Female ranger survives rape attempt but faces resignation pressure

[webfact]

A female Thai ranger faced resignation pressure from her superior after she filed a complaint against a soldier who attempted to rape her with the Royal Thai Army (RTA).

 

The female ranger, 28 year old Chonlada Charoenram, reached out to the social media influencer, Kannarat “Gun” Pongpaiboonwet, after being forced to resign even though she was the victim. She tried to end her life after the pressure to resign, but her boyfriend saved her life.

 

Chonlada explained that she was a ranger for nearly seven years in the Deep South provinces. However, she suffered from depression and moved to stay with her boyfriend, who was also a soldier, at his welfare house in the central province of Phitsanuloak during the treatment process.

The incident occurred after she had stayed there for five months. Her boyfriend was at work when his friend, a sergeant major first class, broke into the welfare house.

 

by Petch Petpailin

Photo via Facebook/ กองทัพบก Royal Thai Army

 

Full story: The Thaiger 2023-12-26

 

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[Pique Dard]

1 hour ago, webfact said:

A female Thai ranger faced resignation pressure from her superior after she filed a complaint against a soldier who attempted to rape her with the Royal Thai Army (RT

...it's the world upside down! you'd think it would be the soldier who would be dismissed from the army

[hotchilli]

From the link:

Chonlada went on to say that she filed a complaint against the suspect at the police station and reported it to her superior but the matter went nowhere. The authorities said it was a personal matter and not relevant to the organisation.

Chonlada decided to report the matter directly to the RTA via an application on December 12. Unexpectedly, three days after filing the complaint, her supervisor asked her to sign a letter of resignation, saying she had destroyed the organisation’s image.

 

Sickening.. sack the supervisor, arrest and charge the attempted rapist.

What the hell is wrong with Thailand.

[Muhendis]

It's a male chauvinistic thing.

The brainless alpha's are like that the world over.

I hope the lady gets her justice.

[fdimike]

Lots of sickos running loose out there. 

[RobU]

I don't say that it isn't true but people with 'depression' are often highly manipulative and vindictive, basically very angry at everyone. We have only heard her side of the story. It may be that he was kind to her and when she responded and tried to initiate something he was obliged to reject her. Again don't jump up and down with your panties in the air I am just playing devil's advocate

[Artisi]

1 hour ago, hotchilli said:

From the link:

Chonlada went on to say that she filed a complaint against the suspect at the police station and reported it to her superior but the matter went nowhere. The authorities said it was a personal matter and not relevant to the organisation.

Chonlada decided to report the matter directly to the RTA via an application on December 12. Unexpectedly, three days after filing the complaint, her supervisor asked her to sign a letter of resignation, saying she had destroyed the organisation’s image.

 

Sickening.. sack the supervisor, arrest and charge the attempted rapist.

What the hell is wrong with Thailand.

More like what is right - -

it would seem that being female and stepping on toes isn't. 

[Morch]

9 minutes ago, RobU said:

I don't say that it isn't true but people with 'depression' are often highly manipulative and vindictive, basically very angry at everyone. We have only heard her side of the story. It may be that he was kind to her and when she responded and tried to initiate something he was obliged to reject her. Again don't jump up and down with your panties in the air I am just playing devil's advocate

 

I'm obliged to reject your post.

[scorecard]

19 minutes ago, RobU said:

I don't say that it isn't true but people with 'depression' are often highly manipulative and vindictive, basically very angry at everyone. We have only heard her side of the story. It may be that he was kind to her and when she responded and tried to initiate something he was obliged to reject her. Again don't jump up and down with your panties in the air I am just playing devil's advocate

 

"I don't say that it isn't true but people with 'depression' are often highly manipulative and vindictive,..."

 

Where did you get that gem from? Please share some prove or specific support for your statement.

[RobU]

22 minutes ago, scorecard said:

 

"I don't say that it isn't true but people with 'depression' are often highly manipulative and vindictive,..."

 

Where did you get that gem from? Please share some prove or specific support for your statement.

As a Registered Nurse with experience of such behaviour

[Drumbuie]

1 hour ago, RobU said:

I don't say that it isn't true but people with 'depression' are often highly manipulative and vindictive, basically very angry at everyone. We have only heard her side of the story. It may be that he was kind to her and when she responded and tried to initiate something he was obliged to reject her. Again don't jump up and down with your panties in the air I am just playing devil's advocate

Would you like to share any examples, or evidence, you have for people with depression (with or withou inverted commas) being "often highly manipulative and vindictive, basically angry with everyone"? 

Edited December 26, 2023 by Drumbuie
Typo

[Rimmer]

A personal attack has been removed

[steven100]

very sad and upsetting circumstances for the poor girl .... 

but TIT ....    so it's not that unexpected.    

[RobU]

20 minutes ago, Drumbuie said:

Would you like to share any examples, or evidence, you have for people with depression (with or withou inverted commas) being "often highly manipulative and vindictive, basically angry with everyone"? 

Nope

[RobU]

1 hour ago, Morch said:

 

I'm obliged to reject your post.

Fair comment

[brommers]

As ever the beribboned louts who have bribed their way to the top of the army show their immunity to any form of negative event. The whole top rank in this squad should be sacked not just the creep who assaulted the lady. Until the armed forces are rid of the incompetents who rule like gods institutions like the RTA, RTN and RTP will continue to behave like they are untouchable. The government needs to step in immediately but as we know there are too many old military types in power.

[Pouatchee]

6 hours ago, webfact said:

against a soldier who attempted to rape her with the Royal Thai Army (RTA).

 

6 hours ago, webfact said:

by Petch Petpailin

Photo via Facebook/ กองทัพบก Royal Thai Army

 

another quality report by this ludicrous petch character...

so... a female ranger was almost raped by a soldier who was using the thai army. thats gotta hurt

[CharlieH]

Another personal attack and response to it removed.

 

 

[scorecard]

1 hour ago, RobU said:

Nope

 Then I reject your comment. I too have some experience in this area and I don't accept your comments.

Edited December 26, 2023 by scorecard

[brianthainess]

2 hours ago, scorecard said:

 

"I don't say that it isn't true but people with 'depression' are often highly manipulative and vindictive,..."

 

Where did you get that gem from? Please share some prove or specific support for your statement.

Do you not realize WHY she was depressed? It was becoz of her lose of faith in the RTA AFTER being asked to resign. Guess How I know that.

[brianthainess]

4 hours ago, hotchilli said:

From the link:

Chonlada went on to say that she filed a complaint against the suspect at the police station and reported it to her superior but the matter went nowhere. The authorities said it was a personal matter and not relevant to the organisation.

Chonlada decided to report the matter directly to the RTA via an application on December 12. Unexpectedly, three days after filing the complaint, her supervisor asked her to sign a letter of resignation, saying she had destroyed the organisation’s image.

 

Sickening.. sack the supervisor, arrest and charge the attempted rapist.

What the hell is wrong with Thailand.

Yet again you have Failed to read the full story as you so often do, why is that? you want to be the first to reply, end up looking stupid.

[JeffersLos]

Not much of a soldier if he can't overpower a small woman. 

[RobU]

1 hour ago, scorecard said:

 Then I reject your comment. I too have some experience in this area and I don't accept your comments.

Valid comment you have that right

[RobU]

36 minutes ago, brianthainess said:

Do you not realize WHY she was depressed? It was becoz of her lose of faith in the RTA AFTER being asked to resign. Guess How I know that.

You are wrong she moved to live with her boyfriend before the incident and the interview

"Chonlada explained that she was a ranger for nearly seven years in the Deep South provinces. However, she suffered from depression and moved to stay with her boyfriend, who was also a soldier"

[thailand49]

This is the history and present mentally of all their men leaders. 

[hotchilli]

2 hours ago, brianthainess said:

Yet again you have Failed to read the full story as you so often do, why is that? you want to be the first to reply, end up looking stupid.

If you don't like my posts use the "ignore" option you'll find it in the settings section.

[Hanuman2547]

Need to hear both sides of this story.  However, to quickly try to force/coerce a resignation from someone does not give the RTA a good look (again).  

[peter zwart]

And that is the reason that this country is going nowhere.

[GroveHillWanderer]

6 hours ago, RobU said:

I don't say that it isn't true but people with 'depression' are often highly manipulative and vindictive, basically very angry at everyone. We have only heard her side of the story. It may be that he was kind to her and when she responded and tried to initiate something he was obliged to reject her. Again don't jump up and down with your panties in the air I am just playing devil's advocate

 

According to the site below, that is a feature of depression in men, rather than women.

 

Quote

For instance, while depression in women may predictably appear as low mood or fatigue, depression in men can manifest as aggression, manipulation, impulsive risk-taking, avoidance, and substance use.

 

Recognizing signs of depression in men

[RobU]

38 minutes ago, GroveHillWanderer said:

 

According to the site below, that is a feature of depression in men, rather than women.

 

 

Recognizing signs of depression in men

Agreed but often you find 'passive aggression' in women rather than overt aggression .  i.e. you are critical of me/my work, I don't like it, I am depressed, you are horrid, you are a bully, I will make a complaint.