Just now, CallumWK said:

Really showing your colors again

Sorry to disappoint you that I don't care if you respect me.

That must be hard for you.

3 minutes ago, OneMoreFarang said:

But then, maybe such men just want to have fun and don't care if you respect them.

At the end, they know

 

Nobody is careless about what others think about them. They can pretend, but after spending time in Pattaya and Jomtien, it shows when the walk around with their much younger holiday gf or wife. 

 

Anyway, Jomtien and Pattaya have become much more than a men's heaven, and new kind of tourists and long time stayers is the new.

 

Sex tourists and xpats becomes an minority. 

Just now, OneMoreFarang said:

So how about a guy who agrees to spend an hour with a woman and he pays her as much for that hour as she would make in a week in an ordinary job? Is that narcistic? Or is it maybe a good deal between two adults? 

 

Maybe you should go from time to time with those "victims" and observe how they behave. Likely you have a very wrong perception of reality because you never tried reality - because someone who also never tried it told you all the details which he also didn't know.

Paying for a woman isn't a narcissistic act. Using them one after another is. Why would i go near prostitutes? I have no interest in the trade and see it as a way people are used for others pleasure, and worse. I don't need to buy women to understand what reality is, as reality is finding a woman you don't have to pay for. And providing for a wife, girlfriend or lover isn't paying in the same sense as a prostitute. I went with a couple hookers when I was in my teens, and didn't need to anyway. It was just something I saw many friends do so I tried myself. After those couple, it's been girlfriends and wives since. Yes, I provided for them, and still do, but I'm not paying for sex, although some see it that way. And I'm again not gullible and believe what "someone" says. I read,,listen to many, then make my decisions.

How normal is use of prostitutes?

 

 About 1.5 percent of men in their 40s have paid for sex in the last year. 23.3 percent of men who have served in the military have visited prostitutes at some point during active duty. In general 14 percent of men have paid for sex in their lifetime, but only 1 percent have in the past year.

 

https://www.businessinsider.com/paying-for-sex-is-not-as-common-as-once-thought-2013-3#:~:text=In general 14 percent of,have in the past year.

 

11% of UK men

13% Norwegian

3 minutes ago, Hummin said:

How normal is use of prostitutes?

 

 About 1.5 percent of men in their 40s have paid for sex in the last year. 23.3 percent of men who have served in the military have visited prostitutes at some point during active duty. In general 14 percent of men have paid for sex in their lifetime, but only 1 percent have in the past year.

 

https://www.businessinsider.com/paying-for-sex-is-not-as-common-as-once-thought-2013-3#:~:text=In general 14 percent of,have in the past year.

 

11% of UK men

13% Norwegian

I'd say 95% of men in their 70s in Pattaya. some refer to it as the world's largest brothel. Seen a few around Hua Hin recently, must be lost. 

5 minutes ago, Neeranam said:

I'd say 95% of men in their 70s in Pattaya. some refer to it as the world's largest brothel. Seen a few around Hua Hin recently, must be lost. 

Is every 70 year old man an monger? 

3 hours ago, fredwiggy said:

Morality is the same for everyone. Some live by it, some don't care, about either the girls they're with or any damage done.

They are sex addicts; addiction affects our moral compass. 

3 hours ago, fredwiggy said:

Morality is the same for everyone. Some live by it, some don't care, about either the girls they're with or any damage done.

They are sex addicts; addiction affects our moral compass. 

11 minutes ago, Hummin said:

Is every 70 year old man an monger? 

That would be 100%. 

 

 

45 minutes ago, Hummin said:

Nobody is careless about what others think about them.

That reminds me of many years ago when I just met my gf. Lot of people looked when they saw me together with her. So when the people came in my direction and then passed me, I could be sure that many of them would turn around to have another look at that farang with that pretty girl. I didn't disappoint them and gave her a clap on her sexy backside. Give them something to talk about. 555

 

If you really care about all those other people, then maybe it's time for you to grow up. 

3 minutes ago, OneMoreFarang said:

That reminds me of many years ago when I just met my gf. Lot of people looked when they saw me together with her. So when the people came in my direction and then passed me, I could be sure that many of them would turn around to have another look at that farang with that pretty girl. I didn't disappoint them and gave her a clap on her sexy backside. Give them something to talk about. 555

 

If you really care about all those other people, then maybe it's time for you to grow up. 

 

   How old was you when you met the 16 year old girlfriend ?

47 minutes ago, fredwiggy said:

Paying for a woman isn't a narcissistic act. Using them one after another is. Why would i go near prostitutes? I have no interest in the trade and see it as a way people are used for others pleasure, and worse. I don't need to buy women to understand what reality is, as reality is finding a woman you don't have to pay for. And providing for a wife, girlfriend or lover isn't paying in the same sense as a prostitute. I went with a couple hookers when I was in my teens, and didn't need to anyway. It was just something I saw many friends do so I tried myself. After those couple, it's been girlfriends and wives since. Yes, I provided for them, and still do, but I'm not paying for sex, although some see it that way. And I'm again not gullible and believe what "someone" says. I read,,listen to many, then make my decisions.

Then just don't pretend to know what they think. Because you don't. Maybe you know what they women in your church think. I don't know what they think, but I am pretty sure they think very different from those young sexy girls.

46 minutes ago, Hummin said:

How normal is use of prostitutes?

 

 About 1.5 percent of men in their 40s have paid for sex in the last year. 23.3 percent of men who have served in the military have visited prostitutes at some point during active duty. In general 14 percent of men have paid for sex in their lifetime, but only 1 percent have in the past year.

 

https://www.businessinsider.com/paying-for-sex-is-not-as-common-as-once-thought-2013-3#:~:text=In general 14 percent of,have in the past year.

 

11% of UK men

13% Norwegian

And nobody watches porn and all that. Yeah, sure.

Where is the next generation of night life girls?

 

In Africa.

Just now, Nick Carter icp said:

   How old was you when you met the 16 year old girlfriend ?

Old enough.

And for her apparently young enough.

Who cares if you think I was too old for her?

She decided to be with me. And she still is together with me. I am sure she had more than enough opportunities - if she would have wanted someone else.

Just now, connda said:

Where is the next generation of night life girls?

 

In Africa.

Finally, an answer to the question. Thanks! 

9 minutes ago, OneMoreFarang said:

That reminds me of many years ago when I just met my gf. Lot of people looked when they saw me together with her. So when the people came in my direction and then passed me, I could be sure that many of them would turn around to have another look at that farang with that pretty girl. I didn't disappoint them and gave her a clap on her sexy backside. Give them something to talk about. 555

 

 

   So everytime you walked past someone, you would touch your girls bum, just in case they looked around at you ?

   Why would you want to do that ?

Some of the guys were probably previous customers and they thought about saying hello to her 

I'm not sure how you guys tell the difference.  18 or 22. They all look the same.

1 minute ago, OneMoreFarang said:

 

She decided to be with me. And she still is together with me.

 

   Apart from when you go out to bars with other woman, she's not with you then 

1 minute ago, Nick Carter icp said:

 

   So everytime you walked past someone, you would touch your girls bum, just in case they looked around at you ?

   Why would you want to do that ?

Some of the guys were probably previous customers and they thought about saying hello to her 

 

14 minutes ago, OneMoreFarang said:

That reminds me of many years ago when I just met my gf. Lot of people looked when they saw me together with her. So when the people came in my direction and then passed me, I could be sure that many of them would turn around to have another look at that farang with that pretty girl. I didn't disappoint them and gave her a clap on her sexy backside. Give them something to talk about. 555

 

If you really care about all those other people, then maybe it's time for you to grow up. 

As far as I can recall, you weren't even 40 yet when you met your gf? It's a huge difference from a 50 and 70 year old monger! 

 

Even she was only 16. 16 years old, says something about you, and I really do not care much about your story, but when you continuously flagging your story and seems to need some comforting appreciation for what you have done, or ? 

 

I could not care less, but it's you who need to air your story, and it makes me wonder why? 

 

1 minute ago, jas007 said:

I'm not sure how you guys tell the difference.  18 or 22. They all look the same.

I think there is no definite answer to that question. We can guess, and maybe we guess right. And maybe wrong.

But there are certainly enough indicators to know if she works already a little longer in a bar.

2 minutes ago, Nick Carter icp said:

 

   Apart from when you go out to bars with other woman, she's not with you then 

Are you real?

When you leave your wife for an hour, does that mean she is not your wife anymore?

Some people can make it really difficult. Or are you just a smartass? 

 

Just now, Hummin said:

 

As far as I can recall, you weren't even 40 yet when you met your gf? It's a huge difference from a 50 and 70 year old monger! 

 

Even she was only 16. 16 years old, says something about you, and I really do not care much about your story, but when you continuously flagging your story and seems to need some comforting appreciation for what you have done, or ? 

 

I could not care less, but it's you who need to air your story, and it makes me wonder why? 

 

Maybe just check if I brought up that subject. I talked about the age of my gf in this forum many years ago. And since then, some people always want to repeat this again and again.

What I did was legal. For some people that seems not good enough. They want that it meets their moral standards. I don't care.

17 minutes ago, OneMoreFarang said:

Are you real?

When you leave your wife for an hour, does that mean she is not your wife anymore?

Some people can make it really difficult. Or are you just a smartass? 

 

 

   As you are off out having sex with other woman , your woman at home cannot really claim to be with you at that time 

Official age is 14 or 15.  Can't remember.

12 hours ago, scubascuba3 said:

All in Pattaya, i see many in 20s

 

How do you separate them.  18s 20s 25s

So I can't comment on the Thai scene since I was never into that.

 

But what I will comment on todays young.

 

Most of the kids that work for me are under 30.

 

Their lives consist of playing video games on their phones, I'm pretty sure most of them presented with a Thai hooker in a bar from years past would be deers in a headlight.

 

Today their world is online, Only Fans and the like. I asked my youngest daughter years ago how she met her boyfriend, now Father to my Grandson, and her response was "Nobody meets anyone in a bar anymore, it's all online"

 

So afraid to say, the old guys in Thailand are going to have to be content with the aging buffalos in the bar, cos the young ones have moved on

 

Oh just for transparency, I've been married to an aging Thai lady for now close to 30 years. 

 

I'm rather OK with my feisty, menopausal lady as much of a pain in the ass as she can be

 

I often don't understand my kids mentality, so good luck with some random female half your age, maybe if it works just go for an aging buffalo and have a peaceful last chapter

6 hours ago, balo said:

 

How do you separate them.  18s 20s 25s

by looks, by how many tattoos, behaviour 

9 hours ago, OneMoreFarang said:

I think it's somehow funny to read how he thinks he knows what moral behavior is. It's what he does and think. And everybody else is morally bad. And according to him that has nothing to do with religion. Yeah, sure. 

Yes fredwiggy is very righteous, also flip flops about to try make himself sound better, he basically looks down on sex workers, clear to see, ironic that his daughters have tattoos, we know what that means in Thailand

8 hours ago, Hummin said:

How normal is use of prostitutes?

 

 About 1.5 percent of men in their 40s have paid for sex in the last year. 23.3 percent of men who have served in the military have visited prostitutes at some point during active duty. In general 14 percent of men have paid for sex in their lifetime, but only 1 percent have in the past year.

 

https://www.businessinsider.com/paying-for-sex-is-not-as-common-as-once-thought-2013-3#:~:text=In general 14 percent of,have in the past year.

 

11% of UK men

13% Norwegian

Don't forget those with thai wives and girlfriends are paying for sex