9 hours ago, Cameroni said:

 

Because if he's a client, it's different to if it's her ex, or her boyfriend, or love of her life. I want to know what is happening here.

 

 

Of course not. But I want to know the truth about this person. For analysis and future strategy.

The next person will be different. You could try just being yourself, no strategy needed. 

1 hour ago, Cameroni said:

I hope she's not mentally ill. She's giving off those vibes. 

 

That's a 'yellow flag'. 

2 hours ago, Cameroni said:

 

The three periods really have me worried. She claims it's from some birth control implant??? 

 

The when I said it's best to go see a gynecologist she said "No it's hormones"???

I hope she's not mentally ill. She's giving off those vibes. 

Maybe change of plan is required. If you fly to Phuket you can escape easily. If she comes to your house in CM you may be trapped with a nutcase.

58 minutes ago, emptypockets said:

Maybe change of plan is required. If you fly to Phuket you can escape easily. If she comes to your house in CM you may be trapped with a nutcase.

 

I can get rid of them, obviously it's a last resort.

 

She also told me "do you mind if I have an infection"? When I asked why she had an infection no real replies.

 

I may die of some strange disease soon. All because this woman is good looking.

 

The medical bills alone will be astronomical. There's dentail issues too.

2 hours ago, Bacon1 said:

 

That's a 'yellow flag'. 

 

When we talk on the video calls she sometimes coos and aahs, I put it down to poor language skills. But it's very strange. Not gonna lie. Almost animalistic sounds.

2 hours ago, ChrisKC said:

The next person will be different. You could try just being yourself, no strategy needed. 

 

Yah, I thought the same, but if you think about it humans from an early age show they are born to deceive. Children already act sweet and pleasant when they want something, then act cross and angry when they dont' want something. As humans deception is our nature.

 

I should have born this in mind with CM girl. All her talk of "traditional Chinese parents", "Christianity is very serious in my life"....all the geisha serving at meals, the hand in my hand, the holding hands, ultimately it was all an act, designed to deceive. The ultimate aim was to hook a provider of resources.

 

That's why you can't be taken in by this act. Even when they come on to you and tell you they love you, you should assume it's an act, until you can verify it by actions. Lesson learned.

 

Never fall for an act.

 

And clearly, as this is the very nature of the game, you need a strategy.

7 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

 

Yah, I thought the same, but if you think about it humans from an early age show they are born to deceive. Children already act sweet and pleasant when they want something, then act cross and angry when they dont' want something. As humans deception is our nature.

 

I should have born this in mind with CM girl. All her talk of "traditional Chinese parents", "Christianity is very serious in my life"....all the geisha serving at meals, the hand in my hand, the holding hands, ultimately it was all an act, designed to deceive. The ultimate aim was to hook a provider of resources.

 

That's why you can't be taken in by this act. Even when they come on to you and tell you they love you, you should assume it's an act, until you can verify it by actions. Lesson learned.

 

Never fall for an act.

 

And clearly, as this is the very nature of the game, you need a strategy.

It is NOT a game. Honesty not your interest is it? It is true that some others may have a hidden agenda. Suss it out from observation and then move on. 

6 minutes ago, ChrisKC said:

It is NOT a game. Honesty not your interest is it? It is true that some others may have a hidden agenda. Suss it out from observation and then move on. 

 

Honesty? Lol, Sancta Simplicissitas! You poor innocent child. How did you make it to 80? You think there is honesty in 2025? 

 

How could I "suss" CM girl from "observation"? All the observation was A1 Plus Ultra positive! Always showed up for every date (until she didnt), fun, intelligent, engaged, asking serious questions, acting proper and well mannered, acting interested. ALL A GODDAMN ACT!!!

 

 

CM girl just texted me. Super professional. Thanking me for my message.

 

I may just hire her for the night when she's back in CM. Just for fun.

5 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

 

Honesty? Lol, Sancta Simplicissitas! You poor innocent child. How did you make it to 80? You think there is honesty in 2025? 

 

How could I "suss" CM girl from "observation"? All the observation was A1 Plus Ultra positive! Always showed up for every date (until she didnt), fun, intelligent, engaged, asking serious questions, acting proper and well mannered, acting interested. ALL A GODDAMN ACT!!!

 

 

Thank goodness, I don't NEED to trust you. You carry on believing everybody is the same as you. I for one am not! 

3 minutes ago, ChrisKC said:

Thank goodness, I don't NEED to trust you. You carry on believing everybody is the same as you. I for one am not! 

 

Lol, they're MUCH worse than me. This CM girl, she held on to my invite for her birthday until her Plan A was confirmed!.

 

Now I think about it, when we ate at KFC and she was on the phone for 15 minutes, that was no emergency. That was her Plan A confirming the trip tickets. THATS's why  she acted all cold after the KFC meal. That's when she KNEW she'd be going to Pattaya to bang.

 

Don't talk to me about honesty, tell some gullible fool.

52 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

 

I can get rid of them, obviously it's a last resort.

 

She also told me "do you mind if I have an infection"? When I asked why she had an infection no real replies.

 

I may die of some strange disease soon. All because this woman is good looking.

 

The medical bills alone will be astronomical. There's dentail issues too.

You sure can pick them!

5 minutes ago, emptypockets said:

You sure can pick them!

 

You've seen the photos, right?

 

We all have to die somehow. When I lie in bed with her tonight, it will be a beautiful death.

Just now, Cameroni said:

 

You've seen the photos, right?

Not of the infection.

Just now, emptypockets said:

Not of the infection.

 

I am hoping she just means a cough of some knid.

 

I't s probably not Syphillis or Typhus.

 

We have to be robust in these matters.

Just now, Cameroni said:

 

I am hoping she just means a cough of some knid.

 

I't s probably not Syphillis or Typhus.

 

We have to be robust in these matters.

Could be HIV if she's been around a bit.

I'd cancel if I was you.

17 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

 

Lol, they're MUCH worse than me. This CM girl, she held on to my invite for her birthday until her Plan A was confirmed!.

 

Now I think about it, when we ate at KFC and she was on the phone for 15 minutes, that was no emergency. That was her Plan A confirming the trip tickets. THATS's why  she acted all cold after the KFC meal. That's when she KNEW she'd be going to Pattaya to bang.

 

Don't talk to me about honesty, tell some gullible fool.

Some time ago, I stated that I never lie to anyone about anything. That is true. I am straight up. That must have hit you real hard. You might like to consider that others are sussing you and the women out by observation from your ramblings and the women's alleged responses that they are the ones arriving at conclusions a lot sooner than you. 

Just now, emptypockets said:

Could be HIV if she's been around a bit.

I'd cancel if I was you.

 

Oh oh. Well thanks for throwing that fly in my dinner.

 

These HIV tests are expensive. 

 

Goddamn.

5 minutes ago, ChrisKC said:

Some time ago, I stated that I never lie to anyone about anything. That is true. I am straight up. That must have hit you real hard.

 

Not at all, I believe you. I know a few people like this. I have a Thai friend who's the same. He's a Christian. Never lies.

 

The thing all these men have in common, they are not dating.

 

It would hit YOU hard, if you went out in the dating world today, you better believe it.

Anyway, it is time for a sober analysis of the CM girl situation. What went wrong?

 

1. Obviously CM girl was a master player, and a total act, a serial dater who dated more than any human on earth. With the sole purpose of enjoying her life, going on expensive trips, restaurants, and to show off to her girlfriends. This truth was not evident, due to ther masterful acting skills.

 

2.  Due to her high attractiveness, I caught feels far too fast, and the Oxytocin messed with my rational faculties. The many little red flags, photos of wads of cash, going on trips twice in 3 weeks, asking for an iphone case after date 3, it was all ignored because of this.

 

3. Restaurant dates are OUT, in 2025 with high value women, it is trips of 2 days at least to exciting locations that is the draw.

 

4. Slow approach is idiotic, you have to escalate like a beast and fast.

 

5. The key is not to listen to the words. But look at the ACTIONS. Date 4 was delayed "sorry on a trip", posting photos of wads of cash, asking for a phone case and finally, the real massive red flag, cancelling date 4 a mere 2 hours before the meeting "I'm on an errand" after you saw she's in a resort. OBVIOUSLY she was banging a guy, and she still got the benefit of the doubt. Absolutely terrible naivety on my part. I had to break it off then and there. But she was too attractive to me, and the Oxytocin haze was too numbing.

 

The moral of the story, you should not be affected by women of exceptional attractiveness, even if they act like a goddess and look like a goddess, you have to be prepared to walk away at any time and not be attached to this.

 

The only way to accomplish this? Date even more beautiful and attractive women. I was ill-prepared for CM girl and didn't realise this. I thought I had been with so many beautiful women, but CM girl was on another level alltogether. Her attractiveness was not just rooted in beauty, it emanated out of her, like lava from a volcano, positivity, femininity, education, refinement, manners, good English and conversation, the perfect enactment of honesty and modesty. Quite a spectacle, and a pleasure to experience it. But very dangerous. Could the most beautiful things be the most dangerous? Diamonds cut, Tigers kill. It surely is so.

7 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

Anyway, it is time for a sober analysis of the CM girl situation. What went wrong?

 

1. Obviously CM girl was a master player, and a total act, a serial dater who dated more than any human on earth. With the sole purpose of enjoying her life, going on expensive trips, restaurants, and to show off to her girlfriends. This truth was not evident, due to ther masetful acting skills.

 

2.  Due to her high attractiveness, I caught feels far too fast, and the Oxytocin messed with my rational faculties. The many little red flags, photos of wads of cash, going on trips twice in 3 weeks, asking for an iphone case after date 3, it was all ignored because of this.

 

3. Restaurant dates are OUT, in 2025 with high value women, it is trips of 2 days at least to exciting locations that is the draw.

 

4. Slow approach is idiotic, you have to escalate like a beast and fast.

He's getting worse fellow Members - you have noticed I am sure. 

11 minutes ago, ChrisKC said:

He's getting worse fellow Members - you have noticed I am sure. 

 

"Worse" in what way, Mr "Honesty"?

28 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

I had to break it off then and there. But she was too attractive to me, and the Oxytocin haze was too numbing.

 

Wake up, you broke off nothing as she was never into you. Also remember you lied to her from the beginning, as she did you. A match that was not made in heaven.  Stop trying to analyze everything and move on. But the same scenario is going to play out again and again. Why?  The type of woman you are trying to attract by basically lying about yourself is going to continue playing these games. There is a reason they are online and not in real life. 

1 minute ago, marin said:

Wake up, you broke off nothing as she was never into you. Also remember you lied to her from the beginning, as she did you. A match that was not made in heaven.  Stop trying to analyze everything and move on. But the same scenario is going to play out again and again. Why?  The type of woman you are trying to attract by basically lying about yourself is going to continue playing these games. There is a reason they are online and not in real life. 

 

No we had a dating relationship, that I foolishly prolonged, after she cancelled date 4, when I SAW she was at Pino Latte resort getting banged by a guy with almost near certainty.

 

That was the point to break off any contact with her for sure. Not to accept her request to drive to Big C. At that point I was lost already.

 

Obviously not a match made in heaven, as she's a quasi prostitute or massive serial dater out for material gain, however, this reality was only possible to uncover after some time.

 

I actually have high hopes for Phuket Girl. She's exceptionally honest, and does not seem like one to play games.

 

But yes, with online dating we have a serious problem. If we think about it, the best girls, aged18 to 23 will be locked down by that time, because they are so good, men will have locked them down. So those on the dating apps that are available, will have some problem and issue. Clearly.

So I thought I'd get a quick date with 18 year old waitress in, before Phuket Girl locks me down, and I texted her "You want to join me for breakfast"?

 

You know what she replied "I went to visit my friend in prison first"!

 

Hahahahaha, her friend in prison. I only mix with the creme de la creme, escorts, those in the prison milieu...

 

The thing is, you CAN'T see this from the photos...You find out later...

25 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

 

"Worse" in what way, Mr "Honesty"?

If you must know, all your unnecessary speculative waffle that in 78 pages has only made it more evident that you have no idea what you are doing. 

Please don't bother with a response - I have not learned anything new. 

So my cleaner is here. A Burmese- Chinese woman. Also happens to my psychotherapist in romantic affairs. So I told her the story with CM girl. And she told me what her husband did. He started an affair with another woman and then went to his wife, to ask "Can I love her". She has a family with two children.

 

Clearly, the tempation of beautiful women is too much to take for most men.

Speaking of beautiful women, I have an exceptional beauty on the hook, of all places from Chiang Dao, CM girl's stomping ground. A barista, she's so pretty, can't wait to meet her. She's coming to CM on the 4th.

 

Also 25. Very sweet over text.

18 year old waitress finally confirmed our date. 5 pm tonight. That gives me three hours before I have to pick up Phuket girl. A bit tight for a deflowering, but he who dares wins...

I just happened to read (the last 3 pages) of this thread. 

I don't have a clue about you Cameroni but I'm hooked, lol.

I have a similar mindset but I'm more cynical than you.

Well done so far, CM girl is a  hoe by any means or a part time freelancer..