British woman allegedly assaulted by Bangkok condo guard

[NightSky]

If you hit someone (twice) you have to expect to be hit back at least once.

 

At the end of the video the women saying she would be happy to see him in jail, how about she goes to jail for starting the fight and assaulting the guy.

 

The guy showed restraint after the first assault. At that point he should have opted to no longer deal with her although he is not to blame for any of this 'drama'.

Edited April 26 by NightSky

[brfsa2]

Very brave security man that stand up for his dignity and morality.

 

It's so good to see citizen justice done so well. She deserves it and more.

 

Why some people think that others with a low pay job or without education are inferior and should be humiliated being  treated like a dog?

 

[brfsa2]

6 hours ago, richard_smith237 said:

 

Just curious... How old are you ?...

 

Because at some point... escalation is far more harmful than the insult to your pride for getting a slap across the face... 

 

Additionally, if you are young and 'hard as nails' then there is the issue of 'one punch deaths'....  (i.e. where you punch someone back and they die or suffer serious brain damage)...

 

I know its a lot of whatiffery... and some issues are avoidable.... 

 

In this case the guard could have avoided further conflict by not following the lady back outside....  although, if she was behaving strangely, he was doing his job.... 

 

Could the guard have de-escalated ?...  I'm not saying the woman is not at fault for slapping him... but could the situation have been handled differently by the guard to the degree that she didn't get angry in the first place ?....

 

... Was the guard rude to the woman which triggered her to slap him in the first place ? (again, not suggesting she had any right to behave the way she did - just curious about the trigger points).

 

 

100% the woman had it coming - but could the whole situation have been avoided if the security guard dealt with her politely ? of course, we don't know he was impolite, but something triggered that response... or is she just a complete fruitcake ?

 

Why would anyone say "insult to your pride" ? 

Nothing to do with pride but respect and self dignity, if you are not worth that, then it is pride. 

And why would you deal politely with a dog or beast? you talk like my mother. such a p.

Edited April 26 by brfsa2

[Caldera]

11 hours ago, webfact said:

The woman claims her confrontation with a security guard resulted in significant mental health issues. However, CCTV footage suggests she initiated the physical exchange. 

 

Looks like her mental health issues weren't the result, but the cause of the confrontation. 

[IndomitableSpirit]

This is the problem with many fellow women. When they hit men, it's empowering, if a man did the same back...the victim card is raised! She was already mad because she can't find her husband, found the security guard to berate then all hell break loose. I think most of you are aware of that feeling of being woken up abruptly by someone, you just want to punch the one who did it in your mind. NO, what the guard did was totally wrong but so was the woman who slapped him. She can't play the victim when she also hurt him.

 

She should have kept her hands to herself, you're only allowed to do that if you're on a femdom situation or relationship.🤣😁🤷🏻‍♀️

[CLUBBER]

So this whacked out broad smacks the guard twice instigating the fight and now wants to file charges after he hit her back . It now also sounds like she is looking for a law suit . This isn't the UK or USA where you can sue for BS and get money like a blood sucking leech ! I guess you can say the guard should not have hit her back but she hit him twice she deserved at least a good smack in face ! So many low life and whacked out Farangs in the LOS

[CLUBBER]

So this whacked out broad smacks the guard twice instigating the fight and now wants to file charges after he hit her back . It now also sounds like she is looking for a law suit . This isn't the UK or USA where you can sue for BS and get money like a blood sucking leech ! I guess you can say the guard should not have hit her back but she hit him twice she deserved at least a good smack in face ! So many low life and whacked out Farangs in the LOS

[Ctkong]

8 hours ago, richard_smith237 said:

 

Apparently not - but I very much doubt he'd hit a child or a girl back... 

 

In this case, he'd have fair argument to justify slapping the woman back...     she crossed a line...

 

 

 

Self entitlement person treating a person of lower social status. Thais can be unpredictable in their reactions. They react first before thinking. There are a few cases of the workers killing their bosses during disputes too.

[Ctkong]

7 hours ago, SAFETY FIRST said:

Poor guy. 

Imagine life with her 24/7 . No wonder he disappeared that night. 

[Ctkong]

Respect and appreciate those working to make your life easier. My mooban has 26 security personnel total and every one earns my respect and annual gift of appreciation. Do not treat others lower in status with contempt. everybody has a role to play in life. Karma can be a bitch.

 

[Kinok Farang]

16 hours ago, khunpin said:

This rude female should be expelled from Thailand! 

Obviously a typical Brit. 

Hit first, can't stand the consequences - and then cry for money. 

OUT with her!!! 

Not just a typical Brit but a typical western lady.

Since we let them out of the kitchen they have gone berserk.That is why most of us are over here.

[OneMoreFarang]

19 hours ago, webfact said:

The woman claims her confrontation with a security guard resulted in significant mental health issues.

Like: before that she had significant mental health issues. And after that she had significant mental health issues. Blame the guard. 

[OneMoreFarang]

17 hours ago, frank83628 said:

classic case of 'f**k around and find out' ! she'll think twice about raising her hands next time

I wouldn't bet that she will think even only one time. 

[mikeymike100]

17 hours ago, khunpin said:

This rude female should be expelled from Thailand! 

Obviously a typical Brit. 

Hit first, can't stand the consequences - and then cry for money. 

OUT with her!!! 

What exactly is a typical Brit?

[Tailwagsdog]

This woman smells like trouble...I'm thinking entitled, narcissist, selfish ...I can smell it from 50 paces ...

[Skipalongcassidy]

20 hours ago, Celsius said:

The religion of peace strikes again!

I didn't realize that entitled british slag was a religion...

[Skipalongcassidy]

1 hour ago, mikeymike100 said:

What exactly is a typical Brit?

Ask all the brit expats who live here rather than deal with the brit slags in UK

[Skipalongcassidy]

19 hours ago, Excogitator said:

Judging (from my armchair;) by the cctv footage, she initiated the violence. As a security guard he should have kept his cool (not easy in the heat of the moment), and reported her to the police. 

I do not advocate violence at any time especially from a man to a woman... however it was refreshing to see her get her due reward for being the ash that she is... revoke her visa for assaulting him and deport her.

[digbeth]

Always good to remind ourselves that life is cheap in Thailand, especially for those earning the minimum wages, if they snapped and maims or murders you for slighting them, prison or whatever consequence there is not a deterrent to them

[twizzian]

Looks like the guard only took so much of her abuse, then tit for tat, Whop!

[borderhopper2005]

CCTV footage suggests she initiated the physical exchange. 

----------------------------------------------------------------

It the camera covers the story from the very beginning:

She drew the First Blood, not the security guard.

 

Reminds me of the quote by the traumatized war veteran from early 1980s.

 

0:43

 

Edited April 27 by borderhopper2005

[Darksidedude]

On 4/26/2024 at 8:19 AM, webfact said:

 

A British woman and her Thai spouse are seeking justice following an allegation of assault in their Bangkok condominium. The woman claims her confrontation with a security guard resulted in significant mental health issues. However, CCTV footage suggests she initiated the physical exchange. 

 

Boon-ek Wongsuriyawattana, the Thai husband, and his British wife, Ayesa, recently sought help from the Foundation Campaigning to Reclaim Social Justice (CRSJ). The couple alleges the 27-year-old security guard, Mohammad Ayan, physically assaulted Ayesa in their Chong Nonsi luxury condominium in the early morning of December 12, 2021. After the incident, they left the condo due to Ayesa's deteriorating mental state.

 

Boon-ek recounts that his wife woke the sleeping security guard to ask about his whereabouts. After a brief argument, she turned to leave, and the guard reportedly punched her, resulting in facial fractures and bruising. Reports say the assault caused Ayesa to develop depression and Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder, leading her to isolate herself and refuse medical treatment, which worsened her injuries.

 

The couple has recently filed a complaint at Bang Pong Pang Police Station, resulting in an arrest warrant for Mohammad. However, he has not yet been apprehended. They also revealed that Mohammad's security license was fake and that his employers have not cooperated with the investigation. The CRSJ Foundation has pledged to help the couple.

 

Nevertheless, a CCTV clip on social media appears to show Ayesa initiating the attack before Mohammad retaliated. The public reaction suggests the guard should have remained calm rather than fighting back. The security company and Mohammad himself have not offered any further clarification.

 

 

-- 2024-04-26

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looks as though she deserved it, Thai people would generally not hit any falang unless they done something wrong

[john donson]

On 4/26/2024 at 12:50 PM, FritsSikkink said:

She hit him twice before he hit back, stupid cow should have acted normally and nothing would have happened.

 

wow... a little slap is worth a full punch to the face from a man ?

[traveller101]

On 4/26/2024 at 10:14 PM, brfsa2 said:

Very brave security man that stand up for his dignity and morality.

Very brave indeed - managed a clean hit and knocked the woman out cold. Luckily she didn't hit the concrete head first.

Important to remember that she slapped him twice - beating him up within an inch of his life before he stood up for his dignity.

[FritsSikkink]

On 4/27/2024 at 8:01 PM, john donson said:

 

wow... a little slap is worth a full punch to the face from a man ?

Up to you if you want to act like a doormat, others won't. 

[Seeall]

On 4/26/2024 at 5:59 PM, lemonjelly said:

Rational behaviour flew out the window when she discovered her Thai husband had slipped his leash in middle the night 

Cant blame hubby for getting away from that

 

[kiwikeith]

On 4/26/2024 at 5:03 PM, JimTripper said:

It looks like she tried to leave the building and area and the guard followed her outside and accosted her. No wonder she smacked him. He deserved it. If there is a problem all the guard should do is call police.

I agree, the guard has no licence and has fled,maybe no work permit or visa as well 

[BritManToo]

On 4/26/2024 at 1:16 PM, Celsius said:

Do you also hit women when they get a tad upset?

Depends if they hit me.

[Ben Zioner]

On 4/26/2024 at 11:55 AM, reefsurfah said:

Looks like she deserves it slapping him twice, what else did she expect?

Maybe things have changed, but in my world you don't punch to kill a slender girl who slapped you.

[Ben Zioner]

On 4/27/2024 at 8:15 AM, Tailwagsdog said:

This woman smells like trouble...I'm thinking entitled, narcissist, selfish ...I can smell it from 50 paces ...

Imagine yourself with a Thai husband.