Why do foreigners still assume Thai girls are easy?

[drronnie]

On 9/24/2016 at 9:28 AM, ardokano said:

there are you from?

actually I am half Thai

[gemguy]

On Friday, September 16, 2016 at 2:42 PM, mike1967 said:

Read into this what you will.

I have signed up to a thai dating website. I received lots of interest and messages but got fed up with too many conversations surrounding the conversation of money. One particular girl was looking for "true love" but also wanted 5,000,000 baht from a westerner for the entitlement to marry her. She had already been married to a Thai man and had children.

I changed my profile adding, "please do not talk or ask about money". Guess what? The interest in me has dropped by 95 percent.

I'm not making any judgements but what does this tell you?

I hear you......

It tells you that you have to learn to separate the money hungry ones from the ones that are not gold diggers.......until then, carry on enjoying their feminine presence with as many as you can ........if you know what I mean...lol

[Clay23]

I do believe this. Is this not the case? I was planning a trip to thailand

[chickenslegs]

13 minutes ago, Clay23 said:

I do believe this. Is this not the case? I was planning a trip to thailand

 

It is not permitted to discuss the details of prostitution on this forum.

 

If you are intending to pay for companionship here, you need to look at the more liberal websites.

 

If you believe that Thai girls (non-professionals) are easy - you are in for a disappointing trip.

[bikerlou47]

People who stay in tourist areas have no idea what a real rhqi girl is all about

[Falconator]

Actually, it's the same way the other way around too. A significant number of Thai women (yes, non-bar women, but not all of them) think that foreigners are easy, clueless targets. For money extraction purposes of course.

 

[spidermike007]

On 9/16/2016 at 2:42 PM, mike1967 said:

Read into this what you will. 

I have signed up to a thai dating website. I received lots of interest and messages but got fed up with too many conversations surrounding the conversation of money. One particular girl was looking for "true love" but also wanted 5,000,000 baht from a westerner for the entitlement to marry her. She had already been married to a Thai man and had children. 

I changed my profile adding, "please do not talk or ask about money". Guess what? The interest in me has dropped by 95 percent.

I'm not making any judgements but what does this tell you?

 

Funny that. And according to sin sod etiquette, if a woman has been married before, and especially if she has a child, her value on that market is greatly diminished. Perhaps you should make her aware of that, and offer her 100,000. She might be worth that, but probably no more. Maybe. LOL. 

 

There are alot of dreamers here. The word has gotten around that there were some very, very dumb foreigners who came up with huge amounts of money. Stories of guys paying 5 million travel the nation fast. Some of these stories even make it into the Bangkok Post or the Nation! How is that for publicity? So, some of the women have their heads in the ionosphere when it comes to their own market value. Not a whole lot different than in the West, in that regard.

 

Fortunately there are still some good women who have a more sensible view of things. Those are the ones you are seeking. It is all about qualifiying, and making sure you are dealing with a good woman, with reasonable expectations, a reasonable degree of emotional development (not easy to find), and alot else to offer. They are out there. Lots of them.

[marko kok prong]

have dated 3 non bar girls including my current girl friend,since my divorce,live in a non tourist area,cracked them all on first date,Stickman also wrote about this in an interview he did with some girls who worked in a legal office,he reckoned 80% would do it on the first date,Philippines even easier,they ask you out ! Then again i am not some vast ,beer gutted ,stinking yob who can barely string two sentence's together,with hair sprouting from every orofice and ears like a gibbon. 

[georgemandm]

57 minutes ago, marko kok prong said:

have dated 3 non bar girls including my current girl friend,since my divorce,live in a non tourist area,cracked them all on first date,Stickman also wrote about this in an interview he did with some girls who worked in a legal office,he reckoned 80% would do it on the first date,Philippines even easier,they ask you out ! Then again i am not some vast ,beer gutted ,stinking yob who can barely string two sentence's together,with hair sprouting from every orofice and ears like a gibbon. 

Very good and very true ,I agree with you and I not date bar moles did that bs ,  now have one that's is ok . But I not fall  in love like most of them here . 

i am not what you said but the hair thing will happen to you when you get older mark my words haha .

[YeahSiam]

5 hours ago, marko kok prong said:

have dated 3 non bar girls including my current girl friend,since my divorce,live in a non tourist area,cracked them all on first date,

 

I see you're still keeping it classy, marko.

I wouldn't mind your typically boorish and lascivious turn of phrase but for the fact that you always seem to inject large amounts of cash into these relationships and always end up regretting it.

 

[marko kok prong]

Just now, YeahSiam said:

 

I see you're still keeping it classy, marko.

I wouldn't mind your typically boorish and lascivious turn of phrase but for the fact that you always seem to inject large amounts of cash into these relationships and always end up regretting it.

 

i can tell you missed me.

[marko kok prong]

Anyway define large amounts of cash,i have never injected what i could not worry about losing.

[YeahSiam]

14 minutes ago, marko kok prong said:

Anyway define large amounts of cash,i have never injected what i could not worry about losing.

 

Oh really?

I think the fact that you had to go back to work for 6 months suggests otherwise especially when you reveled in claiming you "would never have to work again".

[marko kok prong]

2 minutes ago, YeahSiam said:

 

Oh really?

I think the fact that you had to go back to work for 6 months suggests otherwise especially when you reveled in claiming you "would never have to work again".

But i don't have too,i actually enjoy it,keeps the mind and body active,but i don't need too,i get bored otherwise.

[Falconator]

It's mainly due to the ridiculous rat race among many Thai single mothers and divorcees to get their Farang cash cow. They think it's easy to get foreigners to end up doing this. Now who's the "easy" person here.

 

Note that it was most likely not the Farang's own idea to do all this.

 

http://www.siamok.com/s/165650

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Edited December 13, 2016 by Falconator

[georgemandm]

30 minutes ago, Falconator said:

It's mainly due to the ridiculous rat race among many Thai single mothers and divorcees to get their Farang cash cow. They think it's easy to get foreigners to end up doing this. Now who's the "easy" person here.

 

Note that it was most likely not the Farang's own idea to do all this.

 

http://www.siamok.com/s/165650

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

That ????  W Is why thailand is so ???? Up .

not the first  and not the last .

mate I agree with you one million % .

but it will never stop so I just look and laugh at them .

you think he is alone no way lots of them come here sell the lot back home and throw it at Thais .

do you thank a thai woman would do the same sell the lot in thailand and move to the west no way .

you see on this tv sit you tell it how it is and most of them get up set with the truth and the truth hurts them , so they try to put you down by having a go at you in anyway they can .

like lambs to the  slaughter most western man in thailand.

[Falconator]

1 hour ago, georgemandm said:

That ????  W Is why thailand is so ???? Up .

not the first  and not the last .

mate I agree with you one million % .

but it will never stop so I just look and laugh at them .

you think he is alone no way lots of them come here sell the lot back home and throw it at Thais .

do you thank a thai woman would do the same sell the lot in thailand and move to the west no way .

you see on this tv sit you tell it how it is and most of them get up set with the truth and the truth hurts them , so they try to put you down by having a go at you in anyway they can .

like lambs to the  slaughter most western man in thailand.

 

Of course, the Western NGO's and PC media have it all backwards. Many Thai women are exploiting Western men, not the other way around. There are definitely some women who truly love their Western husbands and not for their money, but the business side of things tends to overshadow such relationships.

 

Thailand is the only country where you go to some rural village seemingly in the middle of nowhere - and voila - there are over 20 big houses built by foreign men for their Thai wives and girlfriends. Inevitably, this causes a frantic rush among everyone to try to catch up with the Siriporn's, so many ladies (bar and non-bar alike) will find ways to leech off foreign elderly people's $1,000-per-month pensions as much as possible. These villages are mostly in Khon Kaen, Roi Et, Srisaket, Buriram, Surin, Udon Thani, and all the other likely places in Isan.

 

The husbands almost all come from Germanic-speaking countries (NW Europe + Anglosphere), for whatever reason. Nordic and Anglo men tend to defer to their women a lot more than men from other cultures, and many Thai women are keen to take advantage of this. Men from many East Asian and Middle Eastern countries who visit Thailand are actually financially better off than the average NW European and Anglosphere man, but they tend to avoid marrying these women.

 

Of course there are exceptions to this trend, but this trend is so widespread that is it just getting downright scary. Thai women just aren't worth that much!

 

[georgemandm]

16 minutes ago, Falconator said:

 

Of course, the Western NGO's and PC media have it all backwards. Many Thai women are exploiting Western men, not the other way around. There are definitely some women who truly love their Western husbands and not for their money, but the business side of things tends to overshadow such relationships.

 

Thailand is the only country where you go to some rural village seemingly in the middle of nowhere - and voila - there are over 20 big houses built by foreign men for their Thai wives and girlfriends. Inevitably, this causes a frantic rush among everyone to try to catch up with the Siriporn's, so many ladies (bar and non-bar alike) will find ways to leech off foreign elderly people's $1,000-per-month pensions as much as possible. These villages are mostly in Khon Kaen, Roi Et, Srisaket, Buriram, Surin, Udon Thani, and all the other likely places in Isan.

 

The husbands almost all come from Germanic-speaking countries (NW Europe + Anglosphere), for whatever reason. Nordic and Anglo men tend to defer to their women a lot more than men from other cultures, and many Thai women are keen to take advantage of this. Men from many East Asian and Middle Eastern countries who visit Thailand are actually financially better off than the average NW European and Anglosphere man, but they tend to avoid marrying these women.

 

Of course there are exceptions to this trend, but this trend is so widespread that is it just getting downright scary. Thai women just aren't worth that much!

 

Very true and well put , I agree, but you will be run down on here for sure now you told it how it is , best of luck with all the knocks you will get them soon.

[Falconator]

I'm not trying to generalize ALL Thai women or Western men of course, and many TV members have been posting similar opinions here without many adverse reactions.

 

There are many happy Western-Thai couples out there, and I applaud them. It's just the rising trend of money-based relationships that we need to be more careful of. Same with Western-Western relationships in Western countries.

[georgemandm]

1 minute ago, Falconator said:

I'm not trying to generalize ALL Thai women or Western men of course, and many TV members have been posting similar opinions here without many adverse reactions.

 

There are many happy Western-Thai couples out there, and I applaud them. It's just the rising trend of money-based relationships that we need to be more careful of. Same with Western-Western relationships in Western countries.

Yes very true I agree with you not all women are the same , but you tell me how many thai women if you know have sold all their  assets and move to the west?. 

I have not seen it at all . 

But that is how it is lamb to the  slaughter in thailand.

read about one to day  , man paying one million thai bht  to get married to a 44 year old issan woman from surin just a joke . 

[Falconator]

Again, Thailand is the only place where women sell themselves to foreign men AND still feel superior to them, and actually have a great deal of advantage over them.

 

Not so with Myanmar brides.

[baneko]

I think its because they are!

[jbeans]

Thai girls like things which western girls don't find attractive. I've got googly eyes and a big nose which get much more positive reponses in Thailand than they do in the west.

 

Also it's no secret that girls are attracted to height, and it's a lot easier to stand out for being tall in Thailand than it is in the west.

 

And then there's that small percentage of greencard hunters who will go home with you on the first night, not for money but in the hopes you will take them back to the west

[Chuckles78]

Perhaps there is a higher ratio of women to men in Thailand. 

 

Last time at the food court I had women either side of me both trying to flirt while my drink was being made. Made me uncomfortable so now I take my wife with me when I want fresh fruit juices. 

[A1Str8]

uuh.. because they are. 

[wow64]

I am yet to find one that is not easy.. even the ones that you think are not are dirty slurts when u get them home for a coffee

[Jonah Tenner]

On 16.9.2016 at 1:06 PM, georgemandm said:

 ,one thing all those so called younger man do is get to a older age .

Not all.

[jenny2017]

On 9/16/2016 at 10:47 AM, georgemandm said:

Are you joking, I don't date bar woman in thailand at all and I have find thai woman are the easiest woman to pick up and date .

Especially when you don't speak Thai. 

[badischer Barde]

Could it be a combination of what you all mentioned?

 

• Thai guys don't seem to be the most radiant example of fidelity, hard work and respect towards women. Even compared to your average farang, which, especially in Thailand, says a lot.
• Many Farang might be relatively poor and not really considered winners back in their country, but are financially much more comfortable than 80% of all Thai
• If, as a poor woman, you had too much bad experience with Thai men, officials, corruption and job market, any farang looks at least like a ticket out of there.

All that makes westerners farang quite attractive. It also shows what you need to do to decrease your attractivity.

 

- Dress like a slob. Casts doubts on both your wealth and your respect towards women (and yourself)

- Date many women at once. If Thai women wanted that, they could stick to Thai guys

- State that you are not paying any money. Reduces your chances by 80%, but those 80% might not have been the most romantic anyway..

- Be honest. I made sure that everybody knows I'm not planning to marry anytime soon. Drastically reduced any interest in me, but at least I'm not leading anyone on. But you can make up for that by dressing up and working out. Unfortunately, most men seem to do the opposite. Don't care about their looks, behaviour or fidelity, but make up for it with promises of marriage and flashing around big wads of cash.

 

So.. Thai women might not per se be easier than western women. But the men here, Thai and farang alike, have set the bar so incredibly low that for any half decent person it's not even a hurdles race anymore.

 

[marko kok prong]

11 hours ago, badischer Barde said:

Could it be a combination of what you all mentioned?

 

• Thai guys don't seem to be the most radiant example of fidelity, hard work and respect towards women. Even compared to your average farang, which, especially in Thailand, says a lot.
• Many Farang might be relatively poor and not really considered winners back in their country, but are financially much more comfortable than 80% of all Thai
• If, as a poor woman, you had too much bad experience with Thai men, officials, corruption and job market, any farang looks at least like a ticket out of there.

All that makes westerners farang quite attractive. It also shows what you need to do to decrease your attractivity.

 

- Dress like a slob. Casts doubts on both your wealth and your respect towards women (and yourself)

- Date many women at once. If Thai women wanted that, they could stick to Thai guys

- State that you are not paying any money. Reduces your chances by 80%, but those 80% might not have been the most romantic anyway..

- Be honest. I made sure that everybody knows I'm not planning to marry anytime soon. Drastically reduced any interest in me, but at least I'm not leading anyone on. But you can make up for that by dressing up and working out. Unfortunately, most men seem to do the opposite. Don't care about their looks, behaviour or fidelity, but make up for it with promises of marriage and flashing around big wads of cash.

 

So.. Thai women might not per se be easier than western women. But the men here, Thai and farang alike, have set the bar so incredibly low that for any half decent person it's not even a hurdles race anymore.

 

Good post ,and totally agree with  the parts about Dress, dating,and money, Thai women like men to look smart and well groomed,and wear bloody deoderant ,unbeleivable how some guys stink.

Thai women do not like butterflies as that's mostly what they have had to suffer with Thai men,and falangs.

 To say you are not paying i would say lowers your chances by about 100%, and for all the rent a girlfriend /wife brigade,you pay for a woman in the west,you pay for a woman here,how you pay may differ,but you will pay all the same,Thai women do not like men who are 'kee neow'.