Going short-time only, shallow or succulent?

[StreetCowboy]

6 minutes ago, RSD1 said:

Most people either negatively reacted, or disagreed with that post. 

Some people.  We have no idea how many people saw the post.

[RSD1]

1 minute ago, StreetCowboy said:

Some people.  We have no idea how many people saw the post.

It was the seventh post in the thread. Typically, the average viewer, will read through 2/3 of the first page of posts. This topic has had over 13,000 views. That's probably more than any other topic started in The Pub in many months. Chances are, most of the active members have seen it. 

[StreetCowboy]

Back in the day, a medical doctor friend of mine said “There is nothing as over-rated as a bad shag, or as under-rated as a good dump”, and to this day, I have tried to take a little bit of pleasure out of every dump that warrants it.

I can recall one morning, back in Taipei, I was worse the wear from the night before, and a good dump later, it was like a weight had been lifted from my shoulders.  To this day, that is my benchmark for a top drop, but I worry that subjective recollection and fond nostalgia may leave me forever disappointed.

[save the frogs]

13 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

Ideally men should not provide for women at all.

First of all, a lot of people do sth called starting a family.

Someone has to support the children, right?

You starting a revolution or what?

You might want to refine your revolutionary economic model a bit.

Because men not paying at all for anything aint happening any time soon. 

Women will just stay with their cats. 

 

[RSD1]

3 minutes ago, StreetCowboy said:

nothing as over-rated as a bad shag

sex is more like pizza, when it's good it's great, when it's bad it's still pretty good. 

[StreetCowboy]

4 minutes ago, RSD1 said:

It was the seventh post in the thread. Typically, the average viewer, will read through 2/3 of the first page of posts. This topic has had over 13,000 views. That's probably more than any other topic started in The Pub in many months. Chances are, most of the active members have seen it. 

And approximately 13 left an emoji.  That is not an overwhelming majority, and maybe “most” would be slightly disingenuous.  It might be better to say “a small majority of people who expressed an opinion on one of you earlier posts…”

[StreetCowboy]

1 minute ago, save the frogs said:

First of all, a lot of people do sth called starting a family.

Someone has to support the children, right?

You starting a revolution or what?

You might want to refine your revolutionary economic model a bit.

Because men not paying at all for anything aint happening any time soon. 

Women will just stay with their cats. 

 

Children are great, because one day they’ll pay our pensions

[RSD1]

1 minute ago, NowNow said:

 

AS I asserted earlier....no one was going to be happy about being painted as a loser. Thank goodness the emoticons are 'anonymous' now. Otherwise we could all see who fit the description.

BUT NOBODY CARES! 

[StreetCowboy]

2 minutes ago, RSD1 said:

sex is more like pizza, when it's good it's great, when it's bad it's still pretty good. 

Sex is like pizza, when it’s cold, soggy and floppy, it’s a struggle to finish

[NowNow]

2 minutes ago, RSD1 said:

sex is more like pizza, when it's good it's great, when it's bad it's still pretty good. 

 

No. Bad pizza is bad. Unless we are discussing someone who simply doesn't care what he eats.

[RSD1]

2 minutes ago, StreetCowboy said:

And approximately 13 left an emoji.  That is not an overwhelming majority, and maybe “most” would be slightly disingenuous.  It might be better to say “a small majority of people who expressed an opinion on one of you earlier posts…”

If you read through the earlier parts of this topic, you will also find posts from other people referencing it and not being in favor of it. 

[RSD1]

1 minute ago, StreetCowboy said:

Sex is like pizza, when it’s cold, soggy and floppy, it’s a struggle to finish

That is the perfect next day pizza after it's spent the night in the fridge! 

[RSD1]

2 minutes ago, NowNow said:

Bad pizza is bad

According to who?

[Cameroni]

13 minutes ago, save the frogs said:

First of all, a lot of people do sth called starting a family.

Someone has to support the children, right?

You starting a revolution or what?

You might want to refine your revolutionary economic model a bit.

Because men not paying at all for anything aint happening any time soon. 

Women will just stay with their cats. 

 

 

Quite wrong. There was a time when women did not go with men for money. Women want and will go with men, even if money is taken out of the equation. There is a sexual urge in both sexes and procreation is and always has been an imperative.

 

I am not demanding any revolution, quite the contrary, to put money paid to women on a contractual basis, so that it is more like a loan and they have to repay it under certain circumstances. Obviously that applies to relationships not prostitution which is not necessary really.

[RSD1]

16 minutes ago, NowNow said:

 

What is 'grade school'? It appears that you are recalling key moments of your childhood. 

Men sleeping with prostitutes is no different than you surfing PornTube and cranking yourself off on a daily basis. But at least they aren't doing it alone. 

[Prubangboy]

30 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

 

 

 

Regarding prostitutes I have the same issue. I just don't see them try as hard as girls in a rel anyway.

 

I am saying don't pay women because it's much better for you and your fellow man

Crap sex at cheap prices. The only person who seems let down by this prospect is you.

 

I see only sex-pragmatists here who are realistic about how hard whores should "try".

 

I'm only willing to give up a tiny bit of mental bandwidth to worrying about the globe aspects of my specific behavior affecting my "fellow man". J

 

ust like my fellow man isn't really all that into my own individual welfare.

 

This world view just seems like a virtue signaling downer.

[Prubangboy]

1 hour ago, StreetCowboy said:

 “… he could be me, if I ever do … “ is more inclusive.

 

Footnote:

The thing about being woke is to try and understand other people’s viewpoints, and share a vocabulary that allows consensus on issues where you agree, and silent non-confrontational divergence where you do not, rather than ideological trench warfare.

You can read about my failed attempt at prostitution in my Brazil Travel Report. 

 

Not for me. Glad others are busting a nut in peace.

 

 

[RSD1]

2 minutes ago, Prubangboy said:

Crap sex at cheap prices. The only person who seems let down by this prospect is you.

I would argue that this often isn't even the case. I've had some stellar performers, freaks! And many will please you in ways that you would be to shy to ask your own wife to do. 

[RSD1]

2 minutes ago, Prubangboy said:

failed attempt at prostitution

Well, that doesn't sound good. So, you ran into a whorehouse with a fistful of fifties? And then? How could anything fail? You forgot to bring the Viagra?

[Cameroni]

4 minutes ago, Prubangboy said:

Crap sex at cheap prices.

That sums it up about right.

 

5 minutes ago, Prubangboy said:

This world view just seems like a virtue signaling downer.

 

Not at all, it's not about "virtue", it's purely about self interest. Most of us gain nothing by perpetuating this women for money economy. If that did change, and women were given money they had to repay on a contractual basis enforceable in the courts, this would solve the issue of women extracting money from men.

 

 

[Cameroni]

2 minutes ago, RSD1 said:

I would argue that this often isn't even the case. I've had some stellar performers, freaks! And many will please you in ways that you would be to shy to ask your own wife to do. 

 

That rather depends how well you train your wife or gf.

 

No prostitute could ever come close. Because they don't care about you. Only your money.

[RSD1]

3 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

train your wife or gf.

??? You mean like a dog?

 

3 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

No prostitute could ever come close. Because they don't care about you. Only your money.

Spoken by a guy who never had the same experiences. 

[Hummin]

11 minutes ago, RSD1 said:

Men sleeping with prostitutes is no different than you surfing PornTube and cranking yourself off on a daily basis. But at least they aren't doing it alone. 

Seriously, do you really believe so? 

[RSD1]

2 minutes ago, Hummin said:

Seriously, do you really believe so? 

Both are forms of porn. 

[Prubangboy]

3 minutes ago, RSD1 said:

I would argue that this often isn't even the case. I've had some stellar performers, freaks! And many will please you in ways that you would be to shy to ask your own wife to do. 

 

4 minutes ago, RSD1 said:

I would argue that this often isn't even the case. I've had some stellar performers, freaks! And many will please you in ways that you would be to shy to ask your own wife to do. 

That def sounds fantastic and I envy you those times.

 

But I am the opposite of a demisexual. Those people need to have an intense connection to their partner to feel horny. I am a reverse-demi. I just need them to be super-attracted to me.

 

I have zero moral judgement of others who have different sex temperaments.

 

At 71 and in need of yet another year in the gym, that's always going to be a small cohort. What I want from a woman is not purchasable. Like I said, if I could, I would.

 

But if many guys CAN purchase it, I'm really happy for them.

 

As to sex you'd be too shy to ask your wife for, I say marry a diff wife. Sex compatibility trumps all other non-moral issues in a marriage.

[Hummin]

3 minutes ago, RSD1 said:

Both are forms of porn. 

Porn is something you perform in and get paid, or you watch porn useally before www paying for it, now also for free.

 

It is a whole ocean between watching porn on pornhub and paying for someone having sex with you. 

 

 

[Prubangboy]

After my dismal rub and tug attempt, I took her out for sushi. Using the translator app, she told me a lot about her voo doo-like candonomble faith. I told her about Buddha. I loved seeing a Buddha in a whore house. Prob not a thing in Thailand.

 

Sweet kid, she offered me a free re-do after she ordered up a second tempura. All in, cost less than a private day tour.

 

I am willing to wear the shower of judgement and worrying about my impact on "society" like a badge.

[NowNow]

9 minutes ago, RSD1 said:

So you think your PornTube method is better?

 

I think having a girl who is actually into you and isn't interested in your money is best. That's something you aren't going to experience.

[Cameroni]

2 minutes ago, NowNow said:

 

I think having a girl who is actually into you and isn't interested in your money is best. That's something you aren't going to experience.

 

It is the best. But also the most dangerous.

[Prubangboy]

Sooo many variables: are they really into you. Will they stay into you? Are you into them back? Why?

 

Suppose you're a homely old loser and nobody is into you?