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Expat Discontent in Thailand

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There is a saying you can take a girl out of the bar, but you can never take the bar out of the girl. This can apply to foreigner too. Many old people are too set in their way to change and adapt to a country that is so different to their own. I try to take it easy and let it slide. Retiree are not in the work life and race anymore. Cha Yen Yen!

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  • Sad to say, I know of no expats that are discontent in Thailand. Nobody I know is negative. Maybe I don't fit in... 555  FFS! why do people make so many problems for themselves. It is not difficu

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    It's a personal choice to be happy or unhappy, content or discontent.   I choose to be happy!

  • It's not the problems, its invariably the attitude toward what they perceive is a problem. If they make up their mind it's too difficult, it will be, atleast for them..   Many are their

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The more foreigners that leave the happier I am. Farang of all races and nationalities.

 

*The brokies

*Anyone using agents

*30-40k Teacher riffraff

*All drugs ingesters

*All Africans

*All illegal Indians

*All the French

*All British chavs

*All male poser influencers

*All cigarette, vape and weed smokers

*All skezy homosexuals

* All ugly, moaning, judgy farang women 18-88

 

Half farang populations in Phuket, Pattaya ... Just go.

 

GTFO

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8 minutes ago, KhaoHom said:

The more foreigners that leave the happier I am. Farang of all races and nationalities.

 

*The brokies

*Anyone using agents

*30-40k Teacher riffraff

*All drugs ingesters

*All Africans

*All illegal Indians

*All the French

*All British chavs

*All male poser influencers

*All cigarette, vape and weed smokers

*All skezy homosexuals

* All ugly, moaning, judgy farang women 18-88

 

Half farang populations in Phuket, Pattaya ... Just go.

 

GTFO

So no Foreigner left in Thailand.

1 minute ago, UWEB said:

So no Foreigner left in Thailand.

 

I'll be here and I'm good with it. Imagine all the Thai not making slave wages in tourism as ok too

 

👍👍

TLDNR. The first sub-heading read as "Warning-This is Tosh".🙃😘

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17 minutes ago, KhaoHom said:

The more foreigners that leave the happier I am. Farang of all races and nationalities.

 

*The brokies

*Anyone using agents

*30-40k Teacher riffraff

*All drugs ingesters

*All Africans

*All illegal Indians

*All the French

*All British chavs

*All male poser influencers

*All cigarette, vape and weed smokers

*All skezy homosexuals

* All ugly, moaning, judgy farang women 18-88

 

Half farang populations in Phuket, Pattaya ... Just go.

 

GTFO

You may have to wait a long time...

It's easier to move yourself (if you can afford it).

1 hour ago, proton said:

 

You might be even happier not wasting tens of thousands on these parasites

That's the point. I'm happy as hell as I'm NOT spending ten's of thousands on an agent

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1 hour ago, brianwilliamswales said:

I should clarify , English- Not Scottish or Welsh . These are entirely different cultures based on community , harmony and hospitality to strangers (unless their English of course) This is why we should have split with our nasty violent cousins years ago and will do for sure soon when they vote in the English Fascist party. Nasty violent aggressive English scum trot off back to you country , your NOT welcome here.

Ahh the welsh,, only country whee you can get a meal, a jumper, and a shag,,, all off the same animal .

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I have a good life here. It's a question of mental attitude.

 

The only whinge I have is the Immigration rules. If one owns a condo here, or has a long-term lease, 90 day reporting is unnecessary. Retirees are not going to move.

 

IMO if I have stayed here for 5 years without getting into any legal trouble, I should be granted permanent residency. I am quite happy to continue paying 1900 baht, without all the BS paperwork.

 

FFS, retirees here are not going to become master criminals.

1 hour ago, Mark1969 said:

You may have to wait a long time...

It's easier to move yourself (if you can afford it).

 

I'm stuck with a Thai wife of 15yrs.

 

They'll go...they only have so much money and government assistance

8 minutes ago, Lacessit said:

I have a good life here. It's a question of mental attitude.

 

The only whinge I have is the Immigration rules. If one owns a condo here, or has a long-term lease, 90 day reporting is unnecessary. Retirees are not going to move.

 

IMO if I have stayed here for 5 years without getting into any legal trouble, I should be granted permanent residency. I am quite happy to continue paying 1900 baht, without all the BS paperwork.

 

FFS, retirees here are not going to become master criminals.

 

Lol 5 years in Pattaya PR.... Delusional. Dream on. That will never, ever, ever happen. Just so you know

 

PR 10 years married, 15 for retired owning condo. 20 no condo.

 

Family...each child reduce 2 years

 

PR void living in Pattaya period or living in Phuket no condo

 

Five years is total noob, especially if Thailand only Asian country lived in and double especially if only Asian country traveled in for any extensive time

 

Why on earth do you think PR deserved for 5 years here ??🤣🤣

4 hours ago, Will B Good said:

 

Yes, sadly.

 

Along with CSVD, SSHL and looming vascular dementia......thanks for reminding me.

 

Have a nice day.

Yes but you forgot........Well never mind !

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Why post AI generated twaddle?  I just read the first sentence and realised it was ChatGPT rather than a real opinion.

 

If you can't be bothered to write it, why should we be bothered to read it?

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I can honestly say I find nothing here in Thailand that is bad enough to make me want to leave. Sure, Thailand has its problems but so does every other country in the world. If some are looking for Utopia I Have bad news for you, it doesn't exist.

13 hours ago, PB172111 said:

Factors Contributing to Expat Discontent

1. Relationship Struggles
   - Many expats face challenges in their personal relationships, particularly within marriage. Cultural differences and communication barriers can lead to frequent misunderstandings, increasing stress and fostering complaints about life in Thailand.

2. Scams and Dishonesty
   - Experiences of being scammed, whether by businesses or individuals, can create a sense of distrust among expats. Such negative encounters can lead to feelings of victimization and fuel constant grievances about the local environment.

3. Complex Immigration Requirements
   - Thailand’s immigration laws can be complicated and frustrating for expats. Frequent changes to regulations and the bureaucratic processes involved in obtaining or renewing visas can lead to feelings of frustration and insecurity about their status in the country.

4. Imperfect Law Enforcement
   - Perceptions of law enforcement in Thailand can be problematic. Cases of corruption, inefficiency, or lack of support when issues arise may lead expats to feel vulnerable and disillusioned, contributing to their complaints.

5. Past Misjudgments
   - Many expats may arrive with preconceived notions and expectations that don’t align with reality. Missteps in social interactions, business dealings, or cultural engagements can result in disappointment and exacerbate feelings of dissatisfaction.

 

Why Bangkok and Pattaya Can Attract a Particular Demographic

1. Vibrant but Superficial Lifestyle
   - The nightlife and entertainment options in Bangkok and Pattaya appeal to those seeking a fun-focused lifestyle over meaningful engagement. This creates an environment that may attract individuals who prioritize amusement over intellectual or cultural pursuits.

2. Accessibility and Affordability
   - Both cities offer a relatively low cost of living, making them accessible to a broader range of people, including those who may not have extensive education or career skills. This may result in a concentration of individuals who are less equipped to navigate challenges effectively.

3. Echo Chambers
   - The high density of expats in these cities creates communal environments where negative experiences and complaints can be magnified. Common discontent can solidify a perspective of dissatisfaction that becomes normalized within these communities.

4. Cultural Disconnect
   - Expats who prefer to remain within their comfort zones, avoiding deeper cultural immersion, may struggle to acclimate and bond with the local community. This lack of connection can result in a persistent sense of alienation and dissatisfaction.


Should You Stay?

- Self-Reflection and Growth: it may be beneficial to assess underlying issues, such as their expectations and behaviors. If they are open to learning, adapting, and engaging with the culture, staying could lead to a more rewarding experience. Conversely, if they remain resistant and focused on negativity, it might be time to reconsider their living situation.
- Community Engagement: Encouraging connection with local communities can significantly enhance their experience. Expats who actively seek out relationships and understanding may find more fulfillment in their lives abroad.
-Potential for Improvement: Ultimately, those who address their challenges constructively and seek personal growth may discover that their experiences in Thailand can improve, while others who continue to focus solely on grievances may find it increasingly difficult to thrive. 

In essence, expats in Thailand are often held back by personal issues and misunderstandings. A willingness to adapt and engage deeply can reshape their experience for the better, while a focus on negativity may lead them to question their choice to stay.

Frued Jung wanna be?? 

I am very happy being discontented sometimes thank you - and even happier when I am contented - life is both.

The only people who are always contented are either on drugs or are mentally damaged (or both).

Same for the constantly discontented - they just need more drugs probably.

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1 hour ago, lanng khao said:

Ahh the welsh,, only country whee you can get a meal, a jumper, and a shag,,, all off the same animal .

And New Zealand too - dont forget the Kiwis mate. 

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13 hours ago, PB172111 said:

actors Contributing to Expat Discontent

zzzzzzzzzz so boring

14 hours ago, norsurin said:

Be aware that many expats dont have the founds to leave Thailand.Theyr stucked there.

 

Many have wonderful Thai families and have none in ole Blighty  and no homes and have enjoyed the Thai culture and most of us have limited funds and yes like the Thais but we look after our families as best we can and originally we used to go out all of the time, but these days the occasional meal out or a trip or two and am happy in 18 years on.

3 hours ago, UWEB said:

So no Foreigner left in Thailand.

I did not feature in KhaoHom's list, I'll still be here !

6 hours ago, Will B Good said:

concerns over deteriorating health,

financial worries, especially if living off capital (big mistake unless you are truly loaded),

fear as to how the "end of days" is going to pan out and

frontal lobe shrinkage...a real thing!!

So, are you saying that there is someplace where these things don't happen? 

 

Or, since they are nearly inevitable for most people, then thankfully you live in Thailand where it will be easier to deal with? 

1 minute ago, Ralf001 said:

I did not feature in KhaoHom's list, I'll still be here !

He should have included the mentally ill on his list, even if that did include his GG alter ego.

14 hours ago, PB172111 said:

2. Scams and Dishonesty

 

Taking money and not delivering goods, services aside...If you live here and are getting scammed you deserve it.

1 hour ago, Photoguy21 said:

If some are looking for Utopia I Have bad news for you

oh no - I was ok before but now I'm depressed

13 hours ago, soi3eddie said:

Sad to say, I know of no expats that are discontent in Thailand. Nobody I know is negative. Maybe I don't fit in... 555 

FFS! why do people make so many problems for themselves. It is not difficult, follow the rules and enjoy life. If it's not for you, go somewhere else. Thailand is infinitely better, in many ways, than a lot of western countries. All the expat acquaintances and friends of mine in Pattaya, Jomtien, Bang Saray, Si Racha, Hua Hin and Bangkok, just know they are in their best place. We enjoy our lives and have a lot of fun.

 

Long-winded way of saying access to shaggin' fit young burds on the cheap.

 

OP seems like chatgpt...too structured and logical with low errors in spelling and punctuation.

Just now, BritManToo said:

He should have included the mentally ill on his list, even if that did include his GG alter ego.

 

What is GG?

 

1 Yes, include the mentally ill. Absolutely. Pattaya will be empty.

 

2 Men that wear cargo sorts and or singlets.

 

3 Farang with body odor

3b Farang that wear cheap cologne

 

4 Farang that rent African women

 

5 Any farang male that could even in the most remote sense be considered attempting to create an online persona / influencer.

 

6 Farang that can't eat spicy food.

 

7 Farang with BMI = obese.

3 hours ago, KhaoHom said:

The more foreigners that leave the happier I am. Farang of all races and nationalities.

 

*The brokies

*Anyone using agents

*30-40k Teacher riffraff

*All drugs ingesters

*All Africans

*All illegal Indians

*All the French

*All British chavs

*All male poser influencers

*All cigarette, vape and weed smokers

*All skezy homosexuals

* All ugly, moaning, judgy farang women 18-88

 

Half farang populations in Phuket, Pattaya ... Just go.

 

GTFO

and where are you from Prince of Perfect ?

Just now, freedomnow said:

and where are you from Prince of Perfect ?

 

Trumpistan

6 hours ago, proton said:

Often the sad sacks who use agents to enable them to stay here by passing on bribes

Others pretend to be teachers, while having no credentials or experience. What's your point? 

5 minutes ago, KhaoHom said:

 

What is GG?

 

1 Yes, include the mentally ill. Absolutely. Pattaya will be empty.

 

2 Men that wear cargo sorts and or singlets.

 

3 Farang with body odor

3b Farang that wear cheap cologne

 

4 Farang that rent African women

 

5 Any farang male that could even in the most remote sense be considered attempting to create an online persona / influencer.

 

6 Farang that can't eat spicy food.

 

7 Farang with BMI = obese.

I don feature on that list either !

2 hours ago, KhaoHom said:

 

Lol 5 years in Pattaya PR.... Delusional. Dream on. That will never, ever, ever happen. Just so you know

 

PR 10 years married, 15 for retired owning condo. 20 no condo.

 

Family...each child reduce 2 years

 

PR void living in Pattaya period or living in Phuket no condo

 

Five years is total noob, especially if Thailand only Asian country lived in and double especially if only Asian country traveled in for any extensive time

 

Why on earth do you think PR deserved for 5 years here ??🤣🤣

I have been here 17 years. Thai GF of 15 years. Competent in verbal Thai. Chiang Mai 12 years, Chiang Rai 5 years.

 

Never been in trouble with the police before I got here, never since. 

 

What has Pattaya got to do with PR?

 

What makes you think I don't?

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