18 minutes ago, MalcolmB said:

5 hours ago, Cameroni said:

Tell her if she's okay to sign a contract to waive all and any financial claims relating to the child she can have it.

I believe Thai law actually states that if the woman is not married.

Love to see you link to that law re financial claims.

11 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

19 minutes ago, MalcolmB said:

I believe Thai law actually states that if the woman is not married.

 

It is a smart law that stops gold diggers from getting themselves pregnant.

 

Seriously? If that is th

It's seriously nonsense.

2 minutes ago, Liverpool Lou said:

It's seriously nonsense.

Do men have to pay child support in Thailand?

 

 

Under Thai law, both parents are obligated to support their child until the age of 20. However, if a child is born out of wedlock, the biological father has no legal responsibility.

15 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

 

Seriously? If that is the case, then we can sow our wild oats...

Yes seriously.

Legally and financially no problem.

 

But I think breeding with prostitutes and doing a runner would probably not be morally all that good.

And having a mother as a whore and a father that has abandoned them, coupled with being a mixed breed probably wouldn’t be all that good for the child’s self esteem and mental health.

2 minutes ago, MalcolmB said:

Yes seriously.

Legally and financially no problem.

 

But I think breeding with prostitutes and doing a runner would probably not be morally all that good.

And having a mother as a whore and a father that has abandoned them, coupled with being a mixed breed probably wouldn’t be all that good for the child’s self esteem and mental health.

 

Well, DNA spreading is good in any event, but yes, the child may have some issues. That's a solid point. Then again, Kamala Harris was abandoned by her dad, and look how she turned out...

10 hours ago, Explorator en Actione said:

Do like I did, get a vasectomy, no anchor ATM babies.

Yeah I got a vasectomy too, after our second girl, sometimes I regret it, but then I remember I am nearly 73.

9 hours ago, Utalk2mutt said:

I know of a foreigner who has recently married an ex bargirl who has 4 kids to 4 different fathers and she is now expecting baby number 5, his. He is in his 60’s. Considering his situation for a very brief millisecond I voted “No kids”. Who the hell in their right mind would want to put up with sh*tty nappies and a screaming infant at his age. Up to him but I know for sure I couldn’t tolerate it.

 

True love conquers all.

 

Awww....  cute...  Malcy's thinking about becoming a Dad....      evolution just facepalmed.... 

4 hours ago, MalcolmB said:

 

Do men have to pay child support in Thailand?

 

 

Under Thai law, both parents are obligated to support their child until the age of 20. However, if a child is born out of wedlock, the biological father has no legal responsibility.

I stand corrected, thank you.

4 hours ago, Liverpool Lou said:

I stand corrected, thank you.

No problem.

It is an important issue.

The opposite of the west where the male gets screwed, here the woman gets screwed.

Both systems are unfair, but it is a tricky one, it really needs a case by case evaluation rather than a one shoe fits all.

 

And we hear bargirls often proclaiming that the Thai father is “no good”. If they want to have sex out of wedlock they really should make sure they are using contraception.

The stupid ones don’t and they end up servicing sex tourists in Pattaya or Bangla as a result.

Then the farangs meet this stupid class and conclude they are all stupid.

 

A village wedding does not qualify, it must be registered at the amphur.

 

Luckily for some they win the “marry a farang” backup plan.

And those farangs then get brainwashed into believing that all or most Thai men are not good.

i think @Fredwiggy fell for this. Classic example.

9 hours ago, MalcolmB said:

Yes seriously.

Legally and financially no problem.

 

But I think breeding with prostitutes and doing a runner would probably not be morally all that good.

And having a mother as a whore and a father that has abandoned them, coupled with being a mixed breed probably wouldn’t be all that good for the child’s self esteem and mental health.

Morality? You? Cmon you must be having a laff.

11 minutes ago, EVENKEEL said:

Morality? You? Cmon you must be having a laff.

We all have different morals.

Most bargirls are immoral.

Which is why we like em.

7 hours ago, richard_smith237 said:

Awww....  cute...  Malcy's thinking about becoming a Dad....      evolution just facepalmed.... 

my kids won’t be stuck in a small condo, breathing in Bangkok pollution and on a screen all day.

10 hours ago, GammaGlobulin said:

 

True love conquers all.

 

I think what she may lack in tightness she would more than make up with skills with all that experience.

Vasectomies are dangerous and cause softies.

 

NEVER let anyone snip you down there people.

5 minutes ago, Woke to Sounds said:

Vasectomies are dangerous and cause softies.

 

NEVER let anyone snip you down there people.

Yes I am not keen.

Facials are my preference method of avoiding unwanted pregnancies 

11 hours ago, MalcolmB said:

 

Do men have to pay child support in Thailand?

 

 

Under Thai law, both parents are obligated to support their child until the age of 20. However, if a child is born out of wedlock, the biological father has no legal responsibility.

Do you have the link for this? 

 

35 minutes ago, SAFETY FIRST said:

Do you have the link for this? 

 

I thought it was fairly common knowledge.

It certainly is amongst Thais and Thai speakers.

Just ask a Thai or google it. 

2 hours ago, MalcolmB said:

We all have different morals.

Most bargirls are immoral.

Which is why we like em.

You give yourself lashings for your immoral thoughts?

8 minutes ago, EVENKEEL said:

You give yourself lashings for your immoral thoughts?

Define immoral?

1 minute ago, BritManToo said:

Define immoral?

Best ask Malcolm. He's the calling bar girls immoral.

3 hours ago, EVENKEEL said:

Best ask Malcolm. He's the calling bar girls immoral.

Basically someone who doesn’t have the same high moral standards of myself.

12 minutes ago, MalcolmB said:

Basically someone who doesn’t have the same high moral standards of myself.

Lower than shark crap is more like it

what level of stupidity would you need to consider having a child with a bargirl? 

 

 

I reckon get her pregnant and if the baby looks like a farang then you will know that she hasn.t been playing up with her " brother "......Then again she might have been laid by another foreinger.

On 10/7/2025 at 5:18 PM, Utalk2mutt said:

Not going to disagree with that. He sought advice from a few friends  with respect to marriage ie do I or don’t I (you know already what we advised)and he chose to do his own thing anyway. His choice, his life and whammo along came number 5. He’s made his bed and doesn’t he know it. Now all we get is she’s spending this, wants that etc etc.

I would advise him to have some DNA testing done

On 10/7/2025 at 8:27 PM, worgeordie said:

Been here a long time ,stopped counting at about 300 ,  and you say you have had 100 

and you still don't understand them ,I thought by now all your questions would be answered.

 

keep counting ....

 

regards woreordie

i gave up trying to understand women when i waw 5 when my elder sister aske me to hit grandma over head with a hammer ,not only do i not understand women but Thi women 'forget it '. im now 91 and and have had [and am still having a wonderful life] without even trying to work out women.!

On 10/7/2025 at 12:40 PM, MalcolmB said:

Nice.

Are they single?

Not for you I think!

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11 hours ago, portisaacozzy said:

i gave up trying to understand women when i waw 5 when my elder sister aske me to hit grandma over head with a hammer ,not only do i not understand women but Thi women 'forget it '. im now 91 and and have had [and am still having a wonderful life] without even trying to work out women.!

 

So you stayed single your entire life?

And you are recommending this to everyone because women are too complicated?