So this a Lounge topic.

 

I'm a get into bed assume the fetal position, knee's up head down and I'm out in my little 3ft space on the bed kinda guy.

 

My wife on the other hand is awful. Writhes around can't stay still, the reason we have a king sized bed is to allow her this frenzied  nighttime sleep  pattern without waking me up.

 

20+ years ago we had a queen sized bed and she'd actually whack me in her sleep, so distance was and is required.

 

We somehow conceived a child in there but I think I came out with bruises!

 

So which are you or you partners?

Is that you Gamma ?   Such a similarities,…

 

 

I’m a go to sleep kind of guy & hope I don’t fluk the wife by accident….   I fear the additional school fees !!!
 

Though realistically, She’s a nuclear reactor who sets the AC to  -20, then wraps herself up in a winter duvet & brumates…. 
 

 

8 minutes ago, richard_smith237 said:

Is that you Gamma ?

I'm kinda insulted that I could be considered as being GG

1 minute ago, GinBoy2 said:

I'm kinda insulted that I could be considered as being GG

 As would I be…. Apologies….

Spooning every night. When she turn, when I turn, she turn

Definitely prefer sleeping on my own for the reasons in the op, why don't you just sleep in separate beds?

29 minutes ago, scubascuba3 said:

Definitely prefer sleeping on my own for the reasons in the op, why don't you just sleep in separate beds?

I would prefer that, but Mrs G is a bit old fashioned and she's pretty set that married folks sleep together.

 

She doesn't realize what a nightmare she is to sleep with!

I wait til the misso is asleep... then I drop the AC to 25.

 

she hates it, wakes and goes sleep on the lounge.

3 minutes ago, Ralf001 said:

I wait til the misso is asleep... then I drop the AC to 25.

 

she hates it, wakes and goes sleep on the lounge.

Does HE identify as a "she" ?

2 minutes ago, georgegeorgia said:

Does HE identify as a "she" ?

 

The thought of my misso being a male arouses you ?

 

Sorry to disapoint.... she aint.

3 minutes ago, Ralf001 said:

 

The thought of my misso being a male arouses you ?

 

Sorry to disapoint.... she aint.

 

3 minutes ago, Ralf001 said:

 

The thought of my misso being a male arouses you ?

 

Sorry to disapoint.... she aint.

No !

To tell you the truth it made me jealous 

You know I love you 😘 

39 minutes ago, GinBoy2 said:

I would prefer that, but Mrs G is a bit old fashioned and she's pretty set that married folks sleep together.

 

She doesn't realize what a nightmare she is to sleep with!

Getting sleep is really important, body repairs itself while asleep. I always find girls want to hold me which makes me even hotter so hard to sleep.

 

Maybe 2 single beds is the answer, my aunt and uncle used to sleep like that

3 hours ago, GinBoy2 said:

My wife on the other hand is awful. Writhes around can't stay still, the reason we have a king sized bed is to allow her this frenzied  nighttime sleep  pattern without waking me up.

we've been brainwashed to think that a married couple has to sleep in the same bed.

 

a bed can be used for sex and then people can sleep in separate beds. 

sleep and sex are 2 different things. 

I don't like sleeping with someone on the same bed. there's a much greater risk of sleep being interrupted, either you interrupt their sleep or vice versa. 

1 hour ago, save the frogs said:

we've been brainwashed to think that a married couple has to sleep in the same bed.  a bed can be used for sex and then people can sleep in separate beds. 

sleep and sex are 2 different things.   I don't like sleeping with someone on the same bed. there's a much greater risk of sleep being interrupted, either you interrupt their sleep or vice versa. 

Buy a better mattress.   We don't feel the other moving at all while sleeping.  Best sleeps ever since buying a quality mattress.   Not cheap, but worth every baht.

2 hours ago, save the frogs said:

we've been brainwashed to think that a married couple has to sleep in the same bed.

 

a bed can be used for sex and then people can sleep in separate beds. 

sleep and sex are 2 different things. 

I don't like sleeping with someone on the same bed. there's a much greater risk of sleep being interrupted, either you interrupt their sleep or vice versa. 

Well you could be right there.

 

But, ever tried to debate logically with a Thai wife?

 

I'll put up with a King sized bed and exist in my 3ft space on the edge of the bed rather than engage in a full scale debate with my wife....I never win!

5 hours ago, save the frogs said:

we've been brainwashed to think that a married couple has to sleep in the same bed.

 

a bed can be used for sex and then people can sleep in separate beds. 

sleep and sex are 2 different things. 

I don't like sleeping with someone on the same bed. there's a much greater risk of sleep being interrupted, either you interrupt their sleep or vice versa. 

People can still hug as much as they want up to sleep time, then sleep separate, makes sense to me

I work shift work, wear a CPAP mask and fart a lot.

No we don't sleep together.

My wife snores loudly, she now has a bed in the TV room which is now 'her' room, sometimes I can still hear her through the wall...................

8 hours ago, sipi said:

I work shift work, wear a CPAP mask and fart a lot.

No we don't sleep together.

Shift worker get it the hardest especially if your one week day shift 

One week as afternoon,one week night shift 

People in the real world have no idea if what shift work is like 

I spend a lot of years living solo and got into the habit off sleeping in the middle of the bed much to the amusement of the odd stay over guest, well the truth is I use to do that when I was married too, ex learned to sleep on the edge of the bed, the live in TGF pretty much fights me most nights over who should be in the centre...like it amuses me as she wants to cuddle up but hey she wants me on my edge of the bed...

On 9/8/2024 at 6:23 AM, georgegeorgia said:

Shift worker get it the hardest especially if your one week day shift 

One week as afternoon,one week night shift 

People in the real world have no idea if what shift work is like 

I worked shifts most my life.  Inport I would work each shift 3 days and then have an 8 hr turn around for next shift, 7 days a week. Or at sea it was 4 on and 8 off with OT somewhere in between.

3 minutes ago, EVENKEEL said:

I worked shifts most my life.  Inport I would work each shift 3 days and then have an 8 hr turn around for next shift, 7 days a week. Or at sea it was 4 on and 8 off with OT somewhere in between.

Nurses ,police , paramedics all constantly tired 😴 

On 9/8/2024 at 12:51 PM, sipi said:

I work shift work, wear a CPAP mask and fart a lot.

No we don't sleep together.

Do you keep a pilot light burning?

On 9/16/2024 at 6:28 AM, georgegeorgia said:

Nurses ,police , paramedics all constantly tired 😴 

Nah, just have go with your body's time schedule.  Decide when to sleep.   When I worked 3rd shift 10pm-6am, I'd get home by 0630, out of shower,   

 

Fire up the grill on the large porch, pull a pint, and watch the folks going to work at the small factory across the street from the house.   Looks on their faces were priceless ... "damn that boy has the life"  

 

Sometimes by their noon break, I'd still be there, with a few of my out of work friends who drove by, and we got a bit of a party going.   If I didn't have to work that night, we might still be going at it, when they get done work at 1600 hrs 🍺

On 9/18/2024 at 8:31 PM, KhunLA said:

Nah, just have go with your body's time schedule.  Decide when to sleep.   When I worked 3rd shift 10pm-6am, I'd get home by 0630, out of shower,   

 

Fire up the grill on the large porch, pull a pint, and watch the folks going to work at the small factory across the street from the house.   Looks on their faces were priceless ... "damn that boy has the life"  

 

Sometimes by their noon break, I'd still be there, with a few of my out of work friends who drove by, and we got a bit of a party going.   If I didn't have to work that night, we might still be going at it, when they get done work at 1600 hrs 🍺

Shift work is interesting.

Back in the day, I worked the overnight shift.

 

Got home at 6am, my wife went to work, I'd get the kids ready, breakfast and take them to school, then I'd head to bed.

 

Can't say it was my favorite period of my life, but my girls grew up with Dad at hone with them, so it worked out and I lived to fight another day