So many lonely guys

[richard_smith237]

 

On 5/4/2024 at 10:25 AM, simon43 said:

GG, if you want this problem to go away, I suggest you remove your profile from Grindr... 🙂

 

Erm....        

 

On 5/4/2024 at 8:12 AM, georgegeorgia said:

Yes 

I went back to a man's condo last Wednesday night.

 

Pitcher or catcher ?

Postman or Letter box ?

 

 

 

 

[JimTripper]

17 hours ago, Bobthegimp said:

By the time you've got "enough" it might be at the point in life that your desires (or body) have died. 

Part of what makes something desirable and exciting is lack of it.

 

Sitting in the Usa, Pattaya looks like paradise. Once I got here I don't feel like enjoying it much. Another word for it is "overkill". Too much of something makes it less desirable because there is no challenge involved in obtaining it.

[Bobthegimp]

1 hour ago, JimTripper said:

Part of what makes something desirable and exciting is lack of it.

 

Sitting in the Usa, Pattaya looks like paradise. Once I got here I don't feel like enjoying it much. Another word for it is "overkill". Too much of something makes it less desirable because there is no challenge involved in obtaining it.

 

“HAVING IS NOT SO PLEASING A THING, AFTER ALL, AS WANTING. IT IS NOT LOGICAL BUT OFTEN TRUE.” – SPOCK (AMOK TIME, STAR TREK TOS)

I love being here for many reasons. The sunshine, food, poontang when needed and solitude the rest of the time. The low cost of living allowed me to retire early. There is a lot more personal freedom here than in Canada.  One can blame our witless ruler but it's all done with the consent of the majority of the governed. 

[JimTripper]

3 minutes ago, Bobthegimp said:

 

“HAVING IS NOT SO PLEASING A THING, AFTER ALL, AS WANTING. IT IS NOT LOGICAL BUT OFTEN TRUE.” – SPOCK (AMOK TIME, STAR TREK TOS)

I love being here for many reasons. The sunshine, food, poontang when needed and solitude the rest of the time. The low cost of living allowed me to retire early. There is a lot more personal freedom here than in Canada.  One can blame our witless ruler but it's all done with the consent of the majority of the governed. 

A main reason why gamblers keep playing whether they are winning or losing. Or if they win big, they return after a short time.

 

The rush is from the attempt and expectation of winning and has nothing to do with the amount money being gained.

[Hummin]

If you easily offended, or in any way socially disturbed, follow Kamelas advise, Thailand is not for you

 

 

[jak2002003]

On 5/4/2024 at 5:51 AM, JimTripper said:

Which VT are you in and for how long?

 

These types of interactions are there. I think part if it is the bar scene here. Guys are used to sitting at a barstool near other guys and expecting a conversation.

 

I also interpret some if it as gay, but it depends on the guy. It's always at the back of my mind. 

 No gay farang living here is going to want to talk to another farang expat to try to hit on them ....Why would they want an old fat loser when they can choose from all the fit, attractive young smiling and happy Thai guys? 😂

.... So dont worry about that. 

[Olmate]

On 5/4/2024 at 6:11 PM, transam said:

And why not, are you a Vicar........?  

Stoney moved to fukket, so go figure! 

[JimTripper]

1 hour ago, jak2002003 said:

 No gay farang living here is going to want to talk to another farang expat to try to hit on them ....Why would they want an old fat loser when they can choose from all the fit, attractive young smiling and happy Thai guys? 😂

.... So dont worry about that. 

For the same reason bars are filled all over with men talking to other men of similar circumstances and backgrounds.

[BritManToo]

1 hour ago, jak2002003 said:

 No gay farang living here is going to want to talk to another farang expat to try to hit on them ....Why would they want an old fat loser when they can choose from all the fit, attractive young smiling and happy Thai guys? 😂

.... So dont worry about that. 

Penis size?

[jacko45k]

1 hour ago, jak2002003 said:

 No gay farang living here is going to want to talk to another farang expat to try to hit on them ....Why would they want an old fat loser when they can choose from all the fit, attractive young smiling and happy Thai guys? 😂

.... So dont worry about that. 

So they are wasting their time going to gyms?

[gargamon]

On 5/4/2024 at 9:00 PM, CHdiver said:

Instead you should have walked the other way. Just past Soi 1 BeachRd. Jomtien, you see a newish red Building. Ground floor has a Gym with Aircon. Its not freezing cold and its not too expensive, you even get free cold water (but bring your own bottle).

 

Btw. does Tonys still sell lifetime Memberships for 6k baht, or was it 10K? Anyway, In that case the mentioned Gym may be too expensive for you. I do not want that you can't afford the aircon in your shoebox and then it will be as hot in your shoebox as the shoebox of the other Gents you complain about. 

No. Please don't send him to that one. I use it.

[gk10012001]

i been going there since 2004.  Of course there are some lonely people there. Happens anywhere.  What I hated to see was the middle aged to older folks that were burned out, sitting at the bottom of Pattaya Klang. Their cash ran out long ago.  Now barely scraping by on some meager social security or disability pension or maybe minimal staff seargeant pay etc.. 

[ezzra]

On 5/4/2024 at 2:41 PM, georgegeorgia said:

I have come to the conclusion after 2 weeks here that there are many lonely guys here expats living in hot shoebox rooms , 

 

I have had to start using my headphones to deter lonely people AND attention seekers 

 

Attention seekers are guys who look for you and try to get a reaction 

One guy sitting next to me on a banana chair trying to impress me that he can speak thai , shouting in the phone then looking to see if I'm looking 

 

I sit outside in view talay apartment reading my books right in a corner chair well AWAY from others only to get some one who wants to sit next to me ,all the way out of the way from the pool,only me sitting there doing my statistics and data study  and still get a farang sit next to me and proceed to shout on a phone call in Thai.!

 

I then had to get my headphones out or move, he then got angry tapped me on the shoulder ' hey buddy do you know what time it is ?

 

Lonely guys ,please don't make a expat life exciting if you are living in shoe boxes looking to attention seeking for lonilessness 

Life here in Pattaya doesn't look exciting to these old bored expats 

 

I'm here to read my books not have get into conversations or hear your whinging stories 

 

 

 

It's cheaper and sunnier to be lonely here than in many countries around the world...

[RandiRona]

"So many lonely guys"

 

Ohh, The Irony!!

[BritManToo]

On 5/4/2024 at 11:41 AM, georgegeorgia said:

Attention seekers are guys who look for you and try to get a reaction

I thought that was you with all your nonsense topics.

[AreYouGerman]

This is clearly bait. Anyway.

 

How to make new friends?

 

By showing anti societal behavior.

 

Am I part of a society or am I just a battery?

 

Bonus: A battery that has to make money that can be taxed so a boomer's pensions get paid?

 

[Pattaya57]

6 hours ago, gk10012001 said:

i been going there since 2004.  Of course there are some lonely people there. Happens anywhere.  What I hated to see was the middle aged to older folks that were burned out, sitting at the bottom of Pattaya Klang. Their cash ran out long ago.  Now barely scraping by on some meager social security or disability pension or maybe minimal staff seargeant pay etc.. 

First off, how do you know they're burned out and have run out of cash? There are many people here that have a load of retirement cash but still sit in bars buying 60 baht beer so you might think they're scraping by....

 

Also what's at the bottom of Pattaya Klang? I assume you're talking about the cheap beach road bars corner of soi 7? Those people always seem to be having a lot of fun when I walk by 🍺🍺 

 

[BigStar]

2 hours ago, Pattaya57 said:

First off, how do you know they're burned out and have run out of cash? There are many people here that have a load of retirement cash but still sit in bars buying 60 baht beer so you might think they're scraping by....

 

True. The topic is just one of the OP's constant attempts, complete with fictional incidents, to feel superior and enjoy schadenfreude.

[EVENKEEL]

9 hours ago, gk10012001 said:

i been going there since 2004.  Of course there are some lonely people there. Happens anywhere.  What I hated to see was the middle aged to older folks that were burned out, sitting at the bottom of Pattaya Klang. Their cash ran out long ago.  Now barely scraping by on some meager social security or disability pension or maybe minimal staff seargeant pay etc.. 

Says the guy who at age 68 is still on the fence. I stopped going to the bars there cause of daily checkpoint.

[Hummin]

On 5/4/2024 at 11:41 AM, georgegeorgia said:

I have come to the conclusion after 2 weeks here that there are many lonely guys here expats living in hot shoebox rooms , 

 

I have had to start using my headphones to deter lonely people AND attention seekers 

 

Attention seekers are guys who look for you and try to get a reaction 

One guy sitting next to me on a banana chair trying to impress me that he can speak thai , shouting in the phone then looking to see if I'm looking 

 

I sit outside in view talay apartment reading my books right in a corner chair well AWAY from others only to get some one who wants to sit next to me ,all the way out of the way from the pool,only me sitting there doing my statistics and data study  and still get a farang sit next to me and proceed to shout on a phone call in Thai.!

 

I then had to get my headphones out or move, he then got angry tapped me on the shoulder ' hey buddy do you know what time it is ?

 

Lonely guys ,please don't make a expat life exciting if you are living in shoe boxes looking to attention seeking for lonilessness 

Life here in Pattaya doesn't look exciting to these old bored expats 

 

I'm here to read my books not have get into conversations or hear your whinging stories 

 

 

 

Just visited Jomtien and Pattaya, I have to give Georgy right. 

 

So many old men strolling around alone, eating alone, sitting alone and more elderly men sitting  at the beach roads. 

 

Can't remember I see so many before without the spark in their eyes, and just look like walking dead.

 

Something have happened sine last time I visited.

 

Sad, really

 

And also noticeable men with holiday gf or wife, the same, no smiles, no sparks in their eyes.

 

Jomtien and Pattaya have truly became last stop for many who moved to paradise.

 

Not even old many of them 60'ies and up I would guess, but acting like 80

[transam]

5 minutes ago, Hummin said:

Just visited Jomtien and Pattaya, I have to give Georgy right. 

 

So many old men strolling around alone, eating alone, sitting alone and more elderly men sitting  at the beach roads. 

 

Can't remember I see so many before without the spark in their eyes, and just look like walking dead.

 

Something have happened sine last time I visited.

 

Sad, really

 

And also noticeable men with holiday gf or wife, the same, no smiles, no sparks in their eyes.

 

Jomtien and Pattaya have truly became last stop for many who moved to paradise.

 

Not even old many of them 60'ies and up I would guess, but acting like 80

Many are probably happier than you think.......😉

[Hummin]

1 minute ago, transam said:

Many are probably happier than you think.......😉

I hope so, but can't stop thinking, I'm going to do what I can to not end up like what I felt I saw, and think I saw. 

[georgegeorgia]

36 minutes ago, Hummin said:

I hope so, but can't stop thinking, I'm going to do what I can to not end up like what I felt I saw, and think I saw. 

Oh get off your high horse 

[Ralf001]

 

[Hummin]

9 minutes ago, georgegeorgia said:

Oh get off your high horse 

Provoked by me George? 

 

Why so hostile ? 

[jacko45k]

17 hours ago, Hummin said:

Just visited Jomtien and Pattaya, I have to give Georgy right. 

You two need to find better things to do than watching the snowbirds on their winter avoidance break. 

[KhunLA]

 "I have come to the conclusion after 2 weeks here that there are many lonely guys here expats living in hot shoebox rooms ."

 

I  have come to the conclusion after 25 years, here that there are many lonely guys that visit TH / SEA living minimalist lives in home country, saving as much as they can, to travel here, TH / SEA, to have sex and talk to a sexual partner, whether straight, gay or bi, since they can't seem to function socially or do that in home country.

 

[Hummin]

1 hour ago, jacko45k said:

You two need to find better things to do than watching the snowbirds on their winter avoidance break. 

I do, but couldn't help being reminded George's topic when we walked the beaches especially around the 7/11's. 

 

Also seeing elderly men sit alone eating in quite large numbers do give an impression of many lonely in those areas.

 

Might be they are happy, I wouldn't know what kind of happiness that would be, being alone day after day, just relating on friends around in Pattaya, the older I get.

 

That is not what I'm searching for my later days, being alone without a gf or wife, and hopefully the wife I got today. Making us in to the 22. year together when I reach my 70. Anyway that is my dream, and I will make sure I do what I can to make it happen. 

 

 

[GypsyT]

On 12/29/2024 at 12:39 PM, Hummin said:

Jomtien and Pattaya have truly became last stop for many who moved to paradise.

 

I like Jomtien and will return there but you are right - no energy. But same men would be dead at home!

 

Here, in Samut Prakhan Thai working class area, has lot of action!

There's is a bar they start every night at 8pm and party till 8am! Non stop... Good music, lots of pretty chicks and all are drinking but not drank. They say Hi! to me when I do my evening and morning walk.