49 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

"I am afraid to lose my freedom" (freedom to fornicate at will I suspect).

You've gone from a mere 'suspicion' about her fornication, all the way to she told you straight to your face. That's a leap that keeps growing as the story unfolds.

 

I think her moral compass is right on track, if she currently has the ability, then she should enjoy life to its fullest while she can. Your conclusions have twisted that around to, 'fornicate with as many men as possible'.

Just now, Cameroni said:

 

Maybe that's why she's insisting I come to Phuket? To see if I have the money to buy all the flights and hotel?

Yeah, now she knows. Not a spender. No fun.

Look for another one. Maybe cheaper😉. 

As long you're after prostitutes you have to pay for the body.

If that is your life? Good luck. STD is looking round the corner. Be careful.

3 minutes ago, lamyai3 said:

 

She must be confident with her English - no way your average bargirl would be confident enough to pronounce carousel twice in a sentence. 

 

He English is an abomination. She of course did not use the words carousel, but that's the gist of it.

 

Her exact words were: "I'm not ready yet. I don't want to be tied down to anyone. I'm afraid I wont' have any freedom"."So what do you think? I don't want to have anyone yet."

 

 

 

 

1 minute ago, ColeBOzbourne said:

You've gone from a mere 'suspicion' about her fornication, all the way to she told you straight to your face. That's a leap that keeps growing as the story unfolds.

 

I think her moral compass is right on track, if she currently has the ability, then she should enjoy life to its fullest while she can. Your conclusions have twisted that around to, 'fornicate with as many men as possible'.

 

What are you talking about, that's exactly what she said, not in so many words, but she's basically saying she wants to retain her freedom to fornicate with as many men as possible!

 

So she should enjoy life to its fullest by jumping on a carousel of penises? She wont' regret that when she looks back on it in 25 years and realizes she was a cheap nasty slut? Maybe your moral compass is a bit off too.

Just now, Cameroni said:

 

What are you talking about, that's exactly what she said, not in so many words, but she's basically saying she wants to retain her freedom to fornicate with as many men as possible!

 

So she should enjoy life to its fullest by jumping on a carousel of penises? She wont' regret that when she looks back on it in 25 years and realizes she was a cheap nasty slut? Maybe your moral compass is a bit off too.

Bring her to the xmas party,free jumps for everyone!

4 minutes ago, newbee2022 said:

Yeah, now she knows. Not a spender. No fun.

Look for another one. Maybe cheaper😉. 

As long you're after prostitutes you have to pay for the body.

If that is your life? Good luck. STD is looking round the corner. Be careful.

 

That's just it! She's not a prostitute. She said her sister is a bar girl but she doesn't want to do that and can't bear to see her sister with men. 

 

Why is she on a dating site, if it's not for a serious relationship? What has the world come to? Now we don't just have to weed out the bona fide whores, but also girls who made it their mission to jump on a carousel of penises? Who wants to deal with women like that?

3 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

He English is an abomination. She of course did not use the words carousel, but that's the gist of it.

 

Actually I retract my comment. Just remembered countless bargirls would have learned to say Carousel before it changed it's name to Billboard 555

59 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

So I'm writing for over 2 months now with this Thai girl, 25 years old, extremely attractive. First she agreed to come stay with me in CM, now she demands I go to Phuket for the weekend and says then she will join me in CM. But guess what she just told me? Just to be clear, she does not want to be "tied down", she only wants to have fun and is not ready to be tied down with anyone. "I am afraid to lose my freedom" (freedom to fornicate at will I suspect).

 

This is the first time a Thai girl has literally told me to my face "I want to ride the carousel, yes I'll come have fun with you, but don't have any hopes that I'll stay with you, because I intend to just have fun and ride the carousel until I'm ready to be tied down".

 

I mean I was well aware that girls do this, ride the carousel just to have fun, but to be so shameless about it and tell you to your face, that kind of took my breath away. Has anyone else had a Thai girl be this completely shameless?

Why would a "Thai girl, 25 years old, extremely attractive" stay with you in the first place?

2 minutes ago, jvs said:

Bring her to the xmas party,free jumps for everyone!

 

Exactly, who wants a girl with such a loose moral compass? You'd be embarassed and concerned to bring her anywyere, lest she stares at the guy on the table behind you. A girl you can't trust is worth nothing.

Just now, FritsSikkink said:

Why would a "Thai girl, 25 years old, extremely attractive" stay with you in the first place?

 

So many reasons, I would have to type a long essay, but anyway that's not the substance of this thread. Please stay on topic.

9 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

 

That's just it! She's not a prostitute. She said her sister is a bar girl but she doesn't want to do that and can't bear to see her sister with men. 

 

Why is she on a dating site, if it's not for a serious relationship? What has the world come to? Now we don't just have to weed out the bona fide whores, but also girls who made it their mission to jump on a carousel of penises? Who wants to deal with women like that?

You're looking for them.

As I see you're not into a serious relationship but have fun with young girls who can satisfy you only in one way: sex.

With 53, without a reliable partner, not being in a stable relationship, still looking for cheap excitements....not my cup of tea.

I never paid for sex, maybe because I have more to offer than only money or a "penis". 

 

 

 

Just now, newbee2022 said:

You're looking for them.

As I see you're not into a serious relationship but have fun with young girls WHO can satisfy you onli in one way: sex.

With 53, without a reliable partner, not being in a stable relationship, still looking for cheap excitements....not my cup of tea.

I never paid for sex, maybe because I have more to offer than money or a "penis". 

 

 

 

 

Totally false, I'm actively taking steps to weed out professional sex workers and I only want to find a trustworthy, honest, hot and fun girl for long term. But it's increasinly becoming Mission Impossible, look what I'm dealing with! Now girls have no shame to even tell you  they're sluts to your face!

 

Yes, I'm sure you don't like sex at all, what a liar you are newbee2022.

 

More to offer than money? Do tell! Are you very likeable too? Lol.

40 minutes ago, SAFETY FIRST said:

If she's as good as you say, she can earn hundreds of thousands of baht every month from her many sponsors 

 

 

Nice going fella.     You actively promote committing fraud.

Just now, In Full Agreement said:

 

 

Nice going fella.     You actively promote committing fraud.

 

To be fair, she's not that kind of girl, she's very honest. She'll just tell each guy, hey, we can have fun if you pay for my ticket, resort, restaurants, but I won't be with you long term. Are you okay with that?

 

I wonder how many guys say "Yes, sure"?

 

It's not fraud, per se, but it is clearly outside the norm, and totally reprehensible. She disqualified herself. But that she does not realise how despicable her approach is, and tells you to your face? Astounding.

12 hours ago, Cameroni said:

Just to be clear, she does not want to be "tied down", she only wants to have fun and is not ready to be tied down with anyone.

 

doesn't necessarily mean it needs to be taken at face value. 

 

maybe she was considering a long-term thing, but sth happened or sth you said she didn't like so she backed out or hesitated.

would need to rewind and look back at the entire discussion ... you started making plans ... and then sth about your

plans maybe didn't match her long-term goals ... could be that. 

 

maybe you can still talk her into it. but looks like you may have to put all your cards on the table pretty quick ... including possibly offering her a monthly allowance. 

 

She's learnt that she can earn alot more money with several guys, she knows guys try not to pay so not a good idea to stick with one. Just see her when you want and you do the carousel also

13 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

that's exactly what she said, not in so many words,

How exactly does that work? 

 

And yes, you are correct. My moral compass has been dropped and kicked a few times, but it still points in the right direction, generally, most of the time. 

1 minute ago, Cameroni said:

 

Totally false, I'm actively taking steps to weed out professional sex workers and I only want to find a trustworthy, honest, hot and fun girl for long term. But it's increasinly becoming Mission Impossible, look what I'm dealing with! Now girls have no shame to even tell you  they're sluts to your face!

 

Yes, I'm sure you don't like sex at all, what a liar you are newbee2022.

 

More to offer than money? Do tell! Are you very likeable too? Lol.

Now it's hurting? Isn't it?

Now you start with insults. "Liar".

Why do you do it?

Because you don't want to hear, that you're looking for prostitutes up to now. 

How dare you to think of any long lasting relationship with a young girl half your age?

So you meet only escort/prostitutes.

I don't judge about you.

If you like it? Pay.

But don't tell us and yourself in particular to look for an honest relationship with girls in your daughter's age.

1 minute ago, save the frogs said:

 

What do you have to offer? You're "deep"? Ha ha. 

 

Poor pathetic comment. Join Cameroni

10 hours ago, newbee2022 said:

Poor pathetic comment. Join Cameroni

 

sorry.

 

2 minutes ago, save the frogs said:

 

doesn't necessarily mean it needs to be taken at face value. 

 

maybe she was considering a long-term thing, but sth happened or sth you said she didn't like so she backed out or hesitated.

would need to rewind and look back at the entire discussion ... you started making plans ... and then sth about your

plans maybe didn't match her long-term goals ... could be that. 

 

maybe you can still talk her into it. but looks like you may have to put all your cards on the table pretty quick ... including possibly offering her a "monthly allowance". 

 

 

She's trying to talk me into it. Just now again texted she wants me to come to Phuket. What do I think?

 

But yes, you could be right, she said she had 7 boyfriends before, so that means 21 boyfriends already, so she's just jaded.

 

Maybe she's writing with another guy who's giving her better terms, that's possible.

 

The other day she told me "I did a porno". I said what do you mean? "She said with my Thai ex". "I sell you for 5000 baht". I wasn't sure if she was joking or serious. But now I'm thinking she was serious.

 

I mean yes, I could still fly to Phuket, but what a massive effort and  outlay for a girl with which there is no chance of any long term association, or a very little one. 

5 minutes ago, scubascuba3 said:

She's learnt that she can earn alot more money with several guys, she knows guys try not to pay so not a good idea to stick with one. Just see her when you want and you do the carousel also

 

That's why I have to go on the carousel too! Look! I have no other choice! These are the women that are out there! They tell you to your face "I'm a promiscous slut, hope you don't mind?"

 

She's definitely making money from guys, she already sounded me out if I'd buy her Lazada dresses, nothing big, like 300 baht, but then jokingly asked me to pay for a 6000 baht order. I do think she's looking for a high roller.

9 minutes ago, ColeBOzbourne said:

How exactly does that work? 

 

And yes, you are correct. My moral compass has been dropped and kicked a few times, but it still points in the right direction, generally, most of the time. 

 

I posted her exact words above. Basically "I'm not ready yet. I don't want to be tied down to anyone. I'm afraid I won't have any freedom [to be a nasty slut and fornicate anyone]. So what do you think? I don't want to have anyone yet. Do you just want to have fun?".

 

 

11 hours ago, Cameroni said:

The other day she told me "I did a porno". I said what do you mean? "She said with my Thai ex". "I sell you for 5000 baht". I wasn't sure if she was joking or serious. But now I'm thinking she was serious.

 

Whether it's a joke or not, personally I would walk away. 

 

She's super hot, yes? But that's not enough. Find a balance between someone is attractive enough and has a good head on her shoulders. What does this girl do for a living besides porno films on the side? Find a girl in a good profession or studying for a good profession. 

 

36 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

 

I don't. I certainly dont' have to pay for her. A man has standards. Not just about looks, but about ethical behaviour.

 

This girl, though honest, is totally unethical.

Cameroni wants a good girl who will go bad just for him. I don’t blame him. This has been the main relationship dynamic in my life, nothing is sweeter.

 

his problem is that the sweetness that he wants taps out at about age 28 at the outside.

 

28 is starting to evade his grasp. The candle is burning at both ends. Full respect for this possibly still doable noble cause.

 

But at age 73, time is running short. I may want to just  cut to the chase with asomewhat bad girl, who seems sane after the six month mark.
 

Yeah, God did not make enough of them.

 

Just now, save the frogs said:

 

Whether it's a joke or not, personally I would walk away. 

 

She's super hot, yes? But that's not enough. Find a balance between someone is attractive enough and has a good head on her shoulders. What does this girl do for a living besides porno films on the side? Find a girl in a good profession or studying for a good profession. 

 

 

She does nothing for a living, her sister is a bargirl and gives her 200 baht each day.

 

She's not stupid. And quite interesting as a person. But clearly, she's a nymphomaniac. So sad. She is so very hot, your heart bleeds.

 

I'm veering towards walking away too.Something off about her I think.

1 minute ago, Cameroni said:

 

But clearly, she's a nymphomaniac. 

 

I'm veering towards walking away too.Something off about her I think.

Fly to Phuket today. Are you crazy?

1 minute ago, Prubangboy said:

Cameroni wants a good girl who will go bad just for him. I don’t blame him. This has been the main relationship dynamic in my life, nothing is sweeter.

 

his problem is that the sweetness that he wants taps out at about age 28 at the outside.

 

28 is starting to evade his grasp. The candle is burning at both ends. Full respect for this possibly still doable noble cause.

 

But at age 73, time is running short. I may want to just  cut to the chase with asomewhat bad girl, who seems sane after the six month mark.
 

Yeah, God did not make enough of them.

 

 

Finally someone with an ounce of understanding. Yes, that's exactly what I want.

 

It's one thing to say the body is no longer desirable after 28, but if she has no moral compass at 25 already, and tells you to your face that she will jump on a variety of penises and has no intention to stay with anyone, that's just Jeffrey Dahmer style dating. She's eating the brains of men effectively, figuratively speaking, their wallets really, but you know what I mean.

 

If you go with a bad girl, and she disappears after 6 months, what good does that do? You may live to 95!

4 minutes ago, Prubangboy said:

Fly to Phuket today. Are you crazy?

 

I'm still tempted of course. She's just that hot.

 

But I really doubt if she's worth it. Also her English is virtually non-existent. This coupled with her carousel agenda makes her now a rather lower  target on my scale. After all I am now dating a beautiful local girl, and the supermodel from Samut Prakan could come in a few days too. It's not like I'm desperate to jump on anyone. I was just trying to give another attractive race horse a chance, but I am quite taken aback by her atittude now.

11 hours ago, Cameroni said:

 

She does nothing for a living, her sister is a bargirl and gives her 200 baht each day.

 

She's not stupid. And quite interesting as a person. But clearly, she's a nymphomaniac. So sad. She is so very hot, your heart bleeds.

 

I'm veering towards walking away too.Something off about her I think.

 

That's what she told you. She may also work in the bars. 

"Does nothing" is another red flag.