What was the outcome when your daughter found out your TGF was younger than her?

[Nemises]

If she accepted it and your relationship with your daughter didn’t suffer, then good for you!
However, interested in hearing from those whose daughter’s did not approve. 
Still not talking with the daughter?

What about her children (the grandkids)? Miss not knowing them?

Did other family members take the side of your daughter?

 

 

[GinBoy2]

Thankfully I have never experienced this, both my American and Thai wife's are roughly the same age as are our assorted adult kids, and we all kinda work it out.

 

But I've got a couple friends, who's adult kids never spoke to their Dad again. One especially after he had a child with his younger than his farang daughter Thai wife.

 

He now lives back in the UK, 20 miles away from his daughter, and the last time I spoke to him, she still refuses to speak to him

Edited July 7, 2023 by GinBoy2

[BritManToo]

28 minutes ago, GinBoy2 said:

He now lives back in the UK, 20 miles away from his daughter, and the last time I spoke to him, she still refuses to speak to him

Can't say I bother with my kids once they've moved out. Guess I'm a bad person.

[Henryford]

The problem is when your grand daughter finds out your Thai GF is younger than her.

[Kwasaki]

Another where personal men's lives and situations can be so different.

What was the outcome family and friends love my wife and are please that I am happy.

 

Briefly I took my future wife for a 6 month holiday the first length of stay given to her at the time to UK to meet the family and my 2 youngest who lived with me 10 and 16yr old.

 

My eldest son is same age as my wife. 

My eldest daughter is 2years younger.

My middle son 12 years younger.

 

When my wife was able to get the 2 year uk visa it was a great help with my to youngest while I was planning my retirement.

 

She met my previous 3 wives except one, met all my friends and when we returned to Thailand together and me retiring here, family mostly and friends have come to Thailand on holidays to see us every year except covid time.

 

 

[FruitPudding]

My friend's eldest daughter was not happy at all when she found out he'd married a TG the same age as her (or maybe a bit younger.) ????

[thaibeachlovers]

More to the point, how many farangs with very much younger wives, girlfriends would give them up because someone else didn't approve?

Personally, I'd tell them if they didn't like it to bog off.

[Grumpy one]

My ex found out I had a g/f who was 3 years older than our daughter.

It wasn't long before my kids started treating me like a leper.

I then did the right thing and married said g/f, and had a clearing sale of all my possessions in Aus

Now we live in bliss with no contact from the ex or the kids

[OneMoreFarang]

20 minutes ago, thaibeachlovers said:

More to the point, how many farangs with very much younger wives, girlfriends would give them up because someone else didn't approve?

Personally, I'd tell them if they didn't like it to bog off.

I agree.

If a guy is happy with his young girlfriend or wife, then he is happy. 

Should he marry an old woman only to make other people happy? Sure not! 

 

It's not his problem when the other people don't like it. It's their home-made problem. 

[OneMoreFarang]

6 minutes ago, Grumpy one said:

My ex found out I had a g/f who was 3 years older than our daughter.

It wasn't long before my kids started treating me like a leper.

I then did the right thing and married said g/f, and had a clearing sale of all my possessions in Aus

Now we live in bliss with no contact from the ex or the kids

That reminds me of a rich guy I know who has a great young girlfriend.

His kids don't like it. But the kids still want that he helps them with their investments and the kids still want to inherit everything. 

[JeffersLos]

Maybe pay the daughter the same monthly amount you need to pay the 'wife' and she'll pretend to like you too?

[chalawaan]

I think the real question is why didn't you all get a vasectomy 20-40 years ago?

 

I had to fight the system for it, but by god it's been worth the struggle.

 

Also, if you are over 40, and your wife is not menopausal, then seriously do it!

 

If you can hold down a female tiger younger than your first kid, more power to you, but it's just perplexing seeing a grey geezer with pre-teens and a fertile wife in tow. 

 

Suckers for punishment.

[chalawaan]

27 minutes ago, OneMoreFarang said:

That reminds me of a rich guy I know who has a great young girlfriend.

His kids don't like it. But the kids still want that he helps them with their investments and the kids still want to inherit everything. 

The girlfriend is a serious wealth threat to the kids. 

Another drama nobody needs in their lives. 

[Tropicalevo]

This is not just a TG thing.

My daughter stopped speaking to me when I married my second wife who was only a few of years older then her.

Wife #2 was English.

[OneMoreFarang]

I guess often it's all about the money.

 

Should that young Thai sl$#% get the money or we kids, who obviously deserve it?

IMHO the kids should have the happiness of the father in mind. If his young gf makes him happy, fine.

 

But then, I am sure that kids are also more able to detect gold diggers. And I am sure if they do detect such a gold digger then they don't like that scenario in many ways.

[BusyB]

It sure as hell felt strange when I met my Thai girlfriend's parents who were the same age as me. Weird feeling.

[Seeall]

8 hours ago, Nemises said:

If she accepted it and your relationship with your daughter didn’t suffer, then good for you!
However, interested in hearing from those whose daughter’s did not approve. 
Still not talking with the daughter?

What about her children (the grandkids)? Miss not knowing them?

Did other family members take the side of your daughter?

 

 

they will be poisoned by all the relatives, waste your life fighting it.. doenst matter what is true or what you say.... I have a GF 3 x younger....

[bignok]

5 hours ago, Grumpy one said:

My ex found out I had a g/f who was 3 years older than our daughter.

It wasn't long before my kids started treating me like a leper.

I then did the right thing and married said g/f, and had a clearing sale of all my possessions in Aus

Now we live in bliss with no contact from the ex or the kids

Then she dumps you

[bignok]

4 hours ago, JeffersLos said:

Maybe pay the daughter the same monthly amount you need to pay the 'wife' and she'll pretend to like you too?

Yes it is all money. Fake gf, kids pretending to like dad. Most farangs are delusional. Kidding themselves. Love to see photos of all these so called gfs.

[Yellowtail]

Another wind-up then? 

 

Okay, when my daughter (your granddaughter) found out, she was relived because she was tired of you molesting her and thought my new wife might help her. 

[SoilSpoil]

Let's turn the question around. What if your daughter dates someone 30 years older. Would you have any problem with that? I would and that's why I would never date a TG much younger than me. 

[SoilSpoil]

16 minutes ago, bignok said:

Yes it is all money. Fake gf, kids pretending to like dad. Most farangs are delusional. Kidding themselves. Love to see photos of all these so called gfs.

I bet you do.

[Muhendis]

After the initial blown gaskets my adult kids couldn't give a monkeys about age difference and are quite pleased I have someone young enough to take care of me.

[Reginald Prewster]

Daughter:

(Step) Mom (mae, chang mai mi tang) I am a bit broke, can you borrow me a 100 quit?

You know when I ask Dad he is always angry and blames me why I cannot handle money...

 

New wife:

ok I go to Western Union in one hr you got, is 300 EUR enough? We tell Dad next week...

Did you learn from your mistake?

 

Daughter:

Yes I did, Thank you mom, I'll be at western in about 30 minutes.. 

 

Happened not only one time behind my back... 

And when I complained my wife would say I am a bad father... 

 

Lucky its about 15 years ago, they are now sorted, have good jobs and don't ask anymore... 

 

 

[LukKrueng]

I never discuss my girlfriends with my daughter not with my wife!

[Lacessit]

I don't have a daughter. If I did, her reaction to my GF ( 23 years younger ) would be irrelevant to me. It's my life, not hers.

[GinBoy2]

1 hour ago, SoilSpoil said:

Let's turn the question around. What if your daughter dates someone 30 years older. Would you have any problem with that? I would and that's why I would never date a TG much younger than me. 

Well ditto that.

 

I would have serious issues if either of my daughters were dating a man my age.

 

Of course my daughters are American, so the money/power dynamic doesn't really come into play as in so many(most) Thai/Farang older man younger woman relationships.

 

I know the fantasy is that when you take your 'younger than my daughter' wife/gf home, other men are envious.

 

Truth is men and women find it kinda creepy

[Bangkok Barry]

9 hours ago, GinBoy2 said:

But I've got a couple friends, who's adult kids never spoke to their Dad again. One especially after he had a child with his younger than his farang daughter Thai wife.

 

He now lives back in the UK, 20 miles away from his daughter, and the last time I spoke to him, she still refuses to speak to him

Has she told him why? Before she stopped talking to him.

[BritManToo]

7 minutes ago, GinBoy2 said:

Truth is men and women find it kinda creepy

I find the thought of having sex with a 60+ year old woman 'kinda creepy'.

[Yellowtail]

4 minutes ago, BritManToo said:

I find the thought of having sex with a 60+ year old woman 'kinda creepy'.

"If you don't think you're getting old, start dating women your own age."