She has started asking for money

[steven100]

9 hours ago, Magpiefan1892 said:

So I went to Thailand for 2 weeks back in February. I spent 4 nights in Phuket and met this beautiful bar girl on my 2nd night there at a bar. We talked, played pool and I bought her a lady drink. As I was leaving she gave me her WhatsApp so we can keep in touch whilst I was in Phuket. She messaged me the next day asking how my trip was to James Bond Island and if I was coming back to that bar. I went back and we again talked, played pool and I bought her a lady drink. She wanted to pay the bar fine and take her back. But I was too tired and had to go on a trip the next day. We left it at that and next day she again messages me. I went back to the bar that night and repeated what we did the previous 2 nights. Only this time I wanted to take her back and she asked me to wait as they were short staffed that evening. I waited, paid the bar fine and took her back. Next day comes around and she messages me again to tell her when I landed in Bangkok as I was leaving Phuket that day. I assumed she’d stop contact but she messaged me throughout my last day in Thailand, and asked me to message her when I arrived home in the Uk. We added each other on TikTok and facebook. And for the last 5 weeks we have been messaging back and forth asking how are day has been etc. Told her about my trip back to Thailand to visit my dad in Udon Thani which is where her family is from in the coming November. Last night she messaged me telling me her mother was in hospital and she’s having to pay 450 baht a day for medical fees. She then asked if I can send over 8000 baht which I can’t even afford and would never send money over to someone I barely know. She seemed ok with me telling her no but I’m now wondering if she’s trying to scam me or something after out of the blue asking me to help her with medical bills. Should I now stop contacting her as I see this as a red flag. We’re not in a relationship, she’s never asked for money before. Just two people still messaging each other from time to time. What should I do apart from not send any money over. 

next  ....she want's to marry you 

[steven100]

9 hours ago, Magpiefan1892 said:

What’s with the trolling. I’m just asking a genuine question. If you don’t like the question just scroll pass and ignore if you’re going to troll. What’s wrong with asking a simple question. Why would I get paid for this post. What have got to gain from this question. I’m a genuine traveller from the uk and been to Thailand a few times and yet this is my first experience with a Thai girl.

you should be banned for trolling posts.  

[daveAustin]

9 hours ago, Magpiefan1892 said:

What should I do apart from not send any money over. 

 
Nothing or block her unless you consider her a friend. It’s a stock message and guaranteed it would be sent out regularly to all her customers. You paid for your time and owe her nothing, forget any guilt. These girls working the big ticket areas are not poor, esp if lookers. Very likely earning more than you shaving away in Blighty. 

[BritManToo]

10 hours ago, Magpiefan1892 said:

if she’s trying to scam me or something after out of the blue asking me to help her with medical bills.

1. Medical care is free to all Thai citizens

2. Women can't be trusted

[Celsius]

10 hours ago, Cameroni said:

 

THIS is a red flag? The fact she is a bar prostitujte was A OK though?

 

you're the one to talk 

[simon43]

Years ago, a bar-girl that I knew asked me for 50,000 baht for an urgent operation for her mum, who had been involved in a bad car accident and gone through the windscreen.  I politely declined and she sadly said OK.

 

2 days later, I learnt from another foreign friend that he had visited her mom in hospital, but that she died due to lack of funds to pay for the required operation 😞

 

The 30 baht scheme is not universal.  You need to be registered as a Thai person into that scheme. Her mum was hill-tribe, and therefore not covered under the scheme.

[1FinickyOne]

11 hours ago, Magpiefan1892 said:

What should I do apart from not send any money over. 

what do you want to do? 

 

Do you want to be with her when you come back - 

 

of course, you could just marry her and send money and never see her again. It keeps the relationship fresh. 

[BangkokReady]

3 hours ago, SAFETY FIRST said:

Send her the money, her mother is in hospital. 

 

Why don't you ask some of the members here to chip in and help, they're always attacking me for my comments, I bet we have a few here who would like to help. 😂

 

Come on loud mouths, chip in, you know who you are. 

 

https://i.imgflip.com/9n2f67.jpg

[Dan O]

12 hours ago, Magpiefan1892 said:

So I went to Thailand for 2 weeks back in February. I spent 4 nights in Phuket and met this beautiful bar girl on my 2nd night there at a bar. We talked, played pool and I bought her a lady drink. As I was leaving she gave me her WhatsApp so we can keep in touch whilst I was in Phuket. She messaged me the next day asking how my trip was to James Bond Island and if I was coming back to that bar. I went back and we again talked, played pool and I bought her a lady drink. She wanted to pay the bar fine and take her back. But I was too tired and had to go on a trip the next day. We left it at that and next day she again messages me. I went back to the bar that night and repeated what we did the previous 2 nights. Only this time I wanted to take her back and she asked me to wait as they were short staffed that evening. I waited, paid the bar fine and took her back. Next day comes around and she messages me again to tell her when I landed in Bangkok as I was leaving Phuket that day. I assumed she’d stop contact but she messaged me throughout my last day in Thailand, and asked me to message her when I arrived home in the Uk. We added each other on TikTok and facebook. And for the last 5 weeks we have been messaging back and forth asking how are day has been etc. Told her about my trip back to Thailand to visit my dad in Udon Thani which is where her family is from in the coming November. Last night she messaged me telling me her mother was in hospital and she’s having to pay 450 baht a day for medical fees. She then asked if I can send over 8000 baht which I can’t even afford and would never send money over to someone I barely know. She seemed ok with me telling her no but I’m now wondering if she’s trying to scam me or something after out of the blue asking me to help her with medical bills. Should I now stop contacting her as I see this as a red flag. We’re not in a relationship, she’s never asked for money before. Just two people still messaging each other from time to time. What should I do apart from not send any money over. 

This is sort of the normal routine with bar girls, not all but most all. They meet you , hang out make friends and slowly create a relationship of some sort long distance and start the money train rolling. You are probably 1 of several she has on the hook like this and plays them all for money for any number of disasters. Its a common practice to finance their life style. If she has enough money to pay her own bar fine to leave with you why not have the money to pay for mom in the hospital?????  Say no a few more times and see if the stories about needing money dont continue or she stops the regularity of communicating with you. 

[Hamus Yaigh]

12 hours ago, Magpiefan1892 said:

What’s with the trolling...I’m a genuine traveller from the uk and been to Thailand a few times and yet this is my first experience with a Thai girl.

Who's trolling who here?

[Grumpy one]

The $90 question is,

How is her Grand Mothers sick buffalo going  

[quake]

3 hours ago, steven100 said:

was there any sick buffalo involved   ?   

 

 

Mother-in-law has already checked in.

Bills will be hoofing his way soon.

 

[giddyup]

13 hours ago, Magpiefan1892 said:

What’s with the trolling. I’m just asking a genuine question. If you don’t like the question just scroll pass and ignore if you’re going to troll. What’s wrong with asking a simple question. Why would I get paid for this post. What have got to gain from this question. I’m a genuine traveller from the uk and been to Thailand a few times and yet this is my first experience with a Thai girl.

If you came to Thailand and hired a bargirl and then can't understand why she's asking you for money you better stay at home, you're too naive to travel.

[Andre0720]

Not all that you will read here will acknowledge the culture in Thailand.

Many Northern girls come to Phuket to find a man. Many were told by their mothers not to take a Thai man, because they are typically irresponsible.

The culture in Thailand regarding relationships, and sex, is quite different than what we see in other countries.

In Thailand, there are three governing principles driving so many actions.

Saving face.

Taking care.

Generate money.

 

So many girls will go to bars, trying to find a partner, at a time when they are attractive.

Those who cannot have success, just add more make-up, and become professional bar girls. Not promising.

But that is not the type of girl that you have encountered. But the old trick of a mother at the hospital is quite ominous.

 

Thai girls are just more easy to try for a one night stand. Certainly does not make them 'whores'. Not in Thailand, as looking for a good man, to take care of, while generating money, is not frowned upon in Thailand. Part of the culture.

 

Otherwise what to think about meeting a girl in a bar in Europe, and finishing in bed. Same. Except that in Europe, ladies are not in need of money as much, and no need to drop some money on the night table. In some instances, it leads to a steady relationship, same as for Thailand. And one must understand that a steady relationship in Thailand also includes a salary for the lady.

 

My good friend here met this bar girl some years ago. He brought her home one night, after paying the bar fine, and left a 1k on the night table.

The next night, he went to the same bar. The lady was there also. He just drank a few beers. Then this lady came to see him and told him: "I really like you, but if you do not take me tonight, I will have to go with another man, as I need money to support myself and my daughter."

So he took her home again that night. Spent some 10 years together, and she was still with him when he got sick, and she took care of his burial.

 

So, yes, many stories in Thailand, some good ones, and many bad ones.

 

But she might have realized that you would not be able to live together, and see if it could lead to a long term one.

Nobody knows.

But the old trick of the sick mother in the hospital, well.... You might already have seen through that...

 

So if you could not be the one that she could be taking care of, well, let's try to generate some money...

 

Good luck.

 

[bubblegum]

13 hours ago, Magpiefan1892 said:

What’s with the trolling. I’m just asking a genuine question. If you don’t like the question just scroll pass and ignore if you’re going to troll. What’s wrong with asking a simple question. Why would I get paid for this post. What have got to gain from this question. I’m a genuine traveller from the uk and been to Thailand a few times and yet this is my first experience with a Thai girl.

Like there are no stories just like this on the internet. Troll

[madone]

12 hours ago, BangkokReady said:

 

Some say the most realistic expat community in all of Thailand.

 

some say its a cess pit of miserable geriatrics discussing us politics

[BangkokReady]

1 hour ago, madone said:

 

some say its a cess pit of miserable geriatrics discussing us politics

 

Again, that's just people being realistic. Left-wing types will say these kinds of negative things, but that's just because they are so tied to their deranged ideology they are incapable of seeing the world as it is.

[madone]

16 minutes ago, BangkokReady said:

 

Again, that's just people being realistic. Left-wing types will say these kinds of negative things, but that's just because they are so tied to their deranged ideology they are incapable of seeing the world as it is.

Your partisan jargon bores me. The world is not black and white nor left or right, and it is myopic and reductive to see it that way. 

left and right is a divisive crock of <deleted> -- a distinction of milimetres on a much broader political spectrum.    

[Kinok Farang]

15 hours ago, Magpiefan1892 said:

So I went to Thailand for 2 weeks back in February. I spent 4 nights in Phuket and met this beautiful bar girl on my 2nd night there at a bar. We talked, played pool and I bought her a lady drink. As I was leaving she gave me her WhatsApp so we can keep in touch whilst I was in Phuket. She messaged me the next day asking how my trip was to James Bond Island and if I was coming back to that bar. I went back and we again talked, played pool and I bought her a lady drink. She wanted to pay the bar fine and take her back. But I was too tired and had to go on a trip the next day. We left it at that and next day she again messages me. I went back to the bar that night and repeated what we did the previous 2 nights. Only this time I wanted to take her back and she asked me to wait as they were short staffed that evening. I waited, paid the bar fine and took her back. Next day comes around and she messages me again to tell her when I landed in Bangkok as I was leaving Phuket that day. I assumed she’d stop contact but she messaged me throughout my last day in Thailand, and asked me to message her when I arrived home in the Uk. We added each other on TikTok and facebook. And for the last 5 weeks we have been messaging back and forth asking how are day has been etc. Told her about my trip back to Thailand to visit my dad in Udon Thani which is where her family is from in the coming November. Last night she messaged me telling me her mother was in hospital and she’s having to pay 450 baht a day for medical fees. She then asked if I can send over 8000 baht which I can’t even afford and would never send money over to someone I barely know. She seemed ok with me telling her no but I’m now wondering if she’s trying to scam me or something after out of the blue asking me to help her with medical bills. Should I now stop contacting her as I see this as a red flag. We’re not in a relationship, she’s never asked for money before. Just two people still messaging each other from time to time. What should I do apart from not send any money over. 

Send her the money.

She obviously loves you.

Lucky lad.

[frank83628]

14 hours ago, NorthernRyland said:

 

You're new here so you don't know but this most cynical expat community in all of Thailand.

 

Check out this guys channel. Filled with stories from people just like yourself. Could be helpful.

 

https://www.youtube.com/@thaitalkwithdan

 

Yep, bitter old pensioners that already got scammed or a in a loveless relationship with a Hooker 

[Jonathan Swift]

15 hours ago, Magpiefan1892 said:

What’s with the trolling. I’m just asking a genuine question. If you don’t like the question just scroll pass and ignore if you’re going to troll. What’s wrong with asking a simple question. Why would I get paid for this post. What have got to gain from this question. I’m a genuine traveller from the uk and been to Thailand a few times and yet this is my first experience with a Thai girl.

This is how guys end up getting their lives destroyed. This is how it starts. Always the same playbook. Good that you sense this is a red flag. Nothing wrong with dating a bar girl, but always remember that that's what she is, and what she always will be. If she keeps asking for money keep saying no. See how long she sticks around. Of all the Thai girls that ever asked me for money, and none were bar girls, they're all gone, except for one whom I've known for 11 years, and I know for a fact that her sister was recently in a terrible bike accident with compound fractures and needing steel pins, she sent me the photos, copies of the hospital bills  etc. She had never asked me for money, just this one time, and I helped. 

[Mavideol]

16 hours ago, Magpiefan1892 said:

So I went to Thailand for 2 weeks back in February. I spent 4 nights in Phuket and met this beautiful bar girl on my 2nd night there at a bar. We talked, played pool and I bought her a lady drink. As I was leaving she gave me her WhatsApp so we can keep in touch whilst I was in Phuket. She messaged me the next day asking how my trip was to James Bond Island and if I was coming back to that bar. I went back and we again talked, played pool and I bought her a lady drink. She wanted to pay the bar fine and take her back. But I was too tired and had to go on a trip the next day. We left it at that and next day she again messages me. I went back to the bar that night and repeated what we did the previous 2 nights. Only this time I wanted to take her back and she asked me to wait as they were short staffed that evening. I waited, paid the bar fine and took her back. Next day comes around and she messages me again to tell her when I landed in Bangkok as I was leaving Phuket that day. I assumed she’d stop contact but she messaged me throughout my last day in Thailand, and asked me to message her when I arrived home in the Uk. We added each other on TikTok and facebook. And for the last 5 weeks we have been messaging back and forth asking how are day has been etc. Told her about my trip back to Thailand to visit my dad in Udon Thani which is where her family is from in the coming November. Last night she messaged me telling me her mother was in hospital and she’s having to pay 450 baht a day for medical fees. She then asked if I can send over 8000 baht which I can’t even afford and would never send money over to someone I barely know. She seemed ok with me telling her no but I’m now wondering if she’s trying to scam me or something after out of the blue asking me to help her with medical bills. Should I now stop contacting her as I see this as a red flag. We’re not in a relationship, she’s never asked for money before. Just two people still messaging each other from time to time. What should I do apart from not send any money over. 

usually thy start with the mother or father, than a sister or a brother that did something wrong and he's in jail, the cat  and the dog need a visit to the vet... run forest run

[FruitPudding]

14 hours ago, NorthernRyland said:

Any women from any walk of life that is grabbing for money is vulgar and repulsive in my eyes. PUMP AND DUMP BRO!!

 

It's the only way.

[Tarteso]

Marry she, 😁

[Bruce Aussie]

16 hours ago, Magpiefan1892 said:

So I went to Thailand for 2 weeks back in February. I spent 4 nights in Phuket and met this beautiful bar girl on my 2nd night there at a bar. We talked, played pool and I bought her a lady drink. As I was leaving she gave me her WhatsApp so we can keep in touch whilst I was in Phuket. She messaged me the next day asking how my trip was to James Bond Island and if I was coming back to that bar. I went back and we again talked, played pool and I bought her a lady drink. She wanted to pay the bar fine and take her back. But I was too tired and had to go on a trip the next day. We left it at that and next day she again messages me. I went back to the bar that night and repeated what we did the previous 2 nights. Only this time I wanted to take her back and she asked me to wait as they were short staffed that evening. I waited, paid the bar fine and took her back. Next day comes around and she messages me again to tell her when I landed in Bangkok as I was leaving Phuket that day. I assumed she’d stop contact but she messaged me throughout my last day in Thailand, and asked me to message her when I arrived home in the Uk. We added each other on TikTok and facebook. And for the last 5 weeks we have been messaging back and forth asking how are day has been etc. Told her about my trip back to Thailand to visit my dad in Udon Thani which is where her family is from in the coming November. Last night she messaged me telling me her mother was in hospital and she’s having to pay 450 baht a day for medical fees. She then asked if I can send over 8000 baht which I can’t even afford and would never send money over to someone I barely know. She seemed ok with me telling her no but I’m now wondering if she’s trying to scam me or something after out of the blue asking me to help her with medical bills. Should I now stop contacting her as I see this as a red flag. We’re not in a relationship, she’s never asked for money before. Just two people still messaging each other from time to time. What should I do apart from not send any money over. 

Send nothing if you want to throw your money away send it to me. I be happy with 6000 you save 2000😀

She be receiving money from more than I farang sucker.

[Robin]

Just following the script.  If you rise to the bit, she might try again...   If you either ignore her pleas, or come up with some excuse as to why you cannot possible give her any money, then you might continue with the relationship on a different level.  Reject her requests and see what she does next.

When my pesent wife started asking for money for 'brother has car accident' etc, I made it clear I was NOT paying.  That was 35 yrs ago and we are still together and I still do not pa or lend money to any of he family 

[4MyEgo]

16 hours ago, Magpiefan1892 said:

What should I do apart from not send any money over. 

 

When I met my wife in a bar, in Phuket 2 decades ago, we spent 10 nights together, when I was leaving, I told her I was coming back in 6 weeks and said maybe we can catch up, she then asked if I wanted her to go back to the village to wait for me, I said sure, but if you need to make money, it was ok by me, for her to stay, she said, no, I don't like this work, I will go back to the village, if you promise to come back in 6 weeks, I said, promise and I did.

 

When I left, I gave her 10k baht as she didn't ask me for any money, apart from me paying for her the first night that I met her, which was 2k + the bar fine of 300 baht.

 

On top of that, I did pay the bar fine for every night to the bar owner, that way he couldn't complain, it was 300 baht a night of which she would get half of. Some nights we would go to the bar, have a couple of drinks, which she would get half of, and leave, therefore keeping her boss on side, i.e. she has a customer who is paying the bar fine and buying some drinks.

 

We kept in touch when I went home, I discussed the situation about her coming back to my country for a few months for a holiday and to hang out with me if she felt comfortable with that, and she said that would be a whole new experience for her as she hasn't been out of Thailand before, so I sent her some money to get a passport organized while I looked into the visa side of things, I also sent her some money to catch a flight to Bangkok to meet me as that was were she had to apply for her visa  do police checks.

 

We spent a couple of nights there and then went to the village for a couple of nights to meet her family, then off to Phuket to holiday for a week, and wait for the call to pick up the visa, then fly out up to Bangkok, then to my home country.

 

We married before her visa expired and she was given a bridging visa to stay for 2 years, until she was approved as a resident, then another 2 years a Citizen, we travelled back to Thailand once, twice a year for 4-8 weeks as I was a contractor and could take time off when I wanted to and was on a good wicket.

 

I have now lived in Thailand for a decade, in a house I built her, no regrets when I rolled the dice with this one, as she is a keeper.

 

My advice to you is, go with your guy and roll the dice, but do set boundaries and traps along the way, as you will soon find out what kind of creature you have met.

 

Good luck, sometimes it does work out.

[Celsius]

3 minutes ago, 4MyEgo said:

 

When I met my wife in a bar, in Phuket 2 decades ago, we spent 10 nights together, when I was leaving, I told her I was coming back in 6 weeks and said maybe we can catch up, she then asked if I wanted her to go back to the village to wait for me, I said sure, but if you need to make money, it was ok by me, for her to stay, she said, no, I don't like this work, I will go back to the village, if you promise to come back in 6 weeks, I said, promise and I did.

 

When I left, I gave her 10k baht as she didn't ask me for any money, apart from me paying for her the first night that I met her, which was 2k + the bar fine of 300 baht.

 

On top of that, I did pay the bar fine for every night to the bar owner, that way he couldn't complain, it was 300 baht a night of which she would get half of. Some nights we would go to the bar, have a couple of drinks, which she would get half of, and leave, therefore keeping her boss on side, i.e. she has a customer who is paying the bar fine and buying some drinks.

 

We kept in touch when I went home, I discussed the situation about her coming back to my country for a few months for a holiday and to hang out with me if she felt comfortable with that, and she said that would be a whole new experience for her as she hasn't been out of Thailand before, so I sent her some money to get a passport organized while I looked into the visa side of things, I also sent her some money to catch a flight to Bangkok to meet me as that was were she had to apply for her visa  do police checks.

 

We spent a couple of nights there and then went to the village for a couple of nights to meet her family, then off to Phuket to holiday for a week, and wait for the call to pick up the visa, then fly out up to Bangkok, then to my home country.

 

We married before her visa expired and she was given a bridging visa to stay for 2 years, until she was approved as a resident, then another 2 years a Citizen, we travelled back to Thailand once, twice a year for 4-8 weeks as I was a contractor and could take time off when I wanted to and was on a good wicket.

 

I have now lived in Thailand for a decade, in a house I built her, no regrets when I rolled the dice with this one, as she is a keeper.

 

My advice to you is, go with your guy and roll the dice, but do set boundaries and traps along the way, as you will soon find out what kind of creature you have met.

 

Good luck, sometimes it does work out.

 

Wow... how does a bargirl look like 20 years later.....

 

[Cameroni]

8 minutes ago, 4MyEgo said:

 

When I met my wife in a bar, in Phuket 2 decades ago, we spent 10 nights together, when I was leaving, I told her I was coming back in 6 weeks and said maybe we can catch up, she then asked if I wanted her to go back to the village to wait for me, I said sure, but if you need to make money, it was ok by me, for her to stay, she said, no, I don't like this work, I will go back to the village, if you promise to come back in 6 weeks, I said, promise and I did.

 

When I left, I gave her 10k baht as she didn't ask me for any money, apart from me paying for her the first night that I met her, which was 2k + the bar fine of 300 baht.

 

On top of that, I did pay the bar fine for every night to the bar owner, that way he couldn't complain, it was 300 baht a night of which she would get half of. Some nights we would go to the bar, have a couple of drinks, which she would get half of, and leave, therefore keeping her boss on side, i.e. she has a customer who is paying the bar fine and buying some drinks.

 

We kept in touch when I went home, I discussed the situation about her coming back to my country for a few months for a holiday and to hang out with me if she felt comfortable with that, and she said that would be a whole new experience for her as she hasn't been out of Thailand before, so I sent her some money to get a passport organized while I looked into the visa side of things, I also sent her some money to catch a flight to Bangkok to meet me as that was were she had to apply for her visa  do police checks.

 

We spent a couple of nights there and then went to the village for a couple of nights to meet her family, then off to Phuket to holiday for a week, and wait for the call to pick up the visa, then fly out up to Bangkok, then to my home country.

 

We married before her visa expired and she was given a bridging visa to stay for 2 years, until she was approved as a resident, then another 2 years a Citizen, we travelled back to Thailand once, twice a year for 4-8 weeks as I was a contractor and could take time off when I wanted to and was on a good wicket.

 

I have now lived in Thailand for a decade, in a house I built her, no regrets when I rolled the dice with this one, as she is a keeper.

 

My advice to you is, go with your guy and roll the dice, but do set boundaries and traps along the way, as you will soon find out what kind of creature you have met.

 

Good luck, sometimes it does work out.

 

If you build her a house it may work.

 

And if you're lucky to get a woman of good character, it may work.

 

A lot of "ifs".

[Regyai]

16 hours ago, Magpiefan1892 said:

So I went to Thailand for 2 weeks back in February. I spent 4 nights in Phuket and met this beautiful bar girl on my 2nd night there at a bar. We talked, played pool and I bought her a lady drink. As I was leaving she gave me her WhatsApp so we can keep in touch whilst I was in Phuket. She messaged me the next day asking how my trip was to James Bond Island and if I was coming back to that bar. I went back and we again talked, played pool and I bought her a lady drink. She wanted to pay the bar fine and take her back. But I was too tired and had to go on a trip the next day. We left it at that and next day she again messages me. I went back to the bar that night and repeated what we did the previous 2 nights. Only this time I wanted to take her back and she asked me to wait as they were short staffed that evening. I waited, paid the bar fine and took her back. Next day comes around and she messages me again to tell her when I landed in Bangkok as I was leaving Phuket that day. I assumed she’d stop contact but she messaged me throughout my last day in Thailand, and asked me to message her when I arrived home in the Uk. We added each other on TikTok and facebook. And for the last 5 weeks we have been messaging back and forth asking how are day has been etc. Told her about my trip back to Thailand to visit my dad in Udon Thani which is where her family is from in the coming November. Last night she messaged me telling me her mother was in hospital and she’s having to pay 450 baht a day for medical fees. She then asked if I can send over 8000 baht which I can’t even afford and would never send money over to someone I barely know. She seemed ok with me telling her no but I’m now wondering if she’s trying to scam me or something after out of the blue asking me to help her with medical bills. Should I now stop contacting her as I see this as a red flag. We’re not in a relationship, she’s never asked for money before. Just two people still messaging each other from time to time. What should I do apart from not send any money over. 

 

she's yet to start asking for paragraphs