thus supporting illegality in a business mired in corruption, depression, exploitation and drug abuse are morally reprehensible, and bordering on abusers. You brought your ex bargirl wife into the discussion as some sort of justification for under aged girls in the sex industry, it's not. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JackGats Posted December 10, 2023 Share Posted December 10, 2023 So the "child" was above the local Thai 15-year AOC. That's called child abuse when a foreigner is involved apparently. Churn on guys, churn on, soon there will be no nigh-life in Pattaya any more, this is what all this hysteria is heading to. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Accidental Tourist Posted December 10, 2023 Share Posted December 10, 2023 Wow... how many times I heard that one since 1994... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jimn Posted December 11, 2023 Share Posted December 11, 2023 20 hours ago, scottiejohn said: A very confusing statement in my opinion! My understanding is that 15 is the legal age of consent but if the woman is between 15-18 she may make a complaint; From the link below; "Thai laws state that any sexual relationship with minors aged 15, 16, and 17 is a compoundable offense. In other words, the authorities will not pursue the guilty party of their own accord, but the underage participant can still press charges. In short, it is possible to date someone who is aged between 15 and 17 years old. It’s even possible to have sex with them. However, by doing so, you’re exposing yourself to the risk of being reported to the local authorities by her." Thailand Age Of Consent: 15 or 18 Years Old? – Dream Holiday Asia Thailand Age of Consent & Statutory Rape Laws Exactly and this is what the holy holy member @proton cannot get his head around. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jimn Posted December 11, 2023 Share Posted December 11, 2023 16 hours ago, proton said: Nothing to do with what I think or grey areas, it's a matter for the law and commonly held principals, which agree that children should not be employed as prostitutes. Sex tourists in their late 50's seeking out teenage bar girls and thus supporting illegality in a business mired in corruption, depression, exploitation and drug abuse are morally reprehensible, and bordering on abusers. You brought your ex bargirl wife into the discussion as some sort of justification for under aged girls in the sex industry, it's not. You really have a problem with the bar and entertainment industry here in Thailand don't you. What is your problem? You seem to assume that everyone who visits a bar is a sex tourist, this is way off the mark. I know many people who just come here to have a good time with friends, some even bring their foreign partners. Perhaps you can share why you hold such puritan views? How old are you? Where are you based? If in Thailand how long have you been here? Are you a non drinker? Do you visit church every Sunday? It appears to me your views are way off the mark. You will probably tell me to mind my own business, but it might help explain why. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
proton Posted December 11, 2023 Share Posted December 11, 2023 8 hours ago, jimn said: You really have a problem with the bar and entertainment industry here in Thailand don't you. What is your problem? You seem to assume that everyone who visits a bar is a sex tourist, this is way off the mark. I know many people who just come here to have a good time with friends, some even bring their foreign partners. Perhaps you can share why you hold such puritan views? How old are you? Where are you based? If in Thailand how long have you been here? Are you a non drinker? Do you visit church every Sunday? It appears to me your views are way off the mark. You will probably tell me to mind my own business, but it might help explain why. Have you been promoted to forum detective" my views might be at odds with a former sex tourist in his 50's who sought out teenage bar girls in seedy Pattaya, but I'm quite happy they are! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MangoKorat Posted December 11, 2023 Share Posted December 11, 2023 On 12/8/2023 at 11:19 PM, FruitPudding said: Ah, yes, let's bolster our international image. Photo op. Would be nice if they cleaned up the scum across the entire land, and not just focus on the one rare foreigner who did this in a tourist area. Nevermind how many countless 15 year olds are in local karaoke bars across the entire country? Is that considered normal? Its very widespread across the North in particular and its also almost certain that it goes on with the knowledge of the local police. There are many bars and karaokes that offer girls much younger than 15. Of course, they don't want this becoming 'common knowledge' and tarnishing the country's 'good' reputation. If an adult chooses that career path, up to them - it should be legalised but kids? Hang the people who run such operations and their customers. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jimn Posted December 11, 2023 Share Posted December 11, 2023 4 hours ago, proton said: Have you been promoted to forum detective" my views might be at odds with a former sex tourist in his 50's who sought out teenage bar girls in seedy Pattaya, but I'm quite happy they are! I am very happy with my life thank you. Its a bit sad that all you can do is think about what your life could have been like from your council flat in Burnley. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
proton Posted December 12, 2023 Share Posted December 12, 2023 8 hours ago, jimn said: I am very happy with my life thank you. Its a bit sad that all you can do is think about what your life could have been like from your council flat in Burnley. This thread is not about you or your young ex bar girl wife, but you chose to try and make it that way. I have never been to Burnley, lived in Thailand for 19 years. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jimn Posted December 12, 2023 Share Posted December 12, 2023 (edited) 2 hours ago, proton said: This thread is not about you or your young ex bar girl wife, but you chose to try and make it that way. I have never been to Burnley, lived in Thailand for 19 years. I meant Leicester sorry. I have always wondered what It must be like living a life with an old woman might be Thai probably Farang. How would one cope she cant cook, falls asleep on the sofa all the time and her genitals have closed up through lack of use. I suppose it doesn't matter because that person isnt capable anymore anyway. Talking about you just get your kicks watching young Thai girls dancing and singing. I have my eye on you my friend, I suggest you stop insulting me now. You have turned this personal by making insinuations about my wife just because she is an ex gogo girl. Edited December 12, 2023 by jimn Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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