https://www.dailymail.co.uk/lifestyle/love-sex/article-15015315/woman-boyfriend-51-year-age-gap.html

A heartbreaking story from Filipina Virgin. She's arrived in her home town in Mindanao and is at her parents' house. 

 

I asked how her father is. She says not well, he's weak. I asked what's his illness. And she replies "We don't know. He doesn't want to go to hospital".

 

So everyone is just watching this old man waste away. What a hard time for her. Poor girl.

42 minutes ago, JamesPhuket10 said:

What I do not understand is why have such a girl full time when you could pay for a new one every week without the hassle ?

 

That's a good question.

A lot of people do that.

But the ones that don't, there are a couple of reasons that come to mind.

1 - They prefer "real" relationships, wining and dining, partner living in and cooking for you ... even though it may be mostly a "fake" relationship if it's 100% about money. But at least it's a simulation of a real relationship.

 

2 - Maybe some people have big egos and want to show off their trophy girlfriends in social circles. 

 

But full-time = greater risks and more potential hassles

 

Or it could go the other way around and turn into a real relationship even if it started on fake pretenses.

 

7 minutes ago, save the frogs said:

 

That's a good question.

A lot of people do that.

But the ones that don't, there are a couple of reasons that come to mind.

1 - They prefer "real" relationships, wining and dining, partner living in and cooking for you ... even though it may be mostly a "fake" relationship if it's 100% about money. But at least it's a simulation of a real relationship.

 

2 - Maybe some people have big egos and want to show off their trophy girlfriends in social circles. 

 

But full-time = greater risks and more potential hassles

 

Or it could go the other way around and turn into a real relationship even if it started on fake pretenses.

 

 

Yes, it all depends on very individual set of circumstances, you can't say a long term relationship is better than a short term one. Of course it depends on with whom.

 

There can be long term relationships that are wonderful, but for me, when the woman hits 45 at the very, very latest, that would become a real problem. It's not just the loss of looks. With menopause and other problems, advancing years usually means that women are nowhere near as interested in pleasing a man as younger girls are. In this for instance Phuket girl is off the charts. It's such a delight If I were with a 48 year old version of her, it would be completely different.

 

The ideal scenario really would be if I get a 24 year old now, and in twenty years die in my sleep. If I had to live to 98 and see my wife at 68, I'd probably want to die.

51 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

So everyone is just watching this old man waste away.

.....and make a fool of himself whilst doing so.

Oh wait, you were talking about her father?

1 minute ago, josephbloggs said:

.....and make a fool of himself whilst doing so.

Oh wait, you were talking about her father?

 

Very poor taste. Her father is dying.

 

He's not making a fool of himself.

44 minutes ago, save the frogs said:

 

That's a good question.

A lot of people do that.

But the ones that don't, there are a couple of reasons that come to mind.

1 - They prefer "real" relationships, wining and dining, partner living in and cooking for you ... even though it may be mostly a "fake" relationship if it's 100% about money. But at least it's a simulation of a real relationship.

 

2 - Maybe some people have big egos and want to show off their trophy girlfriends in social circles. 

 

But full-time = greater risks and more potential hassles

 

Or it could go the other way around and turn into a real relationship even if it started on fake pretenses.

 

which category are you in ?

1 hour ago, Cameroni said:

Midlife crisis? It’s a myth. Why life gets better after 50

 

Other things being equal – that is, once conditions such as income, employment, health and marriage are factored out of the equation – life satisfaction declines from our early 20s until we hit our 50s. Then it turns around and rises, right through late adulthood. This pattern has been found in countries and cultures around the world; a version of it has even been detected in chimpanzees and orangutans.

 

https://www.theguardian.com/society/2018/jul/21/midlife-crisis-myth-life-gets-better-after-50

 

Almost as impressive as your delusion that you’re in a legitimate relationship with a pay-for-play girl - and the truly hysterical belief that a hard 3 magically transforms into a 10 because “you have to see her in real life!!!” - is your second delusion: that you’re not in the middle of a midlife crisis.

 

This is brilliant !!!... … you’re not just in a midlife crisis...... You’re the face-down, arms-flailing, fully submerged poster-boy for midlife crisis... 

 

It’s so painfully obvious to everyone else that watching you deny it is like watching a man insist he’s not on fire while smoke pours out of his trousers.... It’s so blindingly obvious that even your p4p girlfriend’s burner Facebook account could diagnose you...

 

 

10 minutes ago, richard_smith237 said:

 

Almost as impressive as your delusion that you’re in a legitimate relationship with a pay-for-play girl - and the truly hysterical belief that a hard 3 magically transforms into a 10 because “you have to see her in real life!!!” - is your second delusion: that you’re not in the middle of a midlife crisis.

 

This is brilliant !!!... … you’re not just in a midlife crisis...... You’re the face-down, arms-flailing, fully submerged poster-boy for midlife crisis... 

 

It’s so painfully obvious to everyone else that watching you deny it is like watching a man insist he’s not on fire while smoke pours out of his trousers.... It’s so blindingly obvious that even your p4p girlfriend’s burner Facebook account could diagnose you...

 

 

 

Your knowledge of psychology matches your knowledge of dating and women. Outdated and useless. Mid-life crisis does not exist, it's nothing but a myth.

 

But then your whole world view is delusional really.

2 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

 

Your knowledge of psychology matches your knowledge of dating and women. Mid-life crisis does not exist, it's nothing but a myth.

 

But then your whole world view is delusional really.

 

This is going to be epic - he's doubling-down !!!!

 

I’m waiting for the next masterstroke in delusion as Cameroni tries to prove that this glorious whirlwind romance - built on burner Facebook accounts, financial negotiations and mood-swings - is actually a tale of honesty, purity, and destiny… rather than the sweaty panic-flail of a man fully submerged in a midlife crisis it really is... 

 

Is he going to hurl himself into “destiny” like a man sprinting from the truth, waving a marriage certificate over his head and screaming, “SEE? SEE?! TRUE LOVE! NOT A CRISIS!”  ???

 

.... We’ll be watching like it’s a live-streamed disaster movie: “Cameroni: The Vows of Delusion”...

6 minutes ago, richard_smith237 said:

a man fully submerged in a midlife crisis it really is... 

 

"Is a midlife crisis a real thing?

 

Nope, it's a unicorn...as in "a mythical creature in psychology," says Susan Krauss Whitborne, PhD, Professor Emerita in the Psychological and Brain Sciences department at University of Massachusetts Amherst. In fact, she adds, "We [people who do research in this area] really don't find evidence that age is associated with any distinct changes in personality that would constitute what is popularly called a 'midlife crisis.'"

 

https://www.womenshealthmag.com/life/a64643894/midlife-crisis-myth-feel-better/

3 minutes ago, richard_smith237 said:

We’ll be watching like it’s a live-streamed disaster movie: “Cameroni: The Vows of Delusion”...

 

Act 1 :   Confusion .   

Act  2:  Delusion 

Act 3 :  Refusion         Classical CDR      

 

1 minute ago, rumak said:

 

Act 1 :   Confusion .   

Act  2:  Delusion 

Act 3 :  Refusion         Classical CDR      

 

My only confusion is which one of Richard, Celsius or Rumak talks more delusional garbage.

1 minute ago, Cameroni said:

My only confusion is which one of Richard, Celsius or Rumak talks more delusional garbage.

 

He's got a really bad case !!     

46 minutes ago, richard_smith237 said:

the truly hysterical belief that a hard 3 magically transforms into a 10

 

I propose that our "men of standards" Richard, Celsius and Rumak post UP TO DATE photos of their current girls. So we all have a good laugh.

 

Whilst rumak has at least had the courage to post an older pic, I don't believe we've seen an up to date one. Richard and Celsius of course trash talk about others, but strangely they are not revealing how their partners look. i wonder why.

 

I guess we will wait in vain for the delusional trio to put up anything of substance behind their hot air.

 

How about it, gents? Up to date pics of your girls? Or you don't dare? Too embarassing?

10 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

 

I propose that our "men of standards" Richard, Celsius and Rumak post UP TO DATE photos of their current girls. So we all have a good laugh.

 

Whilst rumak has at least had the courage to post an older pic, I don't believe we've seen an up to date one. Richard and Celsius of course trash talk about others, but strangely they are not revealing how their partners look. i wonder why.

 

I guess we will wait in vain for the delusional trio to put up anything of substance behind their hot air.

 

How about it, gents? Up to date pics of your girls? Or you don't dare? Too embarassing?

 

Oh dear, now trying to flex over his prostitute. Just when you think he couldn't get any sadder he goes ever lower.

 

Some people don't believe in sharing other people's photos, especially when it comes to private life.

 

8 minutes ago, josephbloggs said:

 

Oh dear, now trying to flex over his prostitute. Just when you think he couldn't get any sadder he goes ever lower.

 

Some people don't believe in sharing other people's photos, especially when it comes to private life.

 

 

Well, I'm not surprised you don't want to show a photo of yours, that's hardly surprising. That's why I didn't ask you. Clearly, we all know why you hide her pic.

 

However, with Celsius and Richard and rumak we have three guys who see themselves as "relationshp experts" and "men of standards", real experts on women. So, since they had the temerity to declare an obvious 8 is a 3, it is only natural for them then to back up with evidence what THEY were really able to achieve in the looks department.

 

They are quick to trash talk girls, but I don't believe we have seen photos of Richard's or Celsius' girls?

 

So let's see what these "men of standards" were reduced to choosing. I believe they are all approaching 50, these girls, am I right?

 

Le'ts see up to date photos, richard, celsius. Put substance behind your claim to be experts in looks. I think you should both show photos of your girls.

 

If you dare.

9 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

However, with Celsius and Richard and rumak we have three guys who see themselves as "relationshp experts" and "men of standards", real experts on women.

You seem to be confusing experts with experienced of which you by your own declarations have none.

16 minutes ago, novacova said:

You seem to be confusing experts with experienced of which you by your own declarations have none.

 

No, they are quick to declare a girl is a three, these self-declared experts on female beauty. So let's see what their girls look like. It's only right.

 

If they trash talk girls, let's see what they were able to attract.

 

We need to see photos of richard;s and celsius' girls. They're perfect 10s, supposedly. Let's see.

 

They can denigrate other girls as 3's but they don't want to show their menopausal 50 year olds. 

 

I wonder why.

44 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

I propose that our "men of standards" Richard, Celsius and Rumak post UP TO DATE photos of their current girls. So we all have a good laugh.

 

Whilst rumak has at least had the courage to post an older pic, I don't believe we've seen an up to date one. Richard and Celsius of course trash talk about others, but strangely they are not revealing how their partners look. i wonder why.

 

I guess we will wait in vain for the delusional trio to put up anything of substance behind their hot air.

 

How about it, gents? Up to date pics of your girls? Or you don't dare? Too embarassing?

 

Nice try… but no.
I think we can all agree that with your taste in mingers, any judgement you pass is about as meaningful as a horoscope in a toilet cubicle.

 

What is notable, though, is the sheer lack of respect you have for women. You’re so blinded by your own desperation that you see nothing wrong with abusing their privacy, posting their details, and expecting others to join in like it’s some kind of sleazy group project.

 

The fact that you consider that morally acceptable says everything about the scale of your delusion. And now, you’re trying to flip the script by throwing accusations at people who can see exactly what’s going on: the pathetically feckless scramble of a man deep in a discount-bin midlife crisis, hunting bargain-basement p4p women like it’s the only form of validation left in your life.

 

 

 

 

1 minute ago, richard_smith237 said:

The fact that you consider that morally acceptable says everything about the scale of your delusion. And now, you’re trying to flip the script by throwing accusations at people who can see exactly what’s going on: the pathetically feckless scramble of a man deep in a discount-bin midlife crisis, hunting bargain-basement p4p women like it’s the only form of validation left in your life.

 

 

 That is a very good summation. Add to that fact he is very naive when it comes to both Thailand and  Thai women, I think that would also include Filipino. He will never know what love is as well. 

 

I sure hope what he is doing now is fun for him, as its the best its going to get.  

7 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

 

No, they are quick to declare a girl is a three, these self-declared experts on female beauty. So let's see what their girls look like. It's only right.

 

If they trash talk girls, let's see what they were able to attract.

 

We’re not trash-talking the girl at all.
We’re highlighting your delusion - the fact you’ve posted a photo of an average-looking woman while hysterically insisting she’s a 9… and even a 10 “if you see her in real life”...

 

Meanwhile, in the very same breath, you’re sharing tales of her mercenary demands for cash like you’ve discovered some profound love story rather than a transaction with a price list.

 

No one’s judging her - she’s doing exactly what she set out to do.

 

We’re judging you - for the wild mental gymnastics required to convince yourself that this is romance, that she’s a supermodel, and that you’re not being played like a budget violin in a Pattaya side-street.

 

7 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

We need to see photos of richard;s and celsius' girls. They're perfect 10s, supposedly. Let's see.

 

They can denigrate other girls as 3's but they don't want to show their menopausal 50 year olds. 

 

I wonder why.

 

... and we're not denigrating 'other girls' (plural) - just the very average looking p4p girl that you are comically swooning over... 

8 minutes ago, richard_smith237 said:

 

Nice try… but no.
I think we can all agree that with your taste in mingers, any judgement you pass is about as meaningful as a horoscope in a toilet cubicle.

 

What is notable, though, is the sheer lack of respect you have for women. You’re so blinded by your own desperation that you see nothing wrong with abusing their privacy, posting their details, and expecting others to join in like it’s some kind of sleazy group project.

 

The fact that you consider that morally acceptable says everything about the scale of your delusion. And now, you’re trying to flip the script by throwing accusations at people who can see exactly what’s going on: the pathetically feckless scramble of a man deep in a discount-bin midlife crisis, hunting bargain-basement p4p women like it’s the only form of validation left in your life.

 

 

 

 

 

Quelle surprise! Lol. Show us a pic of your 50 year old perfect ten, man of standards!

 

What you don't dare to back up your girl rating credentials?

 

You denigrate other girls as 3s but you hide your own menopausal 50 year old.

 

You're nothing but a hypocrite!

 

We both know why you don't dare show her pic! You claim others' girls are a three, but in reality it is YOUR girl who's a mere three. If we can call a 50 year old a "girl" that is.

 

What a hypocrite!

 

You claim to be an expert on women and beauty, but it's not wrong that your girl is the actual three, is it? You got NOTHING!

 

Show us a pic of your perfect 10 menopausal 50 year old. If you dare!

 

There we have it. Nothing but cowardice and hypocrisy.

 

Quick to insult other girls, but doesn't dare to share his own.

 

As was to be expected.

 

Let's see if Celsius has more courage.

Just now, Cameroni said:

 

Quelle surprise! Lol. Show us a pic of your 50 year old perfect ten, man of standards!

 

What you don't dare to back up your girl rating credentials?

 

You denigrate other girls as 3s but you hide your own menopausal 50 year old.

 

You're nothing but a hypocrite!

 

We both know why you don't dare show her pic! You claim others' girls are a three, but in reality is YOUR girl who's a mere three. If we can call a 50 year old a "girl" that is.

 

What a hypocrite!

 

Nice try but no cigar - you're getting desperate....

 

You've violated someones privacy and posted her photo online without her permission. 

You expect that others have the same deplorable standards as you and expect others to sink to your level to abuse the privacy of there (our) significant other.

 

... and thats the real tell - With your cracked moral compass and the kind of wide-eyed desperation only a full-blown midlife crisis can brew, you’ve convinced yourself you’re in some grand, passionate romance with a p4p girl who’s apparently smitten with your “magnetic personality and dashing good looks”....    and you don't even see it - paying for a attention and believing it to be a soul-mate connection !!!... 

 

 

3 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

 

Quelle surprise! Lol. Show us a pic of your 50 year old perfect ten, man of standards!

 

What you don't dare to back up your girl rating credentials?

 

You denigrate other girls as 3s but you hide your own menopausal 50 year old.

 

You're nothing but a hypocrite!

 

We both know why you don't dare show her pic! You claim others' girls are a three, but in reality it is YOUR girl who's a mere three. If we can call a 50 year old a "girl" that is.

 

What a hypocrite!

 

 

Even if she was a 10 it's nothing to brag about. It's not like you fended off much younger competition and she fell for your charm, she just loves your old man walks, she thinks you look like a 30 year old - you merely pay for her to spend time with you. 

Seriously, how can you brag about a prostitute when any one of us could get a better looking 24 year old prostitute tomorrow if we wanted? 

Flexing over a prostitute - it doesn't get any sadder than that......although knowing you you'll no doubt surprise us again soon.

Oh, and you know the reason she doesn't want to go to meet your respectable coffee shop Thai friends? It's not because she's feeling "lazy" or "tired". But you probably believe that too.



 

11 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

 

No, they are quick to declare a girl is a three, these self-declared experts on female beauty. So let's see what their girls look like. It's only right.

 

If they trash talk girls, let's see what they were able to attract.

 

We need to see photos of richard;s and celsius' girls. They're perfect 10s, supposedly. Let's see.

 

They can denigrate other girls as 3's but they don't want to show their menopausal 50 year olds. 

 

I wonder why.

What in the hell is wrong with you and such desperation obsessing about what other folks spouses look like, such deep personal insecurities. If you want to see what a woman looks like then poke your head out the window and take a look.

Just now, richard_smith237 said:

 

Nice try but no cigar - you're getting desperate....

 

You've violated someones privacy and posted her photo online without her permission. 

You expect that others have the same deplorable standards as you and expect others to sink to your level to abuse the privacy of there (our) significant other.

 

... and thats the real tell - With your cracked moral compass and the kind of wide-eyed desperation only a full-blown midlife crisis can brew, you’ve convinced yourself you’re in some grand, passionate romance with a p4p girl who’s apparently smitten with your “magnetic personality and dashing good looks”....    and you don't even see it - paying for a attention and believing it to be a soul-mate connection !!!... 

 

 

 

Lol, blah blah blah, translation: "I will call girls a 3 but I'm too cowardly to show a pic of my own menopausal 50 year old, the real 3"

 

You're nothing but a coward and a hypocrite.

 

Delusional blether, without an ounce of substance. You claim you can decide if a girl is a 3. So show your own girl. Let's see what you were able to attract, woman expert? Lol.

 

But you can't can you? Because we both know you have the real 3.  Who is approaching 50. And doesn't even compare to the 24 year old Goddess you so hypocritically debase as a 3.

 

You cowardly hypocrite! 

 

Show her pic! If you dare!

6 minutes ago, josephbloggs said:

when any one of us could get a better looking 24 year old

 

Prove it! Show a pic of your 24 year old!

 

Oh you can't can you? You have a menopausal 50 year old 3 too, don't you?

 

Lol. You, Richard, Celsius and rumak, you'r e all hypocrites without substance.

 

You claim you can denigrate a girl as a "prostitute" who you don't know, claim she's a "3" but you hide your own varicose vein crypt keeper.

 

I wonder why. I'll tell you why, like Richard, you're another coward and hypocrite. You couldn't get a 24 year old if you won the lottery.

 

You all claim you're experts on women, and relationships, but you refuse to show what you were able to attract. And we all know why. None of you has substance. You're full of it!

2 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

 

Lol, blah blah blah, translation: "I will call girls a 3 but I'm too cowardly to show a pic of my own menopausal 50 year old, the real 3"

 

You're nothing but a coward and a hypocrite.

 

Delusional blether, without an ounce of substance. You claim you can decide if a girl is a 3. So show your own girl. Let's see what you were able to attract, woman expert? Lol.

 

But you can't can you? Because we both know you have the real 3.  Who is approaching 50. And doesn't even compare to the 24 year old Goddess you so hypocritically debase as a 3.

 

You cowardly hypocrite! 

 

Show her pic! If you dare!

 

 

This just keeps getting funnier - you’ve actually called your 24-year-old bargain-bucket p4p girl a “goddess”. A goddess.
… the delusion is now full IMAX....

 

But.. credit where it’s due: if that’s a goddess in your world, then the ocean of possibilities really is infinite. Truly, truly anyone can find love - or at least whatever this paid-affection cosplay you’re calling a relationship is.