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Blokes who marry 1st girlfriend

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I usually find they are complete tools. Can't find better, marry a 2 then pump out kids. The best blokes date around. I know a guy 50s never married best bloke ever. 

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  • I married my first wife when I was too young and foolish. Lasted a couple of years. Like modern statistics, I was remarried within a year of my divorce. That one was good, great even, for 10 years,

  • Have you actually ever ever been out with a real woman in your life.

  • You hire hookers and you ask about virgins. Rather ironic.

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Depends on the ethics of the one who chooses to never marry. I could give you a couple examples of forum members who arent exactly people to aspire to be

Just now, Harrisfan said:

Ugly virgins are still virgins

I will take that as a no.

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Just now, MalcolmB said:

I will take that as a no.

You hire hookers and you ask about virgins. Rather ironic.

7 minutes ago, Harrisfan said:

You hire hookers and you ask about virgins. Rather ironic.

Usually you pay extra for the Virgin hookers.

 

But I thought this subject was about marriage? 
I have never married any second hand women.
 

I know of only two guys in my entire life who have married the first girl they had. 
Both are still married but they have both indulged in others.

 

So have you ever asked your gf/wife how many guys have been through her yet? 
Or do you find that intimidating?

Met my first wife in yr 1 primary school, we married shortly after graduating college.

Pump out some kids and <deleted> her off when I turned 25!

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4 minutes ago, MalcolmB said:

Usually you pay extra for the Virgin hookers.

 

But I thought this subject was about marriage? 
I have never married any second hand women.
 

I know of only two guys in my entire life who have married the first girl they had. 
Both are still married but they have both indulged in others.

 

So have you ever asked your gf/wife how many guys have been through her yet? 
Or do you find that intimidating?

You never got married.

37 minutes ago, Harrisfan said:

I usually find they are complete tools. Can't find better, marry a 2 then pump out kids. The best blokes date around. I know a guy 50s never married best bloke ever. 

 

I married 3 times by 45.

 

My goal was 10, but my wife is super clingy.

 

 

17 minutes ago, Harrisfan said:

You never got married.

Nah.

 

54 minutes ago, Harrisfan said:

know a guy 50s never married best bloke ever. 

 

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Just now, MalcolmB said:

Nah.

 

 

But that's not you. 

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Considering the average age of guys when they come here, it's highly unlikely it would be their 1st girlfriend.

It also depends what the guy is looking for, some men, dont want to swim the sea of women. They'd rather find one that ticks the boxes for them and settle down, we are all different and have different needs.

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Have a friend in the US who married his first girlfriend, still married after nearly fifty years and has never been with another woman.

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I married my first wife when I was too young and foolish. Lasted a couple of years.
Like modern statistics, I was remarried within a year of my divorce. That one was good, great even, for 10 years, but then it too, tanked.
I remained a bachelor for the next 17 years, having a fine old time for myself. Plenty of interesting women around, no trouble finding company, but I was NOT about to get married again. Over those years, I had a couple of 'live-ins' but nothing really serious. We were 'playmates.'   Friends with benefits.


Then I met her...  We met for lunch on Saturday (interestingly enough, this was in Japan, but we arranged to meet for lunch at a Thai restaurant in Kyoto. (Foreshadow, foreshadow?) Sunday, we met to go sightseeing in Osaka. Wednesday evening, we met for coffee.
By Thursday, I knew I would marry this woman. No doubt in my mind.

 

We didn't get married right then. In fact, we dated, then lived together for another year or so, then walked into the City Hall and signed the papers.

That was over 30 years ago.  Still good.
 

1 hour ago, Harrisfan said:

I usually find they are complete tools. Can't find better, marry a 2 then pump out kids. The best blokes date around. I know a guy 50s never married best bloke ever. 

 

You know what the call a guy 40+ yrs old and never married yet ...

... extremely intelligent

... or gay

 

Myself, definitely not the 1st girlfriend, as didn't marry till 25, she was 19.  17/23 when dating and that seemed like a big age gap then :cheesy:   Seemed a common theme with my relationships, and gaps got wider as I got older 🙄

 

Married and she couldn't legally drink alcohol in some states.  Never had kids, as never met a woman that was mother worthy, until present wife, but didn't think it right to have one, at 50+ yrs old.

 

Plus I already had the village orphan at that point, and one is more than enough.

 

People wonder why they can't get out of that working, but no savings rut.   Live with those stupid choices.  Having kids when you can't afford them, along with depreciating 'look at me' toys on borrowed money  :cheesy:

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1 hour ago, Harrisfan said:

I usually find they are complete tools. Can't find better, marry a 2 then pump out kids. The best blokes date around. I know a guy 50s never married best bloke ever. 

Have you actually ever ever been out with a real woman in your life.

13 minutes ago, FolkGuitar said:

I married my first wife when I was too young and foolish. Lasted a couple of years.
Like modern statistics, I was remarried within a year of my divorce. That one was good, great even, for 10 years, but then it too, tanked.
I remained a bachelor for the next 17 years, having a fine old time for myself. Plenty of interesting women around, no trouble finding company, but I was NOT about to get married again. Over those years, I had a couple of 'live-ins' but nothing really serious. We were 'playmates.'   Friends with benefits.


Then I met her...  We met for lunch on Saturday (interestingly enough, this was in Japan, but we arranged to meet for lunch at a Thai restaurant in Kyoto. (Foreshadow, foreshadow?) Sunday, we met to go sightseeing in Osaka. Wednesday evening, we met for coffee.
By Thursday, I knew I would marry this woman. No doubt in my mind.

 

We didn't get married right then. In fact, we dated, then lived together for another year or so, then walked into the City Hall and signed the papers.

That was over 30 years ago.  Still good.
 

 

I had a standing rule, date 2 yrs before marriage, and kept to it, first 2 marriages.  After 2nd marriage, single for over 15 yrs.

 

Broke the 2 yr rule with first Thai wife, which ended less than 1 yr in :cheesy:

 

Didn't marry 2nd Thai wife till after living together for 8 yrs, and still living together now for total of 20 yrs.  Should be the last one for me :coffee1:

1 hour ago, Harrisfan said:

I usually find they are complete tools. Can't find better, marry a 2 then pump out kids. The best blokes date around. I know a guy 50s never married best bloke ever. 

I find that both members of those kinds of relationships, usually married right out of high school, are some of the most solid and committed relationships in the world.  Most guys nowadays are Incels, single, or chauvinistic ***holes who end up as sexpats in Thailand.  Unlike you, I find these guys to be rock-solid husbands, fathers, and members of their communities. I envy them.

1 hour ago, MalcolmB said:

Usually you pay extra for the Virgin hookers.

Why anyone would want a virgin is beyond me.  I'd rather have a randy 30 year old nympho.  FYI, I've had one virgin encounter and if it was anything is was an over-emotion roller-coaster and wayyyyyyyy too much work for reward.  

13 hours ago, Harrisfan said:

I usually find they are complete tools. Can't find better, marry a 2 then pump out kids. The best blokes date around. I know a guy 50s never married best bloke ever. 

 

You know a guy?

Why don't you ever say anything about yourself?

Did you marry your 1st gf? 2nd? 3rd?

Did they leave you? 

Did you ever even have a gf?

Show us why you're the best bloke we know. 

 

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Windup clickbait to attack other members from. Marry whoever you like.

1 minute ago, cjinchiangrai said:

Windup clickbait to attack other members from. Marry whoever you like.

Yep.................🤫

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AquaLung3 will be along soon to say that you marry the girl and get her 'brother' in the bargain.

6 minutes ago, save the frogs said:

 

You know a guy?

Why don't you ever say anything about yourself?

Did you marry your 1st gf? 2nd? 3rd?

Did they leave you? 

Did you ever even have a gf?

Show us why you're the best bloke we know. 

 

I think that is an absolute certainty. 1/10 odds on shot. 

43 minutes ago, connda said:

single, or chauvinistic ***holes who end up as sexpats in Thailand. 

You make it sound like a bad thing?

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2 hours ago, Harrisfan said:

I usually find they are complete tools. Can't find better, marry a 2 then pump out kids. The best blokes date around. I know a guy 50s never married best bloke ever. 

 

"I know a guy 50s never married best bloke ever."

 

Good luck and best wishes for the future.

 

 

 

 

12 hours ago, connda said:

Most guys nowadays are Incels, single, or chauvinistic ***holes who end up as sexpats in Thailand. 

 

yeah sexpats in thailand are abhorrent.

most of the women in that trade have failed marriages, by the way. 

41 minutes ago, connda said:

Why anyone would want a virgin is beyond me.  I'd rather have a randy 30 year old nympho.  FYI, I've had one virgin encounter and if it was anything is was an over-emotion roller-coaster and wayyyyyyyy too much work for reward.  

You train them up and always a tight fit.

And less likely to slut around and take all your money.

Marriage is sacred and I don’t think a female that has fellated and shared her genitals with other men quality.

 

Call me old fashioned.

6 minutes ago, save the frogs said:

 

yeah sexpats in thailand are abhorrent.

 

Dont be too hard on yourself.

Think of all the villages in Issan that benefitted.

 

 

6 minutes ago, save the frogs said:

most of the women in that trade have failed marriages, by the way. 

How do you know?

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