Breaking up with a Thai girl

[fredwiggy]

15 minutes ago, Goat said:

It is sad that you think you need to 'fool' girls in order for them to sleep with you.

It might surprise you but women are wired to want to make love. When aroused their vagina swells up and gets moist. It is a natural thing. And they love an orgasm.

I dont always give the woman an orgasm, but when I do they often spit it out.

If you think money makes you attractive you will be attracting them for the wrong reason. And your suggestion that you should use prostitutes is frankly appalling. Why would anyone want to make love with a woman who was only doing it for the money, and with thousands, if not tens of thousands of men.

I don't think I need to fool girls at all. I'm honest with them all along. I've been married to those that chose to hurt, and they lost a man that knows how to treat a woman, as all men should do. I've been around with and dated women for  almost 50 years, dated over 100, and have read many books on the subject of how to get along. I, like most others, made mistakes in my choices and both I and the children we made paid the price. I have never become jaded or angered by these failures because they made me what I always was, and have become better at. being a man. Men don't use women and toss them aside. Boys do, because they have never, or yet, been taught what a woman is, and means. They aren't objects to get off in, nor hit, abuse and walk all over. they are our equals, and anyone who thinks otherwise has never learned what being a man really is. People are attracted to each other because of chemistry, not because of money, besides those that are object oriented and don't care what they have as long as they can buy them things. Attraction isn't a choice. You either are or you're not. Sometimes you might not feel attracted much when you first meet someone, but if you get to know them, it grows because of respect. Respect is what happens when you look at women as people and not accomplishments. I suggested you use prostitutes because good women aren't meant to be used. A prostitute is damaged goods, and only looks at you as money to pay her way. Why would any woman want to make love with a "man" who was only doing it to get off, and has done it countless times with clueless women before? I hope you know every word you say here makes you look like a man even most men despise. Of course, some will stick up for you because they think like you do. That women are objects to use. They aren't, no matter if they are bad or good. If you don't like someone, move on and let them be with someone that appreciates who they are for who they are, and not what they can give you.

Edited March 5 by fredwiggy

[Goat]

6 minutes ago, fredwiggy said:

and have read many books on the subject

You read the books.

The GOAT wrote the books.

 

Ok, so how do YOU dump Thai girls?  What has worked best for you? 

That is what this thread is about.

 

[Goat]

8 minutes ago, fredwiggy said:

made mistakes in my choices and both I and the children we made paid the price.

A real man would make it work if children were involved. A real man puts aside his petty grievances and just gets on with it. 

[newbee2022]

1 hour ago, Goat said:

How do you break up with Thai girls?

And how did that go?

I never met a bar stool girl and never met any uneducated Thai woman (not girlies).

When it came to separation we did it in an appropriate way, because no money issues involved.

I'm sure this doesn't meet your level.

[Keeps]

1 hour ago, ujayujay said:

Are you Aussie

 

1 hour ago, Goat said:

Yeah mate

My deepest sympathies.

[Goat]

2 minutes ago, newbee2022 said:

never met any uneducated Thai woman

Sure mate.

[Goat]

1 minute ago, Keeps said:

 

My deepest sympathies.

Appreciated mate.

[fredwiggy]

2 minutes ago, Goat said:

You read the books.

The GOAT wrote the books.

 

Ok, so how do YOU dump Thai girls?  What has worked best for you? 

That is what this thread is about.

 

Using women for your own pleasure isn't writing books but making a mockery of them, along with the women you use. I've dated many women, many of which were looking for a physical relationship with a man with a good body, as I was from age 17 on. It was mutual. No future plans. Just shared company and some fun. Those I dated I was serious about I never used, and let things go along until we both decided if it was going to work. Many didn't have the same future plans I did, so we parted. I never lied to them, or forced them into anything they didn't want, at least at that time. Relationships end for many reasons, and if starts to hurt someone, you leave. I was always looking for a relationship, although one night stands happened. When things aren't going like both want them, you leave. Someone might get hurt, but better now than later. And the hurt will pass quick because it wasn't what either wanted for the future. People get attracted to each other quick, and things happen, but again, I was always looking for a girlfriend, and not a woman to use and toss aside. I dated two here after I divorced my wife, and both weren't what I was looking for, so it stopped immediately. The one I'm with now I've been with over three years. She has only been with her husband, who passed away, and who treated her bad and didn't support her like  a husband should. The same for the children they made. She dated a few farangs, who didn't accept her for some reason or another, and she doesn't want a Thai man  for many reasons, all of which are known here. If I could, I would marry her and bring her back to the states when I leave. It might happen, but for now we're doing okay. I'm not a user, as it always backfires. And that's always, unless you don't care about being alone or with a b*tch that despises you and only stays because you have more money than a local usually has. And being with someone that doesn't love, respect, care for you and enjoy you're company is worse than being alone. The older you get, the less you can fool. Using women here is easy because they're dreamers, hoping for something better than what locals (most) can give them. The more you use, the more they begin to despise foreigners also. That's jaded, and a good girl doesn't deserve that.

[fredwiggy]

20 minutes ago, Goat said:

A real man would make it work if children were involved. A real man puts aside his petty grievances and just gets on with it. 

A real man ends things as soon as he can because staying in a loveless, abusive relationship is never good for children. Children do better when people part, as long as they can be civil towards each other, and share parenting. Many times jealousy or hate makes that impossible, so you do your best to be at least one parent for the child(ren). You do what you can to stay together, and that means both work at it. If one does the work and the other doesn't care after a reasonable amount of time, you negotiate what's best for the kids. If you can't, you have to let a cold court decide, and that usually doesn't favor the man, although I had custody of 4 of my children back home because my ex was a nutcase.

Edited March 5 by fredwiggy

[Gottfrid]

22 hours ago, Lacessit said:

Hasn't worked for me, what am I doing wrong?

Do you use a fake identity?

[connda]

Lock up the sharp objects.

[Goat]

1 hour ago, fredwiggy said:

She has only been with her husband

She dated a few farangs,

I am a bit sceptical.

[Goat]

1 hour ago, fredwiggy said:

Using women here is easy because they're dreamers, hoping for something better than what locals (most) can give them.

That reminds me of one a couple of years back. Absolute stunner so I had to be on top of my game.

So I whispered in her ear "Come back and I will give you 12 inches" 

Her eyes lit up and she nearly wet herself.

After nearly two full minutes of passionate love making she rolled over.

 

"Goat, that was the best i had ever had. But what about the 12 inches you promised"

 

i replied "Dont worry Fon, that was only the first four. Give me an hour and I will give you another four. And then another four before I leave in the morning"

[fredwiggy]

5 minutes ago, Goat said:

I am a bit sceptical.

That's because along with your style of thinking comes mistrust of the very women you're using. This is a learned behavior. Something that is hard to turn around and it comes from either seeing it firsthand growing up or not trusting those that were responsible for teaching you values. Not too late to change, although narcissism has no cure, only an ability to understand the damage you're doing and try and understand what it is to be an empath.

[Goat]

4 minutes ago, fredwiggy said:

That's because along with your style of thinking comes mistrust of the very women

Yes, i have seen how many lie and claim "only one man before you". 

 

I have had over 20 wives in my life.

 

They were not my wives, but other people wives.

I have never been married. I dont believe in paying women for sex.

[spidermike007]

You forgot the best one of all, embarrass them consistently in front of their friends and strangers. They are so utterly obsessed with face this will drive them away like the plague. 

 

Of course you can always do what real men do, and just tell them I'm leaving, this isn't working for me anymore, it's been nice knowing you, and I hope things work out well for you. Take care, goodbye.

 

You'd be surprised how easily a lot of Thai women can get over a relationship. 

[Goat]

2 minutes ago, spidermike007 said:

You'd be surprised how easily a lot of Thai women can get over a relationship. 

With you maybe Spider.

But with the POTY Goat they take it very hard more often than not.

[fredwiggy]

1 minute ago, Goat said:

Yes, i have seen how many lie and claim "only one man before you". 

 

I have had over 20 wives in my life.

 

They were not my wives, but other people wives.

I have never been married. I dont believe in paying women for sex.

If you're over 35, and the way you talk it seems otherwise, and aren't married by that time, then your hatred and or mistrust of women is definitely ingrained. Bragging about having another man's wife, albeit sluts because they cheated, sounds like a lie for one thing, and if it's the truth, you need to think about this because the next one might end your days. You are setting yourself up for a retirement of either paying ,like you say you don't, or being in a relationship with a real winner, because only a real winner would stay with someone with your history. Unless of course you lie to her like you're lying to us. A player, like you say you are, is i it for control, and that's where that hatred and mistrust comes in. Someone taught you to hate women and to only use them. It's usually because you lack a sense of control in your own life, so you do this to others to feel something. The rush from having non committal sex only lasts awhile, because making love isn't the same as using a woman for your own pleasure, and it gets old fast. Rinse and repeat, until you're too old to get one to stay. A player has low self esteem and uses the attention to boost their fragile egos. Here it's easy because the girls, like I mentioned, are full of hope. Hurting these women makes it harder for them to enjoy a normal relationship with a man that actually understand women and knows how to love them. So in effect you are hurting other men as well.

[fredwiggy]

1 minute ago, Goat said:

With you maybe Spider.

But with the POTY Goat they take it very hard more often than not.

They take it hard because they have been fooled by yet another teenage thinking man, and like I said in the other post, they take revenge on the ones that follow, and might never be able to get close to the one man that really cares.

[Nick Carter icp]

1 minute ago, Goat said:

With you maybe Spider.

But with the POTY Goat they take it very hard more often than not.

 

You shouldn't be allowed to refer to yourself as POTY , as you were the only one that voted in that poll and you were the only person nominated .

   You only got one vote and it was you who casted that one vote

[transam]

3 minutes ago, Goat said:

With you maybe Spider.

But with the POTY Goat they take it very hard more often than not.

Is that poty trained Goat, can't be anything else.........🤭.........

[Goat]

8 minutes ago, spidermike007 said:

You forgot the best one of all, embarrass them consistently in front of their friends and strangers. They are so utterly obsessed with face this will drive them away like the plague. 

A bit of slut shaming you think would do the the trick?

[transam]

17 minutes ago, Goat said:

Yes, i have seen how many lie and claim "only one man before you". 

 

I have had over 20 wives in my life.

 

They were not my wives, but other people wives.

I have never been married. I dont believe in paying women for sex.

Yes, riiiight.................Enter>>> your girlie bar advice here.....................😆

 

 

Edited March 5 by transam

[Goat]

2 minutes ago, Nick Carter icp said:

 

You shouldn't be allowed to refer to yourself as POTY , as you were the only one that voted in that poll and you were the only person nominated .

   You only got one vote and it was you who casted that one vote

That was only the second time I won it. They call it unopposed in political speak.

 

And if you forfeited your right to vote then dont blame me. 

[Goat]

1 minute ago, transam said:

Yes, riiiight.................Enter>>> your girlie bar advice here.....................😆

Well as you are very well aware from personal experience. Wives change their minds, they tire of their husbands and they start lusting after men with no commitments. 

It is very common. You cant trust them.

[Nick Carter icp]

Just now, Goat said:

That was only the second time I won it. They call it unopposed in political speak.

 

And if you forfeited your right to vote then dont blame me. 

 

   Yinn won poster of the year that year , you then held your own competition and you voted for yourself and then announced yourself to be the winner , winning 100 % of the vote 

[Goat]

8 minutes ago, fredwiggy said:

They take it hard because they have been fooled by yet another teenage thinking man

That is bit young.

Personally between 25 and 32 is my sweetspot.

[Goat]

2 minutes ago, Nick Carter icp said:

 

   Yinn won poster of the year that year , you then held your own competition and you voted for yourself and then announced yourself to be the winner , winning 100 % of the vote 

As I said, the first time I won it it was fair and square

[Nick Carter icp]

Just now, Goat said:

As I said, the first time I won it it was fair and square

 

   When was the first time that you won it ?

Which year ?

[transam]

5 minutes ago, Goat said:

Well as you are very well aware from personal experience. Wives change their minds, they tire of their husbands and they start lusting after men with no commitments. 

It is very common. You cant trust them.

I wouldn't know what women are thinking, all women are different, same with men, look at the difference between you and me..........😱