5 hours ago, rattlesnake said:

Now he's just making the best of it in his old years and doesn't care about anyone or anything else.

 

He probably doesn't care for the opinions of many but like myself, cares even less for those of anonymous people on internet forums.

 

5 hours ago, save the frogs said:

Yeah, he's probably trolling.

But my comment still stands. BritMan doesn't have any MOJO, so he has to pay for women.

And his relationships are 100% transactional, 0% love. 

 

It's called DILLIGAF. You should give it a shot.

 

1 minute ago, Cameroni said:

Any guy who tells you he doesn't pay for his girl is lying to your face.

Bit harsh there, I prefer to believe many men are delusional.

But it's a peculiar delusion that only affects feminised western men.

You don't get Muslims, Indians, Africans or South Americans wanting to hand over all their assets to women they have sex with.

11 hours ago, Cameroni said:

 

Everybody has to pay for his woman. "Mojo" only gets you in the door. To stay, you have to pay.

 

All relationships are transactional. Every single one.

 

Any guy who tells you he doesn't pay for his girl is lying to your face.

 

I was just messing with BritMan. And I hope he knows I was yanking his chain.

 

There are varying degrees. Generally, if the age gap is more than 10-15 years, it starts to become a sugar daddy arrangement. And older women have savings of their own. A 40 year old will often have her own condo or even home paid off,her own car. It's a different dynamic. But suggesting you never need to pay for anything is silly. But at that point, it's mostly luxuries like nice restaurants, maybe a trip. Or maybe helping out raise a child etc .... but wouldn't you NOT want to pay ever? That's selfish, no? 

 

Point is, there are varying degrees. A 20 year old bar girl ... you NEED to give her a monthly salary. 

 

 

 

13 minutes ago, save the frogs said:

Generally, if the age gap is more than 10-15 years, it starts to become a sugar daddy arrangement.

 

It's always a "sugar daddy" arrangement. Sugar daddy just means the man is providing gifts and money. There is almost no man alive that is not providing gifts and money to his girl, whatever the age gap. Even the youngest, fittest influencers with muscles like Schwarzenegger are buiying cup cakes for the girls, believe me. I've seen them say so.

 

15 minutes ago, save the frogs said:

but wouldn't you NOT want to pay ever?

 

It doesn't even have to be money. Maybe the girl is interested in the social standing benefits, or in the looks, charm, or sex, or something other than money. But the man will pay her one way or the other. Because people only enter into relationships if they want something from the other. If they don't then there's no need to enter into the relationship.

16 minutes ago, save the frogs said:

A 20 year old bar girl ... you NEED to give her a monthly salary. 

 

I wouldn't know, I've never been with a bar girl. But I've been with plenty of non-professional girls that are 20 years old. And even if you don't have to give them a salary, you don't, you still have to give them money now and then.

19 minutes ago, BritManToo said:

Bit harsh there, I prefer to believe many men are delusional.

But it's a peculiar delusion that only affects feminised western men.

You don't get Muslims, Indians, Africans or South Americans wanting to hand over all their assets to women they have sex with.

 

Your quibble is that the men actually believe they're not paying. I don't buy it, I think they know they're paying. They're just pretending otherwise.

 

I mean there are a few exceptions. Where the woman is much older and has no sexual market value, she may pay for the guy if he's half-way attractive, if that woman has resources. However, these arrangements are so marginal and so few, I don't even count them. There are instances too where say a solicitor woman will be with a guy who earns less, then the guy is paying her with other means, services, attention, gifts etc.

 

But the man pays. Always. Even with the super rich boyfriend of Taylor swift, he's making her bracelet beads, he's paying her.

21 minutes ago, BritManToo said:

Bit harsh there, I prefer to believe many men are delusional.

But it's a peculiar delusion that only affects feminised western men.

You don't get Muslims, Indians, Africans or South Americans wanting to hand over all their assets to women they have sex with.

 

It only affects a few feminised less worldly western men.

 

Sorry for your loss(es).

25 minutes ago, save the frogs said:

 

10 year age difference is ok. maybe 15 max.

After that it becomes a sugar daddy arrangement, which may work for some people. 

Or which may also end badly. 

 

So if a guy comes to thailand at age say 62, the chances of finding an attractive 60 Yr old are scarce. The isaan ladies are rough looking at that age. 

 

So what you're saying is it's better to find an old hag for free than to spread some dosh for an equally happy life with a younger woman.

 

Another thing, guys who run away from their home country and settle in Thailand already have a few screws lose. At your age if you have the money what else are you going to spend your money on. Seriously. If you're broke then catch a ST now and again, if you got the money enjoy it.

30 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

 

Everybody has to pay for his woman. "Mojo" only gets you in the door. To stay, you have to pay.

 

All relationships are transactional. Every single one.

 

Any guy who tells you he doesn't pay for his girl is lying to your face.

Ypu simplify it to fit your narrative. 

 

It is a bit more complex than just being a transactional relationship. Then your woman will just be in line for an upgrade anytime, or you are at the line for being dumped. 

 

But good luck, seems to work perfect for you so far.

11 hours ago, NanLaew said:

It's called DILLIGAF. You should give it a shot.

what the heck is that? 

On 6/6/2025 at 9:22 AM, BritManToo said:

thinks she's coming into a few million Baht (almost no chance).

did someone give her lucky lottery numbers? 

 

 

11 hours ago, EVENKEEL said:

Another thing, guys who run away from their home country and settle in Thailand already have a few screws lose.

guilty as charged on that account

15 minutes ago, Hummin said:

It is a bit more complex than just being a transactional relationship.

 

Yes it is. Of course you can never mention that it's a transactional relationship. Both parties have to talk of "love" and affection, and have to believe in the love story. But ultimately, the woman wants something from the man and the man wants something from the woman. If that's not the case, then there is no relationship.

48 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

 

Yes it is. Of course you can never mention that it's a transactional relationship. Both parties have to talk of "love" and affection, and have to believe in the love story. But ultimately, the woman wants something from the man and the man wants something from the woman. If that's not the case, then there is no relationship.

There is no doubt an exchange in feelings, needs and economics, where every relationship is more or less unique. All my relationships have been unique because of my age, experience, where I was, and my economic situation. Im not 19 anymore and need my woman to contribute to our daily needs. 

 

If you find a asian woman who is working and you happy with that, great, and the same goes for any man who finds a woman who choose not to work, because they hsve other priorities in life.

 

Im not even 60 yet, but me being 70, and had to sit home waiting for my wife finish work, or her schedule for holiday? Not an option.

 

Couples either finds a way to cooperate doing things together, make plans together and create an interesting life together because they thrive together. 

 

However, I see many do not really see each other much, since the woman working, the man drive aound on motorbike to kill time, or hang out on hus favorite bar with his buddies, and anything between there.

 

And for most claiming every relationship is transactional, is either because they can not afford an relationship, or give them an excuse to change partner and p4p. Or just mental and can not live with anyone. Of course many other reasons.

 

I also experienced some fellow riders who claimed they never going to have a relationship again, and used every excuse for not, suddenly changed their way.

 

"There is no absolute truth, except there is no absolute"

2 hours ago, fredwiggy said:

Which is why many come here to have a relationship with a much younger woman who is only looking for gold , and doesn't care what she sleeps with as long as she can show of that gold to her "friends". Still better to get a working (legit) woman who has at least some self esteem about herself and doesn't need to rely on a man's money and is actually looking for that sustainable relationship where both do their share. 

That works for us.

1 hour ago, Hummin said:

There is no absolute truth

 

There are absolute truths, the laws of physics, gravity, electromagnetism, the Pythagorean theorem and of course the law that all sexual relationships are transactional. 

16 hours ago, KhunLA said:

Sinks don't go the the toilet septic tanks. 

Where does the water from the kitchen sink go please? There are no sewers around our place.

3 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

 

There are absolute truths, the laws of physics, gravity, electromagnetism, the Pythagorean theorem and of course the law that all sexual relationships are transactional. 

It is absolute truths within the framework of current scientific understanding. I had to use AI to word it correctly for me. Yes there is, until there is new evidences or a new understanding of a certain problem or challenge. 

@JakeC more posts of yours removed for misquoting. 

39 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

 

There are absolute truths, the laws of physics, gravity, electromagnetism, the Pythagorean theorem and of course the law that all sexual relationships are transactional. 

Not sure the laws of gravity are right 

MOND Vs Dark matter Vs The Matrix

7 minutes ago, JakeC said:

 

😂

Yeah, but we're not convinced you are real, or are in Thailand or have a gf.

1 hour ago, KannikaP said:

Where does the water from the kitchen sink go please? There are no sewers around our place.

We're rural, no sewers here.  Goes in septic tank, I think, then overflow to ground (concrete rings thingy), I think.  There's 2 'ring holes' (large covers) for overflow, and 4 septic tanks.  We only have 2 toilets.

 

Also a septic & overflow in the garden for the toilet she built out there 🙄

 

On 6/6/2025 at 9:34 AM, blaze master said:

 

Martial bliss. 

What's the military got to do with it?

1 minute ago, KhunLA said:

We're rural, no sewers here.  Goes in septic tank, I think, then overflow to ground (concrete rings thingy), I think.  There's 2 'ring holes' (large covers) for overflow, and 4 septic tanks.  We only have 2 toilets.

 

Also a septic & overflow in the garden for the toilet she built out there 🙄

 

We have nothing like that. Simply a round concrete cover out in the lawn, with a removable plate on the top which my Mrs gets a truck to come about a year to flush it out, stinks somewhat. Tha's it.

1 minute ago, KannikaP said:

We have nothing like that. Simply a round concrete cover out in the lawn, with a removable plate on the top which my Mrs gets a truck to come about a year to flush it out, stinks somewhat. Tha's it.

Lived in the same house 12 years, not pulled the cover off since we moved.

Stop your misses pouring bleach down the toilet, it kills the poop eating bacteria.

On 6/6/2025 at 10:09 AM, Gottfrid said:

First, you have stayed together quite long out of what I have read before. So, you mean she can´t read or understand basic English? Seems very far fetched to me.

After that, you say that you can´t fix stupid. Isn´t it really stupid of you to take advantage of, and fool her? A stand up guy, would just not sign if not want to, so please don´t start talk about stupid!

He's not being stupid, it's just a story he's invented for the forum.   The homemade, unwitnessed "document" would not stand up to any legal scrutiny.

6 minutes ago, KannikaP said:

We have nothing like that. Simply a round concrete cover out in the lawn, with a removable plate on the top which my Mrs gets a truck to come about a year to flush it out, stinks somewhat. Tha's it.

The added advantage to the septic tank, and sh!t eating bacteria.   2.5 years old, and never needing emptying.  Same with 2nd house, again, had the large round septic tanks & bacteria or whatever it is.

 

1st house had just the rings, and I didn't know about speptic tanks & bacteria, so yea, need truck to empty every year or so.  The reason for no TP in toilets.  Now all TP is suppose to be biodegradable.  But still good not to flush down.

6 minutes ago, BritManToo said:

Lived in the same house 12 years, not pulled the cover off since we moved.

Stop your misses pouring bleach down the toilet, it kills the poop eating bacteria.

I am the one who renews the Bloo Loo blocks.

Most toilet paper we get is so thin, it will biodegrade in water alone.

 

Isn't it marvellous that a thread about BM2 missus not wanting to  give him a share of her money, to biodgradeable bog paper. Rock on AN!

4 minutes ago, KannikaP said:

I am the one who renews the Bloo Loo blocks.

Most toilet paper we get is so thin, it will biodegrade in water alone.

 

Isn't it marvellous that a thread about BM2 missus not wanting to  give him a share of her money, to biodgradeable bog paper. Rock on AN!

All thread turn to sh!t sooner or later ... 

3 hours ago, Hummin said:

And for most claiming every relationship is transactional, is either because they can not afford an relationship, or give them an excuse to change partner and p4p. Or just mental and can not live with anyone. Of course many other reasons.

 

Or just because it is the f***ng truth.

 

All relationships are transactional.

24 minutes ago, KhunLA said:

All thread turn to sh!t sooner or later ... 

Same with all relationships!