Tasting the local delicacies after marriage ?

[Lacessit]

Nothing like a thread such as this to ruin my appetite.

[bkk6060]

This may be the easiest place in the world you would have to be very stupid and incompetent to get caught.

And, every guy I know who is married or has a GF does it.

 

[Bangyai]

Best ask the wife how she gets away with it. 

Sorted.

[pgrahmm]

I was 25K from home.... Was walking when a cute young thing started talking with me, on the street for less than 5 minutes....

Later on, when I went home, my GF was waiting for me with a pic on her phone of me and the gal, wanting to know all with never ending questions + I think she also checked my phone....

The Thai jungle drums & their pipelines are scary, active, and aggressive....

I never saw anyone I knew, or anyone taking pics.....

 

Edited January 5, 2021 by pgrahmm

[bkk6060]

I don't care who, what, when if I had a girl going thru my phone she would be fired.

[UKresonant]

3 hours ago, Sharks3012 said:

So guys, just wondering whether all you ex mongers just suddenly stop once you marry a Thai girl and settle into life in Thailand, or if not, how do you, (or a friend you know), get away with it ? Of course, I am also asking for a friend ! 

Yes, View only mode! from engagement or before ???? or why bother getting married....

[soi3eddie]

2 hours ago, Crossy said:

 

Never, ever under estimate a Thai (or indeed any Asian) woman's network or radar.

 

 

Second that. The FBI are nothing compared to your average Thai woman...

 

Edited January 5, 2021 by soi3eddie

[Dagfinnur Traustason]

2 hours ago, Crossy said:

We only have chickens, guinea fowl and geese - the ducks were a pain and difficult to keep happy

One can only assume they didn´t get enough dicks.

[Caldera]

I'm honest enough to know that I wouldn't stop and don't even want to, so my conclusion is simply not to marry in the first place, so that I won't be faced with this moral dilemma that is both predictable and avoidable.

 

I don't get why foreigners who come to Thailand marry Thais anyway. Back at home, I might have been subjected to some mild societal pressure to get married. But here? None whatsoever.

 

To say that I don't believe in marriage would be an understatement!

 

[Kadilo]

 

4 hours ago, bkk6060 said:

This may be the easiest place in the world you would have to be very stupid and incompetent to get caught.

And, every guy I know who is married or has a GF does it.

 

Obviously all the guys you know do not have the extremely high moral compass the posters on TVF have. 

 

[Kadilo]

3 minutes ago, Caldera said:

 

 

I don't get why foreigners who come to Thailand marry Thais anyway.

 

It’s the main Nationality. 

[Lacessit]

13 hours ago, pgrahmm said:

I was 25K from home.... Was walking when a cute young thing started talking with me, on the street for less than 5 minutes....

Later on, when I went home, my GF was waiting for me with a pic on her phone of me and the gal, wanting to know all with never ending questions + I think she also checked my phone....

The Thai jungle drums & their pipelines are scary, active, and aggressive....

I never saw anyone I knew, or anyone taking pics.....

 

Sounds like someone didn't like you enough to forward the photo to your GF, how many enemies do you have?

[tonray]

16 hours ago, Dmaxdan said:

Castration beckons...

Nah...Thai girls usually leave the balls intact...not that they'll do much good without the bat

[1FinickyOne]

9 hours ago, Caldera said:

I don't get why foreigners who come to Thailand marry Thais anyway.

Companionship - and family mostly... not so hard 'to get' - - if it's not your cup of tea fine, but it is really not that difficult to understand. 

[tonray]

13 hours ago, pgrahmm said:

I was 25K from home.... Was walking when a cute young thing started talking with me, on the street for less than 5 minutes....

Later on, when I went home, my GF was waiting for me with a pic on her phone of me and the gal, wanting to know all with never ending questions + I think she also checked my phone....

The Thai jungle drums & their pipelines are scary, active, and aggressive....

I never saw anyone I knew, or anyone taking pics.....

 

Sometimes I get emails from Thai dating sites/apps...I delete them without ever opening on the assumption they are somehow planted on my PC by the GF as tests....ha ha ha...talk about paranoia. 

[Damrongsak]

15 hours ago, ThailandRyan said:

Maybe a few remember John Bobbitt whose wife Lorena fed his tally whacker to the ducks many moons ago and after he had surgery became a porn star......

Yeah, I remember.  One of my favorite songs. 

 

And I also remember this candy from Thailand about 18 years back.  Still have a couple boxes.

 

[asiasurfer]

18 hours ago, CharlieH said:

If the role was reversed how would you feel. the answer will or should determine the answer to your question.

 

 

Wouldn't bother me as long as she doesn't get sick or pregnant. And as long as I don't find out... But I'm sure she doesn't cheat. Lol

[Lacessit]

2 hours ago, tonray said:

Sometimes I get emails from Thai dating sites/apps...I delete them without ever opening on the assumption they are somehow planted on my PC by the GF as tests....ha ha ha...talk about paranoia. 

May be better to leave them there, if she sees them going unanswered it would reassure her.

[pgrahmm]

3 hours ago, Lacessit said:

Sounds like someone didn't like you enough to forward the photo to your GF, how many enemies do you have?

None then really, & none now....At the time we lived out nestled at a border of 3 different small villages where I was the only farang for miles and we were always invited to the village(s) parties and festivals....At 6'4" I stood out in the crowd....

I'm guessing somebody thought it was their civic duty....

[Natai Beach]

Back in Pattaya I had a friend who used to use the services at the Kinaree, Soi halfadozen etc. 

 

He moved to Phuket recently. He was wondering if there are any Kinaree type establishments in Phuket, open during the day, large selection, cheap with free food etc.

[starky]

Why get married then? How bizarre.

[OneMoreFarang]

On 1/5/2021 at 3:10 PM, Sharks3012 said:

So guys, just wondering whether all you ex mongers just suddenly stop once you marry a Thai girl and settle into life in Thailand, or if not, how do you, (or a friend you know), get away with it ? Of course, I am also asking for a friend ! 

One of those newbie questions...

 

The first question is what kind of work did or does your wife/gf? If she worked in a bar before and/or she has friends who work there then you have a problem. The grapevine works faster than you can imagine. 

If you have a wife with a good job who would never ever talk to those working girls then you might get away with it - if you are careful.

It seems the most important part for many married women is that you don't bring the other one home and you don't run around with her anywhere were her friends might see you. <deleted>$#%# another girl is not really the problem - showing the rest of the world that you spend your money on someone else is a BIG problem.

 

[2009]

Depends

 

Does she treat you with respect?

 

Is she interested in you sexually?

 

It is all about context.

 

If you are being abused or neglected you should just get out of the relationship.

 

However, if you can't or for some reason don't want to, then the playing field is open. Enjoy.

 

I mean if you weren't fulfilling her needs (i.e. financial support), she would either just leave or start "looking" (probably on her back with her legs in the air) for a new "partnership" before breaking it off with you.

 

If you need to ask this question, your relationship isn't worth it. Just leave.

 

You only live once. Your life ain't a dressed rehearsal.

 

[lovethai123]

Why is your friend married at the first place? Was that because of marriage visa?

 

Thai woman are conservative. They cannot tolerate you sleeping with other men/women. In case they find out, there can be some trouble. People have been stabbed for cheating. You can find such articles on the internet easily. 

 

Remember, many women we meet have troubled past, they expect the foreigners to be better than thai men.