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[thaibeachlovers]

On 3/18/2022 at 5:19 PM, Adumbration said:

The bar stuff was a decade and a half ago.  They all went bust...

 

You forgot to mention that I am also currently renovating and adding extensions to the house I am living in at present. 

 

Yes, I have a busy, rich and fulfilling life here in Thailand.  I am sorry that that offends you.

I'm not offended, but Victor Meldrew might have something to say about it all.

 

Have a nice day building house  extensions, digging wells, night fishing and giving English lessons to newbie prostitutes. At least you'll never be bored.

[soi3eddie]

On 3/6/2022 at 12:16 PM, Will B Good said:

Better learn Thai or Isan if you want to date non-bar girls.

But if you want to date non-bar girls there is usually only one destination. Marriage! No thanks. Been there, done that, once is more than enough! 

Edited March 22, 2022 by soi3eddie

[Adumbration]

4 hours ago, thaibeachlovers said:

I'm not offended, but Victor Meldrew might have something to say about it all.

 

Have a nice day building house  extensions, digging wells, night fishing and giving English lessons to newbie prostitutes. At least you'll never be bored.

As I have already told you.  The bore was dug a good while back, in fact it was a few years back at the peak of the drought, thus now with normal rainfall there is an abundance of good water.  Have not had anything to do with any bars for a decade or so.  All my mates that had them all went bust.  So yes I will focus on catching and eating seafood and today I am laying some cement planks to finish the floor in the extension out back.  There is a sizeable groundswell that has arrived in the last few days (very out of season) so I have been surfing as well.  When the wet season hit proper I will just be surfing and I will also be designing and building a new boat.

 

Again, I have a busy and fulfilling life.  I am sorry if that offends you.

[thaibeachlovers]

2 hours ago, Adumbration said:

As I have already told you.  The bore was dug a good while back, in fact it was a few years back at the peak of the drought, thus now with normal rainfall there is an abundance of good water.  Have not had anything to do with any bars for a decade or so.  All my mates that had them all went bust.  So yes I will focus on catching and eating seafood and today I am laying some cement planks to finish the floor in the extension out back.  There is a sizeable groundswell that has arrived in the last few days (very out of season) so I have been surfing as well.  When the wet season hit proper I will just be surfing and I will also be designing and building a new boat.

 

Again, I have a busy and fulfilling life.  I am sorry if that offends you.

Again, I'm not offended, but I'm with Victor on it.

[BangkokReady]

On 3/9/2022 at 10:33 AM, Adumbration said:

It is not the physical issues that are important.  It is the psychological ones.

Unfortunately, many people see no issue with a women having had a high number of partners.  As with the person you are replying to, hundreds of men or being a literal prostitute are not deal breakers, it doesn't wear out and you can test for STDs, so what's the problem?

 

I would assume that these people must view women very much as just existing for sex, for them, and perhaps they have a very casual view of sex themselves.

 

Personally, I don't believe that a woman who has been with just a handful of guys in committed relationships will act or feel the same in a relationship as a woman who has been with hundreds of men or worked as a prostitute.

 

What is the problem with a woman having been with hundreds of guys or worked as a prostitute?  Maybe the fact that she is the kind of woman who would have sex with hundreds of guys or work as a prostitute?  The girl that goes out every weekend and lets a different dude have at her, barely remembering his name the next day, simply doesn't have the same attitude towards sex and relationships as a woman who carefully dates a couple of guys looking for marriage.  They aren't the same and won't behave the same in a long term relationship. It's also highly likely that they will come with a history of abuse and some sort of drug dependency.

[Excel]

8 hours ago, BangkokReady said:

Unfortunately, many people see no issue with a women having had a high number of partners.  As with the person you are replying to, hundreds of men or being a literal prostitute are not deal breakers, it doesn't wear out and you can test for STDs, so what's the problem?

 

I would assume that these people must view women very much as just existing for sex, for them, and perhaps they have a very casual view of sex themselves.

 

Personally, I don't believe that a woman who has been with just a handful of guys in committed relationships will act or feel the same in a relationship as a woman who has been with hundreds of men or worked as a prostitute.

 

What is the problem with a woman having been with hundreds of guys or worked as a prostitute?  Maybe the fact that she is the kind of woman who would have sex with hundreds of guys or work as a prostitute?  The girl that goes out every weekend and lets a different dude have at her, barely remembering his name the next day, simply doesn't have the same attitude towards sex and relationships as a woman who carefully dates a couple of guys looking for marriage.  They aren't the same and won't behave the same in a long term relationship. It's also highly likely that they will come with a history of abuse and some sort of drug dependency.

 So OK for males like yourself to do it but a no no for females.

[BangkokReady]

On 3/7/2022 at 7:50 AM, BritManToo said:

Even Roosh V couldn't score any 'free ones' after he hit 40.

Are you saying a 40 year old could not date or marry a Thai girl in her mid to late 20s?

[BritManToo]

2 minutes ago, BangkokReady said:

Are you saying a 40 year old could not date or marry a Thai girl in her mid to late 20s?

Not if he was broke.

Women (of any age) won't have sex with a guy over 40 for nothing.

 

Briffault's Law.

“the female, not the male, determines all the conditions of the animal family. Where the female can derive no benefit from association with the male, no such association takes place.”

Edited March 23, 2022 by BritManToo

[BangkokReady]

 

8 hours ago, Excel said:

So OK for males like yourself to do it but a no no for females.

Ummm, not OK for me as I don't do it.  I wouldn't recommend it for males either, but, as I understand it, the same damage isn't done to men from promiscuous sex as is done to women.

 

  I believe it to be the truth, backed up by general life experience, anecdotal evidence, as well as scientific research.

 

[BangkokReady]

4 minutes ago, BritManToo said:

Women (of any age) won't have sex with a guy over 40 for nothing.

So a twenty something woman would hook up with a thirty something man, but a thirty something woman would not hook up with a forty something man?

[thaibeachlovers]

1 hour ago, BangkokReady said:

Ummm, not OK for me as I don't do it.  I wouldn't recommend it for males either, but, as I understand it, the same damage isn't done to men from promiscuous sex as is done to women.

LOL, LOL, LOL.

IMO women have been as promiscuous as males ever since we became humans, except where the man had enough power to prevent her doing so. IMO the idea that good girls don't is a myth.

All those housewives throwing their panties at Tom Jones were probably "good" girls as far as their husbands were concerned.

I could tell some ribald stories about "good girl" nurses getting up to naughty things, but too naughty to tell on here.

[thaibeachlovers]

1 hour ago, BangkokReady said:

So a twenty something woman would hook up with a thirty something man, but a thirty something woman would not hook up with a forty something man?

IMO an "older woman" will take whatever is available when desperate enough, but it's not what they dreamed about as young girls.

[BangkokReady]

8 minutes ago, thaibeachlovers said:

LOL, LOL, LOL.

IMO women have been as promiscuous as males ever since we became humans, except where the man had enough power to prevent her doing so. IMO the idea that good girls don't is a myth.

All those housewives throwing their panties at Tom Jones were probably "good" girls as far as their husbands were concerned.

I could tell some ribald stories about "good girl" nurses getting up to naughty things, but too naughty to tell on here.

So, generally speaking, you don't think there will be much difference, in terms of marriage success, suitability as a parent and past volatility of childhood, between a prostitute who has had sex with hundreds of men and a woman who doesn't have sex outside of committed relationships?

[BangkokReady]

1 hour ago, BritManToo said:

Briffault's Law.

“the female, not the male, determines all the conditions of the animal family. Where the female can derive no benefit from association with the male, no such association takes place.”

With sex maybe, but doesn't the man determine who he commits to for marriage?

[The Hammer2021]

On 3/6/2022 at 8:19 PM, LaosLover said:

What's THEY'RE motivation?

 

Who's your competition?

 

If their motivation is at least explainable (and hopefully really pent up) and there's no competition, what does it matter where you ply your unstoppable game?

 

For me in Thailand, I quickly sussed out that the women I wanted (arty, western-worldly, good looking, non-dependent, sexually open-minded) practically didn't exist, rich Asian men more to their liking were in line ahead of me for them, and I'd have to really dress up and do a lot of boring rich people and Thai family stuff to even get in the game.

 

What do you bring to the boyfriend table that they can't get a better example of wandering around any floor of the MBK Mall for 2 hours?

"rich Asian men more to their liking were in line ahead of me for them, and I'd have to really dress up and do a lot of boring rich people and Thai family stuff to even get in the game"

Absolutely. To most Thai  women farangs are big, ugly, white gorillas...

[The Hammer2021]

4 minutes ago, BangkokReady said:

With sex maybe, but doesn't the man determine who he commits to for marriage?

No. He just thinks he does!

[BangkokReady]

5 minutes ago, The Hammer2021 said:

To most Thai  women farangs are big, ugly, white gorillas...

I'm not convinced that any Thai people consider foreigners to actually be humans, or at least that they are some sort of different lesser species.

[Adumbration]

7 hours ago, BritManToo said:

Not if he was broke.

Women (of any age) won't have sex with a guy over 40 for nothing.

 

Briffault's Law.

“the female, not the male, determines all the conditions of the animal family. Where the female can derive no benefit from association with the male, no such association takes place.”

I was well over 40 when I met my current GF. She is about 20 years younger than me.  She is beautiful also.  I have never given her a satang. Nor her family.  However I did once buy her father and nice pocket knife to use when he is competing his chickens at the cock fights.  What is in it for her? Not sure.  Been with her best part of a decade now.  Maybe it will dawn on me someday.

 

No...over to the trolls for all the "she's playing the long game" posts.

[thaibeachlovers]

17 hours ago, BangkokReady said:

With sex maybe, but doesn't the man determine who he commits to for marriage?

IMO most men are so desperate for it that they'll suborn themselves to any female that will do it with them. That's the only reason I can come up with to explain why some men marry the horrors they do. I also saw a lot of young western guys on Thai beaches that allowed themselves to be bossed around by their western girlfriends.

Not talking about rich men or rock stars that have too much choice.

[thaibeachlovers]

17 hours ago, BangkokReady said:

So, generally speaking, you don't think there will be much difference, in terms of marriage success, suitability as a parent and past volatility of childhood, between a prostitute who has had sex with hundreds of men and a woman who doesn't have sex outside of committed relationships?

I had a long reply that got lost when the wi fi went down for me, and I'm not going to repeat it, but generally speaking I don't think it makes any difference whatsoever. I've known really nice women that work as prostitutes for a while. Not mental, not drug users. As "normal" as any I've met, but with an unusual occupation at the time I met them.

[Adumbration]

2 hours ago, thaibeachlovers said:

I had a long reply that got lost when the wi fi went down for me, and I'm not going to repeat it, but generally speaking I don't think it makes any difference whatsoever. I've known really nice women that work as prostitutes for a while. Not mental, not drug users. As "normal" as any I've met, but with an unusual occupation at the time I met them.

Of course the counter argument is that they were already not normal when they decide that they were ok with selling their bodies as an occupation.

[thaibeachlovers]

1 hour ago, Adumbration said:

Of course the counter argument is that they were already not normal when they decide that they were ok with selling their bodies as an occupation.

That part of their anatomy doesn't wear out from over use and so long as it's not necessitated from drug addiction and is only done for a short period of time I see no reason to criticize.

I'd be a gigolo on that basis if life had taken me in that direction. Wasn't given the equipment to be a porn star.

[BritManToo]

1 hour ago, Adumbration said:

Of course the counter argument is that they were already not normal when they decide that they were ok with selling their bodies as an occupation.

I don't believe I've ever encountered a woman I would consider 'normal' by male standards.

 

[thaibeachlovers]

14 minutes ago, BritManToo said:

I don't believe I've ever encountered a woman I would consider 'normal' by male standards.

 

I've always said that men can never understand women and visa versa, and I haven't been proven wrong so far.

BTW IMO there is no such thing as "normal", only conformity and non conformity ( which is viewed as abnormal ). That's from decades of observing people in hospital, staff and patients alike. Nursing is a <deleted> job that I'd never recommend to anyone, but it does allow for an observant person to learn a lot about humanity.

[Adumbration]

10 hours ago, thaibeachlovers said:

That part of their anatomy doesn't wear out from over use and so long as it's not necessitated from drug addiction and is only done for a short period of time I see no reason to criticize.

I'd be a gigolo on that basis if life had taken me in that direction. Wasn't given the equipment to be a porn star.

No.

 

I am not criticizing. 

 

Anyone can do whatever they want with their body as no as it does not effect me.