He already made up a whole lot of fantasy, just like with previous ones.

The truth is probably unemployed and 2 at best.

27 minutes ago, Celsius said:

He already made up a whole lot of fantasy, just like with previous ones.

The truth is probably unemployed and 2 at best.

She's ginger !!!... they come in two categories - outrageously hot... total mingers - there is no middle ground !!!

43 minutes ago, Celsius said:

Did you tell her about genital herpes?

This thread keeps on giving !!!...

1 hour ago, Cameroni said:

Will be interesting if that's the case sexually as well.

And there's the delusion !!

3 minutes ago, richard_smith237 said:

She's ginger !!!... they come in two categories - outrageously hot... total mingers - there is no middle ground !!!

This thread keeps on giving !!!...

And there's the delusion !!

My first Aussie wife was ginger. Total bitch.

But the thing with Cameroni is that he is repeating everything they tell him like gospel. SAD.

Foreign woman, stuck in Chiang Mai. Calls herself a digital nomad. Cash is drying up fast. Wonder what kind of 'work' she told naive Cameroni she was doing.

35 minutes ago, Celsius said:

He already made up a whole lot of fantasy, just like with previous ones.

The truth is probably unemployed and 2 at best.

If I were a 1 percent-er - still athletic, outstandingly potent, still capable of leaving a trail of satisfied sighs in my wake - and somehow a reasonably well-preserved specimen at 50…

…I would not be basking in triumph of a morning walk.. . I would be squinting at the universe with deep suspicion and asking, what in the name of common sense is a 28-year-old, well-educated, financially sorted, slim, gorgeous woman doing circling a vintage model like me?

Unwitting field research for her future bestselling memoir - “Dating Boomers ' - or she has daddy issues so profound they echo. The kind of potential emotional nut-jobbery where the skeletons in the closet are partying on meth.

Because let’s be honest - when a younger woman with options picks a man with reading glasses, curiosity is not just natural, its self defense !!!...

I do enjoy the way Cam walks in - no holds barred - ready for emotional oblivion - good luck, but read the room Cam - at least pay attention to reality.

Walks in the morning - intelligent discussions - no time to meet in evenings... try for an evening dinner date - it could go well - you might have the game for it and find something genuine.

1 hour ago, Cameroni said:

Phuket girl wants to go back to study at uni, but only graduated high school, but Strawberry blonde has two degrees. Yet it is Phuket girl who comes across as more intelligent, cunning and on point, bizarrely.

Thats not intelligence - thats well practiced, even natural manipulation... She 'seems' intelligent to you, because your ego gets in the way and you can't believe you are being played this way...

She hasn't shown any intelligence - she's shown indifference, and you've shown a complete lack of common sense and total abandon of emotional intelligence.

23 minutes ago, Celsius said:

My first Aussie wife was ginger. Total bitch.

But the thing with Cameroni is that he is repeating everything they tell him like gospel. SAD.

Foreign woman, stuck in Chiang Mai. Calls herself a digital nomad. Cash is drying up fast. Wonder what kind of 'work' she told naive Cameroni she was doing.

She could be doing anything - there's plenty of online work these days that people can do from anywhere... no criticism of her... brave woman open to meeting people - I quite admire the attitude...

IF... and thats a big IF... Cameroni hasn't done is usual thing of over-egging the pudding and exaggerating 30% to 90%...

As is proven - Cam will be incapable of interpreting any signals - but will mention them here anyway - I admire his honesty on that - never shy to make himself look foolish - which is why so many suspect he's winding everyone up.. (the ThaiFriendly profile would be a stroke of genius in such a case).

4 minutes ago, richard_smith237 said:

She could be doing anything - there's plenty of online work these days that people can do from anywhere... no criticism of her

I know. I have been doing online work in Thailand. The thing is not a beep about what kind of work she does. If he actually knew he would be so proud to tell us!

Another mystery!

4 minutes ago, Celsius said:

I know. I have been doing online work in Thailand. The thing is not a beep about what kind of work she does. If he actually knew he would be so proud to tell us!

Another mystery!

I know very well what work Strawberry blonde does. However, I'm not going to give details about her. I've seen your pathological stalking of Phuket girl, even publishing her real name on here.

The last thing that will happen now is all the details of Strawberry blonde appearing.

You can't be trusted. Like all Balkan nutcases.

The details of Strawberry will remain firmly locked away.

29 minutes ago, richard_smith237 said:

Thats not intelligence - thats well practiced, even natural manipulation... She 'seems' intelligent to you, because your ego gets in the way and you can't believe you are being played this way...

She hasn't shown any intelligence - she's shown indifference, and you've shown a complete lack of common sense and total abandon of emotional intelligence.

No, Phuket girl has been extrordinarily intelligent. Cunning to the extreme. Gained access to my phone by stealth for instance. She's cunning like a fox and has more brainpower than most women. You can tell instantly. The way she plays her cards, not letting you see anything, it betrays deep intelligence.

BKK girl was not this cunning.

57 minutes ago, Celsius said:

My first Aussie wife was ginger.

Dated a strawberry blonde girl at Uni - Smokin hot Nicole Kidman ringer..

... ginger really - slight whiff of wee !

15 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

I know very well what work Strawberry blonde does. However, I'm not going to give details about her. I've seen your pathological stalking of Phuket girl, even publishing her real name on here.

The last thing that will happen now is all the details of Strawberry blonde appearing.

You can't be trusted. Like all Balkan nutcases.

The details of Strawberry will remain firmly locked away.

A bunch of excuses because she is unemployed and a 2.

You gave all the info away and posted pictures of a ladyboy. Don't blame me.

22 minutes ago, Celsius said:

I know. I have been doing online work in Thailand. The thing is not a beep about what kind of work she does. If he actually knew he would be so proud to tell us!

Another mystery!

To be fair - I've no idea what a lot of people do...

If it doesn't fit into a job description I'm familiar with - I'm lost.

Friends since school have no idea what I do - I have no idea what they do... apart from dentist and Lawyer... but thats about it - others working in Banks, no idea.. another is a writer - no idea at all...

I meet people, they tell me they are 'coders'... I've no chance.... I see other mates online, travelling everywhere, they work for magazines... online work, travelling and writing - not really sure if thats work, but they see do to well out of it... She could be doing something similar.

17 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

No, Phuket girl has been extrordinarily intelligent. Cunning to the extreme. Gained access to my phone by stealth for instance. She's cunning like a fox and has more brainpower than most women. You can tell instantly. The way she plays her cards, not letting you see anything, it betrays deep intelligence.

BKK girl was not this cunning.

She wasn't intelligent or cunning... She was brazen and you were stupid...

... sounds offensive and I don't mean it that way - I've simply de-glittered the turd you've been polishing and rolling around...

3 minutes ago, richard_smith237 said:

To be fair - I've no idea what a lot of people do...

If it doesn't fit into a job description I'm familiar with - I'm lost.

Friends since school have no idea what I do - I have no idea what they do... apart from dentist and Lawyer... but thats about it - others working in Banks, no idea.. another is a writer - no idea at all...

I meet people, they tell me they are 'coders'... I've no chance.... I see other mates online, travelling everywhere, they work for magazines... online work, travelling and writing - not really sure if thats work, but they see do to well out of it... She could be doing something similar.

She could be of course.... except AI took all the jobs. It is not a mystery in my case. I was doing Amazon FBA.

But Cameroni says he knows what she does. The guy who can’t figure out how thaifriendlly account works, so there is that

24 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

I know very well what work Strawberry blonde does. However, I'm not going to give details about her. I've seen your pathological stalking of Phuket girl, even publishing her real name on here.

The last thing that will happen now is all the details of Strawberry blonde appearing.

You can't be trusted. Like all Balkan nutcases.

The details of Strawberry will remain firmly locked away.

There can't be that many ginger's in Chiang Mai !!...

You are finally getting smarter !!!....

Is this little carrot headed flourish now to be referred to as 'Strawberry Girl' ??? given the flow of the thread, it has a certain ring to it...

... better than the 'freckled frightener' or the 'Ginge minge'...

5 minutes ago, richard_smith237 said:

She wasn't intelligent or cunning... She was brazen and you were stupid...

... sounds offensive and I don't mean it that way - I've simply de-glittered the turd you've been polishing and rolling around...

It all comes down to the dick....right dick 😅

6 minutes ago, Celsius said:

She could be of course.... except AI took all the jobs. It is not a mystery in my case. I was doing Amazon FBA.

But Cameroni says he knows what she does. The guy who can’t figure out how thaifriendlly account works, so there is that

So badly burned by ThaiFriendly he may only approach those pages to check on PG...

Tinder is surely his stomping ground now... I wonder if Cam already has the 'chastity-glove' for Lady Marmalade to wear so she can't swipe right !!!

5 minutes ago, blaze master said:

It all comes down to the dick....right dick 😅

I chose this username quite deliberately - as a quiet little intelligence test. It exists purely to tempt the terminally average into believing they have spotted a brilliantly obvious joke, only to reveal themselves by blurting out the most predictable, lowest-effort punchline imaginable - the 'dick-bomb'...

Surprisingly few people actually fall for it. The bait is so painfully obvious that most seem just self-aware enough to realise that taking it would be a public confession of spectacular unoriginality and wafer-thin wit.

5 minutes ago, richard_smith237 said:

So badly burned by ThaiFriendly he may only approach those pages to check on PG...

Tinder is surely his stomping ground now... I wonder if Cam already has the 'chastity-glove' for Lady Marmalade to wear so she can't swipe right !!!

There is another thing. Guys who get busted lying about everything else are typically inflating the mind blowing sex stories by like 1,000% as well.

The real reason why Phuket girl ran away may not even be money. It may simply the case of limp d1k

Sometimes crippled hands are the advantage.

1 minute ago, richard_smith237 said:

I chose this username quite deliberately - as a quiet little intelligence test. It exists purely to tempt the terminally average into believing they have spotted a brilliantly obvious joke, only to reveal themselves by blurting out the most predictable, lowest-effort punchline imaginable - the 'dick-bomb'...

Surprisingly few people actually fall for it. The bait is so painfully obvious that most seem just self-aware enough to realise that taking it would be a public confession of spectacular unoriginality and wafer-thin wit.

I guess you misunderstood my remark.

3 minutes ago, richard_smith237 said:

I chose this username quite deliberately - as a quiet little intelligence test. It exists purely to tempt the terminally average into believing they have spotted a brilliantly obvious joke, only to reveal themselves by blurting out the most predictable, lowest-effort punchline imaginable - the 'dick-bomb'...

Surprisingly few people actually fall for it. The bait is so painfully obvious that most seem just self-aware enough to realise that taking it would be a public confession of spectacular unoriginality and wafer-thin wit.

Seems you have misunderstood and simplified my remark.

1 minute ago, blaze master said:

I guess you misunderstood my remark.

Seems you have misunderstood and simplified my remark.

Back peddling - try better...

Your commentary is at its most entertaining when you are busy inventing excuses for having been taken for a mug by a bargain-basement ho....

...But fate has handed you richer material - a golden opportunity, really - do try to make the most of it - looking forwards to the tales of the Rusty Ringer....

2 minutes ago, richard_smith237 said:

Back peddling - try better.

Nope. Were all just dicks. This whole thread is about dick. All the comments are from dicks.

You thinking its simply about a school yard silly insult is the simplification I referred to.

Everything in this thread comes down to dick.

11 minutes ago, richard_smith237 said:

Your commentary is at its most entertaining when you are busy inventing excuses for having been taken for a mug by a bargain-basement ho....

I hope you're not talking about politics with this. I took you for one of the smarter posters on here. Alas looks like i was wrong.

Keep doing you....

40 minutes ago, blaze master said:

49 minutes ago, richard_smith237 said:

Your commentary is at its most entertaining when you are busy inventing excuses for having been taken for a mug by a bargain-basement ho....

I hope you're not talking about politics with this. I took you for one of the smarter posters on here. Alas looks like i was wrong.

Keep doing you....

Ah... like a fkwit dimster - lesson learned !!.. Don't post when on the phone, while half-pished in a car...

Your 'icon' thingy or whatever its called, is the same colour as Camernoni's - I didn't realise I'd launched a drive-by retort to a fresh face trying to tap in on a little ménage à trois man-o-man action and earn stripes....

... thats just the pitfalls of modern communication: one hand on a phone while half-cut, getting rocked around car with the the confidence of boomer who should not be typing on a small device !!!...

... 'blaze master'... ??... steady on, Merlin.... You’re still on matches, sharper burns have been written on camping instructions... But I'm looking forwards to further burn, banter or whatever you want to call it... bring what you will... school yard or otherwise...

Good enthusiasm.. keep training.... stretch first... hydrate... or at least 'beer up'... enter the fray.. Pls change your avatar !!!

8 hours ago, Cameroni said:

No, Strawberry blonde would be the kind of girl you can trust. When says A it's A I have a feeling. And she was very clear she wants a man to settle down with, so she would not be the kind to play games, particularly with her history.

I'm seeing you're taking her at face value, likely how you did the Thai girl. They all put on their best face at the beginning. In fact, this is exactly how a covert narcissist starts. I'm not inferring this one is, but there's no way of telling as the love bombing they start with sucks you in. The charm, openness, flirting and telling of herself is exactly the ploy of those types.

Did you start off thinking the Thai girl wasn't someone you could trust? If so, you would have bamboozled her into sex then left. No, you thought she was someone you could trust, just as you did with all girls before, but by now, with your history with girls, and not more mature, older women, your eyes should have been more open, not to judge so quickly.

It's always best to take what they say with a grain of salt, until they can prove themselves. I saw this with my ex and a few others, who's looks and charm sucked me in also, until I found out they were the devil in disguise. This doesn't matter to a player anyway, because a player, much like the covert narcissist, does everything they can to waylay the girl into a false sense of security, then has sex and leaves, all the time. Not right off sometimes, but soon enough.

Also, this one is 28, and yes, some like older men because they've had their fill of younger players who were only looking for one thing, so they know an older man is more likely to treat them with more honesty and respect. Not always but usually. There also could be other reasons she's looking older, which usually involve finances.

6 hours ago, Cameroni said:

No, Phuket girl has been extrordinarily intelligent. Cunning to the extreme. Gained access to my phone by stealth for instance. She's cunning like a fox and has more brainpower than most women. You can tell instantly. The way she plays her cards, not letting you see anything, it betrays deep intelligence.

BKK girl was not this cunning.

Some of the most devious people alive aren't that intelligent. They've learned to use what smarts they have to manipulate others to get what they want. My ex wife in the states was another charmer. Cute, flirty and devious, with a 90 IQ and a slew of mental issues dating back to when her dad had custody of her and her brother, and her estranged mom kidnapped them until the dad could locate them and get them home. She turned out to be one of the worse women I've known, and I had three children with her, which turned out to be a nightmare until I myself got custody.

1 hour ago, fredwiggy said:

Some of the most devious people alive aren't that intelligent. They've learned to use what smarts they have to manipulate others to get what they want. My ex wife in the states was another charmer. Cute, flirty and devious, with a 90 IQ and a slew of mental issues dating back to when her dad had custody of her and her brother, and her estranged mom kidnapped them until the dad could locate them and get them home. She turned out to be one of the worse women I've known, and I had three children with her, which turned out to be a nightmare until I myself got custody.

How come intelligent men find troubled younger low intelligent women attractive? Not one time but several times?

9 minutes ago, Hummin said:

How come intelligent men find troubled younger low intelligent women attractive? Not one time but several times?

The looks override everything.

AI got some answer for you

In 2026, psychological and evolutionary research suggests that this pattern is often driven by a combination of subconscious social dynamics and internal self-worth. While specific preferences vary, several recurring themes explain why some intelligent men repeatedly choose "troubled" or less intelligent younger partners:

1. The Savior Complex (White Knight Syndrome)

Highly capable or intelligent men may suffer from a savior complex, where their self-worth is tied to "fixing" others.

Need to be Indispensable: They may feel secure only when they are the primary "problem-solver" in a partner's life.

Vulnerability as Attraction: They are often subconsciously drawn to "birds with broken wings"—people in distress or toxic situations—because it fulfills a compulsion to rescue.

Parentification Roots: This behavior often stems from childhood experiences where they were forced to take on adult responsibilities early on, leading them to associate love with caretaking.

2. Masculinity and Social Comparison

Research indicates that many men feel a threat to their masculinity when their partner outshines them in areas they value, such as intelligence.

Psychological Distance: While men may admire intelligent women from afar, they are less attracted to them in close, real-life proximity if they feel "outsmarted".

Diminished Self-Esteem: Being outperformed by a partner can lead to a drop in implicit self-esteem, causing some men to subconsciously seek partners who do not challenge their intellectual dominance.

3. Evolutionary and Social Factors

Reproductive Fitness: From an evolutionary standpoint, men often prioritize youth and health—signals of fertility—over status or intelligence.

Complementary Deficits: Some intelligent men may lack social or emotional skills. They might seek partners who cover these "deficits"—someone who is emotionally expressive or socially fluid—rather than someone who matches them intellectually.

Control and Predictability: Some men may choose less intelligent partners because they feel such partners are easier to lead or control, reducing the likelihood of conflict or complex intellectual power struggles.

4. Overthinking and "Analysis Paralysis"

Intelligent individuals are prone to self-doubt and over-analysis. A partner who is less analytical can provide a "break" from their internal noise, offering a simpler, more direct emotional connection that doesn't require constant intellectual processing.

Then I asked about the control factor?

In 2026, research into relationship dynamics highlights that men who prioritize control often specifically seek out younger, "troubled," or less intellectually assertive partners to maintain a power imbalance.

In relationships where a desire for control is present, various factors can contribute to the dynamics between partners. Research suggests that an imbalance of power can be a significant element in certain relationships.

Some individuals may seek partners with less life experience or who are in a less established phase of life, which can sometimes create or reinforce a power difference within the relationship. This difference in experience or position can make one partner more susceptible to influence.

It's important to understand that a desire for control in a relationship often stems from internal factors such as insecurity rather than confidence. Such insecurities can manifest as a need to maintain strict control to prevent perceived threats to the relationship or one's own ego.

Relationships involving power imbalances can also be linked to situations where one partner is in a vulnerable state, whether emotionally, psychologically, or due to external circumstances. In such cases, one partner might seek to increase reliance on them, sometimes by limiting connections to external support systems like friends and family.

Understanding the dynamics of power and control in relationships is crucial for identifying potentially unhealthy patterns. Relationships thrive on mutual respect and equality, and imbalances of power can be detrimental to the well-being of both partners

4 hours ago, fredwiggy said:

I'm seeing you're taking her at face value, likely how you did the Thai girl. They all put on their best face at the beginning. In fact, this is exactly how a covert narcissist starts. I'm not inferring this one is, but there's no way of telling as the love bombing they start with sucks you in. The charm, openness, flirting and telling of herself is exactly the ploy of those types.

Did you start off thinking the Thai girl wasn't someone you could trust? If so, you would have bamboozled her into sex then left. No, you thought she was someone you could trust, just as you did with all girls before, but by now, with your history with girls, and not more mature, older women, your eyes should have been more open, not to judge so quickly.

It's always best to take what they say with a grain of salt, until they can prove themselves. I saw this with my ex and a few others, who's looks and charm sucked me in also, until I found out they were the devil in disguise. This doesn't matter to a player anyway, because a player, much like the covert narcissist, does everything they can to waylay the girl into a false sense of security, then has sex and leaves, all the time. Not right off sometimes, but soon enough.

Also, this one is 28, and yes, some like older men because they've had their fill of younger players who were only looking for one thing, so they know an older man is more likely to treat them with more honesty and respect. Not always but usually. There also could be other reasons she's looking older, which usually involve finances.

I was talking about first impressions of Strawberry. Obviously we only met once and that's all I can go on. She seems like a person of integrity. Of course it could all be fake, but that was the first impression she gave off.

Anyway, it's all irrelevant. I didn't feel anything with her. All that intelligent conversation bores me to death. It was nothing like with Phuket Girl, who within 45 minutes was red hot on top of you. With Strawberry blonde I'd have to go on God knows how many dates, fend off God knows how many other competitors. And besides, I already had a beautiful Caucasian woman for 23 years, and another for 12 years before that. I want someone from SE Asia.

Strawberry blonde, whilst an attractive woman with a pleasing face, is very skinny, all skin and bones, tall, I can't imagine she'd bring it in the bedroom. Sure, it's plesant conversation to go to nice places with someone like this. But that's it. I'm not looking for a mere breakfast or dinner companion or someone to just walk in the park.

That's not what Phuket Girl was, she was all in within 45 minutes of meeting, it was a roller coaster of excitement. A tsunami of oxytocin.

Strawberry blonde felt tame and vanilla by comparison. I didn't feel much. Only one time in the cafe, when she bunched her hair up for a longer period in the sun, that lovely strawberry blonde hair. I felt something fleeting akin to attraction. But again, nothing like with Phuket Girl, who ignites appetites unlike anything Strawberry blonde manages.