Popular Post Carlotta Posted March 18 Popular Post Share Posted March 18 My girlfriend/wife is 35 years younger than me.... someone posted that a few days ago. It sounded pretty proud. But what can he be proud of? Has he ever thought about what it would be like to be with a woman who is 35 years older than him? Why does this man think the woman is with him? Because she loves his big belly so much? Or his wrinkles? Or his bad teeth? This woman has a financial interest and is playing her part. She may have a husband, her family and several children to look after. And the man? Buys a partner to escape being alone. Maybe he's already part of the leftover ramp? And what kind of image of man is being spread here? Is it all about sex and not about a lasting, resilient partnership? Does the man I described above think his lady will be happy if he has sex with her for a few minutes every few days under the influence of Cialis and can feel his smelly breath? I was born in Italy and I miss respect in this forum. There is hardly any discussion, everyone thinks their opinion is the only right one. Other opinion holders are denigrated and dragged into the mud. Why is that? Is it because of the origin of the members? Are the majority from the UK? Old, bitter, disappointed? There are about the same number of Germans in Thailand. I'm not treated so rudely by them. Maybe they come from a different background. So, dear members: Respect! Women are not sex objects! Clear text 10 14 4 19 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post transam Posted March 18 Popular Post Share Posted March 18 Why are you concerned.......? 🤔 6 1 8 1 4 6 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post OneMoreFarang Posted March 18 Popular Post Share Posted March 18 You sound jealous. What is your problem when a guy has a young gf? She made that decision. And if she doesn't like it, then she can walk away. What's the problem? Ah, Carlotta, that sound like a female name. Yes, I understand it is hard for you when the guy prefer young sexy Thai girls and not you. So sad. 5 2 5 8 17 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Dolf Posted March 18 Popular Post Share Posted March 18 I would marry a rich old woman. Why not? 1 7 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Woof999 Posted March 18 Popular Post Share Posted March 18 19 minutes ago, Carlotta said: Has he ever thought about what it would be like to be with a woman who is 35 years older than him? Why would he? He's not. 2 2 5 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post stoner Posted March 18 Popular Post Share Posted March 18 who are you to judge two consenting adults ? also. what if she is 50 and he is 85 ? 4 3 2 8 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post noobexpat Posted March 18 Popular Post Share Posted March 18 If she's a looker ...some old boys get paranoid ...when a younger, wealthier, funnier guy like me starts chatting to them and you can see they want to trade up 😃 5 9 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Ben Zioner Posted March 18 Popular Post Share Posted March 18 Rant. 3 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Mavideol Posted March 18 Popular Post Share Posted March 18 35 minutes ago, Carlotta said: My girlfriend/wife is 35 years younger than me.... someone posted that a few days ago. It sounded pretty proud. But what can he be proud of? Has he ever thought about what it would be like to be with a woman who is 35 years older than him? Why does this man think the woman is with him? Because she loves his big belly so much? Or his wrinkles? Or his bad teeth? This woman has a financial interest and is playing her part. She may have a husband, her family and several children to look after. And the man? Buys a partner to escape being alone. Maybe he's already part of the leftover ramp? And what kind of image of man is being spread here? Is it all about sex and not about a lasting, resilient partnership? Does the man I described above think his lady will be happy if he has sex with her for a few minutes every few days under the influence of Cialis and can feel his smelly breath? I was born in Italy and I miss respect in this forum. There is hardly any discussion, everyone thinks their opinion is the only right one. Other opinion holders are denigrated and dragged into the mud. Why is that? Is it because of the origin of the members? Are the majority from the UK? Old, bitter, disappointed? There are about the same number of Germans in Thailand. I'm not treated so rudely by them. Maybe they come from a different background. So, dear members: Respect! Women are not sex objects! Clear text what's your point... by any chance are you related to the "someone" guy who posted it..... jealousy it's a bittersweet 1 1 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Keeps Posted March 18 Share Posted March 18 18 minutes ago, noobexpat said: If she's a looker ...some old boys get paranoid ...when a younger, wealthier, funnier guy like me starts chatting to them and you can see they want to trade up 😃 Funny in what way? Funny to look at? 1 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Lacessit Posted March 18 Popular Post Share Posted March 18 There's a Thai saying, old cattle prefer young grass. Contrary to the OP's opinion, it's possible to form a lasting relationship with someone much younger. There are quite a few men in Australia who are saddled with women their age. The women have aged badly. They are petrified at the prospect of a split, where the woman will take half the assets quite legally. No one can tell me such a relationship is healthy. 2 1 1 5 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post bkk6060 Posted March 18 Popular Post Share Posted March 18 30 years difference is my minimum. The west has brainwashed people to think it is wrong or bad. No law against it with adults, just the jealous judgemental thinking of many westerners especially females who are old and alone mostly due to their fat and poor attitudes. 2 1 1 5 2 6 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Lemsta69 Posted March 18 Popular Post Share Posted March 18 Troll. 1 2 5 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NoDisplayName Posted March 18 Share Posted March 18 1 hour ago, Carlotta said: My girlfriend/wife is 35 years younger than me.... Shouldn't be a concern. If the person is on a valid retirement visa, he (or she!) is in compliance with Thailand's age of consent. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post NativeBob Posted March 18 Popular Post Share Posted March 18 in ancient china that was considered as "extension of life". if he is 55 and she is 20 >>> why not? 2 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Ralf001 Posted March 18 Popular Post Share Posted March 18 32 minutes ago, Lacessit said: There's a Thai saying, old cattle prefer young grass. Contrary to the OP's opinion, it's possible to form a lasting relationship with someone much younger. There are quite a few men in Australia who are saddled with women their age. The women have aged badly. They are petrified at the prospect of a split, where the woman will take half the assets quite legally. No one can tell me such a relationship is healthy. Ive a mate who drops his wife off to school then gets on the tins with his mates all day. 1 5 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
save the frogs Posted March 18 Share Posted March 18 33 minutes ago, Lacessit said: There's a Thai saying, old cattle prefer young grass. Contrary to the OP's opinion, it's possible to form a lasting relationship with someone much younger. There are quite a few men in Australia who are saddled with women their age. The women have aged badly. They are petrified at the prospect of a split, where the woman will take half the assets quite legally. No one can tell me such a relationship is healthy. But that has more to do with laws in the west. If you marry a much younger girl in the west, there's a high chance she might abuse the system and dump you and take half you crap. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post jak2002003 Posted March 18 Popular Post Share Posted March 18 34 minutes ago, Lacessit said: There's a Thai saying, old cattle prefer young grass. Contrary to the OP's opinion, it's possible to form a lasting relationship with someone much younger. There are quite a few men in Australia who are saddled with women their age. The women have aged badly. They are petrified at the prospect of a split, where the woman will take half the assets quite legally. No one can tell me such a relationship is healthy. So....the women age badly....but the Aussie men look so fit and handsome? These days both men and women work...both will have paid for the house, cars, bringing up kids etc...then at say 20 years of marriage, you don't agree with splitting assets half and half if there is a relationship breakdown? How would u feel if the boot was on the other foot? Your wife leaving you for a young gold digging Asian man from a poor country, while she spends all your money on him, and leaves you with nothing? All because you don't look as sexy as you did 30 years ago? 3 2 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Elkski Posted March 18 Popular Post Share Posted March 18 (edited) It is a good OP post to discuss. One must consider how much preconceived notions or brainwashing affect our thinking. Many westerners are brought up thinking we are supposed to meet someone of similar age ( maybe the female 2-4 years younger) and get married in mid to late 20's, after college and landing a respectable job. Buy a house, have 2.2 kids, send all kids to college, so at 55-60 the kids are gone and it's an empty nest. Hopefully you have saved a nest egg and can retire and then live and die together with your 1 life long partner. Any deviation from this entire checklist is considered failure. Now lets look at the economics. In that traditional life the couple are both on the poor end of the economic ladder, all the expenses of a home, raising children, college, etc. really not lots of money left to enjoy their life between the womans age of 25-60. Not lots of time to dedicate to sexual enjoyment so men being young and selfish!, I'm sure many womens needs are not fulfilled whether they know or not. I admit my/our guilt. Or consider the young woman who has an older man who has financially made it at say 55 and she is much younger. This man will be much more keen to sexually fulfill her needs Cialis or not. Actually much less need for Cialis when the woman is young, fit, with smooth skin and a hard body. His skills in the bedroom should be able to rock her World and why not do it every other day? They have money for a maid, going out ro dinner or I guess these days delivered food, nice clothes, vacations, better schooling if children, nicer cars, travel all while the woman is young and can really enjoy these things. Most men should be able to perform well into 80's so the gal has had a full sexual life until her natural desire wanes. I forgot to talk about this sexual desire mismatch in the traditional equal age case above. Most Women have an instinctive ability or desire to care for people when they get older. So the woman outlives the man in both cases usually but in this case she will be closer to 55 or 65 and can enjoy financial security for her remaining life. Maybe not even to late to find a new partner like the OP. Haha. Edited March 18 by Elkski 1 2 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post SAFETY FIRST Posted March 18 Popular Post Share Posted March 18 (edited) 1 hour ago, Carlotta said: My girlfriend/wife is 35 years younger than me.... someone posted that a few days ago. It sounded pretty proud. But what can he be proud of? Has he ever thought about what it would be like to be with a woman who is 35 years older than him? Why does this man think the woman is with him? Because she loves his big belly so much? Or his wrinkles? Or his bad teeth? This woman has a financial interest and is playing her part. She may have a husband, her family and several children to look after. And the man? Buys a partner to escape being alone. Maybe he's already part of the leftover ramp? And what kind of image of man is being spread here? Is it all about sex and not about a lasting, resilient partnership? Does the man I described above think his lady will be happy if he has sex with her for a few minutes every few days under the influence of Cialis and can feel his smelly breath? I was born in Italy and I miss respect in this forum. There is hardly any discussion, everyone thinks their opinion is the only right one. Other opinion holders are denigrated and dragged into the mud. Why is that? Is it because of the origin of the members? Are the majority from the UK? Old, bitter, disappointed? There are about the same number of Germans in Thailand. I'm not treated so rudely by them. Maybe they come from a different background. So, dear members: Respect! Women are not sex objects! Clear text Don't believe everything you read on AN forums. Lots of story tellers, playwrights and screenwriters here. A few of the members have a Phd in Creative writing Edited March 18 by SAFETY FIRST 1 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sirineou Posted March 18 Share Posted March 18 Fourth post and you lead in with this! You gonna fit fine here . Welcome to the forum . Unless..... 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post bunnydrops Posted March 18 Popular Post Share Posted March 18 There is a woman's side Locally, her much older husband died. Left her a nice house and a bit of money. She is nearly 55, not the beauty she was 30 years ago when she met him. She is very lonely. The only men she can attract now are looking more at the house and the swimming pool than at her. A very good chance she will live the rest of her life alone. Thai women worry a lot about that outcome. 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Doctor Tom Posted March 18 Share Posted March 18 1 hour ago, Carlotta said: Because she loves his big belly so much? Or his wrinkles? Or his bad teeth? This woman has a financial interest and is playing her part. Brad Pitt is nearly 60. So he could go out with a 25 year old and be criticized by the OP. Yeh, right mate, you should be so lucky. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Elkski Posted March 18 Share Posted March 18 (edited) 6 minutes ago, sirineou said: Fourth post and you lead in with this! You gonna fit fine here . Welcome to the forum . Unless..... Maybe he is considering things, realizing there is a whole World full of women. And much younger is an option. Its only 16/17 years for us but I see the looks from Western men with same age wives. It happens when we are USA or Thailand. And my teeth are just fine, and I dont think I stink or have bad breath more than I did 40 years ago in fact we learn what our bodies need have plenty of time for personal hygiene. And also older men cook better, have mastered so many skills in life so life overall goes so much smoother. For the woman its like living with a teacher of life. And for a Thai woman married to an older Western man it's like a hyper jump Edited March 18 by Elkski 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Hummin Posted March 18 Popular Post Share Posted March 18 Every marriage is an arrangement one way or the other. An 35 years younger wife I would consider being a nurse with benefits if the man is 70+ with bad health. I met a skydiver who had a 50 year younger Phillippina gf, he paid her education to become a nurse. True 1 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Hummin Posted March 18 Popular Post Share Posted March 18 4 minutes ago, Doctor Tom said: Brad Pitt is nearly 60. So he could go out with a 25 year old and be criticized by the OP. Yeh, right mate, you should be so lucky. Not everyone is Brad Pit, even some believe they are, when walking around in red light districts 1 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post sirineou Posted March 18 Popular Post Share Posted March 18 1 minute ago, Elkski said: Maybe he is considering things, realizing there is a whole World full of women. And much younger is an option. Its only 16/17 years for us but I see the looks from Western men with same age wives. It happens when we are USA or Thailand. close to the same age difference as you. If I had to do it over again, I would chose a wife closer to my age, In general man die earlier than women, add to that the age difference.... The thought that one day , long before her, I will die and leave her alone disturbs me . 1 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nick Carter icp Posted March 18 Share Posted March 18 You are ruining the woman's life , she likely to be widow at 45 years old , past it and unable to reproduce and find another husband and no work experience and then will be banging felangs cheaply hoping one of them will marry her 1 2 3 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Elkski Posted March 18 Share Posted March 18 1 minute ago, sirineou said: close to the same age difference as you. If I had to do it over again, I would chose a wife closer to my age, In general man die earlier than women, add to that the age difference.... The thought that one day , long before her, I will die and leave her alone disturbs me . But it usually happens that the woman outlives the man if equal in age. Seems like more options left for a 60 -70 yr old than a 80 year old widow. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Nick Carter icp Posted March 18 Popular Post Share Posted March 18 9 minutes ago, Hummin said: Every marriage is an arrangement one way or the other. An 35 years younger wife I would consider being a nurse with benefits if the man is 70+ with bad health. I met a skydiver who had a 50 year younger Phillippina gf, he paid her education to become a nurse. True You can get that arrangement with students in Thailand , you be banging them whilst paying to get them through Uni , its quite common in Thailand as well 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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