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Have You Met Foreigners in Thailand Who Talk Big, But Live Small?

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4 hours ago, transam said:

Indeed, the master baiters, whom, I think must have very sad lives or are crackers............🤥

Post a link to one worthwhile thread you've created in the past five years?

Or even one interesting post you've made in that time period!

 

Eh!

Gawd!

Or any post demeaning another forum member.

Not counting as worthwhile

 

Imho Lewis, Harris, SoCal, Malcolm, gamma are 100x more worth to the forum.

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  • During your main day job of being a complete and utter knob, do you get any holiday entitlement?   If so, take a day off FFS.    

  • richard_smith237
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    This guy is quickly taking over as forum troll... 

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    I'm starting to get suspicious of the genuine human nature of the op. Too many similar topics that would appear to have an agenda of generating arguments.

I am the opposite. I pretend to be poor and stupid.
 

For laughs, to deflect, and because back in the day when I actually was poor and stupid,  I was supremely happy.

13 hours ago, BritManToo said:

Post a link to one worthwhile thread you've created in the past five years?

Or even one interesting post you've made in that time period!

 

Eh!

Gawd!

Or any post demeaning another forum member.

Not counting as worthwhile

 

Imho Lewis, Harris, SoCal, Malcolm, gamma are 100x more worth to the forum.

I am not surprised, your type of stuff, until it affects you, eh................😉

 

And why would I act on an order from you...........😂......... priceless.........:clap2:

Contrary to popular belief, most people focus on what they are insecure about, not what they have achieved.

 

The primary reason for this (my theory) is that one needs to place insecurities onto other people in order to be rid of them (either just the thought/feeling of them, or sometimes the actual problem).  

 

The reason (my theory) of why achievements and accomplishments are not treated the same way is similar. By talking about them they are, in their head or sometimes physically by giving away advantages, plans & info, symbolically/unconsciously giving away what is owed or accomplished to other people.

 

The more positive, obvious and immediate the declaration tends to be (like right away or at a bar stool) the more someone is worried about that issue and needs to rid themselves of it. On the flip side, it can also manifest as complaining which is the same thing, that is a discharge of problems and the associated energy onto an external target.

 

The deciding factor of how it's conveyed is probably what the person thinks you will listen to more in the immediate situation, or their personality.

 

 

 

 

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To address the actual question in the OP.

 

Of course there is an over representation of such people in Thailand!

Because of it's attractions of easy entry and stay, cheap living, exotica, scenery, climate, etc. this country has become an end destination for much of the world's detritus.

People who don't fit comfortably in their home country because of lack of retirement funds, loss of close relstionships, loneliness, criminality, mental illness or simply needing to re-invent themselves as something bigger than their reality, move here.

In the crowded expat bars, they can find a plethera of similar lost souls assuaging their various demons with cheap booze. Many are very eager to meld in with their peers and are open to social intercourse with strangers.

The story tellers, who  harbour a need to magnify their deeds and persona, are in hog heaven.

I just RUN:   

 

Pattaya is, or was, Home to half a dozen Chauffeurs  to Queen Elizabeth, Lottery winners who are always asking  to borrow money, and ex; SAS members who cant  remember where they did their training  !!!

3 hours ago, Old Croc said:

Of course there is an over representation of such people in Thailand!

Because of it's attractions of easy entry and stay, cheap living, exotica, scenery, climate, etc. this country has become an end destination for much of the world's detritus.

Not sure why that would be, as it's much easier to live in Cambodia or the Philippines.

You meet alot of these types in Pattaya. 

 

They also tend to be very racist and pontificate about immigration in the UK. 

And again, a pointless topic, (and I'm expecting that red thumb down emoji)

and Oh yes, I have noticed that some posters here enjoy giving you the red thumb

down for no reason at all, even if you post " good morning" post someone will still give the

thumb down.

33 minutes ago, ezzra said:

And again, a pointless topic, (and I'm expecting that red thumb down emoji)

and Oh yes, I have noticed that some posters here enjoy giving you the red thumb

down for no reason at all, even if you post " good morning" post someone will still give the

thumb down.

So did you give the "pointless topic" a thumbs down?

If not then why not?

If you did then why this post?

Our own @spidermike007 was in direct competition for commercial real estate in Manhattan with Donald Trump , now that's not chopped liver ....

 

 

 

On 7/11/2025 at 1:18 PM, HappyExpat57 said:

I'm starting to get suspicious of the genuine human nature of the op. Too many similar topics that would appear to have an agenda of generating arguments.

Is your suspicion that the op is actually not a flesh and blood human?  I would agree for the reason you give.   Other major ops on AN seem to have the same psycho/social trolling scheme.  But I believe the end goal is not to just generate arguments, but to generate content so that AI can learn our individual behavioral traits, profile us, and at minimum create targeted advertising.  But possibly do to you much worse if you cross the line and become a "person of interest".  Those who doubt this should consider why these forums are even allowed to exist, or who are the deep pockets funding them.  All the three letter government agencies, those who seek to own you, would love to have the data.  

9 hours ago, Old Croc said:

The story tellers, who  harbour a need to magnify their deeds and persona, are in hog heaven.

'tis the bs artist that makes the art grow profounder.

On 7/11/2025 at 2:52 PM, transam said:

Or there is a team............:ninja:

I wouldn't doubt it.  And the same AI would be a member of each team, creating the posts and doing the profiling of all commenters.

On 7/11/2025 at 1:42 PM, roo860 said:

Absolutely agree 100%, he seems like the person you'd cross the street to avoid, proper weirdo. 

I hope I do not meet him.  Endless points for discussions I don't want to have.

The Westerns and others (Middle Easterns) farangs who come to Pattaya are for 95 % scumbags. This became worser and worser and sorry for the UK people on this forum, they are the majority. The low class tattooted brainless  mannerless hooligans. So before I would start a serious conversation with an unknown here there will be a serious background investigation.

17 hours ago, Mark1969 said:

Contrary to popular belief, most people focus on what they are insecure about, not what they have achieved.

 

The primary reason for this (my theory) is that one needs to place insecurities onto other people in order to be rid of them (either just the thought/feeling of them, or sometimes the actual problem).  

 

Are you saying britman never got laid?

On 7/11/2025 at 2:47 AM, novacova said:

No, haven’t met you yet.

Ouch. Thats like a Massive Ordinance Penetrator. Any non troll would never return after that burn.

Yes, I know these big mouths, all financial geniuses and running a highly profitable business on the side, of course without a license and every evening in the bar, one or two beers in 5 to 6 hours... without a tip, of course.:stoner:

16 hours ago, DezLez said:

So did you give the "pointless topic" a thumbs down?

If not then why not?

If you did then why this post?

Well, this is how I behave in awarding my observations, if the post is really offensive and bad taste,

than i give it the thumb down, otherwise I try not to hurt people's felling's.

21 hours ago, BritManToo said:

Not sure why that would be, as it's much easier to live in Cambodia or the Philippines.

You may be right, but that doesn't  mean my statement is incorrect, if your intent was to belittle my post.

The topic was about blowhards in Thailand. Where do you live? 

On 7/11/2025 at 12:39 PM, SoCal1990 said:

I've met quite a few foreigners who talk a big game, like they’ve got some major deal going on. You’ll hear things about big property investments, past business empires, crypto wins, or some project they’re “about to launch.” But then you notice they’re living in cheap rentals, don't spend much, and seem to have an unusual amount of free time.

 

Maybe they’re just harmless storytellers trying to impress others. Or maybe there’s more to it. This kind of fake posturing could also damage the reputation of the broader foreign community, especially for those who live quietly, play by the rules, and don’t cause problems.

 

And you have to wonder, how often does this kind of behavior spill over into trouble? Are these the same types who overstay visas, run shady hustles, perpetrate scams or leave unpaid bills behind? Or is it all just empty talk from people who want to feel important?

 

You must have come across or at least heard of this type of expat in Thailand...

So your obsession of the week is expats.

Interesting. 

NOT!

This happens all over the world. Insecure men telling strangers how great they are. I don't listen to strangers. Respect has to be earned, and should never, ever be freely given. I assume 95% of what a stranger tells me is fake. Unless proven otherwise. Call me a skeptic. 

Many !!!! Most from US (they learned from POTUS) but also Brits.

Both are the bragging masters😂

I get along best with expats who are modest and do not brag. If you need to tell me how great you are, then you exhibit the same type of behavior as Donald Trump.

On 7/11/2025 at 1:39 AM, SoCal1990 said:

I've met quite a few foreigners who talk a big game, like they’ve got some major deal going on. You’ll hear things about big property investments, past business empires, crypto wins, or some project they’re “about to launch.” But then you notice they’re living in cheap rentals, don't spend much, and seem to have an unusual amount of free time.

 

Maybe they’re just harmless storytellers trying to impress others. Or maybe there’s more to it. This kind of fake posturing could also damage the reputation of the broader foreign community, especially for those who live quietly, play by the rules, and don’t cause problems.

 

And you have to wonder, how often does this kind of behavior spill over into trouble? Are these the same types who overstay visas, run shady hustles, perpetrate scams or leave unpaid bills behind? Or is it all just empty talk from people who want to feel important?

 

You must have come across or at least heard of this type of expa

Most are lost souls seeking meaning to  life that hasn't happened, be grateful 🙏 for them sharing with the person who struggles attracting the greatness of superior conversation.  Hug hug 🫂 

On 7/11/2025 at 3:33 PM, richard_smith237 said:

 

There’s a certain subset of posters whose sole purpose appears to be provocation. They operate under the thinly veiled guise of asking seemingly innocuous questions - carefully crafted to spark controversy - or by making outrageous claims they know will inevitably ignite conflict. It’s not discussion they’re after, but disruption masquerading as curiosity.

 

 

 

I'm pretty sure these posters are bots/ai used by the forum to generate traffic.

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