Girl I married wants car and house money

[Nees Shah]

Hi folks, I don’t know how to say this but it straight out of Dear Deidre Column for folks who are familiar. I married a Thai girl last year, she is really kind and lovely. Before I met her, she was doing massage and renting in a small rundown room . After meeting her, falling in love with her and realizing her circumstances, I bought a condo for her to stay in and gave her a life that she didn’t need to work anymore. I had to refinance my own house in England to buy the condo so that she can live in this new place. Last year, she decided she wanted to leave me because she wanted a car and another condo to her name totaling 3million bhat. I reluctantly agreed because of my love for her but now she wants to move out because I cannot provide her 3 million Bhat. It is hard for me as I have to also support children from my first marriage as welll as take care of my wife in Thailand.  Now she wants 3 million or she walks. I still support her every month with 40000 bhat and it’s still not enough.  I am in UK at moment working and now she threatens to burn my condo documents if she doesn’t get the money.  I do love her very much but why doesn’t she see how hard I am trying to balance everything. What do I do ? I feel like a mug but it is what it is. I just need to know what to do if she destroys all my property in condo I bought for her to live in. 

[Golden Triangle]

I sure hope that you have thick skin, you're gonna need it after posting that here ????

[Pilotman]

Another made up post.  A waste of TVF memory.  

[PatOngo]

8 minutes ago, Nees Shah said:

What do I do ?

Give her what she wants, she'll love you soooo much more!???? ????????

[Pilotman]

2 minutes ago, Golden Triangle said:

I sure hope that you have thick skin, you're gonna need it after posting that here ????

Its okay, its not a real post, so no worries. 

[1FinickyOne]

surely you can read your own post... that will tell you what to do..

She will never be satisfied... so, up to you... 

[DaLa]

This is normal and she doesn't sound bad to me. In fact she sounds like a keeper.

[Nees Shah]

Sorry I deserve all the laughing at. I accept I made some bad choices (gullible farang). 

[PatOngo]

16 minutes ago, Nees Shah said:

 Now she wants 3 million or she walks.

Give her 4 mill, secure your future!

 

 

[Blue Muton]

5 minutes ago, PatOngo said:

Give her what she wants, she'll love you soooo much more!???? ????????

He can't. What she really wants is a hansum man.

[olfu]

So you learned nothing from first marriage and now jump into lake.

[Nees Shah]

I have made mistakes folks. I was having to skip my daily meals to support her 40000 a month so as to save money and give her a good life. ????.. how can someone do this to another human being !

[PatOngo]

4 minutes ago, Nees Shah said:

Sorry I deserve all the laughing at. I accept I made some bad choices (gullible farang). 

Hang in there NS, she sounds great! Great taste! She trying to build up your assets! ????

 

[Pilotman]

This needs to be moved to the worst jokes forum. 

[Surelynot]

She sounds a real keeper..........of course you would struggle in Thailand to find a new love......

[Nees Shah]

13 minutes ago, Pilotman said:

Another made up post.  A waste of TVF memory.  

Not a made up post sir, it’s a genuine.. I have been through hell and back .. 

[Jan Dietz]

Promise the Sky, but because of Covid things are delayed a bit, can't be helped.

It's all in the mail though, should arrive soon.

Find your documents, forget the non-important trash.

Then go out for a pack of Cigarettes. Somewhere a couple hundred Kilometers away preferably.

 

[PatOngo]

5 minutes ago, Nees Shah said:

I have made mistakes folks. I was having to skip my daily meals to support her 40000 a month so as to save money and give her a good life. ????.. how can someone do this to another human being !

How can someone be so gullible???

[Nees Shah]

Just now, PatOngo said:

How can someone be so gullible???

I love her and still do.. she says she loves me a lot too but why does money have to be Centre of this ? 

[kingofthemountain]

14 minutes ago, Nees Shah said:

Sorry I deserve all the laughing at. I accept I made some bad choices (gullible farang). 

Dont' worry you are not the first nor the last to fall in the trap

a costly lesson for you, but a lesson nonetheless:

money can buy a lot of things, but money can not buy love

My advice: for the future you should avoid to buy anything else

In Thailand when it comes to girls, condos or whatever just rent

it's much less expensive on the long run

[fangless]

10 minutes ago, DaLa said:

In fact she sounds like a keeper.

Of "Hansom man" and his money!

PS;  I wonder how little cutting and pasting did the OP need to make to publish (t)his original fable!

[Nees Shah]

Just now, kingofthemountain said:

Dont' worry you are not the first nor the last to fall in the trap

a costly lesson for you, but a lesson noneless:

money can buy a lot of things, but money can not buy love

My advice: for the future you should avoid to buy anything else

In Thailand when it comes to girls, condos or whatever just rent

it's much less expensive on the long run

Thank you for the measured response sir 

[PatOngo]

1 minute ago, Nees Shah said:

I love her and still do.. she says she loves me a lot too but why does money have to be Centre of this ? 

Give her a Benz and she might forget the money, a Benz will give her a lot of face with her friends, and you surely know HOW important face is!

[FritsSikkink]

9 minutes ago, Nees Shah said:

I have made mistakes folks. I was having to skip my daily meals to support her 40000 a month so as to save money and give her a good life. ????.. how can someone do this to another human being !

Troll

[PatOngo]

1 minute ago, FritsSikkink said:

Troll

But very entertaining! ????

 

 

[Lacessit]

Stop the 40,000 baht/month immediately. That is way too much for a massage girl, most would be happy with 5000 - 10,000 baht/month.

Resign yourself to the fact whatever you have purchased for her in her name is gone. If she burns documents that are not her property, it's a criminal offense.  Or destroys your property out of spite.

Tell her to move out, she's a gold-digger.

[Nees Shah]

2 minutes ago, FritsSikkink said:

Troll

Why would I want to waste my time to troll ? A friend recommended me to this site and told me I will find some support . 

[Pmbkk]

 

If you're in the UK, you can give me the money and I PROMISE to pop back and pass it on - no detours to Pattaya ....????

[kingofthemountain]

3 minutes ago, Nees Shah said:

I love her and still do.. she says she loves me a lot too but why does money have to be Centre of this ? 

In a couple love needs to be a shared feeling

or it doesn't work on the long run. 

I am sorry for you but it's obvious she has 0 love for you

she is just trying to take advantage of you and milking you of all your money

Money is number 1 in Thailand

all the society is organised around this

the girls like your ''wife'' usualy come from a poor family and they have

no education or relation, their only chance to climb the social ladder and

to build up some assets is to catch someone like you.

You need to urgently open your eyes or you will be soon left with nothing at all

[fangless]

31 minutes ago, Nees Shah said:

she wanted a car and another condo to her name totaling 3million bhat. I reluctantly agreed because of my love for her but now she wants to move out because I cannot provide her 3 million Bhat.

So did you give her the "original" 3million and she is asking for more or did you just promise her it and buy a condo just for your self because you state  

 

34 minutes ago, Nees Shah said:

now she threatens to burn my condo documents

How many condos and who "Owns" it/them?