10 minutes ago, fredwiggy said:

I always get along with anyone who's normal. Those with a mental illness, like you, are the ones I don't.

And again, we can see the belief in being uniquely knowledgeable and superior. You, Freddy, can judge if people are normal or not. If they have mental illness or not. Only you. But that is based on your own preferences and opinions, right? Same opinions, that you tell other are wrong to have? No, wait! We already know that too. Your opinions and your judgement are much better and more correct than others.

1 minute ago, Gottfrid said:

And again, we can see the belief in being uniquely knowledgeable and superior. You, Freddy, can judge if people are normal or not. If they have mental illness or not. Only you. But that is based on your own preferences and opinions, right? Same opinions, that you tell other are wrong to have? No, wait! We already know that too. Your opinions and your judgement are much better and more correct than others.

Try reading up on psychology before you try to diagnose, as it isn't working. Again, stick to the facts, and don't exaggerate what I've said. Read before commenting, without skimming. Study before trying to diagnose anyone, as you are severely lacking in that area. There is no "we" here besides a few that all act much the same way. I don't go by opinions. I tell the truth. I use facts. if you can't see that, don't comment. Nothing wrong with another's opinion, if they leave it at that and not go further, trying to turn what I say around to fit their agenda, as I'm the only one that was there. I haven't gotten on your case, although you say some pretty strange things here, as you've seen other's comments to you.

20 minutes ago, Gottfrid said:

And again, Freddy is going on with his superiority. It´s amazing that such a smart guy like you made such a terrible mistake in life. Now when you continue to talk about it, it also seems that you can´t realize nor comprehend reality. It´s always wrong with other people, as you, Freddy, are perfect. At least in your own mind. Let´s take a few examples in your discussion technique:
In the third post, it stands that your posts don´t contain abuse. Really? In the first you call people too dense, implying faults with brain, directly telling that people present false information. The second is pointing out how blind a person must be to be in a relationship with the poster you are replying to and that she can only be decent if she left him and that he has a disorder. The 3rd post he is not at your level, because he are not as qualified to make any judgement, like you are all the time Freddy. Now a poster have problem with brain again, and you diagnose NDP syndrome from your keyboard.

We can clearly see what´s wrong here:

1. You consider yourself qualified to judge. No one else owns that level of capacity.
2. You are always right! (One might start to think how things could go so wrong for you then. On the other hand, we know Freddy. It´s always the other person who is wrong.)
3. You are a long-distance doctor that can judge a label anyone that does not fall in line with you with some kind of handicap such as brain functions or syndromes.
4. You are in the know about everything on the planet, and probably outside of this earth as well.
5. You have more and greater experience than anyone else.

Here we can see a pattern of grandiose sense of self-importance, and the belief in being uniquely knowledgeable and superior, a great lack of empathy, arrogant and dismissive attitude towards others and the need to be right. Simply cannot live with and have massive intolerance with. disagreement. I guess you used that shortcut before. Referring to NDP, Narcissistic Personality Disorder. If you combine what I described above, you will find that it fit very well into your own labelling of others. As I see this as a very extreme case, that´s been ongoing for years, one would probably also assume Delusional Disorder, and a portion of the Dunning-Kruger Effect.

Nowhere have I said I'm superior to anyone.

Everyone makes mistakes in relationships, or they would all marry the first person they're attracted to and stay together forever, including you.

I haven't been arguing with anyone besides him here, and in the past, him and a couple others who all act the same way. if you haven't noticed by now, don't get on my case with your exaggerations.

Calling trolls out on their twisting behavior isn't abuse. Pointing out an obvious personality disorder, as they have symptoms,isn't abuse, nor is sticking up for yourself against these types.

I am qualified to make that judgement, as I have studied psychology for decades, especially regarding narcissism. Why does one do this? Because they want to learn how to avoid and call out such miscreants, like I have here. Assuming i don't have the knowledge is your assumption, and you're wrong. This is a forum for discussing things, and arguing about them. It isn't to troll and stalk others like he and a few others do, and turn what they say around to make themselves feel better. Before you comment, make sure you aren't skimming, and know all the history, and exaggerating never works.

2 minutes ago, fredwiggy said:

Try reading up on psychology before you try to diagnose, as it isn't working. Again, stick to the facts, and don't exaggerate what I've said. Read before commenting, without skimming. Study before trying to diagnose anyone, as you are severely lacking in that area.

And again, no one knows same much as Freddy, and all that disagrees with you are wrong. No Freddy, it fits the pattern perfectly. Now I have to add that you are also living in denial. It might be based on shame. Or, should be anyway.

Nearly every friend I have in the US is single. Why? Because for a man in the US, who is past the age of 50, unless he is willing to get with a woman at least his age, his prospects are dim for finding love, or companionship. Some guys like me, simply prefer younger women. Not kids, but women who are 5, 10, 15, even 20 or 25 years younger than us. For a dozen very valid reasons. I could break them down, but why bother? The PC crew will jump on this and say it is not right. You should not be able to have this kind of life, without jumping over ridiculous hurdles! Means nothing to me. I do not do PC. Why be with a woman our age, if we do not need to? Nothing wrong with it, if it works for you. But It is virtually impossible for a 60 year old man in the US, to hook up with a 36 year old woman, unless she is very fat or very ugly, or he is a centi millionaire, or is famous. Period. It just does not happen in this day and age.

Here it is possible. Granted he will likely get with a woman of lesser means, who needs a guy who can provide some financial stability. So what? Who cares? Most women want financial stability anywhere in the world, whether they admit it or not. The difference is here the women are more honest about their financial needs and desires. I know a lot of men who have engaged in relationships with lovely, kind, supportive, humorous, and sexy women here, who are no longer lonely. We have very good lives. Fulfilling lives. Lives we could never dream of having back in the US, Oz, NZ, UK, Canada, or Scandinavia, where many of the women are so devoid of femininity and the very qualities that make them appealing to us. Not here. Thai women are very comfortable in their own skin and with their roles as woman. It gives them alot of power. And they are too savvy to walk away from that, as many Western women have.

Always remember if it's good it's only going to get better, and if there are problems they're going to manifest themselves over time. So the worst thing you can do is rush headlong into this thing. Man up and do your gender justice. Make us proud.

The best chance any man has is to really be patient and really take his time. The woman is usually going to push to move things forward because she has an agenda, and the man always has to push back. If you're not willing to be patient, if you're not willing to abide by my timeline then I'm just going to walk.

Always remember, time is your ally, not hers.

You really have a simple mind, as you fail to see what others write and like him, turn what's said around. Now go back, and read everything I've ever said, and then you might see you've been very wrong in your judgement, as you aren't near qualified from what you've just said. Nothing wrong with disagreeing with anyone. It's how you disagree.

How am I living in denial if you know nothing about my life besides what I've said here? How can you take what I said and turn it around with no evidence to the contrary? You can't. The same as he always does. That you are on the same page as him shows me more of how you think, and to not interact with you, as you made a judgement about me that is totally false, and exaggerated what I've been saying, which again, doesn't work. Stick to the facts or don't comment.

44 minutes ago, fredwiggy said:

Nothing wrong with disagreeing with anyone. It's how you disagree.

Yes, of course! Once again, we must follow Freddy´s rules on engagement and ways to disagree, as they are the only ones that are right. You see. Your given a spade, and you just keep on digging.

Yes, of course! Once again, we must follow Freddy´s rules on engagement and ways to disagree, as they are the only ones that are right. You see. Your given a spade, and you just keep on digging.

1 minute ago, Gottfrid said:

Maybe, but you're not seeing I'm digging your hole. Again, very simply, go back and read ALL of my comments before you reply, as you assume a lot and exaggerate things. It has nothing to do with opinions but factual. There's a large difference between disagreeing and taking it way over the top and accusing me of wrongdoing, especially from what I've said. He and a couple of others here do it all the time, and they are the only ones I have a problem with, and others here also have that same problem so I'm not alone.

The only thing I've done wrong here is feed the trolls too long, which maybe has me coming across as arrogant or combative, but again it's not with anyone else.

You have been alive long enough to know the evil that some women bring, and that it's highly likely you will encounter more than a few in your life if you reach 7 decades. Arguing with someone who trolls me here is not the same as how you act with your women, children or friends in real life, as you should know, having a wife and children. He thinks because I argue with his nonsense that I do this with women in my life. The fact is, only a few women in my life have been abusive and disturbed, along with anyone else I've encountered, and I left them as soon as possible, because there were children involved and that takes time.

These aren't my rules but rules of engagement with anyone.

I made and learned from most of my mistakes in the USA. OK, except for wife #3 (Thai in TH), miss judged that one, along with the prior 4 long term relationships in USA ... oops. #3 began & ended the quickest of all relationships.

Kept me single for about 5 yrs after divorce, or having someone move in. Must have finally learned.

Only after 8 yrs of living together, did we (present wife) even get married. Just for the hell of it, for when one of us dies. Added security for me, as she already owns everything.

Wow, who would have thought, more time together before marriage, means longer marriage 🙄 8 yrs / 12 & counting (20+). Previous marriages, dating / married ...

... 2 yrs / < 2 yrs

... 2 yrs / 1 yrs

... 11 weeks / < 1 yr

Just live together, no marriage, great sex, only reason together

... 3 ish yrs

... 3 ish yrs

34 ish yrs of relationships, leaves 20+ yrs of being single. Not a bad split of time in & out of relationships. Lucked out, as no real regrets.

So, anyone need relationship advice, I'm batting 167

1 hour ago, fredwiggy said:

Again, very simply, go back and read ALL of my comments before you reply, as you assume a lot and exaggerate things. It has nothing to do with opinions but factual.

There is nothing factual in calling people you have not ever met, morons, Trolls etc. That's just your opinion based on your heightened emotions.

I'm sure he did read ALL of your posts and many others over time and has formed an opinion. But you cannot accept that he has an opinion that differs from yours, so you go on and on, hoping that your browbeating will somehow change his mind. Not understanding that you are merely reinforcing it.

1 hour ago, fredwiggy said:

There's a large difference between disagreeing and taking it way over the top and accusing me of wrongdoing, especially from what I've said

I accused you of abusing me for having a different opinion. The evidence is there for all to see.

I asked you if you ever considered that your behaviour might have contributed to the behaviour of your ex partners.

Which of those behaviours do you consider 'over the top'? Constant abuse or the mere suggestion that you might wish to take a closer look at your own behaviour before you label others as assuming, skimming, morons, mentally ill, covert narcissists, NPD...

If people think that you are 'arrogant and combative', there must be a reason for that. Have you considered that?

Your claim that it is not with anyone else is simply not true. I can point to another thread on this very day where you've been arguing with someone else. Same long winded style.

1 hour ago, fredwiggy said:

He thinks because I argue with his nonsense that I do this with women in my life

Yes, I do believe that. I think it's quite likely, after seeing the way that you have behaved here for years, that you are a completely different person with whom to live. For sure you impose the same behaviour on them. Always right and not ever backing down, even when you are wrong. Simply because you cannot conceive that you are ever wrong.

You think everyone is wrong when they make that observation about you? That it's only Trolls and Morons that make that observation?

No one expects you to change at your age, but at least try to accept that other people see you differently from the way that you see yourself.

I was married to a thai lady for 11 years..2 kids together..moved to my country 19 years ago.Divorced 8 year ago.I speak thai well.My experience when visiting other foreigners in Thailand they brag what a great sexlife they have and so on.When i listen to the wifes its often opposite.They complain nothing happens in bed for years and another thing is the drinking on daily bases.And of course the lack of money.I know some of these ladies just lying, anyway its a totally different story compared to what the foreigner telling.I was in my embassy and a guy came inside with his young lady and a newborn.She admit to everyone who asked that he was not the real father..it was a young thai guy.I took a bus from morchit and a young lady was followed to the bus station by a much older foreigner.He tried to kiss her but she refused.After a short ride she told the bus driver to stop and she left the bus.Many people on the bus told her that this was not good but she didn't say anything and left the bus.

5 minutes ago, IsmeUno said:

There is nothing factual in calling people you have not ever met, morons, Trolls etc. That's just your opinion based on your heightened emotions.

I'm sure he did read ALL of your posts and many others over time and has formed an opinion. But you cannot accept that he has an opinion that differs from yours, so you go on and on, hoping that your browbeating will somehow change his mind. Not understanding that you are merely reinforcing it.

I accused you of abusing me for having a different opinion. The evidence is there for all to see.

I asked you if you ever considered that your behaviour might have contributed to the behaviour of your ex partners.

Which of those behaviours do you consider 'over the top'? Constant abuse or the mere suggestion that you might wish to take a closer look at your own behaviour before you label others as assuming, skimming, morons, mentally ill, covert narcissists, NPD...

If people think that you are 'arrogant and combative', there must be a reason for that. Have you considered that?

Your claim that it is not with anyone else is simply not true. I can point to another thread on this very day where you've been arguing with someone else. Same long winded style.

Yes, I do believe that. I think it's quite likely, after seeing the way that you have behaved here for years, that you are a completely different person with whom to live. For sure you impose the same behaviour on them. Always right and not ever backing down, even when you are wrong. Simply because you cannot conceive that you are ever wrong.

You think everyone is wrong when they make that observation about you? That it's only Trolls and Morons that make that observation?

No one expects you to change at your age, but at least try to accept that other people see you differently from the way that you see yourself.

6 minutes ago, IsmeUno said:

There is nothing factual in calling people you have not ever met, morons, Trolls etc. That's just your opinion based on your heightened emotions.

I'm sure he did read ALL of your posts and many others over time and has formed an opinion. But you cannot accept that he has an opinion that differs from yours, so you go on and on, hoping that your browbeating will somehow change his mind. Not understanding that you are merely reinforcing it.

I accused you of abusing me for having a different opinion. The evidence is there for all to see.

I asked you if you ever considered that your behaviour might have contributed to the behaviour of your ex partners.

Which of those behaviours do you consider 'over the top'? Constant abuse or the mere suggestion that you might wish to take a closer look at your own behaviour before you label others as assuming, skimming, morons, mentally ill, covert narcissists, NPD...

If people think that you are 'arrogant and combative', there must be a reason for that. Have you considered that?

Your claim that it is not with anyone else is simply not true. I can point to another thread on this very day where you've been arguing with someone else. Same long winded style.

Yes, I do believe that. I think it's quite likely, after seeing the way that you have behaved here for years, that you are a completely different person with whom to live. For sure you impose the same behaviour on them. Always right and not ever backing down, even when you are wrong. Simply because you cannot conceive that you are ever wrong.

You think everyone is wrong when they make that observation about you? That it's only Trolls and Morons that make that observation?

No one expects you to change at your age, but at least try to accept that other people see you differently from the way that you see yourself.

Again, as always assuming. You act like a person who has NPD, ALL THE TIME, and seeing I've studied this for decades, yes I call them as I see them. It comes from experience , in personal observation and tons of research. Not an opinion when all the factors are present. You constantly, like now, deflect, trying to put the blame on me, when all I've ever done is tell the truth about my life. You have a deep rooted agenda against people who call you out.

He made a judgement based on a small amount of replies, and he was wrong in every aspect. "You're sure he did read" means nothing, as you're never sure about anything here, and only make those assumptions, guesses, misguided theories, all of which are wrong, as again, you were not there.

That you agree with him further disproves his words, as they're much the same as your exaggerations and assumptions. Adults who constantly assume things about others with no evidence aren't acting like adults but teenagers who are acting out against authority..

I have no heightened emotions as that's yet another assumption. I see things exactly as they are, because, yes, you keep forgetting I'm the one who's studied psychology and why people act the way they do. I've had your number since day one, and you've been butt hurt all along. You have no logical comebacks. All assumptions and exaggerations, because you haven't the emotional maturity to tackle a problem without going into your child mode of reacting. You've shown this all along, actually thinking you'll enlist others here in your ignorance. Sorry, but this isn't a teenaged forum.

'm not abusing you calling you out on your behavior here. I'm defending my position against a troll, who changes usernames thinking he's hiding his behavior, and who comes back time and again, in every topic I'm in, because again, I proved you wrong in our first encounter. Get over it and stop acting like a child. I haven't been wrong about you, and being your type of character, you'll keep coming back, trying to disprove me every time.What you believe means nothing. You aren't qualified to diagnose anyone, and what you have has no cure

I said i wasn't going to feed the trolls, and I broke my rule, so see this as a parting shot, as you aren't worth anyone's time here, and I again apologize to the other members here for wasting their space here.

3 hours ago, fredwiggy said:

Again, as always assuming. You act like a person who has NPD, ALL THE TIME, and seeing I've studied this for decades, yes I call them as I see them. It comes from experience , in personal observation and tons of research. Not an opinion when all the factors are present. You constantly, like now, deflect, trying to put the blame on me, when all I've ever done is tell the truth about my life. You have a deep rooted agenda against people who call you out.

He made a judgement based on a small amount of replies, and he was wrong in every aspect. "You're sure he did read" means nothing, as you're never sure about anything here, and only make those assumptions, guesses, misguided theories, all of which are wrong, as again, you were not there.

That you agree with him further disproves his words, as they're much the same as your exaggerations and assumptions. Adults who constantly assume things about others with no evidence aren't acting like adults but teenagers who are acting out against authority..

I have no heightened emotions as that's yet another assumption. I see things exactly as they are, because, yes, you keep forgetting I'm the one who's studied psychology and why people act the way they do. I've had your number since day one, and you've been butt hurt all along. You have no logical comebacks. All assumptions and exaggerations, because you haven't the emotional maturity to tackle a problem without going into your child mode of reacting. You've shown this all along, actually thinking you'll enlist others here in your ignorance. Sorry, but this isn't a teenaged forum.

'm not abusing you calling you out on your behavior here. I'm defending my position against a troll, who changes usernames thinking he's hiding his behavior, and who comes back time and again, in every topic I'm in, because again, I proved you wrong in our first encounter. Get over it and stop acting like a child. I haven't been wrong about you, and being your type of character, you'll keep coming back, trying to disprove me every time.What you believe means nothing. You aren't qualified to diagnose anyone, and what you have has no cure

I said i wasn't going to feed the trolls, and I broke my rule, so see this as a parting shot, as you aren't worth anyone's time here, and I again apologize to the other members here for wasting their space here.

Yeah, yeah! In your eyes you are our superior in all areas, Freddy. Just sad you never understand how big of a fool you make out of yourself every time.

As usual, you have given me a good laugh. Have a great day!

1 minute ago, Gottfrid said:

Yeah, yeah! In your eyes you are our superior in all areas, Freddy. Just sad you never understand how big of a fool you make out of yourself every time.

As usual, you have given me a good laugh. Have a great day!

A fool is a person who thinks they can think for others, or assumes things about them without evidence. Next time, concentrate on things I've actually said instead of what you made up in your mind.

1 minute ago, fredwiggy said:

A fool is a person who thinks they can think for others, or assumes things about them without evidence. Next time, concentrate on things I've actually said instead of what you made up in your mind.

I took all the things I pointed out from your posts. Are you saying you let other people post for you or are not aware that you posted it yourself. This is starting to be tragic Freddy. Please compose yourself.

1 minute ago, Gottfrid said:

I took all the things I pointed out from your posts. Are you saying you let other people post for you or are not aware that you posted it yourself. This is starting to be tragic Freddy. Please compose yourself.

No, you turned what I said around. I know what I write, and have never in my life said I'm superior to anyone. In my mind, everyone is equal. How they treat others make them good or bad. Assuming how I live my life from words typed here is ludicrous. Assuming anything about anyone without evidence is ignorant.

You're starting to act like that other yo-yo, and it will ruin your reputation. Trust me you don't want to enter that category.

Don't take things personally when I correct you. I'm honest to a fault and have no reason to tell a story. Everyone makes mistakes in their relationships as I have mine, but what I've said all along is truth.

If you go by what I've said here, you would see I'm not a liar or exaggerator, as I stick to my stories and have no reason to BS anyone.

2 minutes ago, fredwiggy said:

No, you turned what I said around. I know what I write, and have never in my life said I'm superior to anyone. In my mind, everyone is equal. How they treat others make them good or bad. Assuming how I live my life from words typed here is ludicrous. Assuming anything about anyone without evidence is ignorant.

You're starting to act like that other yo-yo, and it will ruin your reputation. Trust me you don't want to enter that category.

Don't take things personally when I correct you. I'm honest to a fault and have no reason to tell a story. Everyone makes mistakes in their relationships as I have mine, but what I've said all along is truth.

If you go by what I've said here, you would see I'm not a liar or exaggerator, as I stick to my stories and have no reason to BS anyone.

You are truly amazing! I didn´t turn around anything. I used what you posted, to make you understand exactly how it sounds and come across as.

But never mind Freddy, you will never understand that. After that, you are telling me to not take things personally. But Freddy, that´s what you do all the time. You also still seem to think you correct people. Again, you are showing your superiority complex. They simply do not come dumber or thicker! Nothing really sticks on, right?

And sure Freddy. People make mistakes in their life regarding all from relationship and marriage to just as small as stepping on a nail. I did too, with my first marriage, but I don´t blame her for everything, I don´t paint her out to be evil or an idiot or moron. I just understand that we did not fit together, and it happened after a few years. We had house and other things and had to split that as good and fair as possible. I don´t walk around bitter about that, and I don´t moan about it, and telling everyone it true and it´s so bad and sad for me. Like you do, Freddy!

On 3/21/2026 at 12:43 PM, The Cobra said:

Have you found your views on relationships changed since living in Thailand?

When I'm with a girl, at times I like to help out her family.

This wouldn't occur back in Oz

1 hour ago, fredwiggy said:

No, you turned what I said around. I know what I write, and have never in my life said I'm superior to anyone.

How can it be that you are completely blind to your outrageous behaviour? You constantly claim to have more experience than anyone else in an range of subjects, whilst knowing nothing about the other person at all. The difference is that we know a lot about you, from the horse's mouth.

Now that yet another member has pointed out exactly what some of us have noticed from you over the years, you are now attacking that person, accusing them of assuming and skimming... The same old phrases trotted out year after year. Of course it's easy to imagine that your ex-partners would get sick of that...literally.

1 hour ago, fredwiggy said:

Don't take things personally when I correct you.

Is this a joke? Perhaps you should at least try to practice what you preach.

You cannot understand @Gottfrid even though to me what he is saying is elementary. It totally escapes you. It seems mental illness follows you around. So many of your partners, (according to you) evil and mentally ill.

You are a perfect case study.

1 hour ago, fredwiggy said:

1 hour ago, Gottfrid said:

You are truly amazing! I didn´t turn around anything. I used what you posted, to make you understand exactly how it sounds and come across as.

But never mind Freddy, you will never understand that. After that, you are telling me to not take things personally. But Freddy, that´s what you do all the time. You also still seem to think you correct people. Again, you are showing your superiority complex. They simply do not come dumber or thicker! Nothing really sticks on, right?

And sure Freddy. People make mistakes in their life regarding all from relationship and marriage to just as small as stepping on a nail. I did too, with my first marriage, but I don´t blame her for everything, I don´t paint her out to be evil or an idiot or moron. I just understand that we did not fit together, and it happened after a few years. We had house and other things and had to split that as good and fair as possible. I don´t walk around bitter about that, and I don´t moan about it, and telling everyone it true and it´s so bad and sad for me. Like you do, Freddy!

Pretty nasty post again there, boy. Your ugly is showing.

1 minute ago, IsmeUno said:

Pretty nasty post again there, boy. Your ugly is showing.

I highly recommend that you contact the manager.

2 minutes ago, nick supreme said:

I highly recommend that you contact the manager.

He is who he is. Nothing is going to change for the better with him. He has to live with himself. I can simply ignore him 😊

1 minute ago, IsmeUno said:

How can it be that you are completely blind to your outrageous behaviour? You constantly claim to have more experience than anyone else in an range of subjects, whilst knowing nothing about the other person at all. The difference is that we know a lot about you, from the horse's mouth.

Now that yet another member has pointed out exactly what some of us have noticed from you over the years, you are now attacking that person, accusing them of assuming and skimming... The same old phrases trotted out year after year. Of course it's easy to imagine that your ex-partners would get sick of that...literally.

Is this a joke? Perhaps you should at least try to practice what you preach.

You cannot understand @Gottfrid even though to me what he is saying is elementary. It totally escapes you. It seems mental illness follows you around. So many of your partners, (according to you) evil and mentally ill.

You are a perfect case study.

1 minute ago, IsmeUno said:

It's expected that you stick together, as you both assume what others do, with the only evidence being the truth I said about myself. You both exaggerate what I say, turn things around and expect others to follow your ignorance. They aren't. You and a few others act the same way with most everyone here, hence your reputations as trolls. Always assuming, and always wrong, yet you come back every time and say much the same thing.

Raging, hysteria, abusive, when it's none of the above, and funny thing, you also know you're wrong, but like a child who's been corrected, you hold that angst inside, lashing out in the same way every time, not smart enough to come up with new material so you resort to the same veiled insults, ignorant to the fact you're so beneath me, along with everyone else here, and think you somehow belong here. You change names constantly, which in itself is very strange behavior, not understanding you aren't anything but transparent.

Yes, you use the same old phrases topic after topic, but you will be ignored from now on, letting others see you as you are, as you can't resist being your usual petulant self, boy.

On 3/21/2026 at 6:53 PM, Rockyroad said:

She looks like a million other women her age.

Is that you back Bignok? Easing yourself in gently and trying to slip under the radar?

38 minutes ago, fredwiggy said:

It's expected that you stick together, as you both assume what others do, with the only evidence being the truth I said about myself. You both exaggerate what I say, turn things around and expect others to follow your ignorance. They aren't. You and a few others act the same way with most everyone here, hence your reputations as trolls. Always assuming, and always wrong, yet you come back every time and say much the same thing.

Raging, hysteria, abusive, when it's none of the above, and funny thing, you also know you're wrong, but like a child who's been corrected, you hold that angst inside, lashing out in the same way every time, not smart enough to come up with new material so you resort to the same veiled insults, ignorant to the fact you're so beneath me, along with everyone else here, and think you somehow belong here. You change names constantly, which in itself is very strange behavior, not understanding you aren't anything but transparent.

Yes, you use the same old phrases topic after topic, but you will be ignored from now on, letting others see you as you are, as you can't resist being your usual petulant self, boy.

You are describing yourself. It's all you really know. You attribute your symptoms to others. Projection.

3 minutes ago, IsmeUno said:

You are describing yourself. It's all you really know. Projection.

When someone reads up on narcissistic behavior for decades, it's not too smart trying to deflect your behavior onto them (me). Others here are also very aware of your disorder, and seeing I'll be ignoring you for the most part after this, you'll have your hands full, as pointing you out all this time has most everyone on AN knowing all about you.

If your girlfriend is reading this. Girl, wait until he takes a shower, then run for the hills, as it'll only get worse with age, as you likely know. Take any cash lying around, seeing you probably paid for more then he did during your sentence and you deserve a refund.

1 minute ago, fredwiggy said:

When someone reads up on narcissistic behavior for decades...

That's not normal behaviour, is it?

The rest of your post speaks for itself.

4 minutes ago, IsmeUno said:

That's not normal behaviour, is it?

The rest of your post speaks for itself.

Sure it is, as every psychiatrist, psychologist, counselor and avid learner all do it. And look, it makes it easy for me to spot characters like you.

11 hours ago, IsmeUno said:

An interesting perspective. I don't consider that I'm stalking @fredwiggy , but, in the appropriate setting/forum, challenging his perception that anyone who doesn't agree with his version of events, is "mentally ill", a "moron", a "Troll" amongst other varied forms of abuse. It's simply a discussion between peers.

Bear in mind that my partner is a qualified counsellor amongst other things, so the depth of conversation may be somewhat different from what we see here on a daily basis.

What is normal for me/us is clearly not the norm for most here. What for me is a normal 'in depth' conversation, is a reason for some to become defensive and even abusive.

As you can see, when someone challenges my version of events, even though I may be sceptical of their motives(not referring to you in this case), it's not my nature to resort to abuse.

Seeing how he behaves when challenged brings into question his version of events with concern to his ex-partners. Everything from 'covert narcissist', to 'abusive', 'mentally ill'...whilst refusing to countenance that his own behaviour might have something to do with his 'success' with women.

I think it's natural and healthy to challenge each other, to a certain extent. There is certainly no malice aforethought.

Thanks for the nice reponse. You're a lucky man it seems and so am I.

I don't know... I think he has been struggling for years and another beat down isn't needed. Fred only listens to himself and he isn't going to change. He has his story and he is going to his grave with it.

1 hour ago, atpeace said:

Thanks for the nice reponse. You're a lucky man it seems and so am I.

I don't know... I think he has been struggling for years and another beat down isn't needed. Fred only listens to himself and he isn't going to change. He has his story and he is going to his grave with it.

Thing is...I don't consider it a beatdown. Not harming him at all. He's hurting himself. My suggestion is simply that he opens his mind to the possibility that his behaviour can have a negative effect on his relationships. That goes for us all. Once you are able to do that, you can have a conversation.

What happens when a potential partner challenges his version of events? Does she become a moron? A covert narcissist? One who assumes? It doesn't take a great leap to see the possibility of such behaviour leaking into his close personal relationships. Can he state categorically that he has not ever behaved that way with family and close partners? These are questions he needs to pose for himself. There is no beatdown occurring. No looking down the nose at anyone. Just food for thought.