47 minutes ago, Dan O said:

That's because your story is bs most likely 

 

No it's 100% true. I'm just not an Instagram kind of guy. But fair enough. I'll take some more photos. I really should. 

 

 

47 minutes ago, Dan O said:

That's because your story is bs most likely 

Finally, some common ground. 

 

(though I would leave off "most likely". 

27 minutes ago, Yellowtail said:

Finally, some common ground. 

 

(though I would leave off "most likely". 

 

Lol, I could post screenshots that would make you both look very foolish. But no need. I know the truth after all.

3 hours ago, Cameroni said:

 

No it's 100% true. I'm just not an Instagram kind of guy. But fair enough. I'll take some more photos. I really should. 

 

 

you were capable of finding them on a dating site of some sort and see their pics. You had to converse with them to make dates (if any of this were true). So where are those messages or pics? 

3 hours ago, Cameroni said:

 

Lol, I could post screenshots that would make you both look very foolish. But no need. I know the truth after all.

I am foolish, and I don't care what I look like. 

 

Screen shots are meaningless.  

31 minutes ago, Dan O said:

you were capable of finding them on a dating site of some sort and see their pics. You had to converse with them to make dates (if any of this were true). So where are those messages or pics? 

 

On my phone of course. Where else? It's not rocket science.

 

27 minutes ago, Yellowtail said:

 

 

Screen shots are meaningless.  

 

To you pretty much anything is meaningless, I have a feeling.

1 hour ago, Cameroni said:

 

On my phone of course. Where else? It's not rocket science.

 

 

To you pretty much anything is meaningless, I have a feeling.

so you said you had no pics but do.   I agree I can go on line and grab screen shots too which is probably all that happened. 

22 minutes ago, Dan O said:

so you said you had no pics but do.   I agree I can go on line and grab screen shots too which is probably all that happened. 

 

I have some pics of course, but I thought you meant from the actual dates or bedroom times. Of course I have tons of pics they send me and so on, and a few pics of dates. But generally I find it a bit dumb to ask to take pics, makes you look stupid. And in the bedroom its another matter entirely. I am just to busy doing what has to be done.

 

But actually, I should make more effort to take pics, for my own records. I will try going forward.

 

I have been the adorer. I was the adored. But never at the same time. At the moment I am the adored, with Raya buying me an expensive phone and declaring she's so in love with me she's lost control, but I'm also the adorer with Miki showing her usual disdain for me with me still doing everything to please her. This has made me think. 

 

Both roles have their advantages, as the adorer you get to be in love and taste that emotion to the fullest. As the adored you have the power and decide. 

 

There are also disadvantages to both roles. As the adored you don't really get to be with the person you love. You don't get to experience love fully. As the adorer, the price you pay for love is total loss of control. 

 

Clearly it is better for a man to be the adored. Like the song says, love is a losing game. 

Meeting Miki again

 

So I had to go to Bangkok and Pattaya for business again. Naturally I wanted Miki to meet me again. The only snag, we had a bit of  an argument. She had missed the 60 minute deadline I set for updates. She legitimately was just working on her dress business, but I wanted to drill home the importance of her keeping me updated. I did so in a somewhat overly tyrannical way, and she broke up with me. It took 2 days of waiting, and making contact again to even get her to talk.

 

Eventuallly, she agreed to meet me. I was in the bus to BKK (I still don't have my passport)  and because I arrived at 11.30 pm Miki refused to come out to the Hotel and spend the night. She was in bed already and still upset about the argument we had.

 

She agreed to come the next day at 6 pm.  She was again working on her dresses all day and showed up at 9 pm. Didn't bother to shower, to dress nice, nothing. But at least she came. I could not get angry.  I took her to the best restaurant in the area and we rebuilt intimacy. No sex at night as we were both exhausted.

 

We had agreed we would go to a temple and do photos, her idea, but we woke up so late, that was not going to happen. No morning sex either. We went to what is the best mall in Bangkok, Mega BangNa, far better than Siam Paragon and best of all almost no Farang. 

In the evening finally there was horizontal Olympics and Miki and I connected again.

 

The next day we went to what is the best night market in Bangkok, Rod Fai Market. It was not busy at all which was wonderful. After a great dinner there we made it back home. Miki inisted on taking the green bus for 10 Baht and the MRT, she saved me good money and navigated expertly. Some more contact sports ensued at night.

 

We talked about our future and it became clear that Miki really intended to come back to Chiang Mai with me. She talked about buying a house with me and our future generally. Unbelievable her clothing business is already taking off. She found a buyer that made a large order and she makes more money now making clothes than she did in the factory.

 

The next day a lot of time was wasted with me waiting for the passport. We went to Central in Bang Na which is a terrible mall by Thailand standards. I left on Friday and Miki and I had rekindled our relationship nicely.

 

All in all the trip went fine. There was only one small moment of panic when Raya said she was in front of my hotel, about one hour before Miki was supposed to arrive. I went out. She wasn't there. She was bluffing and I don't think she was in Bangkok at all. Just wanted to check if I would be happy to see her as she could sense I was busy with someone else most likely. Anyway, I had had enough of possessive Raya, and ignored her mostly during the trip. She blew up my phone again on the weekend and wants to meet tomorrow.

I continued to build pipleline before the trip. I met a girl in Chiang May that was 25 and into self improvement. But there was no improving her average looks, a 5 at best, she wore braces to boot, her passable body not withstanding. Nice enough girl though, she spoke good English and it was a pleasant outing. But never do coffee dates in the morning, total waste of time. We went to a temple after the cafe, and I offered to go somewhere else, but she declined. So this girl is out now.

 

However, I made contact with an architect girl from a good family. We are building a nice rapport on text now and her English is good, clearly an educated girl. However, 30 years old and maybe a 6. But she give nice conversation.

 

Pipeline has to continue.

 

 

On 12/16/2024 at 6:52 PM, Cameroni said:

How is it possible that a girl that peels your prawns, cuts your squid and gets you 3 drink refills without asking, who can be so attentive, who enjoys sexual intimacy so much, who texts you every free minute she has almost... can be so cold and only show up at 3pm when you agreed to go for breakfast? Can still not give you a firm date when she comes back?

It’s what women do. But if this spiel is remotely true, you reap what you sow. Stop going through them like there’s no tomorrow and you might end up with a fulfilling relationship. Been there and done that in my younger days. It just gets old and brings grief (and herpes probably). 
 

Some guys come here and think they’re king stud because cuties respond. But Unless you’re an Adonis,  very polite and have time, for a whitey a ‘normal’ Thai girl is a tough nut to crack. These hot women you are supposedly doing are just tarts and available to all. Each to their own of course and nothing against them either, but this is just ego patting itself on the back. 

 

Btw, mum is pissed because daughter is banging a farang mongerer. They know. 

Just now, daveAustin said:

It’s what women do. But if this spiel is remotely true, you reap what you sow. Stop going through them like there’s no tomorrow and you might end up with a fulfilling relationship. Been there and done that in my younger days. It just gets old and brings grief (and herpes probably). 
 

Some guys come here and think they’re king stud because cuties respond. But Unless you’re an Adonis,  very polite and have time, for a whitey a ‘normal’ Thai girl is a tough nut to crack. These hot women you are supposedly doing are just tarts and available to all. Each to their own of course and nothing against them either, but this is just ego patting itself on the back. 

 

Btw, mum is pissed because daughter is banging a farang mongerer. They know. 

 

Hilarious 

On 1/13/2025 at 10:43 AM, mdr224 said:

Third world girls can be dangerous

All women are

2 hours ago, daveAustin said:

It’s what women do. But if this spiel is remotely true, you reap what you sow. Stop going through them like there’s no tomorrow and you might end up with a fulfilling relationship. Been there and done that in my younger days. It just gets old and brings grief (and herpes probably). 
 

Some guys come here and think they’re king stud because cuties respond. But Unless you’re an Adonis,  very polite and have time, for a whitey a ‘normal’ Thai girl is a tough nut to crack. These hot women you are supposedly doing are just tarts and available to all. Each to their own of course and nothing against them either, but this is just ego patting itself on the back. 

 

Btw, mum is pissed because daughter is banging a farang mongerer. They know. 

 

Indeed you reap what you sow. And since Miki sowed lies, cheating and betrayal, this is what she is reaping now. Though she doesn't know it. 

 

You would have to be a total fool not to build a pipeline of girls in this situation, where the girl is not even comitting to come back at a certain date. She says beginning of February, but I am almost certain she will again find an excuse not to come.

 

So I now arranged another date with a completely new girl on Saturday, the pipeline keeps growing, and I have an architect girl of 30 years of age, who speaks good English and is just a lovely conversationalist.  Not to mention crazy in love Raya. So should Miki refuse to come in February, it would be disappointing, however, there would be the realistic chance to quickly get over it.

 

In case you hadn't realised, it takes two to have a fulfilling realtionship. Yet Miki is not here. She meets me, she invests time and even money in me, but she is not here. So she is not fully committed, clearly.

 

By the way, I don't find it gets old to meet new girls. Each time it is like butterflies and excitement and the electricity is always better in a first meeting than after a year or two. I love it. I love meeting new girls. Even when they turn out to be non-qualifiers, like the coffee girl recently, it's still a fun experience.  

 

As for your ludicrous insult that the girls I date are "tarts", you don't even know them. I do. And I can tell you, none of them is a professional or a "tart". Even Miki had a grand total of 5 guys, including me, she's slept with. Yes, she lied and cheated, but so do billions of people. These are very normal girls. And they are certainly NOT available to all. Women are highly selective, the ones I date anyway. Someoneone on this thread tried to connect with one of my girls, I gave him the details, and he couldn't. Women are very selective.

 

Miki's mum is pissed because I threw her daugther out on the street with 100 Baht, they don't care their daugther cheated. And she's pissed because her daughter had a farang previously who lied and cheated on her. But frankly the mother is a terrible person and I could not care less what she thinks.

3 hours ago, Yellowtail said:

It just gets old and brings grief (and herpes probably). 

Herpes get bad rap but there's no stronger and longer lasting bond between two 🙂

 

7 hours ago, GypsyT said:

Herpes get bad rap but there's no stronger and longer lasting bond between two 🙂

 

"Herpes is Forever" 

6 minutes ago, Yellowtail said:

"Herpes is Forever" 

Yeah, but it's not that much of a problem for most people (a bit itchy for 3 days once or twice a year), and for some reason I don't seem to be ever catch it.

8 hours ago, Cameroni said:

Even Miki had a grand total of 5 guys, including me, she's slept with.

 

   How is Miki getting on these days ?

I haven't seen her for a while 

I was number 3 , we did it six time over the course of two months .

How many times did you bang her ?

On 1/26/2025 at 12:55 PM, Cameroni said:

But never do coffee dates in the morning, total waste of time. We went to a temple after the cafe, and I offered to go somewhere else, but she declined. So this girl is out now.

I always did a morning coffee date, then off to the themed love hotel with my date. Your mistake was going to a temple instead of the hotel she was expecting.

1 minute ago, BritManToo said:

I always did a morning coffee date, then off to the themed love hotel with my date. Your mistake was going to a temple instead of the hotel she was expecting.

 

   His mistake was not paying a prostitute for a morning coffee date , that ways sex is guaranteed 

On 10/25/2024 at 11:16 PM, Cameroni said:

So I'm flying to Bangkok to meet with 3 attractive ladies, consecutively obviously, and as you know I'm not local to Bangkok. Have you been on dates in Bangkok that were exceptional, if so send your ideas here for fun things to do in Bangkok. One is 24 and a Uni grad working at 711, one is a Filipina of 20 years old and one is an Isan uni student of 24. I'm fit and into sports, but don't come up with sky diving.

Pretty sure I met these 3 about 45 years ago.

3 hours ago, BritManToo said:

I always did a morning coffee date, then off to the themed love hotel with my date. Your mistake was going to a temple instead of the hotel she was expecting.

 

Ahhh, that would have been a good idea. Then I could have prayed for forgiveness at the temple...

3 hours ago, BritManToo said:

Yeah, but it's not that much of a problem for most people (a bit itchy for 3 days once or twice a year), and for some reason I don't seem to be ever catch it.

 

Again, spot on, the body develops a better immunity and outbreaks reduce in number. Even if you get one, you just bang anyway, you don't even notice. It's massively overrated.

3 hours ago, Nick Carter icp said:

 

   How is Miki getting on these days ?

I haven't seen her for a while 

I was number 3 , we did it six time over the course of two months .

How many times did you bang her ?

 

No number three was yet another Ukrainian guy. She was on a break with the first Ukrainian and then saw nothing wrong in banging this dude.

 

Hey, I'm not saying she's perfect. I'm saying she's a 10.

9 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

 

No number three was yet another Ukrainian guy. She was on a break with the first Ukrainian and then saw nothing wrong in banging this dude.

 

Hey, I'm not saying she's perfect. I'm saying she's a 10.

 

   You and every other felang who visits Thailand wants to bang her , her body count is probably five a day 

3 hours ago, Lucky Bones said:

Pretty sure I met these 3 about 45 years ago.

Since all of them are under 25 years old it's unlikely. Unless you met some sperm.. no, no, even then way too long ago... 

12 minutes ago, Nick Carter icp said:

 

   You and every other felang who visits Thailand wants to bang her , her body count is probably five a day 

This comment shows you don't know women. Outside the professional realm women are highly selective. Yes, every Farang may want to bang her, but only a select few of  us get that privilege. And all the suffering that goes with it. 

 

I say "select few" but actually that guy in Phuket was a dog. No hair even. He hooked her with the 5 star resort. 

25 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

This comment shows you don't know women. Outside the professional realm women are highly selective. Yes, every Farang may want to bang her, but only a select few of  us get that privilege. And all the suffering that goes with it. 

 

I say "select few" but actually that guy in Phuket was a dog. No hair even. He hooked her with the 5 star resort. 

 

  She doesn't have sex with many men, but she choose you ?

What was so special about you ?

Why did she find you to irresistible ?

Was it you amazing good looks , your wonderful personality .

The aftershave that you wear ?

Or do most woman throw themselves at you ?

 

On 11/4/2024 at 6:02 AM, Cameroni said:

Not getting younger, true, however, I hope I have given men who read this thread hope. Even if you are in your early 50s you can have a new 24 year old every day or 3 days.

Only just come across this amusing thread. Do you seriously think we don't know that?  That you can teach us something? Sorry to spoil your illusion but do you really think that a girl of 24 is interested in a guy 50+?  Were you interested in 50+ women when you were 24?

 

I'm a little older than you and regularly meet 20 somethings when I visit. The difference is that I don't try kidding myself they are not some form of hooker. Some of these girls are not looking for cash on the night, they are looking for longer term support or a sugar daddy.  Hookers don't always work in a bar on stand on the corner. Its online these days.

 

One of my regulars is 22 and still at Uni - a real looker if a little skinny.  She has 2 regular guys on the go that I know of yet she still meets one night stands - if she gets paid, so be it, if not - ditto. I've got to know her quite well and she tells me all about the guys she meets - some very amusing stories.

 

She says she still does the one nighters because she doesn't want to feel like a real girlfriend to her 60 year old hopeful. She has a damned good life - the 60 year old is a wealthy yank who thinks he's her boyfriend. He takes her on trips where they stay in 5* hotels, buys her expensive clothes etc. Every now and again she throws a wobbly and tells me I'm using her (I am). Blocks me for a week or 2 then calls me and apologises.

 

Personally I think she's a bit of a nutter and maybe has something dark in her past but I don't really care - we both get what we want from our 'friendship'.

 

I am not saying that a relationship with a much younger Thai girl is not possible but a Thai girl looking for a genuine relationship would not have jumped straight into bed with you. Neither would a decent Thai girl come to your hotel first on your first date. Thai youth has moved on and 1 night stands are not uncommon these days but not with a 50+ year old man.

 

The girls you met may not have been professionals but their motive was cash, be that long or short term so in effect they were hookers. They may not have left with any cash on this occasion but I guarantee that was their aim. I can also guarantee you that they all have a Thai boyfriend and/or one or more other foreigners.

 

The jealousy when one girl found out you'd been in Bangkok longer than she thought and had probably been seeing other girls? That's normal for these girls - they might have dozens on the go but they like to think they're your only one and they don't like competition.

 

18 years ago I lived with a 21 year old uni student in Bangkok for a while, I think we'd been together a little over a year when one night she blurted out "I want to see other guys, I know you'll think I'm crazy but you can't see other girls OK?" At that time, no, that wasn't OK and I did think she was crazy but I learned a huge lesson.

 

You seem quite proud of yourself - thinking you were scamming these girls along but its you that was being scammed bud but never mind, at least you got your rocks off.

 

Jeez, I bet you believe the bar girls when they shout......hey, come inside, sit down Hansum man.