7 hours ago, Danderman123 said:

Some 40 year olds only recently entered the biz, having separated from their Thai SO after many years of cohabitation. Usually because the Thai man has a younger lady now.

 

I know a lot of 40+ ladies working bar. What's interesting is which have Thai boyfriends - the determining factor is rack size, the bigger the rack, the more likely they have a Thai boyfriend.

I have noticed that myself some 30s\40s newbies in massage shops

11 hours ago, scubascuba3 said:

I have noticed that myself some 30s\40s newbies in massage shops

I shall look forward to that, next trip ????????

I tell the bargirls when I am going abroad and I post on Facebook, but inevitably when I am sleeping in the middle of the night in some far off  country, my phone rings. Its some bargirl with a problem, usually related to money.

 

 

I don't know a successful bargirl who isn't maintaining a young Thai man. Expensive.

 

Unless they have a lady friend. More expensive.

2 hours ago, Danderman123 said:

I don't know a successful bargirl who isn't maintaining a young Thai man. Expensive.

 

Unless they have a lady friend. More expensive.

Very true.  But at least bargirls tend to earn good money (if they're attractive) so can easily support their other half!

Sneaking away from their farang husband for 500 baht shorttimes. 

17 minutes ago, brewsterbudgen said:

Very true.  But at least bargirls tend to earn good money (if they're attractive) so can easily support their other half!

Exactly.

 

The problem is their inability to hold onto their cash.

 

And it's not just their Thai significant other. The family demands more cash if they know she has money.

 

One fatal weakness for Thai people is their desire to demonstrate their wealth. So the bargirl goes back to the village wearing gold baht.

Got bored and ended up in this topic..

 

Jesus H..

 

Several pages of this drivel almost entirely from D..123.  The Guru of Goo.. I saw someone reference Penthouse Forum letters. Exactly. Fellow is living his Kleenex fantasies online.. entirely in his head. Or he has a trust fund, because he  claims to be dropping enough dosh on pre-menopausal women to put him behind the wheel of a Benz.

 

Got curious and checked his vitals.. joined 2020. Almost 8000 posts. Mostly like this I'm sure..

23 minutes ago, bobbin said:

Got bored and ended up in this topic..

 

Jesus H..

 

Several pages of this drivel almost entirely from D..123.  The Guru of Goo.. I saw someone reference Penthouse Forum letters. Exactly. Fellow is living his Kleenex fantasies online.. entirely in his head. Or he has a trust fund, because he  claims to be dropping enough dosh on pre-menopausal women to put him behind the wheel of a Benz.

 

Got curious and checked his vitals.. joined 2020. Almost 8000 posts. Mostly like this I'm sure..

"Truly a legend in his own mind"

36 minutes ago, bobbin said:

Got bored and ended up in this topic..

 

Jesus H..

 

Several pages of this drivel almost entirely from D..123.  The Guru of Goo.. I saw someone reference Penthouse Forum letters. Exactly. Fellow is living his Kleenex fantasies online.. entirely in his head. Or he has a trust fund, because he  claims to be dropping enough dosh on pre-menopausal women to put him behind the wheel of a Benz.

 

Got curious and checked his vitals.. joined 2020. Almost 8000 posts. Mostly like this I'm sure..

 

I won't bore you with the financial stuff.

Sometimes I will talk to bargirls over 40 to discuss their "boyfriends". If they are not married and therefore still working bar, when they discuss Farangs (or older Thai men), they evaluate men by the amount of money the men promise to give the lady.

 

So every conversation about their new "love" is focused on money.

 

On the other hand, many ladies have a young Thai man somewhere in the mix, and then the ladies focus on the age of the Thai man. And they are happy to admit they give baht to the young Thai man. The older the Thai man, the less willing the lady is to admit she is giving the Thai man money.

 

Giving money to a Thai man the same age as the lady is a real loss of face.

 

The ladies I know cannot understand that tying relationships to money will result in either a long sad relationship with an old Farang or they will be alone when they can't attract a Farang and have no money for a Thai man. That's when they go back to the village and let their daughters support them.

Bargirls who come to my place often search my bathroom for a new toothbrush. Once they find one, they use it once but the next time they come, they open up a new one. So, I have a bathroom filled with once used toothbrushes.

27 minutes ago, Danderman123 said:

Bargirls who come to my place often search my bathroom for a new toothbrush. Once they find one, they use it once but the next time they come, they open up a new one. So, I have a bathroom filled with once used toothbrushes.

 

A committed whore-monger should always have a supply of toothbrushes for his 'guests'!

8 minutes ago, brewsterbudgen said:

 

A committed whore-monger should always have a supply of toothbrushes for his 'guests'!

You are correct. I will have to steal more toothbrushes from hotels.

If I get a message from a bargirl who I haven't seen for a while on the first day of the month, I don't answer.

 

Because bargirls wake up on the first of the month, remember that they need to pay rent, and then send messages to everyone they know asking to borrow money.

6 hours ago, Danderman123 said:

If I get a message from a bargirl who I haven't seen for a while on the first day of the month, I don't answer.

 

Because bargirls wake up on the first of the month, remember that they need to pay rent, and then send messages to everyone they know asking to borrow money.

I thought you claimed to have a different girl every day. Guess not huh? 

1 hour ago, Yellowtail said:

I thought you claimed to have a different girl every day. Guess not huh? 

From a message I received from a bargirl I haven't seen in a while, you deduce that I am running out of ladies?

 

 

Now I *am* running out of ladies, High Season is here, and my harem of bargirls don't seem to love me anymore.

A bargirl in Isaan hit me up today for cash to buy a plane ticket to Bangkok. After some discussion, she revealed that she need to come to Pattaya to talk to her ex husband about increasing child support.

 

So she was asking one man to give her money to go ask another man about giving her more money.

29 minutes ago, Danderman123 said:

A bargirl in Isaan hit me up today for cash to buy a plane ticket to Bangkok. After some discussion, she revealed that she need to come to Pattaya to talk to her ex husband about increasing child support.

 

So she was asking one man to give her money to go ask another man about giving her more money.

So, you post this made up, fantasy crap to keep your thread running. Good job.

14 minutes ago, EVENKEEL said:

So, you post this made up, fantasy crap to keep your thread running. Good job.

I just post what happens, up to you to read it.

5 hours ago, Danderman123 said:

Now I *am* running out of ladies, High Season is here, and my harem of bargirls don't seem to love me anymore.

usually that's a money thing, 2 week millionaires happy paying more

7 minutes ago, scubascuba3 said:

usually that's a money thing, 2 week millionaires happy paying more

No kidding.

 

There are 2 week millionaires throwing money at ladies, and the lonely guys who get fixated on a lady and send her money after they go home. So, some ladies go home for a few months after New Years, until the lonely guys snap out of it.

5 hours ago, Danderman123 said:

No kidding.

 

There are 2 week millionaires throwing money at ladies, and the lonely guys who get fixated on a lady and send her money after they go home. So, some ladies go home for a few months after New Years, until the lonely guys snap out of it.

Can i fix that for you?

 

......................and the lonely stupid  guys who get fixated on a lady and send her money after they go home. So, some ladies go home for a few months after New Years, until the lonely stupid  guys snap out of it. 

Better?  😉😂

This is true for bargirls of every country:

 

There is a very short elapsed time between sending them a message and there asking you for money.

 

If I tell a bargirl that I will be in town on X day, its common for them to send messages back about some topic that has nothing to do with hooking up. I will respond to their questions out of politeness.

 

Once five or so exchanges have passed, then they will  relate some sad story and ask for money.

 

 

2 hours ago, Danderman123 said:

This is true for bargirls of every country:

 

There is a very short elapsed time between sending them a message and there asking you for money.

 

If I tell a bargirl that I will be in town on X day, its common for them to send messages back about some topic that has nothing to do with hooking up. I will respond to their questions out of politeness.

 

Once five or so exchanges have passed, then they will  relate some sad story and ask for money.

 

 

Which countries are you referring to?  Do many countries have bargirls like Thailand?  I doubt punters using prostitutes in the west have any contact with their service provider once the deed is done.  

On 11/30/2023 at 8:08 AM, Danderman123 said:

A bargirl in Isaan hit me up today for cash to buy a plane ticket to Bangkok. After some discussion, she revealed that she need to come to Pattaya to talk to her ex husband about increasing child support.

 

So she was asking one man to give her money to go ask another man about giving her more money.

Why do you interact with these women? If you ain't banging them, there's no need to reply to them.

 

Your posts make you look weak.

19 minutes ago, brewsterbudgen said:

Which countries are you referring to?  Do many countries have bargirls like Thailand?  I doubt punters using prostitutes in the west have any contact with their service provider once the deed is done.  

You've never been to Latin America? After my experiences there, Thailand has been easy peasy.

 

My conversations with Mexican bargirls are in Spanish.

13 minutes ago, BritManToo said:

Why do you interact with these women? If you ain't banging them, there's no need to reply to them.

 

Your posts make you look weak.

The title of this topic includes the word "bargirls".

 

I message them for logistical purposes, but some of them don't stop sending messages until I decline a money request.

I often receive messages from bargirls who relate physical problems (illness, accident, etc) with the implication that they can't work for a while (and therefore have no money). I try to minimize the discussion, and after a few exchanges, they realize that I am not going to volunteer to send cash, so they trail off.

 

I guess there are lonely guys who immediately respond to these messages by sending cash.