"Can you support me?"

[MaeJoMTB]

32 minutes ago, catman20 said:

i wonder how many of your younger women really want to shag you?

No woman wants to shag me.

And they didn't even before I was old, fat and bald.

Edited May 24, 2018 by MaeJoMTB

[faraday]

3 minutes ago, Lacessit said:

Gosh, you're so clever.

You asked the question, sunshine.

 

Simple answer, to a simple question - nothing clever about it at all.

[Lacessit]

3 minutes ago, MaeJoMTB said:

I look at her ID card, never take a girl home without viewing her ID card (and taking a photo of it on your phone).

Means you can find them later, and nips all sorts of potential problems in the bud.

(Like them not being a girl)

You obviously get around a lot more than I do, but then you are a fair bit younger.

[Lacessit]

2 minutes ago, faraday said:

You asked the question, sunshine.

 

Simple answer, to a simple question - nothing clever about it at all.

Did that go straight through to the wicketkeeper, or is your short-term memory that bad?

[Hummin]

Well thats what Asian woman think is important, and men ask how old are you, how much you weight, do you excorsize, and how many children do you have, all same father, but first and most important, how big is your family ?

[dbrenn]

It's a polite womanese way of asking whether you're a deadbeat loser. A bit more direct than asking you what you do for a living.

[soistalker]

She is asking If You will give her money anytime she asks for it for her, her family, brother me, motorbike, motherbike mama, beach parties where you pay for 20 family and friends who will not say thank you and proceed to eat like they will not eat in three more days. Water buffalo sick mak mak, et cetera.

In return, you get sex; maybe housework done occasionally in an extremely unhygenic manner, and you get to watch her sleep like a cat in the daytime, watch Thai dramas, eat every two hours, and look at her smartphone, which will buy the most expensive one  she can get you to buy her.

[MaeJoMTB]

Just now, soistalker said:

She is asking If You will give her money anytime she asks for it for her, her family, brother me, motorbike, motherbike mama, beach parties where you pay for 20 family and friends who will not say thank you and proceed to eat like they will not eat in three more days. Water buffalo sick mak mak, et cetera.

In return, you get sex; maybe housework done occasionally in an extremely unhygenic manner, and you get to watch her sleep like a cat in the daytime, watch Thai dramas, eat every two hours, and look at her smartphone, which will buy the most expensive one  she can get you to buy her.

You know my wife.

[soistalker]

1 minute ago, MaeJoMTB said:

You know my wife.

I know all Thai women.

[klauskunkel]

7 hours ago, scoutman360 said:

you need to think like a Thai girl

I just tried that, now I'm stuck and I can't get out.

[transam]

Hmmm, just say.."You need crutches"..?..

[1FinickyOne]

well, even as a young fellow in the Western World, I knew that connecting with a GF also meant taking on her problems and life issues too.

 

It is a legitimate question - in the West, ladies can usually judge by your occupation and situation, for example, what do you do for a living, do you have any kids, an ex-wife... etc... which they use to judge you... and you likely have questions for a Thai lady or any lady, which you use to judge her 

 

Here, they are more direct... 

[chrisinth]

1 hour ago, MaeJoMTB said:

I look at her ID card, never take a girl home without viewing her ID card (and taking a photo of it on your phone).

Means you can find them later, and nips all sorts of potential problems in the bud.

(Note: never go home with a woman who carries her brother's ID card)

Could be the brother's ID card, could be 'her's' before the operation.

 

Who knows?.........................

[maximillian]

Mine didn't ask me if I can support her. She told me: "I'm very easy to maintain."

Well, in a way she is. Sometimes more, sometimes less.

She is 47 a grandma already and after 8 years I still love to bits. She is a beauty, great body, lovely face, smart, confident with a great sense of humour.  What an awfully lucky guy I am.

 

OP, find out for yourself, you might be lucky as well.

[hobobo]

17 hours ago, Confuscious said:

Give a woman free (normal) housing; Free (normal) food; Free (normal) drinks; Medical help if she need a doctor; Etc...?
If that woman has children, give the children adequate housing, food & drink, Medical help, etc...?
Maybe "supporting a woman" means also pay for her parents and her brothers/sisters/ nephews/ etc..?

Please, TV-members, enlighten me about the subject .....

Do not forget the buffalo!

[4MyEgo]

17 hours ago, Confuscious said:

I am already 10 years single and every now and then I meet a woman who seems to get acquaintance with.
But 99% of the chats turns after a few words into "can you support me"?

Just trying to look through this at all angles, and all I come up with is:

 

I don't know any bloke who has been single for 10 years, and there possibly lays the answer, i.e. is this by choice, I mean are you wanting to remain single?, are you disabled, not the best looking bloke when comparing like for like, or have you not found "miss perfect"?

 

You say 99% of the chats turns after a few words into "can you support me"?

 

ALL women, and I say ALL woman want to have a man that will provide for them, support them, as for the ones the TVF members refer to as mid-hi so women don't want to be supported, well, I don't class them as women, so I will refer to women as low class as some TVF members are insinuating the mid-hi so don't want to be supported, just to clear that up.

 

Strange that they are asking you this after a few words, could it be that you are meeting girls from a dating website, attracting women who are looking for their sugar daddy? Bars girls don't ask that question unless you have been seeing them for a while, and would be saying I don't like this work, I won't out, hence the words "can you support" me.

 

Naturally women from the low society class have limited opportunities to find work as their is no such thing here in Thailand as an Anti-Discrimination Board as I see in the paper Lotus and the likes, advertising for female staff and must be under 30 years of age for example, what the fark is that?

 

As for supporting her family, it would depend on how much you dig her and like her family, that said, whether they have hands and feet and can work as opposed to sponging off Mr Farang, do they live in a big house or a dump, and of course the size of your bank account.

 

I don't support my wife's family, they have a two storey house, a car, and grow rice, when it comes to support the Mrs throws them a bone so to speak every now and again, also they are not the type to ask, unless its necessary, so its up to her, her parents, not mine, as I married her and we have our own family, that said if they required medical emergency attention, I would dig in as I am not totally heartless.

 

Another poster made a very relevant point, only invest as much as your prepared to lose, and my calculations have always been 10%

[chippendale]

It means that she is too lazy to work, prefers to remain infantile and sedentary.

[nickmondo]

2 hours ago, Lacessit said:

My GF is 51 yo. Cute as hell, and the best shag I've ever had. Just curious - how do you know the woman who has met your age limit is telling you the truth about her age?

yes, your missus is a great shag!  I could not agree more.  Give her a kiss for me.  ?

[NoshowJones]

Not trying to hijack the thread, but is there anyone or does anybody know of anyone who financially supports a wifes family, like parents, brothers, sisters etc, who is is not old, fat, ugly, heavily tattoed or have thick mousers?

[MaeJoMTB]

6 minutes ago, possum1931 said:

Not trying to hijack the thread, but is there anyone or does anybody know of anyone who financially supports a wifes family, like parents, brothers, sisters etc, who is is not old, fat, ugly, heavily tattoed or have thick mousers?

Yep, I knew a young, fit, good looking tennis coach.

His wife was a spinner covered in tats, found her in a bar in Phuket ........ same game.

As one girl said to me, "Nobody wants a white guy for a husband, apart from that, you all look the same to us".

 

I'll turn it back on you,

You ever seen a white guy, living with a Thai woman you fancied, that didn't financially support .... etc.

Edited May 24, 2018 by MaeJoMTB

[weegee]

14 hours ago, Rolanddrums said:

Three questions spring to mind ..1) How much ?  2) How often?  & 3) What do I get ?

[Odysseus123]

2 hours ago, kenk24 said:

well, even as a young fellow in the Western World, I knew that connecting with a GF also meant taking on her problems and life issues too.

 

It is a legitimate question - in the West, ladies can usually judge by your occupation and situation, for example, what do you do for a living, do you have any kids, an ex-wife... etc... which they use to judge you... and you likely have questions for a Thai lady or any lady, which you use to judge her 

 

Here, they are more direct... 

"in the western world"

 

Complete and utter nonsense.

 

Otherwise "here they are more direct"-sure,and it's called laziness,greed and self entitlement in any other civilization in the galaxy.

[xylophone]

14 hours ago, SooKee said:

Less of a issue IMO with someone who has a regular job / income, especially if she's a professional, and who will continue to work.

 

14 hours ago, SooKee said:

More of a issue with bar girls I think, most guys maybe won't want them to continue to work in the bar / agogo, take away that income and it has to be replaced

That seems about right to me SK.

 

My G/f was an accountant at a small hotel here so she had her own income and kept it whilst I provided the house, living expenses etc and I gave her the occasional monetary gift as a present.

 

When the hotel closed down I told her not to bother looking for another job, but that I would give her a monthly allowance, which I did. She became a "housewife" and a very good one too. 

 

Now as per the second quote...……...I have a friend who has "fallen in love" with a couple of bargirls/freelancers and is heartbroken when they end the relationship. He can't understand why, but I suggested to him that the fact that he refuses to give them any money whatsoever when they move in with him could be the problem!

 

How are they going to buy things for themselves I ask; not my problem he replies and adds that he will never pay for sex and that's it!!

 

So I explain that before they met the girl was earning a living picking up clients, but that stops when they become his g/f, so where are they going to get money from?  He goes back to his not paying for sex stance.

 

He cannot see that he needs to support her financially if he has taken away her ability to earn an income!

[NoshowJones]

2 hours ago, soistalker said:

I know all Thai women.

All?

[MaeJoMTB]

3 minutes ago, xylophone said:

My G/f was an accountant at a small hotel here so she had her own income and kept it whilst I provided the house, living expenses etc and I gave her the occasional monetary gift as a present.

When the hotel closed down I told her not to bother looking for another job, but that I would give her a monthly allowance, which I did. She became a "housewife" and a very good one too. 

 

Can't see the difference myself, you've still been paying her the entire time she was with you.

Delusion is a wonderful thing.

Edited May 24, 2018 by MaeJoMTB

[BEVUP]

I wonder how long it took the hotel to close down once Farang hit the scene 5555

[sukhumvitneon]

Unless you have male model looks, then you need money to attract women.

[totally thaied up]

I know one guy at the moment that has a pretty hot girl, but her looks are fading. This guy has nothing, and I mean nothing. In the future, he is going to have to bail it home back to the States. 

 

She told one of my friends she thinks he is 'loaded' and she is just being patient until 'payday' comes for her. She said all farangs are rich, and they lie about money. This girl's family is getting nothing.

 

She is going to be in for a shock.

 

When he bails, nothing is going her way. Going to be a shit fight but he told her, 'he has nothing' and he is getting free sex for nothing. Going to be a interesting ending. 

 

We all pay with whoever we get. Don't kid yourself.

 

I was on another forum, mainly full of American Women recently, and it was much the same. If the husband or boyfriend was not supporting them in some way, the girls were telling them to 'bail' out.

 

Thais girls are just upfront but most guys here lose their balls after one good night in the sack and give them way, way too much in return. There are thousands of girls out there that are good in the sack and I had my fair share. No girl is special. Was a thread adjacent here not long back on what men are paying their Isaan Girls, and it was way, way too much. It is pretty simple; most of my Thai friend's brothers or sisters don't pay much more than 2,000 - 3,000 a month to the family. 

 

All depends on how much the fool you want to be. I was a fool for a few years and freely admit it but the great thing about 'the experience of life' is you can learn and change.

 

You got to adapt or end up the way of the Doe-Doe bird.

 

Edited May 24, 2018 by totally thaied up
£4$$%$ing spell check!

[transam]

Seems to me the OP's ploblem is the places he hangs out to find his ideal partner...?

[RichardColeman]

18 hours ago, Confuscious said:

So, what is "can you support me"?

I think the answer should be you are prepared to help her financially while she gets a job to support her family a little. If she does not want to work to do it - then its clear you are just being used a cash cow for the family while she does nothing !