Life brings us many challenges and as we may loose the one that has stayed beside us in life, changes happen, good or bad like a gentle wind or worse a wind that uproots the loyalty of a long-time relationship. 

So for you folks here that are lucky enough to have the candle that is lighted into the life of go for the zest in life after what has taken place in your life, maybe even in Thailand. What advice would you like to genuine share at a level that connects with the heart of sincerity with the members here.  

Thanks

Rent dont buy, and never spend more than you are prepared to lose ! 

 

You can apply that to almost anything. 😀

Ltr lasts as long as your money.

Or until she gets a better offer!

 

10 minutes ago, CharlieH said:

Rent dont buy, and never spend more than you are prepared to lose ! 

 

You can apply that to almost anything. 😀

Thank you for your good words of advice. 

1 minute ago, BritManToo said:

Ltr lasts as long as your money.

 

My question then is what if the money lessens into the relationship and values other non emotional values over a relationship on loyalty.

4 minutes ago, camper star said:

My question then is what if the money lessens into the relationship and values other non emotional values over a relationship on loyalty.

Women don't subscribe to knightly virtues.

If loyalty is important in your life, buy a dog.

5 minutes ago, BritManToo said:

Women don't subscribe to knightly virtues.

If loyalty is important in your life, buy a dog.

you are so direct with your wisdom

sounds like you found the love of your life in thailand and of course im very happy for you

7 minutes ago, BritManToo said:

Women don't subscribe to knightly virtues.

If loyalty is important in your life, buy a dog.

Did you know the Thai lady name of "Lady of Virtue " is Sunee.

3 hours ago, BritManToo said:

Women don't subscribe to knightly virtues.

If loyalty is important in your life, buy a dog.

Are you saying that you 'bang' dogs?

2 minutes ago, PJ71 said:

Are you saying that you 'bang' dogs?

 

   Ask him about his giant rabbit and what he does with it 

Never let her go on holiday alone! 

 

NEVER!!!!

 

For any reason!

 

No exceptions.

3 hours ago, camper star said:

My question then is what if the money lessens into the relationship and values other non emotional values over a relationship on loyalty.

who are you kidding, yourself????

Just lucky I guess ,but we have been together for 37 years now ,

she's a great woman ,looks after me in my few years left,she

is honest as the day is long, You can find good ones if you look,hard

 

regards worgeordie

 

 

21 minutes ago, PJ71 said:

Are you saying that you 'bang' dogs?

I've banged a few of the non canine variety. I put it down to beer goggles.

19 hours ago, camper star said:

So for you folks here that are lucky enough to have the candle that is lighted into the life of go for the zest in life after what has taken place in your life, maybe even in Thailand. What advice

My advice is to take another look at that sentence.

15 hours ago, worgeordie said:

Just lucky I guess ,but we have been together for 37 years now ,

she's a great woman ,looks after me in my few years left,she

is honest as the day is long, You can find good ones if you look,hard

 

regards worgeordie

 

 

I made half way through (16 years) but enjoy every day with my wife.

It is this "giving" and ,"taking" thing.

If you offer honesty, loyalty and fidelity then you'll get same in return.

I'm happy to have my wife caring for me up to the end.

7 minutes ago, newbee2022 said:

I made half way through (16 years) but enjoy every day with my wife.

It is this "giving" and ,"taking" thing.

If you offer honesty, loyalty and fidelity then you'll get same in return.

I'm happy to have my wife caring for me up to the end.

Mine gets a pension if she stays until the end.

That's a much better offer than honesty, loyalty and fidelity IMHO.

19 hours ago, CharlieH said:

Rent dont buy, and never spend more than you are prepared to lose ! 

You can apply that to almost anything. 😀

 

It is oft said that if it flies, floats or f**ks - Rent! 

 

Meanwhile, it will be our 21st wedding anniversary in November, still love her to bits.

15 hours ago, Keeps said:

I've banged a few of the non canine variety. I put it down to beer goggles.

So did they. 🤣🤣

20 hours ago, camper star said:

Life brings us many challenges and as we may loose the one that has stayed beside us in life, changes happen, good or bad like a gentle wind or worse a wind that uproots the loyalty of a long-time relationship. 

So for you folks here that are lucky enough to have the candle that is lighted into the life of go for the zest in life after what has taken place in your life, maybe even in Thailand. What advice would you like to genuine share at a level that connects with the heart of sincerity with the members here.  

Thanks

run '  ........  forest .....   run     

19 hours ago, camper star said:

Did you know the Thai lady name of "Lady of Virtue " is Sunee.

Thank you for that information.

 

My Thai wife, not a wifey or any other name, of 25 years is called Saisunee

Word salad

I may do so later, but I decided not to wade through what I assume will be a lot of negativity in preceding posts and

 just briefly say:

 

Yes, the odds are arguably not great to start with but in my (extensive) experience over the last 43 years of being this country (some of it working in the nightlife industry) most guys dig their own graves with a whole lot of bad choices and that the inherent difficulty in success with such relationships is by no means a reflection on Thai women or evidence of inherent flaws…

 

Anyway, if you’re not too stupid and you get a bit lucky…you could wind up with someone that you have two wonderful kids with and are still extremely happy with 32 years later: I did. (And FYI for those convinced that one has to have money: I was homeless, broke and with zero signs of anything improving. She supported me, financially and otherwise, and has stuck with me every step of a not at all easy path) 

21 hours ago, camper star said:

at a level that connects with the heart of sincerity with the members here.  

 

Well...

 

Good luck with that.

 

 

Genuine Thai lady???? Do they have a stamp somewhere?😆😄

Always keep enough money for a one way ticket, besides that  enjoy life in Thailand  many Thai relationship last, some of course don't, life is always a risk, if things go bad, walk away, find a room/condo/etc  and start again, do not listen to the misery guts's on here, they have their own problems.

23 hours ago, CharlieH said:

Rent dont buy, and never spend more than you are prepared to lose ! 

 

You can apply that to almost anything. 😀

Very good advice, unfortunately, I learned this the hard way.

19 hours ago, Cameroni said:

Never let her go on holiday alone! 

 

NEVER!!!!

 

For any reason!

 

No exceptions.

Right..my exwife went to holiday in Thailand for visiting her parents.Came back after 8 weeks and was pregnant with her thai lover.Then we divorced after 11 year marriage.Still stay in my country same our 2 kids.Been here 18 years now.After i took DNA-TEST of my kids and happily im their father.

23 hours ago, BritManToo said:

Women don't subscribe to knightly virtues.

If loyalty is important in your life, buy a dog.

 

AN forum members would try to pioson it.

Give it at least 2-4 years, together ful time, before you propose. Time is ALWAYS our ally, and never theirs. The vast majority of Thai people are way immature for their age. And many women and men are emotionally undeveloped, and really just 13 year olds, who look like adults. So take you time, get to know who they really are. Take as much time as you need. If it's good it's only going to get better, and if there are problems, they are going to manifest themselves over time. 

 

You have NO idea what she's made of, you have no idea how good a job her family did raising her, you have no idea what her underlying neurosis or baggage is, until at least 12- 24 months into the relationship. Together, not online. They are always trying to push the timetable and you need to push back. The longer, the better. If she walks, let her walk.

 

See if you like her family. It is far harder to have a successful relationship here if you don't.