So after marriage to your Thai wife for one year, how is it going

[camper star]

Is it true that a Thai wife is very caring and loving for both your relationship? I seem to see many foreign people holding hands with their love one, is that a standard practice these days.

 

[KhunLA]

Knocking on 20 years ... nuff said ❤️

[Yagoda]

Mine loves me, calls me "hia" which means darling, and "kwai" which means "stud".

[richard_smith237]

4 hours ago, camper star said:

Is it true that a Thai wife is very caring and loving for both your relationship? I seem to see many foreign people holding hands with their love one, is that a standard practice these days.

 

 

It's true that in any loving relationship, a wife - regardless of nationality - is caring and affectionate. This truth transcends borders.

 

However, the narrative can become skewed when it's shaped by those who are bitter or disillusioned, often individuals who moved to Thailand for a variety of reasons and have 'discovered' something new, or perhaps reinvented themselves.

 

Their perspectives, often loudly voiced, tend to come from the more jaded edges of the spectrum. Similarly, those who reject the institution of marriage altogether can also be vocally critical, usually from the fringes of the relationship landscape - We will certainly  hear from such characters in this thread, many of whom will down-vote this comment.

 

As for the visibility of mixed Thai-Western couples holding hands, it's naturally more common in areas with high tourist traffic or where large numbers of Westerners have settled. The same pattern can be observed in cosmopolitan or densely populated areas around the world, where cultural intermingling is simply part of the urban fabric.

 

 

[Celsius]

She sucks deeper

[blaze master]

58 minutes ago, KhunLA said:

Knocking on 20 years ... nuff said ❤️

 

19.

[KhunLA]

Holding my partners hand at times is standard with all my partners, here in TH, or USA.   It  can be a little warm and uncomfortable here, TH.   Especially outdoors and depending how far walking, along if walkway allows 2 abreast.

[Yagoda]

9 minutes ago, Celsius said:

She sucks deeper

I havent noticed the difference.

 

(sorry couldnt resist)

[JAS21]

23 years for us…she always holds my hand when we cross the road…..I’m only 9 years older than her…

[marin]

34 here and still happy and proud each time she takes my hand or arm. 

[Kinnock]

14 years ..... yes, still very caring.

 

She's also become more globally aware and developed into a skilled business manager.

 

And she still looks great.

[still kicking]

2 hours ago, KhunLA said:

Knocking on 20 years ... nuff said ❤️

22 for me

[thesetat]

1 hour ago, Yagoda said:

I havent noticed the difference.

 

(sorry couldnt resist)

took mine 10 years to do that... hmph.. 

[Hummin]

We hold hands in bed now. She on soap opera and me watching news. 
 

Only one way to keep marriage warm, have date nights, and do the small things binding us together. Always say thank you for today, and good morning. 
 

 

[Celsius]

2 hours ago, marin said:

34 here and still happy and proud each time she takes my hand or arm. 

 

Of course, she has money 

[still kicking]

1 hour ago, Celsius said:

 

Of course, she has money 

Stay in Canada

[Magictoad]

I would imagine it's the same as any marriage. Eventually you start masturbating or alternatively find another chick, or both. She is.

[SAFETY FIRST]

9 hours ago, Magictoad said:

I would imagine it's the same as any marriage. Eventually you start masturbating

 

or alternatively find another chick, or both. She is.

Agree, it's why so many people here are so miserable, always moaning, whinging and whining. 

 

No alternative for some here, now penny less, stuck with their aging, old bar girl wife who is having sex with Somchai 

 

[MartinL]

13 hours ago, Yagoda said:

Mine loves me, calls me "hia" which means darling, and "kwai" which means "stud".

That's lovely!! Does she call you 'daak ling' too?

[BritManToo]

So many unhappy people sharing their unhappiness.

My wife is lovely, 16 great years together already.

[MartinL]

56 minutes ago, BritManToo said:

So many unhappy people sharing their unhappiness.

My wife is lovely, 16 great years together already.

+1 - but MY wife, same number of years and hope for many more. I don't know yours - honest!

 

[Yagoda]

1 hour ago, MartinL said:

That's lovely!! Does she call you 'daak ling' too?

No. But sometimes when we are making the beast with two backs, she calls me Sobig. I dont know what that means though.

[BritManToo]

47 minutes ago, Yagoda said:

No. But sometimes when we are making the beast with two backs, she calls me Sobig. I dont know what that means though.

Comment on your waistline ...........

[Yagoda]

1 minute ago, BritManToo said:

Comment on your waistline ...........

🙂 🙂 🙂 55555

 

 

[NanLaew]

12 hours ago, Hummin said:

We hold hands in bed now. She on soap opera and me watching news. 
 

Only one way to keep marriage warm, have date nights, and do the small things binding us together. Always say thank you for today, and good morning. 
 

 

 

Yes, it's the small things that keep it sweet, but sometimes big things can work as well.

 

For example, last night I bought her two LARGE Leos instead of the usual small ones.

[sidjameson]

On 6/22/2025 at 12:33 PM, Celsius said:

She sucks deeper

Yes I can confirm that.

[GinBoy2]

On 6/22/2025 at 5:40 AM, KhunLA said:

Holding my partners hand at times is standard with all my partners, here in TH, or USA.   It  can be a little warm and uncomfortable here, TH.   Especially outdoors and depending how far walking, along if walkway allows 2 abreast.

Been with Mrs G over 20 years.

 

Now in our twilight years, still very much in love but the holding hands in public thing somehow smacks of young love, and neither of us are young!

[AlexRRR]

Together 3 ys living together 2.5, not married, she is still the same as when we met, very loving and affectionate and caring, and thoughtful, and yes she will want to hold hands walking to the car in a mall anywhere.

[Hummin]

On 6/23/2025 at 9:40 AM, NanLaew said:

 

Yes, it's the small things that keep it sweet, but sometimes big things can work as well.

 

For example, last night I bought her two LARGE Leos instead of the usual small ones.

Romantic 

 

Keep the good work up 

 

 

[still kicking]

On 6/23/2025 at 8:54 AM, BritManToo said:

So many unhappy people sharing their unhappiness.

My wife is lovely, 16 great years together already.

Yes, too many trolls on AN. I made it over 20 years