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Western Liberal Males - Why Your Relations With Thai Women Will Be Extremely Challenging

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On 6/15/2024 at 7:26 AM, kevozman1 said:

And then comes along Beta Bob from Boston, who is highly liberal and doesn't know what a man is (literally in many cases) and can't lead a relationship.

 

It's not going to work out and overwhelmingly the Thai woman will completely and unsympathetically walk all over Beta Bob and his ilk or at best will prove extremely challenging

 

You can find them in Starbucks or a vegan restaurant  


 

We need a case history of a Beta Bob that the OP has observed -perhaps observed in a Starbucks, which he alone in the world thinks is somehow indistinguishable from a vegan restaurant.

 

Because he's noticed it. A lot. Sooo many challenges.

 

Give us the deets. Or admit it's all made up hysteria.

 

Very feminine, if you ask me.

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5 minutes ago, susanlea said:

Bangkok has many millionaires who can easily pay 100,000 a month for entertainment. You really don't have a clue at all.

Again, I don't pay women to sleep with me. You do. That's why I am asking you.

 

If I didn't travel, I could prob afford 100K a month for sex.

 

I'd ask you what I'd get, but with you, you're always the expert until someone asks you a straight up question. 

 

Then you pretend you don't understand (comically because you think that makes you look smarter), then you yell drunk, then you run away.

 

Like the OP.

On 6/15/2024 at 7:26 AM, kevozman1 said:

I am noticing an uptick in liberal males from the West wanting to move to places such as Thailand. The most obvious reason for this involves the cities they generally have resided in such as London, San Francisco, Sydney, Stockholm etc are turning into joyless dystopian hellscapes. However, that's what they wanted and fleeing the crime scene as a guilty party without apologizing or admitting fault doesn't sit well with me. Oh and please don't think you are in the same circle as someone like De Niro, he is in the 0.001% bubble and is so disconnected from the hoi polloi you can almost excuse him for not caring and taking his acting into the political arena. If anyone actually believes that guy is a soft bleeding heart 'nice guy' liberal then well, good luck out there, you will need it. 

 

Ok, let me give an explanation for what was promised in the title before the people with tiktok brain have issues with their attention spans. You see contrary to what many people think with less experience, Thai men at this point on average are more masculine than Western men. I am not talking size/strength but the main part, the mentality. Probably around half of the men in the West are neutered, and have succumb to Liberalism, or are just happy to be a doormat for a woman. How does this relate to relations with Thai women? Well to be blunt, Thai women don't like pussies. I would say women in general, but in the West the women are more likely to have been exposed to a larger amount of more... gentle men, therefore being able to pair bond with such a man is more likely. Think of the average Thai women from any sector/class in Thailand, she has been brought up around her father (sadly this is also becoming less common), uncles, her brothers, male class mates etc. She is used to seeing men who wear the pants in a relationship, and then comes along Beta Bob from Boston, who is highly liberal and doesn't know what a man is (literally in many cases) and can't lead a relationship. It's not going to work out and overwhelmingly the Thai woman will completely and unsympathetically walk all over Beta Bob and his ilk or at best will prove extremely challenging, and by that I mean Beta Bob and co will be breaking their wallets open on the regular to keep a semblance of peace. 

 

To end on a upbeat note, I think liberal men can still find partners, in the West. You can find them in Starbucks or a vegan restaurant in pretty much any major metropolitan area, or at an organized protest supporting a highly melanated violent drug addict career criminal who overdosed in police custody. You have a much better chance of living happily ever after with a woman from there. Who knows, maybe even get married, and when you have your first child, you can discuss possible gender identities for your baby with your wife's boyfriend. 


 

I think liberal men can still find partners, in the West. You can find them in Starbucks or a vegan restaurant in pretty much any major metropolitan area, or at an organized protest supporting a highly melanated violent drug addict career criminal who overdosed in police custody.

 

I do not think so. I have alot of single friends in the US, and they say meeting in person these days is extremely difficult. The fear level among American women is off the charts. That is part of the reason most meet online now, or through friends. Not randomly. Not anymore. At least not often, and not like before.

 

Here it is very easy. If you have some game, if you have a great sense of humor, and are able to make them laugh and feel relaxed, if you are decent looking, and dress decently, and are well groomed, it can be quite easy here. Generally, Thai woman are very comfortable with their femininity, with flirting, and open to talking with someone who approaches them, very unlike women in the West, these days. Of course, it also depends on who you pursue. If you are going after wealthy women, who are wearing $3,500 outfits, you will likely get turned down. 

If you are in your 30's, Thailand is your oyster. There are hundreds of thousands of good looking, younger Thai women who are open to being with a foreigner, as long as he is financially stable. 98% of women want that stability. You simply need to be very assertive, have some game, hopefully have a minimal amount of bling, and a great sense of humor. Even if you are older, if you can get them to laugh within a few moments of striking up a conversation with them, you are on your way. Gals who work in hotels, restaurants, retail stores, etc. Stay away from the beach areas, and you will be fine finding a real civilian. Step up to the plate often, and just approach as many strangers are you can. Make a sport of it.

Just now, Prubangboy said:

Again, I don't pay women to sleep with me. You do. That's why I am asking you.

 

If I didn't travel, I could prob afford 100K a month for sex.

 

I'd ask you what I'd get, but with you, you're always the expert until someone asks you a straight up question. 

 

Then you pretend you don't understand (comically because you think that makes you look smarter), then you yell drunk, then you run away.

 

Like the OP.

I think you know very little about anything. That's why you are a PI. Over compensating for you lack of thinking skills.

 

Why would a super model choose an old fart farang at 40,000 versus a rich businessman at 100,000 to 200,000? Just doesn't make sense.

 

You obviously don't have any local friends either. You base your opinions on comments online from old pensioners.

What's a PI? Private Investigator?

 

I was an analyst in my career, so your prole-like bleating about thinking skills has me leaning into that bad R-word again. 

 

If only one of us here had a clue as to what it takes to date supermodels in Thailand.

 

Sadly, one of us admits he doesn't know. The other pretends he might know, but he's not telling.

 

Ever. And: You're drunk. Maybe the entertaining Kramer-guy will weigh in.

 

Can anyone here tell me what I can expect for 100K a month? White? Kinky? Educated? Double-jointed?

 

And to the OP: At 100K, am I still be challenged?

 

I have to believe that yes, yes I am.

 

It's a Darwinian struggle for him just to date a simple woman from rice paddy-land.

 

A model? That's a challenge I'm ready to take. 

Just now, Prubangboy said:

What's a PI? Private Investigator?

 

I was an analyst in my career, so your prole-like bleating about thinking skills has me leaning into that bad R-word again. 

 

If only one of us here had a clue as to what it takes to date supermodels in Thailand.

 

Sadly, one of us admits he doesn't know. The other pretends he might know, but he's not telling.

 

Ever. And: You're drunk. Maybe the entertaining Kramer-guy will weigh in.

 

Can anyone here tell me what I can expect for 100K a month? White? Kinky? Educated? Double-jointed?

 

And to the OP: At 100K, am I still be challenged?

 

I have to believe that yes, yes I am.

 

It's a Darwinian struggle for him just to date a simple woman from rice paddy-land.

 

A model? That's a challenge I'm ready to take. 

You live in Thailand yet you ask people online about local women. You must have no people skills. Walk out the door and talk to the women. The R word you use describes you well.

8 minutes ago, susanlea said:

Walk out the door and talk to the women. 

Ask random women what they cost? As usual, talking to you is going nowhere. First comes the big claim, then follows the blather.

 

Let's segue to the Soyboy insult, last heard in the late 90's. For about a minute and a half.

 

Do you too think that lactose-intolerant men are sissies?

 

Or is SoyBoy-ism a whole soy-based worldview?  How can soy be stopped? How can I help?

 

Have you ever met a SoyBoy? Did he know he was a SoyBoy, or was that just your dark mutterings after he flounced away?

 

This is the kind of amusing crackpot nonsense I'm looking for here, not you claiming  (again) to know stuff and then running away whenever directly asked. That we can get any hour of the day from you.

 

Amuse us.

 

1 minute ago, Prubangboy said:

Ask random women what they cost? As usual, talking to you is going nowhere. First comes the big claim, then follows the blather.

 

Let's segue to the Soyboy insult, last heard in the late 90's. For about a minute and a half.

 

Do you too think that lactose-intolerant men are sissies?

 

Or is SoyBoy-ism a whole soy-based worldview?  How can soy be stopped? How can I help?

 

Have you ever met a SoyBoy? Did he know he was a SoyBoy, or was that just your dark mutterings after he flounced away?

 

This is the kind of amusing crackpot nonsense I looking for here, not you claiming  (again) to know stuff and then running away whenever directly asked.

 

Sitting all alone in a condo wondering what really happens in Thailand. Pretty sad actually. You flew from other country to sit in a condo and learn nothing about it.

4 minutes ago, Prubangboy said:

Let's segue to the Soyboy insult, last heard in the late 90's. For about a minute and a half.

Which person used the soy boy insult?

On 6/15/2024 at 8:06 AM, Walker88 said:

Be over six feet, be under 15% body fat plus have definition, and have a ten plus million dollars in the bank (liquid), and she doesn't care if you support Attila the Hun. Here's a secret: learn to listen. All women love a man who listens more than talks. Confidence and wealth are quiet. They are obvious.

 

In fact, that profile works anywhere in the world, Thailand, the rest of Asia, or the West.

 

Try it, OP. You'll do a lot better and stop having to take matters into your own hand.

 

"Be over six feet, be under 15% body fat plus have definition, and have a ten plus million dollars in the bank (liquid)

Try it, OP. You'll do a lot better and stop having to take matters into your own hand."

 

How does one try being over six feet? Stilettos? 

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31 minutes ago, CG1 Blue said:

 

"Be over six feet, be under 15% body fat plus have definition, and have a ten plus million dollars in the bank (liquid)

Try it, OP. You'll do a lot better and stop having to take matters into your own hand."

 

How does one try being over six feet? Stilettos? 

There's a secret to being over six feet: Choose your parents well.

 

Yes, a bit facetious, as I'm responding to the silly trolling OP post where the OP is pretending he is doing "libs" a favor by sharing his great knowledge of what Thai women want, as if he knows.

 

I suspect he is short, chubby, zero definition and barely scrapping by....and a failure at building a relationship with women he hasn't purchased by the hour. The typical 'rightist' is like their current messiah: a butterball whining crybaby who tries to pretend he's an Alpha Male, when he's actually better defined by the word the orange-face butterball used for where he likes to grab women.

 

The righties I see in Thailand tend toward obesity and drunkenness, and hang out primarily with those like themselves, holding court and spouting fantasies of how 'manly' they are. Maybe they've got some Mauri Warrior tatts, which are how righties express midlife crisis, because they cannot afford a Porsche. Fresh tatts on flabby, wrinkled skin are not babe magnets. Somebody should tell them before the ink dries.

 

I do think my post which you quoted does have some, perhaps inconvenient, truth in it. Confidence and wealth are subtle, but obvious. Women---Thai women and others---are drawn toward men who are confident, friendly, tend to be taller, don't carry the proverbial expat beer gut, don't need to blurt out their social or political views every second, plus seem quite happy in their own skin. Righties tend toward having way too much skin, needed to contain all the blubber, so it cannot be comfortable to be them.

 

Righties live a fantasy life, just like their messiah who schlepps NFTs of things he is way too cowardly to be, like a fighter pilot or astronaut. Libs have quiet confidence, so they are not obsessed with trying to dominate and 'put women in their place'. Libs are manly in all the ways that actually count with women, so no need to pretend. They don't fear Western women and do well everywhere, whereas righties cannot score at home, so think maybe they have a shot with farm women in a developing country (failing to see the inherent street smarts even the women from the back of beyond have in Thailand).

 

 

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6 hours ago, BritManToo said:

I'm happy if they just have sex with me and don't talk all the time. I can manage the rest myself.

I don't even pay for the sex anymore.

I pay them to giggle at my jokes and pretend to like my personality. 

 

3 hours ago, susanlea said:

Sitting all alone in a condo wondering what really happens in Thailand. Pretty sad actually. 

I go to a co-work space to get out of the condo, but thanks for caring. I do 3000 words a day and graze MorningStar and Seeking Alpha too.

 

Your own living situation never pops into my head. The you being more into me dynamic is never going to go away.

 

The OP himself sounded the clarion call of Soy Boys on the march. I too want these latte drinkers stopped. He "notices" them. Me? No. That's why I'm asking for help.

 

Prob another washout, like you pretending to know model-dating prices and then choking.

 

 

1 hour ago, Walker88 said:

because they cannot afford a Porsche.

being rich, 6 feet tall, having 6 pack abs doesn't guarantee anything.

you might attract more women, but it doesnt mean things will work out.

you might attract more gold diggers with the porsche, women for the wrong reasons. 

i think tom brady's wife cheated on him and filed for divorce, if i'm not mistaken. 

maybe people have a better chance if they go live among the amish than buying a porsche.

 

4 minutes ago, Prubangboy said:

I go to a co-work space to get out of the condo, but thanks for caring. I do 3000 words a day and graze MorningStar and Seeking Alpha too.

 

Your own living situation never pops into my head. The you being more into me dynamic is never going to go away.

 

The OP himself sounded the clarion call of Soy Boys on the march. I too want these latte drinkers stopped. He "notices" them. Me? No. That's why I'm asking for help.

 

Prob another washout, like you pretending to know model-dating prices and then choking.

 

 

Lots of words, no substance. Probably like your whole life. Hot air balloon. You went on a group tour alone. No friends to go with. Even your 70yo wife wants to stay in a different room. Talking about soy boys. It is a bit sad.

1 minute ago, susanlea said:

You went on a group tour alone. No friends to go with. Even your 70yo wife wants to stay in a different room. Talking about soy boys. It is a bit sad.

Could you be any more into me? Ruminating about my pricey vacation plans -pretty beta.

 

And my wife is only 60. I could still pull an A-level 60 year old white woman. You? No. 

On 6/15/2024 at 7:26 AM, kevozman1 said:

I am noticing an uptick in liberal males from the West wanting to move to places such as Thailand. The most obvious reason for this involves the cities they generally have resided in such as London, San Francisco, Sydney, Stockholm etc are turning into joyless dystopian hellscapes. However, that's what they wanted and fleeing the crime scene as a guilty party without apologizing or admitting fault doesn't sit well with me. Oh and please don't think you are in the same circle as someone like De Niro, he is in the 0.001% bubble and is so disconnected from the hoi polloi you can almost excuse him for not caring and taking his acting into the political arena. If anyone actually believes that guy is a soft bleeding heart 'nice guy' liberal then well, good luck out there, you will need it. 

 

Ok, let me give an explanation for what was promised in the title before the people with tiktok brain have issues with their attention spans. You see contrary to what many people think with less experience, Thai men at this point on average are more masculine than Western men. I am not talking size/strength but the main part, the mentality. Probably around half of the men in the West are neutered, and have succumb to Liberalism, or are just happy to be a doormat for a woman. How does this relate to relations with Thai women? Well to be blunt, Thai women don't like pussies. I would say women in general, but in the West the women are more likely to have been exposed to a larger amount of more... gentle men, therefore being able to pair bond with such a man is more likely. Think of the average Thai women from any sector/class in Thailand, she has been brought up around her father (sadly this is also becoming less common), uncles, her brothers, male class mates etc. She is used to seeing men who wear the pants in a relationship, and then comes along Beta Bob from Boston, who is highly liberal and doesn't know what a man is (literally in many cases) and can't lead a relationship. It's not going to work out and overwhelmingly the Thai woman will completely and unsympathetically walk all over Beta Bob and his ilk or at best will prove extremely challenging, and by that I mean Beta Bob and co will be breaking their wallets open on the regular to keep a semblance of peace. 

 

To end on a upbeat note, I think liberal men can still find partners, in the West. You can find them in Starbucks or a vegan restaurant in pretty much any major metropolitan area, or at an organized protest supporting a highly melanated violent drug addict career criminal who overdosed in police custody. You have a much better chance of living happily ever after with a woman from there. Who knows, maybe even get married, and when you have your first child, you can discuss possible gender identities for your baby with your wife's boyfriend. 


 

Brilliant post.

19 minutes ago, Prubangboy said:

Could you be any more into me? Ruminating about my pricey vacation plans -pretty beta.

 

And my wife is only 60. I could still pull an A-level 60 year old white woman. You? No. 

You sound totally on the wrong team. Living in Thailand with an old white woman who doesnt like you. A real man would be sleeping with a much younger woman. Not you.

3 minutes ago, susanlea said:

 A real man would be sleeping with a much younger woman. Not you.

For this to be entertaining to others, it has to have a little wit and truth, Not just hapless, blind swinging.

 

My wife is the best sex I ever had. I don't watch porn, I just do mental re-runs. 

 

Gonna bounce for the night. Unless I get some play from the Soyboy Warrior, this thread is hard to keep bothering with. If you had some insult game, we could have some laughs.

7 minutes ago, Prubangboy said:

For this to be entertaining to others, it has to have a little wit and truth, Not just hapless, blind swinging.

 

My wife is the best sex I ever had. I don't watch porn, I just do mental re-runs. 

 

Gonna bounce for the night. Unless I get some play from the Soyboy Warrior, this thread is hard to keep bothering with. If you had some insult game, we could have some laughs.

Talking up an old woman and soy milk. It is pretty bad.

So when you're 70, you still want to riding around on your bike, paying women to ride on the back? You won't want a long-term lovey deal?

 

And you finally admit that Soy milk does somehow anger you, but again (again), you can't really talk about it, right?

 

I want to HELP you fight Soy. The OP too. 

susanlea is obviously a troll. Claims to know everything but runs away when confronted with some real facts. Then "she" makes claims about others with no proof at all and attacks them later based on "her" own false claims. Come to think of it "she" could be the great Orange one himself who finally learned not to use CAPS LOCK all the time.

21 minutes ago, bubblegum said:

susanlea is obviously a troll. Claims to know everything but runs away when confronted with some real facts. Then "she" makes claims about others with no proof at all and attacks them later based on "her" own false claims. Come to think of it "she" could be the great Orange one himself who finally learned not to use CAPS LOCK all the time.

I can't see any facts in your posting. Just complaints. What facts do you have to offer up? Try your best to talk like an adult if you can.

2 hours ago, Prubangboy said:

So when you're 70, you still want to riding around on your bike, paying women to ride on the back? You won't want a long-term lovey deal?

 

And you finally admit that Soy milk does somehow anger you, but again (again), you can't really talk about it, right?

 

I want to HELP you fight Soy. The OP too. 

I drink soy milk and cows milk. Both healthy. You argue like a child.

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This thread is the biggest load of crap i've read in quite some time here

Psyhacks on youtube is quite an eye opener on the gap on male understanding of female psychology...it is quite brutal on what lurks in the female brain.....

31 minutes ago, freedomnow said:

Psyhacks on youtube is quite an eye opener on the gap on male understanding of female psychology...it is quite brutal on what lurks in the female brain.....

Yet men kill far more people.

7 hours ago, susanlea said:

I can't see any facts in your posting. Just complaints. What facts do you have to offer up? Try your best to talk like an adult if you can.

Projection again

Just now, bubblegum said:

Projection again

Are you 10yo? Adults don't like bubblegum.

On 6/15/2024 at 7:26 AM, kevozman1 said:

I am noticing an uptick in liberal males from the West wanting to move to places such as Thailand. The most obvious reason for this involves the cities they generally have resided in such as London, San Francisco, Sydney, Stockholm etc are turning into joyless dystopian hellscapes. However, that's what they wanted and fleeing the crime scene as a guilty party without apologizing or admitting fault doesn't sit well with me. Oh and please don't think you are in the same circle as someone like De Niro, he is in the 0.001% bubble and is so disconnected from the hoi polloi you can almost excuse him for not caring and taking his acting into the political arena. If anyone actually believes that guy is a soft bleeding heart 'nice guy' liberal then well, good luck out there, you will need it. 

 

Ok, let me give an explanation for what was promised in the title before the people with tiktok brain have issues with their attention spans. You see contrary to what many people think with less experience, Thai men at this point on average are more masculine than Western men. I am not talking size/strength but the main part, the mentality. Probably around half of the men in the West are neutered, and have succumb to Liberalism, or are just happy to be a doormat for a woman. How does this relate to relations with Thai women? Well to be blunt, Thai women don't like pussies. I would say women in general, but in the West the women are more likely to have been exposed to a larger amount of more... gentle men, therefore being able to pair bond with such a man is more likely. Think of the average Thai women from any sector/class in Thailand, she has been brought up around her father (sadly this is also becoming less common), uncles, her brothers, male class mates etc. She is used to seeing men who wear the pants in a relationship, and then comes along Beta Bob from Boston, who is highly liberal and doesn't know what a man is (literally in many cases) and can't lead a relationship. It's not going to work out and overwhelmingly the Thai woman will completely and unsympathetically walk all over Beta Bob and his ilk or at best will prove extremely challenging, and by that I mean Beta Bob and co will be breaking their wallets open on the regular to keep a semblance of peace. 

 

To end on a upbeat note, I think liberal men can still find partners, in the West. You can find them in Starbucks or a vegan restaurant in pretty much any major metropolitan area, or at an organized protest supporting a highly melanated violent drug addict career criminal who overdosed in police custody. You have a much better chance of living happily ever after with a woman from there. Who knows, maybe even get married, and when you have your first child, you can discuss possible gender identities for your baby with your wife's boyfriend. 


 

What on earth motivated you to write this garbage? Are you in the closet or something? You need to find a better outlet for your frustration.

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