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You have decided to marry a bargirl. So what do you tell mum?

Tell them the truth or make up a story? 37 members have voted

  1. 1. You are marrying a prostitute. Do you tell your family and friends back home the truth or do you make up a story?

    • Yes, honesty is the best policy.
      8%
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    • No way can I tell mum that I am marrying a prostitute from a poor SEA country.
      91%
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It is very common for westerners to marry Thai bar prostitutes.

 

Do you tell your family and friends back home that you barfined her from a brothel and paid her for sexual relations and now want to make it a full time position or do you make up a story and tell them you met her in a 7-11 or similar and try to make it sound that this attractive girl who is half your weight and half your age fell for you because of your handsomeness.

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  • You have decided to marry a bargirl. So what do you tell mum?   Mum. Please don't leave her alone with dad. 😀    

  • If your Mother is still alive, you're not old enough to entertain the idea of marrying a bargirl. Wait until after the funeral. 

  • Will B Good
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    Got engaged to three on soi 6 Friday night........got some decisions to make soon.   Haven't even told the wife yet.

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You have decided to marry a bargirl. So what do you tell mum?

 

Mum. Please don't leave her alone with dad. 😀

 

 

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Wheres the originality? I guess when this site was first started every thread was about bargirls. The topic never gets old

4 minutes ago, MalcolmB said:

fell for you because of your handsomeness.

 

I am handsome so there's that. 

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If your Mother is still alive, you're not old enough to entertain the idea of marrying a bargirl. Wait until after the funeral. :coffee1:

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What did you tell her @MalcolmB?

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The real question is. Why do you care what others do in their personal lives? Unless you are writing a book, what is this information for? If they want to tell their family or friends, they will. If not , they won't, because they might be embarrassed of how they think of his choice. You go with bar girls mainly, from what you've posted. Are you thinking of marrying one and want to know what other's have been through? That would make your question more legitimate. 

51 minutes ago, MalcolmB said:

half your weight and half your age

 

Sadly, that would indicate she was a double bagger.

24 minutes ago, fredwiggy said:

The real question is. Why do you care what others do in their personal lives? Unless you are writing a book, what is this information for? If they want to tell their family or friends, they will. If not , they won't, because they might be embarrassed of how they think of his choice. You go with bar girls mainly, from what you've posted. Are you thinking of marrying one and want to know what other's have been through? That would make your question more legitimate. 

Nope, the real question is why you can´t lighten up a bit and understand is just another thread for passing time. That´s kind of why it´s posted in ASEAN NOW Community Pub. Nothing serious with this, but just fun for the ones who wish to engage. You know, everyone doesn´t need a reason to do everything in life.

10 minutes ago, Gottfrid said:

Nope, the real question is why you can´t lighten up a bit and understand is just another thread for passing time. That´s kind of why it´s posted in ASEAN NOW Community Pub. Nothing serious with this, but just fun for the ones who wish to engage. You know, everyone doesn´t need a reason to do everything in life.

I was asking the OP.

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1 hour ago, MalcolmB said:

It is very common for westerners to marry Thai bar prostitutes.

 

Do you tell your family and friends back home that you barfined her from a brothel and paid her for sexual relations and now want to make it a full time position or do you make up a story and tell them you met her in a 7-11 or similar and try to make it sound that this attractive girl who is half your weight and half your age fell for you because of your handsomeness.

What did you tell your parents? 

1 minute ago, trainee wombat said:

Bob Smith again

This isn't Bob Smith.

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1 hour ago, MalcolmB said:

It is very common for westerners to marry Thai bar prostitutes.

It's very unfair you calling these girls prostitutes.

 

If Thailand had a welfare system similar to the west we wouldn't see these girls selling their bodies.

 

I'm sure most of these young mothers would much prefer to be living in the village with their newborns, having a good time with their loving family and friends 

 

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1 hour ago, MalcolmB said:

It is very common for westerners to marry Thai bar prostitutes.

 

 

Got engaged to three on soi 6 Friday night........got some decisions to make soon.

 

Haven't even told the wife yet.

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2 minutes ago, SAFETY FIRST said:

It's very unfair you calling these girls prostitutes.

 

If Thailand had a welfare system similar to the west we wouldn't see these girls selling their bodies.

 

I'm sure most would much prefer to be living in the village with their newborns and loving family and friends 

 

 

 

Your right, I have a lot of respect for them.

 

 

Talking to a bar girl....both of us stood looking down onto Pattaya bay......and she said to me......"you know there is not one single girl down there who wants to work in a bar".

 

 

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54 minutes ago, JAG said:

What did you tell her @MalcolmB?

I told her she was from a hiso Chinese family and her dad was an army general and her mother was a doctor.

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23 minutes ago, Gottfrid said:

Nope, the real question is why you can´t lighten up a bit and understand is just another thread for passing time. That´s kind of why it´s posted in ASEAN NOW Community Pub. Nothing serious with this, but just fun for the ones who wish to engage. You know, everyone doesn´t need a reason to do everything in life.

After Freddy’s complete failure in Thailand and his lack of funds to return to the USA I think it might be a very sensitive subject for him.

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10 minutes ago, SAFETY FIRST said:

If Thailand had a welfare system similar to the west we wouldn't see these girls selling their bodies.

So why do women in the west sell their bodies? 

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11 minutes ago, SAFETY FIRST said:

It's very unfair you calling these girls prostitutes.

Let’s call a spade a spade.

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12 minutes ago, SAFETY FIRST said:

most of these young mothers would much prefer to be living in the village with their newborns, having a good time with their loving family and friends 

It was their love of a good time and sex that made them mothers in the first place.

Many embrace the lifestyle and then Freddy Farang marries them and takes financial responsibility for all their children.

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6 minutes ago, MalcolmB said:

So why do women in the west sell their bodies? 

Because they are prostitutes 

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5 minutes ago, MalcolmB said:

Let’s call a spade a spade.

 

 

And a nob a nob?

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18 minutes ago, fredwiggy said:

This isn't Bob Smith.

You're just not getting it today. People are joking and you're taking it seriously. Lotus is having a special on "senses of humor," recommend you go get one.

2 minutes ago, MalcolmB said:

It was their love of a good time and sex that made them mothers in the first place.

Nothing to do with the guy, saying that he wants a baby with her because he loves her, saying he will be with her forever, always taking care of her then abandoning her once the baby is born. 

 

1 hour ago, angryguy said:

Wheres the originality?

It a classic TV/AN original 

1 hour ago, angryguy said:

I guess when this site was first started every thread was about bargirls. The topic never gets old

As time goes on senility sets in and folks forget and repost the same stuff every once in awhile believing it’s the first.

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1 minute ago, Will B Good said:

 

 

And a nob a nob?

Just because you marry a Thai hooker doesn’t necessarily mean you are a nob.

Just now, HappyExpat57 said:

You're just not getting it today. People are joking and you're taking it seriously. Lotus is having a special on "senses of humor," recommend you go get one.

Assuming like a few others do. Some here that are new think a few are bob smith when observation tells otherwise, and my sense of humor is fine, especially if you see many of my posts.

21 minutes ago, SAFETY FIRST said:

It's very unfair you calling these girls prostitutes.

 

If Thailand had a welfare system similar to the west we wouldn't see these girls selling their bodies.

 

I'm sure most of these young mothers would much prefer to be living in the village with their newborns, having a good time with their loving family and friends 

 

Many leave their children behind here, over 35%, because they don't wan the responsibility. Not just hookers.

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2 minutes ago, HappyExpat57 said:

You're just not getting it today. People are joking and you're taking it seriously. Lotus is having a special on "senses of humor," recommend you go get one.

He isn’t the sharpest.

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