6 minutes ago, neverere said:

What on earth motivated you to write this garbage? Are you in the closet or something? You need to find a better outlet for your frustration.

Agree with it or not/like it or not, lot of garbage is written throughout this site.

On 6/15/2024 at 3:52 AM, thaibeachlovers said:

Chances of finding an available woman in the west that has the body size of a Thai woman is probably zero. I have no "romantic" interest in "plus size" women- complete turn off.

I did love being in LOS.

By the west you mean N America or EUROPE ?? it's not the same !! and women are not the same as well !

18 hours ago, freedomnow said:

Psyhacks on youtube is quite an eye opener on the gap on male understanding of female psychology...it is quite brutal on what lurks in the female brain.....

Thx for the info, I didn't know him. I check it out.

11 hours ago, susanlea said:

Are you 10yo? Adults don't like bubblegum.

Are you transgender?

20 hours ago, Aurelien said:

This thread is the biggest load of crap i've read in quite some time here

 

It confirms, if nothing else, that Americans are gonna American, and stereotypes exist for a reason 🤣

1 hour ago, off road pat said:

Thx for the info, I didn't know him. I check it out.

Psychacks was correct title.

1 hour ago, bubblegum said:

Are you transgender?

Are you gay?

My girlfriend is bored of sex.  But we still do it.  One time while we were at it she asked me what I wanted for dinner tomorrow.  What did I say?  I said Shepherd's Pie.

On 6/17/2024 at 9:41 AM, susanlea said:

I drink soy milk and cows milk. Both healthy. You argue like a child.

 

ok big bird with capitals. 

11 hours ago, susanlea said:

Are you gay?

No susan I'm not. Now why don't you stop sneaking behind your husbands computer and go clean the kitchen. 

On 6/15/2024 at 7:26 AM, kevozman1 said:

I am noticing an uptick in liberal males from the West wanting to move to places such as Thailand. The most obvious reason for this involves the cities they generally have resided in such as London, San Francisco, Sydney, Stockholm etc are turning into joyless dystopian hellscapes. However, that's what they wanted and fleeing the crime scene as a guilty party without apologizing or admitting fault doesn't sit well with me. Oh and please don't think you are in the same circle as someone like De Niro, he is in the 0.001% bubble and is so disconnected from the hoi polloi you can almost excuse him for not caring and taking his acting into the political arena. If anyone actually believes that guy is a soft bleeding heart 'nice guy' liberal then well, good luck out there, you will need it. 

 

Ok, let me give an explanation for what was promised in the title before the people with tiktok brain have issues with their attention spans. You see contrary to what many people think with less experience, Thai men at this point on average are more masculine than Western men. I am not talking size/strength but the main part, the mentality. Probably around half of the men in the West are neutered, and have succumb to Liberalism, or are just happy to be a doormat for a woman. How does this relate to relations with Thai women? Well to be blunt, Thai women don't like pussies. I would say women in general, but in the West the women are more likely to have been exposed to a larger amount of more... gentle men, therefore being able to pair bond with such a man is more likely. Think of the average Thai women from any sector/class in Thailand, she has been brought up around her father (sadly this is also becoming less common), uncles, her brothers, male class mates etc. She is used to seeing men who wear the pants in a relationship, and then comes along Beta Bob from Boston, who is highly liberal and doesn't know what a man is (literally in many cases) and can't lead a relationship. It's not going to work out and overwhelmingly the Thai woman will completely and unsympathetically walk all over Beta Bob and his ilk or at best will prove extremely challenging, and by that I mean Beta Bob and co will be breaking their wallets open on the regular to keep a semblance of peace. 

 

To end on a upbeat note, I think liberal men can still find partners, in the West. You can find them in Starbucks or a vegan restaurant in pretty much any major metropolitan area, or at an organized protest supporting a highly melanated violent drug addict career criminal who overdosed in police custody. You have a much better chance of living happily ever after with a woman from there. Who knows, maybe even get married, and when you have your first child, you can discuss possible gender identities for your baby with your wife's boyfriend. 

 

Another WALKER66 with all the verbose nonsense to say nothing of value... welcome to the forum.

On 6/17/2024 at 6:32 PM, susanlea said:

Talking up an old woman and soy milk. It is pretty bad.

 

Why won't they say exactly why soy milk is BAD?

 

Who....who got to them?

1 hour ago, Prubangboy said:

 

Why won't they say exactly why soy milk is BAD?

 

Who....who got to them?

Nobody got to anyone. Nutritional science is not going to be 100% accurate when products first get looked at. Some people say cows milk is bad, butter is bad, red meat is bad. All incomplete science. I no longer worry too much about food. Eat what I like.

4 hours ago, bubblegum said:

No susan I'm not. Now why don't you stop sneaking behind your husbands computer and go clean the kitchen. 

Thanks bubblegum. I gave it up age 12.

On 6/17/2024 at 6:28 PM, Prubangboy said:

To be fair, this was Phuket price.

 

But since you, unlike me, pay to play, can you tell me what quotes you've gotten from super-models? 

 

Are they "challenging"? Asking for a non-friend.

Super models are not available for mere ordinary men. They are only for the rich as trophy wives.

Personally I wouldn't want one of those toxic clothes horses anywhere near me. They probably think they are too posh to push.

26 minutes ago, susanlea said:

Thanks bubblegum. I gave it up age 12.

Were you lookin' for love in all the wrong places?

Boys don't respect girls that give it away.

12 hours ago, Chris Daley said:

My girlfriend is bored of sex.  But we still do it.  One time while we were at it she asked me what I wanted for dinner tomorrow.  What did I say?  I said Shepherd's Pie.

Is she a bit woolly?

 

I'd be happy for a burd that just did it at all. Celibacy sucks.

On 6/18/2024 at 2:23 AM, freedomnow said:

Psyhacks on youtube is quite an eye opener on the gap on male understanding of female psychology...it is quite brutal on what lurks in the female brain.....

I realised long ago that men will never understand women and visa versa.

I worked with hundreds of them and the only thing I learned is that I would never understand them.

Correction, I did learn one thing- gratitude is just a word to them.

 

Whoever invented the term "the gentler sex" needs a good slapping.

4 minutes ago, thaibeachlovers said:

I realised long ago that men will never understand women and visa versa.

I worked with hundreds of them and the only thing I learned is that I would never understand them.

Correction, I did learn one thing- gratitude is just a word to them.

 

Whoever invented the term "the gentler sex" needs a good slapping.

What nonsense. Woman want love and security but security is number 1. Men want to feel important because they have bigger egos. 

16 minutes ago, thaibeachlovers said:

Were you lookin' for love in all the wrong places?

Boys don't respect girls that give it away.

Most men are just lost boys. 

11 minutes ago, susanlea said:

What nonsense. Woman want love and security but security is number 1. Men want to feel important because they have bigger egos. 

Your first answer is right, as far as all the women I've known, been with, and read about. The second one belongs to the crowd with low self esteem, narcissists or those that need constant admiration. A secure man needs nothing but to feel appreciation for all he does. A father wants to see his children do well.

 

Narcissists come in male and female, and they are everywhere. A covert woman will love bomb you until she gets what she wants from you, then treat you like crap , give you the silent treatment or cheat. A male narcissist will do anything he can to get your sex, then toss you aside like trash, thinking all women are to be used for his pleasure. Malignant narcissists, like most world leaders, will promise you everything to get into power (office), then go along for the ride afterwards, feeding you crumbs to hopefully stay there.

 

Women can also have a huge ego, thinking they can have any man, and many good looking ones can. The thing they don't realize is, that men who end up with these princesses will also use them and leave, so the women hasn't won anything, and is better off dropping that ego and end up with a beta male that will take better care of her and the family. Can't use a man for sex. Only for money or things, unless he gets sex, and then he also wins, even if it costs him cash. Everyone really wants to be noticed, and appreciated, but with all the users worldwide, many relationships fail because of bad matches.

6 minutes ago, fredwiggy said:

Your first answer is right, as far as all the women I've known, been with, and read about. The second one belongs to the crowd with low self esteem, narcissists or those that need constant admiration. A secure man needs nothing but to feel appreciation for all he does. A father wants to see his children do well.

 

Narcissists come in male and female, and they are everywhere. A covert woman will love bomb you until she gets what she wants from you, then treat you like crap , give you the silent treatment or cheat. A male narcissist will do anything he can to get your sex, then toss you aside like trash, thinking all women are to be used for his pleasure. Malignant narcissists, like most world leaders, will promise you everything to get into power (office), then go along for the ride afterwards, feeding you crumbs to hopefully stay there.

 

Women can also have a huge ego, thinking they can have any man, and many good looking ones can. The thing they don't realize is, that men who end up with these princesses will also use them and leave, so the women hasn't won anything, and is better off dropping that ego and end up with a beta male that will take better care of her and the family. Can't use a man for sex. Only for money or things, unless he gets sex, and then he also wins, even if it costs him cash. Everyone really wants to be noticed, and appreciated, but with all the users worldwide, many relationships fail because of bad matches.

Most males have egos bigger than there abilities. 

27 minutes ago, thaibeachlovers said:

I realised long ago that men will never understand women and visa versa.

"Visa versa"...is that something an agent could help with or vice versa?

37 minutes ago, thaibeachlovers said:

I realised long ago that men will never understand women and visa versa.

I worked with hundreds of them and the only thing I learned is that I would never understand them.

Correction, I did learn one thing- gratitude is just a word to them.

 

Whoever invented the term "the gentler sex" needs a good slapping.

Men can understand women very well if they want to, and are concerned with having a relationship where both are happy. Takes two, and that means both sides. Women can understand men if they realize he just wants to be appreciated for what he does. This means communication, which is the most important thing in a relationship. No communication means resentment, and a woman is less likely to give you what you want, which for a man means sex, good food and time with friends and hobbies.

 

For the woman it means being heard, understood , cared for and knowing she has someone who will be there when she needs him. This means she comes first, no other women in the picture, help around the house and with the kids, and letting her have time for her friends and self. You can't fake listening to a woman because they will see it immediately. You drop what you're dong, and put your attention to her 100%. A little time each day lets her know she's being appreciated for all she does.

 

Mismatches happen all the time, and some people just don't belong together. Some don't belong in any relationship, because they bring baggage from childhood that hinders any chances of having a mutual relationship where both are happy. A lot of men think just because they are bringing home the money that this is all he needs to do. That would make all rich men the best husbands, and history has shown they are among the worst. A woman who looks at men as cash will never be happy, because that pot will never be filled enough. Greed destroys all relationships.

 

If you do what you can for a woman, and you listen to her when she needs it, and are loyal and honest to her, and help her when she needs it, she will be glad to give you anything you need, unless she is damaged goods from childhood, greedy because she wants to impress others, has depression not treated so can't relate normally, or has been with so many men she'll never look at one as special.

3 minutes ago, fredwiggy said:

You can't fake listening to a woman because they will see it immediately. You drop what you're dong, and put your attention to her 100%.

One of the few things you say I agree with. Women need to be heard more than men. Men value actions a lot while women value words. Women like to talk for 1 hour, men 5 minutes. Listen to a women fully for 1 hour she will like it a lot. A man wants a 5 minute summary then go do something else.

2 minutes ago, susanlea said:

One of the few things you say I agree with. Women need to be heard more than men. Men value actions a lot while women value words. Women like to talk for 1 hour, men 5 minutes. Listen to a women fully for 1 hour she will like it a lot. A man wants a 5 minute summary then go do something else.

That is one of the many things I learned from all the reading. Listen. Attentively. Picking the wrong women, especially to have children with, was my problem. You can't fix anyone is what I learned , although it took me awhile because I like to help.I just re- watched Everybody Loves Raymond, and it shows you  just how not to act like a husband or boyfriend.

10 minutes ago, fredwiggy said:

Men can understand women very well if they want to, and are concerned with having a relationship where both are happy. Takes two, and that means both sides. Women can understand men if they realize he just wants to be appreciated for what he does. This means communication, which is the most important thing in a relationship. No communication means resentment, and a woman is less likely to give you what you want, which for a man means sex, good food and time with friends and hobbies.

 

For the woman it means being heard, understood , cared for and knowing she has someone who will be there when she needs him. This means she comes first, no other women in the picture, help around the house and with the kids, and letting her have time for her friends and self. You can't fake listening to a woman because they will see it immediately. You drop what you're dong, and put your attention to her 100%. A little time each day lets her know she's being appreciated for all she does.

 

Mismatches happen all the time, and some people just don't belong together. Some don't belong in any relationship, because they bring baggage from childhood that hinders any chances of having a mutual relationship where both are happy. A lot of men think just because they are bringing home the money that this is all he needs to do. That would make all rich men the best husbands, and history has shown they are among the worst. A woman who looks at men as cash will never be happy, because that pot will never be filled enough. Greed destroys all relationships.

 

If you do what you can for a woman, and you listen to her when she needs it, and are loyal and honest to her, and help her when she needs it, she will be glad to give you anything you need, unless she is damaged goods from childhood, greedy because she wants to impress others, has depression not treated so can't relate normally, or has been with so many men she'll never look at one as special.

Went right over your head, apparently. I wasn't talking about any of that sort of thing. More long the lines of why do attractive, apparently intelligent women go with scumbags and thugs, or why do women wet themselves at Beatles concerts?

2 minutes ago, fredwiggy said:

That is one of the many things I learned from all the reading. Listen. Attentively. Picking the wrong women, especially to have children with, was my problem. You can't fix anyone is what I learned , although it took me awhile because I like to help.

Most people can't fix themselves either and that is the only way to improve. Drop the ego and develop your abilities. Listen more, talk less, exercise more, complain less. Do more, think less.

1 minute ago, thaibeachlovers said:

Went right over your head, apparently. I wasn't talking about any of that sort of thing. More long the lines of why do attractive, apparently intelligent women go with scumbags and thugs, or why do women wet themselves at Beatles concerts?

Most of those females are stupid. Far from intelligent.

5 minutes ago, thaibeachlovers said:

Went right over your head, apparently. I wasn't talking about any of that sort of thing. More long the lines of why do attractive, apparently intelligent women go with scumbags and thugs, or why do women wet themselves at Beatles concerts?

I responded to what you said. It didn't go over my head. These are your words.....

"I realised long ago that men will never understand women and visa versa.

I worked with hundreds of them and the only thing I learned is that I would never understand them.

Correction, I did learn one thing- gratitude is just a word to them.".................................

Women are attracted to the bad boys, a thing they should learn about themselves because it never leads to happiness but being used. Alpha males are narcissistic users, period. This is why I've said before, a woman can be very intelligent in many ways, and be plain dense when it comes to men. You can't choose what you are attracted to, but you can choose who to sleep with.