Bored or been bored with Thai wife anyone? Why?

[soalbundy]

12 hours ago, worgeordie said:

I just cannot understand why people say "they are bored",

i have never been bored in my life,young kids get easily

bored,but adults ?.

regards worgeordie

Adults are worse, they don't understand anything important, only what they see with their eyes.

[petermik]

7 hours ago, Pravda said:

 

This is my life. And I'm not only bored of wife, I'm actually giving up on renting my own place and just returning home. Bored shitless with Thailand.

Any good stuff going cheap......

[colinneil]

2 minutes ago, petermik said:

Dirty bugger colin.....don,t let the missus catch you gawping.....

Wife has no problem with me gawping, she knows thats all i can do.

[soalbundy]

34 minutes ago, sunnyboy2018 said:

Perhaps lack of boredom is linked to lack of aspiration, lack of imagination and lack of ambition. Cows chewing on their cud do not get bored...they know no better. Bored and restless people are sometimes driven to creativity to escape the bonds of boredom. Regarding marital boredom: it is a major problem because one continous marriage to one person is totally unatural, especially for men.

The restless carry their boredom with them wherever they go, a kiss is just a kiss, even in Casablanca.

[monkeycu]

1 hour ago, mike787 said:

HOW the heck can anyone be bored of sex?  Find a super hot Thai girl, and just have sex.  You want to talk deep, make an appointment with a psychotherapist or ego back to home country and marry educated Alpha female.  They'll massage your cortex while I enjoy my Thai massages 24/7????...but everyone is different.  I so agree with worgeordie. 

Nice jugs, how do you pay to play with them, by the kilo or hour

[bkk6060]

I get bored fairly easily with the same female sexually. Need lots of variety. Sizes, shapes, ages. Shallow? Probably..

It would not be fair to marry here as I would always be on the prowl.

Am happily single thank you.

[Snow Leopard]

Keep things alive and varied in the bedroom and boredom does not come into the picture. If this can't happen, then you are with the wrong person or over 70. 

[OneMoreFarang]

12 hours ago, Dexlowe said:

I'm going back to the cosplay teacher thread.

Sounds interesting. Link?

[simon43]

2 hours ago, mike787 said:

HOW the heck can anyone be bored of sex?  Find a super hot Thai girl, and just have sex.  You want to talk deep, make an appointment with a psychotherapist or ego back to home country and marry educated Alpha female.  They'll massage your cortex while I enjoy my Thai massages 24/7????...but everyone is different.  I so agree with worgeordie. 

Good heavens!  What happened to her chest? She's top-heavy.  Is that why she's lying down?  did she fall over?

[atyclb]

2 hours ago, Morch said:

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Bored or been bored with Thai wife anyone?  Why?

 

OP's avatar just called out for this....

 

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Zw16aew4Pt0

 

Now, how do you properly link clips in this latest bestest forum version?

 

 

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great success

[rumak]

2 hours ago, BritManToo said:

This isn't a Thai problem, this is a woman problem.

The "man" problem is putting up with BS when it happens.

And to be fair,  many guys create BS with their attitudes as well.

 

 

[rumak]

1 hour ago, petermik said:

Any good stuff going cheap......

the good things in life are free.   take my wife...............PLEASE !!

 

that's an old joke.  please don't PM me with requests for photos    ????

[atyclb]

1 hour ago, sunnyboy2018 said:

3 hours ago, worgeordie said:

OK, married to Thai wife for 31 years,not bored with her yet,why would i be,

maybe it's just some people have a very short attention span,child like,

thinking the grass is always greener on the other side,when you

find a goodin.look after her,and yes there are  very good women

 in Thailand ,contrary to popular belief on ThaiVisa anyway.

 

regards worgeordie

Perhaps lack of boredom is linked to lack of aspiration, lack of imagination and lack of ambition. Cows chewing on their cud do not get bored...they know no better. Bored and restless people are sometimes driven to creativity to escape the bonds of boredom. Regarding marital boredom: it is a major problem because one continous marriage to one person is totally unatural, especially for men.

 

since you mentioned "cows"

 

 

[Lacessit]

2 hours ago, mike787 said:

HOW the heck can anyone be bored of sex?  Find a super hot Thai girl, and just have sex.  You want to talk deep, make an appointment with a psychotherapist or ego back to home country and marry educated Alpha female.  They'll massage your cortex while I enjoy my Thai massages 24/7????...but everyone is different.  I so agree with worgeordie. 

Permit me to doubt the top deck is natural.

[fittobethaied]

2 hours ago, mike787 said:

HOW the heck can anyone be bored of sex?  Find a super hot Thai girl, and just have sex.  You want to talk deep, make an appointment with a psychotherapist or ego back to home country and marry educated Alpha female.  They'll massage your cortex while I enjoy my Thai massages 24/7????...but everyone is different.  I so agree with worgeordie. 

 

Those monkey feet ruined it for me. Thailand is no place for a guy with a foot fetish. Flat feet with wide gaps between toes, cracked dirty heels, fungus infested toenails and two week old toenail polish flaking off just doesn't get it for me. 

[Lacessit]

I don't get bored with my GF. Two weeks together, one week apart. It refreshes the relationship.

I think she misses me more than I miss her during the week apart, but I could be wrong.

 

[baansgr]

How could anyone possibly be bored with their Thai wife, dosn't everyone love talking about gold prices, going to the market, being ting tong and pum pui and sending money to the farm for sick buffaloes and extended family....just think you really could be bored if you had to do things together and talk about movies, politics, international travel or general chit chat a foreign chick would talk about...count your bleasings if you are married to a Thai.

[rumak]

1 hour ago, Pravda said:

This is my life. And I'm not only bored of wife, I'm actually giving up on renting my own place and just returning home. Bored shitless with Thailand.

Life'a a bitch when you realize things are not turning out like you hoped.   Dreams rarely do.  Then its back to the drawing board.    I had to make many detours and sometimes U-turns through the years.  Now I am a wise old man from those experiences.   Not too happy about the old man part..... but still making the best of it.  I would give advice but am sure I would have to duck as it came flying back at me.

[natway09]

Try a Non Thai Wife 555

[samuttodd]

It is ok to be bored.   I am uncertain where the notion comes from that we need to be engaged in acquisition at all times.

Sometimes it is good to just observe life around us.  

 

To watch the sun rise/set  see the clouds roll by, to just be happy with being.  

 

When I have idle time or an idle mind I do the above or,   I get involved with an activity,  or learn something.   The internet is akin to living next to a neverending multimedia library.   How anyone could be bored with it at their fingertips I can not wrap my head around.

 

Maybe take your wife on a trip,  or do something new,  take up archery,  rock climbing,  grow a garden,  volunteer,  get in shape, fool around,  make a meal,  barbeque a pig, throw a party  Get her a dog and train it together,  or get your kid a dog and train your kids how to train a dog.

 

That sort of thing.

 

 

 

 

[I am More Thai Than You]

3 hours ago, mike787 said:

HOW the heck can anyone be bored of sex?  Find a super hot Thai girl, and just have sex.  You want to talk deep, make an appointment with a psychotherapist or ego back to home country and marry educated Alpha female.  They'll massage your cortex while I enjoy my Thai massages 24/7????...but everyone is different.  I so agree with worgeordie. 

Looks like a ladyboy for mine. Big feet and big cans. Each to their own.

[wombat]

Kenny202
'Thais seem to thrive on drama and conflict'
and....

[dotpoom]

Sometimes I feel starved of a "grown up" conversation 

[wombat]

1 minute ago, dotpoom said:

Sometimes I feel starved of a "grown up" conversation 

Thats a web cam business waiting to happen
The"grown up conversation'' channel 

 

[Lacessit]

45 minutes ago, dotpoom said:

Sometimes I feel starved of a "grown up" conversation 

Get on Twitter. There are some really erudite people there, such as Donald Trump.

[OneMoreFarang]

3 hours ago, Snow Leopard said:

Keep things alive and varied in the bedroom and boredom does not come into the picture. If this can't happen, then you are with the wrong person or over 70. 

It does not get boring with new girls. But most wives don't like that idea.

[rumak]

1 hour ago, dotpoom said:

Sometimes I feel starved of a "grown up" conversation 

that would certainly bore the hell out of most Thais.           BUT........             Politics?  Real Estate?  Investments?  Yoga ?  Sensitivity training?  What pick-up would you buy ?   Why are the rules here so crazy ?  What kind of beer is best ?    Uhhhhh ,  I give up .   Can you give me an example of a converstation that

you would like ?

[Snow Leopard]

8 minutes ago, OneMoreFarang said:

It does not get boring with new girls. But most wives don't like that idea.

I am sure they would like the reality even less. ????

[Krataiboy]

5 hours ago, BritManToo said:

This isn't a Thai problem, this is a woman problem.

It's a person problem.

[4MyEgo]

6 hours ago, Kenny202 said:

Bored shiteless with mine. Basically a good girl, no money or family issues at all. Been with her two years. She just seems like the sort of person who looks for problems all the time, and always inane stuff that happened in the past, long before I met her. Like every three days the storm clouds come over. She's not even a depressed person it's like a habit she has formed long ago and can't break. She's not psycho or aggressive, it's sulking passive aggressive stuff. Like someone who is comfortable feeling bad....then nothing will disappoint if you expect bad all the time. I'm not a drinker or aggressive, don't go out nights. I'm no day at the beach or perfect but I just hate dealing with unimportant crap that doesn't effect us all the time. I'd rather be putting time and energy into something positive. We have a little business together, I have a child as does she and we have a lot more important things to worry about, like the kids future, business etc. Most Thai girls I have met seem to have the intelligence and maturity of approximately half their age. These girls seem to move in to your house, get under your guard then it is so hard to get shod of them. I'd much rather she change her attitude and I could see we would have a nice happy life but I don't think it's going to happen. Seems to be a way of life for many Thais where they seem to thrive on drama and conflict

I went from a very aggressive/abusive Greek Princes to an emotional rollercoaster of a Thai back in Sydney, then landed me a good hearted balanced Thai woman that I met in a bar of all places in Phuket when I was on holidays back in 2006, even my mate said to me, steady on there mate, she is pretty but for fark sake, she's a working girl.

 

He was 100% correct and we have had 12 very happy years of being married together as hard as it may seem to some to believe, and yes you can actually take the girl out of the bar and the bar out of the girl, just depends on whether she wants to live a happy meaningful life with someone she has fallen in love with, regardless of circumstances/profession I never judged her, she had a job to do as a lot of Thai girls do, some can handle and understand that, others can't, each to their own.

 

The only advice I would have for you is that, a dog doesn't change it's spots and your happiness comes first, so it the glove doesn't fit comfortably, you may have to look for another, whether you find one that fits in this lifetime is anyone's guess, but which you the best of luck either way you go.