1 hour ago, Cameroni said:

When I was building pipeline this morning

🤣🤣🤣 Spoken like a true salesman. I hope you've got a good CRM. CM girl is a lost opportunity, by the sound of it, and the waitress is asking for capital investment. 

13 minutes ago, Lightyear said:

🤣🤣🤣 Spoken like a true salesman. I hope you've got a good CRM.

 

Well, it's sadly a necessity. It's the only defense. For the sad reality is that women collect hearts.

 

They will flirt and try to seduce you. I saw it again with CM girl, she may hold your hand. She may say you're handsome, she may talk of love. She may ask questions about your future intentions. She may laugh with you. She may put her hand in yours "look how cold it is". She may make herself available thee weekends in a row. However, this is nothing to her. All of it. She's just seducing. Practicing her skills.. With the aim to collect another man's heart.

 

For the more hearts she has, the more powerful she becomes. The more men fight for her, and give her anything she wants. So they practice their seduction. And some are so  good at it, it's almost unbelievable. You can't tell the difference from the girl who really cares for you and really loves you.

 

So your only defense against this female power of seduction, is to become seducers ourselves, to have as many options as possible, because, if once again you are deceived by an expert seducer, then you can move on swifly and more easily. The L will still hurt, but you won't be affected as badly.

 

 

12 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

So your only defense against this female power of seduction, is to become seducers ourselves, to have as many options as possible, because, if once again you are deceived by an expert seducer, then you can move on swifly and more easily. The L will still hurt, but you won't be affected as badly.

The only defense is to treat them for what they are, don't pay more than they're worth, keep you hands firmly on your assets, and remember they are easily replaceable and the next one will be prettier and younger than the current one.

2 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

So your only defense against this female power of seduction, is to become seducers ourselves, to have as many options as possible,

Absolutely. It's called the dating game for a reason. Women like a challenge, so it's sometimes better to feign a bit of disinterest, or a competitor might win the deal 😉 

3 minutes ago, BritManToo said:

The only defense is to treat them for what they are, don't pay more than they're worth, keep you hands firmly on your assets, and remember they are easily replaceable and the next one will be prettier and younger than the current one.

 

A very sensible and safe approach, which is better than most. However, there are women who truly care for you, so when that happens, it is important to give her a chance. 

 

 

1 minute ago, Cameroni said:

 

A very sensible and safe approach, which is better than most. However, there are women who truly care for you, so when that happens, it is important to give her a chance. 

 

 

 

Don't listen to him.

5 minutes ago, Lightyear said:

Absolutely. It's called the dating game for a reason. Women like a challenge, so it's sometimes better to feign a bit of disinterest, or a competitor might win the deal 😉 

 

You are literally ALWAYS better off to feign some disinterest. You should never show more than a 5 or 6 level of interest. Because a man who is truly selected by a lot of women, will always be lazy, will never make an effort. Because he has so many options. If you go and show your true interest, you will quickly be marked as "low value" in her mind, he has no options.

 

So the art of feigning disinterest is among the most important for men, and one of the hardest things to do for most of us.

 

We should never forget, we are just one of 20 or so other competitors and she's looking for a reason not to talk to us anymore. Excessive interest is a major reason to disqualify us.

1 minute ago, Cameroni said:

We should never forget, we are just one of 20 or so other competitors and she's looking for a reason not to talk to us anymore.

Wise words. Men do the picking, women do the choosing. 

3 minutes ago, Celsius said:

 

Don't listen to him.

 

There are good women Celsius, but I fear I was deceived by the Chinese Goddess.

19 minutes ago, Lightyear said:

Wise words. Men do the picking, women do the choosing. 

 

Dating is like a sports game. When you win, you don't feel compassion for your opponents. You celebrate.

 

Women have no shame at all, to win the hearts of 20 men they don't really care about. It's just a win. Another good practice. 

 

We need to adopt a similarly cold and hard approach with women who do not make the cut.

An 18-year-old waitress has financial problems? Who could’ve ever seen that coming?

 

I am definitely stealing that story about her picking out the purple dress for my writing about western life in Thailand.

 

You don’t have to go all in and pretend to be born again. Just talk about how Christ’s sacrifice has deeply moved you.

 

Maybe wiki up Karen Armstrong, and ex nun who writes about Christianity for non-Christians. Toss in a couple of Karen Armstrong quotes and you are good to go. She has also done good books on Buddha and Mohammed, to cover every dating base.

 

When I was doing some research in Sakanavet, I met an older German woman who told me she walked with Christ. After somehow stifling falling down laughing, I dropped a little Karen Armstrong on her and we went back to my hard mattress room.

 

I don’t think you can effectively feign disinterest when you are so clearly interested. When I am into someone more than they are into me, I sort of make my interest in them a fake- humble, self deprecating joke.

 

but if I don’t see movement after three bites of the gee whiz apple, I’m gone.
 

 

 

15 minutes ago, Prubangboy said:

An 18-year-old waitress has financial problems? Who could’ve ever seen that coming?

 

This was on another level, my parents can't support me, I have to pay school feeds TODAYYYY! So give her 1200 to pay school fees, "Oh I will never forget how you helped me, I will give you everything".

 

Then on my couch I get the "I'm a virgin" news. Not what I expected given her party Insta, but okay. I drive her home and I get the full on story how the step-father left the mother because she called an ambulance and has to pay hospital fees, if I can help with 2500 baht. Bear in mind she refused to have sex. I mean, she was trying to help her mother, I get it, but the brass balls on that girll. If you help me this time I will give you everything...Sure.

 

I am starting to think 18 maybe too young. I still think 25 is the sweet spot, but I'd go so far as 28 out of curiosity now.

 

15 minutes ago, Prubangboy said:

I am definitely stealing that story about her picking out the purple dress for my writing about western life in Thailand.

 

That was the dress BKK girl wore in the video hugging and kissing that guy she cheated with in the resort in Phuket. I bought it for her. I really wanted to burn it with her when she came back, but good to just get it out of the house.

 

15 minutes ago, Prubangboy said:

When I was doing some research in Sakanavet, I met an older German woman who told me she walked with Christ. After somehow stifling falling down laughing, I dropped a little Karen Armstrong on her and we went back to my hard mattress room.

 

It's okay, I have a local Thai friend who is Christian, he runs two bible study groups "All with young people" he told me, and invited me. I will need to go at some point learn how young Thai people interpret scripture, as I'm a highly spiritual person.

 

15 minutes ago, Prubangboy said:

I don’t think you can effectively feign disinterest when you are so clearly interested.

 

I find it absolutely impossible. Which makes sense because I'm a terrible poker player. It just comes out of me, I can't help it. Come to think of it, I made a big deal how beautiful she was on the third date, how she dressed so stylishly, that was clearly  a mistake. How to get a grip on this?

 

Yah, I will also let this China girl go free now, clearly no point to write anymore. You were right after all.

34 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

hat was the dress BKK girl wore in the video hugging and kissing that guy she cheated with in the resort in Phuket. I bought it for her. I really wanted to burn it with her when she came back, but good to just get it out of the house.

I can go one better on this story,

 

The Thai lady I was living with, went away for a week to look after her sick mom. I happened to look in her wardrobe after she had gone, and noticed the 'naughty nurse' outfit I purchased for her had also gone with her.

 

I moved out before she returned.

2 hours ago, BritManToo said:

I can go one better on this story,

 

The Thai lady I was living with, went away for a week to look after her sick mom. I happened to look in her wardrobe after she had gone, and noticed the 'naughty nurse' outfit I purchased for her had also gone with her.

 

I moved out before she returned.

 

Good move. When you see a red flag like that, best to act immediately.

 

From now, every time a girl comes in my house and has a bag, I check her bag. Same on the way out. Like at the airport.

I don’t think I can really get involved with anyone whose life is completely derailed by the lack of $100. 
 

Maybe possibly if the nurse’s uniform is made out of latex, though.

 

That would signify not only sexual compatibility, but also some spending power of her own.

 

If there’s a place where I would expect absolutely zero help with fetish fashion acquisition advice, it’s here.

 

relatedly, I talked to a guy on this Antarctica cruise who paid $10,000 more than me and has to share a room.
 

Meanwhile, I have a very large private room with a balcony and also inexplicably got free Internet thrown into my package.

 

Life is not fair. Buddha covered this in his teachings on equanimity.

Some days you are railing a 10.

 

Other days you are stuck in a room by the engine with a Chinese guy who snores.

 

Let’s not pretend that we have any control over this stuff.

 

Book at the last minute, be realistic about a looks match. Hope for the best.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

1 hour ago, Prubangboy said:

I don’t think I can really get involved with anyone whose life is completely derailed by the lack of $100. 
 

Maybe possibly if the nurse’s uniform is made out of latex, though.

 

That would signify not only sexual compatibility, but also some spending power of her own.

 

If there’s a place where I would expect absolutely zero help with fetish fashion acquisition advice, it’s here.

 

relatedly, I talked to a guy on this Antarctica cruise who paid $10,000 more than me and has to share a room.
 

Meanwhile, I have a very large private room with a balcony and also inexplicably got free Internet thrown into my package.

 

Life is not fair. Buddha covered this in his teachings on equanimity.

Some days you are railing a 10.

 

Other days you are stuck in a room by the engine with a Chinese guy who snores.

 

Let’s not pretend that we have any control over this stuff.

 

Book at the last minute, be realistic about a looks match. Hope for the best.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Yah, that's generally true, you never know what chocolate you're going to get.

 

After the debacle with yet another virgin, and CM girl not confirming the date, I wrote to Phuket girl as if I were drunk. I said she doesn't have to work in any bar, I'll take care of her, I really like her etc., so completely the wrong things according to every wisdom. 

 

However, she responded very positively, called me out of the blue, is texting me non-stop now. I would like to fly her in, but she already specified the car she likes to be driven in is a Mercedes Benz. Your kind of girl.

 

The Filipina virgin also called me today. Told me she had sex with a customer at the bar, Steve. So I told her then no need for us to talk, she "I just wanted to talk to you". Texting me all angry after I hung up on her.

 

There's no loyalty anymore. Even the virgins cross over to the dark side.

 

Enjoy the cruise.

Phuket girl says she doesn't want to wait til the end of the month. She wants to come at the end of this next week. 

 

I like her high interest.

4 hours ago, BritManToo said:

I can go one better on this story,

 

 

 

The Thai lady I was living with, went away for a week to look after her sick mom. I happened to look in her wardrobe after she had gone, and noticed the 'naughty nurse' outfit I purchased for her had also gone with her.

 

I moved out before she returned.

Or maybe she had just binned it because she didn't want to be forced to wear it for the old pervert who had bought it for her.

CM girl has made her Instagram highlights visible to me again, I was unable to see them for a while, and I noticed she added one of our dinners to her Instagram highlights.

 

Be still my beating heart....

 

Could she be thawing her heart of ice?

Maybe her other option fell through.
 

That’s why I like dating old wrecks. They have no other option. 
 

A Tinder message from me it’s like Santa Claus coming to town

1 hour ago, josephbloggs said:

Or maybe she had just binned it because she didn't want to be forced to wear it for the old pervert who had bought it for her.

You say old pervert  like that somehow a bad thing
 

What color is the air on your planet?

1 hour ago, Cameroni said:

CM girl has made her Instagram highlights visible to me again, I was unable to see them for a while, and I noticed she added one of our dinners to her Instagram highlights.

 

Be still my beating heart....

 

Could she be thawing her heart of ice?

 

She is like those onlyfans girls who start innocent on Instagram and TikTok to build the audience. Then after a year of buildup and engagement they drop the video with some ugly dude.

 

You have to applaud their marketing skills because that's exactly what she is doing to you and others....engaging.

 

The question is why aren't you tired of this nonsense?

16 minutes ago, Celsius said:

 

She is like those onlyfans girls who start innocent on Instagram and TikTok to build the audience. Then after a year of buildup and engagement they drop the video with some ugly dude.

 

You have to applaud their marketing skills because that's exactly what she is doing to you and others....engaging.

 

The question is why aren't you tired of this nonsense?

 

She has these reels, these Instagram highlights, seven of them. 

 

Each of them has a specific theme. One has the theme restaurants. She basically did a slideshow with all the fancy restaurants she's been at, in CM, BKK, Ko Samui, etc, all over Thailand, that's where she added the photo of our dinner at Palette 137 Pllars. At first I thought each dinner was with her rich Taiwanese boyfriend. Now I realise, this is like a scalp bead, of all the guys who took her out, if they did good, she added them here. Her jar of hearts.

 

One highlight has her as a theme, just random pics of her and some of her thoughts typed on the photos. The other 5 reels are just holiays in Hong Kong, Beijing, Kyoto, Osaka, KL, Singapore and so on, Conrad Hotel and the finest hotels everywhere.

 

But she is far removed from an Only Fans girl, in her entire Instagram there is not one photo of her in a suggestive bikini. Not a single thirst trap. All proper Chinese dress photos, of her on holiday, in elegant clothes.

 

Okay, she has 1405 followers. And she just added two new ones, incredibly old and ugly guys. I'm like a Greek God next to them. I can't believe she would add them. Most of them are like this, ugly old Farang. It's perplexing.

 

Why would she engage with us? She has no Only Fans. And going on 3 dates is a bit more than engaging. 

 

I don't know what happened. But she's still a very special girl. There is no nefarious motive. Whatever the reason for her disappearance, it's nothing bad. It's a her issue, not a me issue, but it's nothing bad. Just one of those things.

 

 

38 minutes ago, Prubangboy said:

Maybe her other option fell through.

 

Maybe she'll be in touch in the next few days. Who knows.

 

Anything is possible. 

 

Right?

31 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

 

She has these reels, these Instagram highlights, seven of them. 

 

Each of them has a specific theme. One has the theme restaurants. She basically did a slideshow with all the fancy restaurants she's been at, in CM, BKK, Ko Samui, etc, all over Thailand, that's where she added the photo of our dinner at Palette 137 Pllars. At first I thought each dinner was with her rich Taiwanese boyfriend. Now I realise, this is like a scalp bead, of all the guys who took her out, if they did good, she added them here. Her jar of hearts.

 

One highlight has her as a theme, just random pics of her and some of her thoughts typed on the photos. The other 5 reels are just holiays in Hong Kong, Beijing, Kyoto, Osaka, KL, Singapore and so on, Conrad Hotel and the finest hotels everywhere.

 

But she is far removed from an Only Fans girl, in her entire Instagram there is not one photo of her in a suggestive bikini. Not a single thirst trap. All proper Chinese dress photos, of her on holiday, in elegant clothes.

 

Okay, she has 1405 followers. And she just added two new ones, incredibly old and ugly guys. I'm like a Greek God next to them. I can't believe she would add them. Most of them are like this, ugly old Farang. It's perplexing.

 

Why would she engage with us? She has no Only Fans. And going on 3 dates is a bit more than engaging. 

 

I don't know what happened. But she's still a very special girl. There is no nefarious motive. Whatever the reason for her disappearance, it's nothing bad. It's a her issue, not a me issue, but it's nothing bad. Just one of those things.

 

 

 

Im not saying she does onlyfans, im saying she uses the same psychology 

3 minutes ago, Celsius said:

 

Im not saying she does onlyfans, im saying she uses the same psychology 

For what purpose? I've not been asked to pay any memberships. Will she sell me coconut water? 

1 minute ago, Cameroni said:

For what purpose? I've not been asked to pay any memberships. Will she sell me coconut water? 

 

The psychology of attracting simps. That's her target.

7 hours ago, Cameroni said:

Yah, that's generally true, you never know what chocolate you're going to get.

 

After the debacle with yet another virgin, and CM girl not confirming the date, I wrote to Phuket girl as if I were drunk. I said she doesn't have to work in any bar, I'll take care of her, I really like her etc., so completely the wrong things according to every wisdom. 

 

However, she responded very positively, called me out of the blue, is texting me non-stop now. I would like to fly her in, but she already specified the car she likes to be driven in is a Mercedes Benz. Your kind of girl.

 

The Filipina virgin also called me today. Told me she had sex with a customer at the bar, Steve. So I told her then no need for us to talk, she "I just wanted to talk to you". Texting me all angry after I hung up on her.

 

There's no loyalty anymore. Even the virgins cross over to the dark side.

 

Enjoy the cruise.

Do you what virgin means?

4 hours ago, Celsius said:

 

The psychology of attracting simps. That's her target.

How is it going to attract anyone if she ghosts after 3 dates? 

 

If her attention is to attract then just disappearing seems a poor strategy. 

58 minutes ago, emptypockets said:

Do you what virgin means?

 

She said she was a virgin. She was 18, you don't think she was?