Are you in a SexLess Relationship? If yes, why are you staying together  

You seriously think people will admit to giving their tirak a stipend and getting no sex in return....

The married guys I know hardly have sex or they rent a bit on the side. I think its the lack of mental stimulation and not being able to connect

SoonOh, i am in a sexless relationship, why are we together, something you appear not to understand...... Its called LOVE.

I just ask to my wife for the same question and hit me with a pan.

A good relationship is not based or maintained only in sex, but on the money. [emoji848]

 

Sarcasm?

 

Not really interested in sex any longer, i'd rather do almost anything, a good dump is usually more satisfying. The most over rated human activity IMO. Had the opportunity to play away from home recently, could not be bothered.

2 minutes ago, colinneil said:

SoonOh, i am in a sexless relationship, why are we together, something you appear not to understand...... Its called LOVE.

I do find it strange that some folk here think all Thai birds are "loveless", but I am sure many a farang haven't a clue what love is....But I do know a few of those....????

I must tell my wife I am in a sexless relationship. I must tell her I need a gik. I think she will tell me what a crock of shit this thread is as you don't understand Thai girls and what marriage is really about. If I wanted sex I would have just short timed a hooker, not married instead.

18 minutes ago, transam said:

I do find it strange that some folk here think all Thai birds are "loveless", but I am sure many a farang haven't a clue what love is....But I do know a few of those....????

Love ................. 

that's where you provide everything for a woman (and her kids), she gives you nothing in return, except maybe a bit of housework.

7 minutes ago, colinneil said:

SoonOh, i am in a sexless relationship, why are we together, something you appear not to understand...... Its called LOVE.

My relationship with my Thai wife is not sexless ,,but yes if it was we would stay together for love ,something half the losers on here do not seem to understand ,why they marry a Thai woman if they cant "communicate" with her amazes me , i reckon its because they would never find anyone back home who would marry them ,so they just marry a poor  woman over here ,because she will put up with them for the money .

1 minute ago, bert bloggs said:

i reckon its because they would never find anyone back home who would marry them ,so they just marry a poor  woman over here ,because she will put up with them for the money .

You're right at 60+, I can't find any 20 year old back home that would marry me.

(I did get a few 'dates' though)

Been married for over 15 years, used to have sex all the time. After the third child she has lost interest, if i get pissy about it, i get it, but we are both older now, and we can never seem to get away from the kids, animals, farm, and everything else that seems to keep us busy 24/7.  Its not a lack of love, i think its life. 

9 minutes ago, transam said:

I do find it strange that some folk here think all Thai birds are "loveless", but I am sure many a farang haven't a clue what love is....But I do know a few of those....????

 

Sex and intimacy are still very important to me, if not necessarily a high priority for Mrs P.  However, our marriage is based upon a loving relationship, shared values and  plans and on our extended family. Overall happiness and contentment are what keeps us together.   

I think you will find that there are a lot of expats here, that could not live on their own. Cannot cook, clean, iron, etc., most things that back home the 'housewife' used to do for them. Most of this type stay in relationships, rather than being on their own, unable to do these everyday chores.

2 minutes ago, Thaiwrath said:

I think you will find that there are a lot of expats here, that could not live on their own. Cannot cook, clean, iron, etc., most things that back home the 'housewife' used to do for them. Most of this type stay in relationships, rather than being on their own, unable to do these everyday chores.

This morning i made a batch of fruit scones, only 4 left, wife loves them.

Cooking, i do most of the cooking, cleaning, i do bits, not easy in a wheelchair, ironing, no way, never done that in my life, ( aint gonna start now).

20 minutes ago, transam said:

I do find it strange that some folk here think all Thai birds are "loveless", but I am sure many a farang haven't a clue what love is....But I do know a few of those....????

To be honest i don't know what love is, can you pls define it ?

2 minutes ago, mauGR1 said:

To be honest i don't know what love is, can you pls define it ?

One endocrine system calling out to another

You can't really define it, but when you see it you know it.

2 minutes ago, ThaiBunny said:

One endocrine system calling out to another

That kind of attraction lasts 2 or 3 years in my experience.

I was married and in a sexless relationship for about a decade. Slow learner, should have baled out long before

A relationship where your GF/partner/wife is happy to have sex with you any time either she or you are horny is way better.

Q: How does a real man bring a woman to orgasm?

A: Who cares?

 

The average weekly or monthly sexual encounters vary depending on the source, but it's not a whole bunch. I can't stand shopping with a woman, the depth of English conversations go no further than "Did you like that (fill in any meal/movie/encounter here)?" It just grows too old too fast. I prefer to just go get a soapy or rub one out myself.

11 minutes ago, colinneil said:

This morning i made a batch of fruit scones, only 4 left, wife loves them.

Cooking, i do most of the cooking, cleaning, i do bits, not easy in a wheelchair, ironing, no way, never done that in my life, ( aint gonna start now).

I never ironed anything until after my marriage broke up. Once I got the hang of it, I actually found it was quite relaxing and therapeutic. Although it is probably better to do ironing in a much colder climate than Thailand.

5 minutes ago, quandow said:

Q: How does a real man bring a woman to orgasm?

A: Who cares?

 

The average weekly or monthly sexual encounters vary depending on the source, but it's not a whole bunch. I can't stand shopping with a woman, the depth of English conversations go no further than "Did you like that (fill in any meal/movie/encounter here)?" It just grows too old too fast. I prefer to just go get a soapy or rub one out myself.

Cheap Charlie of the week award. Are you serious? Saving money on sex in THAILAND?

1 minute ago, mauGR1 said:

That kind of attraction lasts 2 or 3 years in my experience.

Go on a diet, get trendy, wear shades and stop eating crisps in the sack, shave your arm pits, try Brut..... ????

 

 

20 minutes ago, mauGR1 said:

That kind of attraction lasts 2 or 3 years in my experience.

That's enough to get married..... For better or worse.

32 minutes ago, colinneil said:

This morning i made a batch of fruit scones, only 4 left, wife loves them.

 

Jam or cream on first??

 

Just now, Crossy said:

 

Jam or cream on first??

 

Always jam on first.

1 minute ago, Crossy said:

 

Jam or cream on first??

 

Butter, not got any jam or cream.