Old age sex, revisited.

[BE88]

34 minutes ago, tandor said:

...a lot of Monks would tend to agree with you it seems

 

In fact, many Thai men (minus the farang) at a certain age want to become monks for a bright future.

[Dazinoz]

1 hour ago, simon43 said:

a pair of rubber gloves

Are you worried about catching something from yourself?

[Ben Zioner]

3 hours ago, scubascuba3 said:

I know guys in 70s and 80s who still have sex, helps if you're fit and healthy so you don't have ED issues which must effect motivation 

In the 70s it is pretty normal, but less common in the 80s, while exceptional int the 90s. As someone said it goes down and down, and down...

 

Just to say, at 72, I have sex a couple of times a week at the best of times, but I see bilateral Orchiectomy as an option to slow down progress of my Prostate cancer if it spares me the nappies. 

[bkk6060]

Unhealthy older people usually are struck with sex issues.  Stay healthy and even after 70, wanting/having sex everyday is very possible.

[LukKrueng]

6 hours ago, georgegeorgia said:

Maybe true 

But...I still have guys at my work in their late 60's boasting how they still do it with many girls .

Who's doing you from boasting?

[Tubulat]

At 77, unfortunately, the hunger remains, and the will is there too but physically it no longer works out.

[giddyup]

11 hours ago, Nick Carter icp said:

Have you thought about turning gay ?

Why would that help? I'm sure impotency affects gays like hetero men.

[john donson]

maybe because old timers should not have kids, because they will be dead before the kid goes to uni in many cases...   specially if you have daughters...   sons will find a way to die stupidly in this country...

[gargamon]

9 hours ago, AreYouGerman said:

I don't get it, if it's not getting hard, take a cialis/viagra? Doesn't it solve the issue

There was a 30 something guy in Cambodia when I lived there that took viagra every time, even though he didn't need it. A few years later he couldn't get it up without taking Viagra. Shot himself in the foot, or in this case, the penis.

[giddyup]

2 hours ago, milesinnz said:

stay fit, don't put on weight... DON'T stop.. I am 70 and have no intention of stopping but I know I need to lose weight and get fitter again - this I feel IS the hard part (putting on weight and staying fit) - excuse the pun ..

I was still having sex regularly until mid 70's, now at 82 it's just a memory. 

[BobBKK]

Variety is the spice of life - if you are trying to screw a 50 or 60-year-old wrinkly, then you might have problems.  🫢

[Lacessit]

31 minutes ago, Dazinoz said:

Are you worried about catching something from yourself?

He might be more concerned about getting hairy palms.

[jaywalker2]

I find marijuana can help with erectile issues, although a lot depends on your partner.  I have found that it's also necessary to change the way I have sex, putting more emphasis on petting, foreplay, etc., focusing on the pleasuer of my partner, and not worrying so much about my own orgasm. This is not what most men want to hear however.

 

That said, there have been studies that show that ejaculating regularly is good for prostate health. One study I remember claimed that ejaculating 20 or more times a month would reduce prostate problems.

[proton]

1 hour ago, nobodysfriend said:

Sex is much to ' overvalued ' .

It is the testosterone that makes you want it ...

Today , when I look at most females , I do not feel attracted at all .

Libido is down , I guess ...

Good .

 

Not into fat, pink hair, tattoos and nose rings then? 

[LALes]

I'm 75 and I don't take any boner pills.  The urge only strikes once a week.  When it does, I go down to one of my "mechanics" for a lube and oil change.  In and out in about an hour and I go on with my day.

I am a "firm" supporter of the local Crankyankers Union.

[Walker88]

Funny topic.

 

I recall reading an article many years ago about a study some sex clinic like a Johnson and Masters did. They had 'volunteers' to see who could go from flaccid to ejaculation in the shortest time. The 'winner' took 11 seconds.

 

The 'winner' was also 83 years old. Now THAT'S a guy fit for the office of Presidency!

 

I took that as a challenge, In a few decades....well, records are made to be broken.

 

Stay fit, keep body fat under 15% and stay far from diabetes Type II, and you won't be either shut out of life's greatest game and purpose, nor be a customer for Big Pharma.

[Lacessit]

1 hour ago, Dazinoz said:

I am 68 and still have strong desire. Can usually get it up but sometimes need a bit of medicine help. I do have trouble reaching the peak so ladies are usually happy in that I can last longer. I usually lose energy before hardness. After that it doesn't take much energy to dine at the Y.

 

 

Are you referring to cunnilingus, or fellatio?

 

Some women love that kind of attention, others don't.

 

Unless a woman has excellent hygiene, I've found it to be more of a turnoff than a turnon.

[Dazinoz]

7 minutes ago, Lacessit said:

Are you referring to cunnilingus, or fellatio?

 

Some women love that kind of attention, others don't.

 

Unless a woman has excellent hygiene, I've found it to be more of a turnoff than a turnon.

I am a cunning linguist.

 

Most women I have met like it. Some don't.

 

And, yes, I agree on the hygiene.

[Lacessit]

IIRC it was Oscar Wilde who said about sex " The pleasure is fleeting, the position is ridiculous, and the expense is abominable".

[save the frogs]

you can experiment with herbal remedies instead of viagra.

 

but you need to do some research, especially if you're taking medications as herbal remedies can also have negative effects if not used properly.

 

https://www.urophoenix.com/2022/12/16/5-best-herbal-remedies-for-mens-erectile-dysfunction/

gingko

ginseng

yohimbine -- watch out with this one. i tried it once and the heart rate gets up very high. i got scared and stopped taking it. but it's powerful

horny goat weed

maca

 

 

[Surasak]

[jas007]

I’m only 73, so I’m not yet at the point of no return, but I’d say some people may have problems earlier in life than others simply because of poor health.  And I think genetics must play a role.  
 

Anyway, for anyone interested in experimenting, there are a few easy things to try.  
 

First, if you’re using any kind of mouthwash or toothpaste with fluoride, stop.  If you’re drinking fluorinated water, stop.  Second, look into the role of nitric oxide on ED.  How you breath can  make a difference.

[Celsius]

It was only a matter of time before a bunch of 70 year olds started bragging about their shape 

 

A stark contrast to what is seen in every day life in Thailand.

 

 

[Ben Zioner]

52 minutes ago, giddyup said:

Why would that help? I'm sure impotency affects gays like hetero men.

Bottoms remain unaffected by impotency, no?

 

But elderly bottoms probably are messy partners, TIT I guess...

[Ben Zioner]

19 minutes ago, Celsius said:

It was only a matter of time before a bunch of 70 year olds started bragging about their shape 

Yes, at least they prove that they still have the stamina for bragging. Seriously at 70+ it isn't the sex life we have now that matters it is the sex life we've had, or for some the one they should have had.

[giddyup]

7 minutes ago, Ben Zioner said:

Bottoms remain unaffected by impotency, no?

 

But elderly bottoms probably are messy partners, TIT I guess...

You're talking rubbish, or struggling to get a laugh, not sure which.

[Grumpy one]

At 73 I feel like a 20 year old----  or 2  

Alas I doubt I could do anything with them, the wife may object  

Edited July 19 by Grumpy one

[Ben Zioner]

11 minutes ago, giddyup said:

You're talking rubbish, or struggling to get a laugh, not sure which.

err.. say that again?

[Rimmer]

Topic moved to the Pub forum

[NanLaew]

12 hours ago, swissie said:

13 hours ago, proton said:

No interest at all, it's like a burden that's been lifted, don't even bother looking at porn any longer. 70's 

I hear you. What's left? Elaborate please.

 

More money in your pocket?

 

No barfines, no ladies drinks, no taxi money...

 

Do something more honest, useful, fulfilling and wholeheartedly satisfying with your savings than just buying some fake companionship, like donate to Trump?