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Are sociopaths/narcissists morelikely to chose a bargirl as a gf

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  • Well, Donald Trump married one, so you might have a point there?

  • Just the opposite.  Most I know the girl controls everything due to the guy weak insecurity mostly Simps, with some exceptions of course.

  • Which raises the issue, "what is control" really? I had a girl who would at first text me every day every hour, every half hour even. But after a while of course texting gets old, even phone calls get

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48 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

 

So you wouldn't buy any additional base properties? You'd also just stay in hotels?

Well, as it is now, I'm thinking about one apartment with sea view for my elderly days, so with 300 million I could wait another 20 years, and not invest the next few years when a good opportunity comes.

 

So yes, it is in my plan with another property 

2 hours ago, Harrisfan said:

I guess so but hiring people be a hassle. Hotels do it all for u. One month Chang, one month Kood, one month Samui etc. 

 

 

You are not welcome on Samui. I've asked around and everyone was in agreement. If you come, you will be hunted down by people with pitchforks. You have been warned. 

2 minutes ago, Keeps said:

You are not welcome on Samui. I've asked around and everyone was in agreement. If you come, you will be hunted down by people with pitchforks. You have been warned. 

Cool

Maybe 13 properties is too much. Perhaps I should be more frugal with my imaginary 300 million USD.

20 hours ago, freedomnow said:

Sure - "bad guys go to Pats"...also guys with low social skills, aged out market, not too hot in looks or style...every variant of the sexual access disadvantaged back home.

Aren't you glad that you're a member of the elite??  Obviously, you're young, handsome, and possess an amazing personality.

I started seeing more of these guys you refer to around my condo, particularly the pool area. Guys with a younger Thai female who kind of tags along and it vibes as a freelancer just by the way the couple interacts.

 

There is something odd about the guys. I can't really call it a power trip but they don't act like other guys who are just hanging out around the area. They keep to themselves and don't interact with other residents, either the dude or the girl. They also don't talk to each other. It's almost always the guy just sunning himself and the lady sitting next to him, but they don't interact.

 

It could be a narcissistic trait. He is kind of in his own world of pleasure and does not care about the outside world or other people around him, but still wants someone hanging around for some reason.

 

The guys also seem kind of "dull" in a way. They don't have a lot of character or "edge" to them. Kind of like dudes you would just forget about after meeting them, or people you would not bother talking to. It's hard to describe other then they don't flow as 100% normal acting.

 

Your right, it does beg the question why they want a hired partner hanging around and doing the "silent meal" thing if they are not having fun or even talking. It's probably not just for appearances, so it could be a control thing. Somebody who just does or goes where they are told, or conversely, somebody who takes control and leads you by a leash everywhere. Both would be a type of control issue.

 

I'm sure there are some guys like this here. It would be interesting to have comments on what they get out of it, particularly the silent partner thing.

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2 hours ago, Cameroni said:

Maybe 13 properties is too much. Perhaps I should be more frugal with my imaginary 300 million USD.

I will spend most of mine on whores and booze.

 

And probably just waste the rest.

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24 minutes ago, Mark1969 said:

Your right, it does beg the question why they want a hired partner hanging around and doing the "silent meal" thing if they are not having fun or even talking. It's probably not just for appearances, so it could be a control thing. Somebody who just does or goes where they are told, or conversely, somebody who takes control and leads you by a leash everywhere. Both would be a type of control issue.

Finally someone actually else actually sees it.

It is a control thing. There is something off about them.

I ended up at a dinner/drinks night and there were 5 farang males there and they were all in relationships with obvious ex hookers.

 

It is like they are only 90% “there”

 

First appearances they look normal but it had a fake feel. The women were not really there because they liked the male company and the males seemed like friends but also it felt fake friendship like you would have at a work function where you must behave.

 

The only people that seemed to genuinely like each other were the women.

 

It is a weird lifestyle.

 

 

 

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33 minutes ago, Mark1969 said:

The guys also seem kind of "dull" in a way. They don't have a lot of character or "edge" to them. Kind of like dudes you would just forget about after meeting them, or people you would not bother talking to. It's hard to describe other then they don't flow as 100% normal acting.

Spot on.

22 minutes ago, MalcolmB said:

Finally someone actually else actually sees it.

It is a control thing. There is something off about them.

I ended up at a dinner/drinks night and there were 5 farang males there and they were all in relationships with obvious ex hookers.

 

It is like they are only 90% “there”

 

First appearances they look normal but it had a fake feel. The women were not really there because they liked the male company and the males seemed like friends but also it felt fake friendship like you would have at a work function where you must behave.

 

The only people that seemed to genuinely like each other were the women.

 

It is a weird lifestyle.

The "silent meal" thing is as old as chips, nothing new. One of my odd memories when I first landed here probably 20 years ago.

 

Stephen Leather's Thailand novel "Private Dancer" is a great book if you have not read it yet. It talks about a lot of these strange interactions and why they occur here.

On 9/1/2025 at 2:08 PM, MalcolmB said:

Having sex with someone who doesn’t really want have sex with them is unappealing. Feels similar to raping someone.

 

I've never raped anyone and I doubt you have either, but your claim must be based on something, so how many "starfish" have you ended up barfining then?

27 minutes ago, MalcolmB said:

I will spend most of mine on whores and booze.

 

Why not start a porno production company? This way you'd get the real top talent.

 

Of course you'd have to relocate to Hungary or Prague.

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3 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

 

Why not start a porno production company? This way you'd get the real top talent.

 

Of course you'd have to relocate to Hungary or Prague.

My penis isn’t big enough

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7 minutes ago, NanLaew said:

 

I've never raped anyone and I doubt you have either, but your claim must be based on something, so how many "starfish" have you ended up barfining then?

A few. 
I give them my very best. I don’t always give them an orgasm.

But when I do they often spit it out.

3 minutes ago, MalcolmB said:

My penis isn’t big enough

 

I'm available for 2000 USD a shoot.

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Just now, Cameroni said:

 

I'm available for 2000 USD a shoot.

Thanks for the offer but you should probably contact jingthing.

7 minutes ago, MalcolmB said:

Thanks for the offer but you should probably contact jingthing.

 

I didn't realise you were doing a gay porno production company. 

 

I thought it we were talking girls....

1 hour ago, Cameroni said:

 

I'm available for 2000 USD a shoot.

But that works out at 4000 USD per inch. Far too expensive.....

14 minutes ago, Keeps said:

But that works out at 4000 USD per inch. Far too expensive.....

 

200, a steal!

4 hours ago, Felton Jarvis said:

Aren't you glad that you're a member of the elite??  Obviously, you're young, handsome, and possess an amazing personality.

All the above. Correct...well I pass for 38 still at least.

Is why I have no need of P4P or Pats...each to their own.

32 minutes ago, freedomnow said:

All the above. Correct...well I pass for 38 still at least.

Is why I have no need of P4P or Pats...each to their own.

I saw a new guy at my condo building in pattaya today. 20 something dude with football build. Looked like a model. I thought what the hell is he doing in Pattaya? Looked pretty strange.

 

Then I saw myself and thought, <deleted> do I look like some old dude now sitting around pattaya?

 

I wanted to say to him, dude what the hell are you doing here? Probably just some guy passing through on his way through thailand.

6 hours ago, Cameroni said:

Maybe 13 properties is too much. Perhaps I should be more frugal with my imaginary 300 million USD.

No PowerBall win for you?

16 hours ago, Cameroni said:

 

Unfortunately we live in a hypergamy trap, girls only want to date up, so if girls are interested in us, that means, as a rule, that they are below us in the sexual market value. Which means that the girls we really want  think they are too good for us, and the girls that want us, we think we're too god for them, lol.

I don't care about the lady social status.Its true that some ladies think their above us.I actually don't care.Let them think whatever they want.Some say no sex before marriage makes me laugh.I will never ever marry again.

I love my single life.After i got divorced 8 year ago i had 3 gf but it failed.Not just the girls fault but i really cant stand jealous chicks.One of them tried to control me even if i stayed in my country.She wouldn't even let me go to 7/11 alone because i used to joke with the girls who worked there.She tried to open my phone when i sleeping and so on.

The girls i chat with i meet just for fun.. nothing serious.If we get along we can meet again.

On 9/1/2025 at 3:26 PM, Nick Carter icp said:

 

    Less that 1 hour into a thread and you got the first Donald Trump in .

Well done ,you win this threads prize of getting the first random Trump mention in 

DJT is the gold standard when it comes to narcissism and he's married to the Cleopatra of gold diggers.

 

Not mentioning 47 would be a serious oversight.  

19 hours ago, save the frogs said:

Most westerners have grown up in privileged countries where decent jobs were abundant.

You need to check yourself friend. Westerners built those privileged countries with abundant well paying jobs, that privilege didn't fall out of the sky. The vast majority of the world would be living in the middle ages if it weren't for Westerners gifting them all their technologies.

11 hours ago, gamb00ler said:

DJT is the gold standard when it comes to narcissism

 

The word narcissism is vague.

Some people might be cut-throat and ruthless to climb their way up sh*t mountain, but once they get there they may be doing positive things for other people.

I really don't think Trump is going around thinking about how to screw taxpayers. He seems more high-minded than that. 

 

Just now, save the frogs said:

 

The word narcissism is vague.

Some people might be cut-throat and ruthless to climb their way up sh*t mountain, but once they get there they may be doing positive things for other people.

I really don't think Trump is going around thinking about how to screw taxpayers. He seems more high-minded than that. 

 

He is narcissistic though. I don't believe he's ever admitted to being wrong or ever apologized for anything. Anytime he fails, it's someone else's fault. The guy also shows zero loyalty while demanding 100% in return. Democrats aren't any better, I'd venture to guess that 90% or more of politicians in general are sociopathic/narcissistic.

11 hours ago, MalcolmB said:

Finally someone actually else actually sees it.

It is a control thing. There is something off about them.

I ended up at a dinner/drinks night and there were 5 farang males there and they were all in relationships with obvious ex hookers.

 

It is like they are only 90% “there”

 

First appearances they look normal but it had a fake feel. The women were not really there because they liked the male company and the males seemed like friends but also it felt fake friendship like you would have at a work function where you must behave.

 

The only people that seemed to genuinely like each other were the women.

 

It is a weird lifestyle.

It could also be guys who are completely drained of excess energy so they come off as acting a bit strange.

 

When they are paying for a full time escort outings for food and such are usually just breaks between sex sessions. They are banging as much as possible to get their money's worth.

 

So you see guys that are drained of sexual energy and not 100% "there", kind of just tired and loafing around, making them zombie-like, just waiting to hit the bedroom again.

11 hours ago, captain_shane said:

He is narcissistic though. I don't believe he's ever admitted to being wrong or ever apologized for anything. Anytime he fails, it's someone else's fault. The guy also shows zero loyalty while demanding 100% in return. Democrats aren't any better, I'd venture to guess that 90% or more of politicians in general are sociopathic/narcissistic.

 

If I would have taken a page out of Trump's book, I would have been more successful.

It's dog eat dog out there. Everyone is trying to slit your throat. 

I was way too meek my whole life. That didn't serve me too well. 

 

Nobody likes the guy who gets to the top of sh*t mountain because everyone wants to be that guy. 

 

You need to be a tough guy to claw your way in the world, then you can afford to be more giving. Trump was voted by the working class and appears to be genuinely interested in the working class, creating jobs.

 

Nice guys get washed away like the snow and the rain. 

 

 

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