1 minute ago, Cameroni said:

No, again you keep clinging to this nonsense. I've had plenty of sex, it's not "sex period". I want the oxytocin haze, sex is just a precursor to that. I don't see how this is hard to understand.

Yes, I could lie on the bed with PG for hours. Because we HAD the oxytocin haze. That made it all possible. Everything is possible then, that's what I'm saying.

If I've had sex with Strawberry blonde and the Oxytocin kicks in I'll probably find her fascinating.

Again, you're talking nonsense. You're not getting it. I'm telling you sex is not my main concern, it's the oxytocin rush, sex is just a precursor to it. It's not hard to understand.

No, you're talking about attachment, not love.

Again, I don't talk nonsense bu common sense. I've had many more real relationships than you, including three marriages and another long term with women I've had children with. Real women. Not those who's main agenda was money. Only three here besides my wife and two dated, one the last 5 years. The other almost 90 in the west.

I've also studied relationships and how women think. My mistakes were made from attraction, and not fully understanding the workings of a covert narcissist (here).

Oxytocin haze whatever. Love comes over time. Sex starts the bond but communication keeps it going, period. With that communication, which you said you disliked with this woman, strengthens that bond. If you can't stand a woman talking, it's best yes, to stick with girls you can easily find here, as the western ones aren't going to be with you over 50, unless they are over 30 or more. Here anyone can "get" girls, but those girls are with you because of the dream of money, and not because of your appearance.

You lied in bed because yes, the sex had you feeling great. Right then afterwards. What do you do with the other 95% of the time? Bored if she talks or goes elsewhere? You're looking at the sex with a woman you really aren't that "into" possibly keeping you around. Again, what happens after the sex? You leave because the Oxytocin wasn't as strong as you thought? What if she gets attached to you and you leave? This talk sounds like one with a much younger man, who thinks this rush is what keeps people together. Communication is what keeps people together. Anyone can have sex and think they're somehow "bonded", at least until that feeling wears off, and it always wears off.

8 minutes ago, Harrisfan said:

Correct. Love takes 1 to 2 weeks.

Actually at least a few months. Most times a lot more time. Infatuation happens earlier.

1 minute ago, fredwiggy said:

Again, I don't talk nonsense bu common sense. I've had many more real relationships than you, including three marriages and another long term with women I've had children with. Real women. Not those who's main agenda was money. Only three here besides my wife and two dated, one the last 5 years. The other almost 90 in the west.

I've also studied relationships and how women think. My mistakes were made from attraction, and not fully understanding the workings of a covert narcissist (here).

Oxytocin haze whatever. Love comes over time. Sex starts the bond but communication keeps it going, period. With that communication, which you said you disliked with this woman, strengthens that bond. If you can't stand a woman talking, it's best yes, to stick with girls you can easily find here, as the western ones aren't going to be with you over 50, unless they are over 30 or more. Here anyone can "get" girls, but those girls are with you because of the dream of money, and not because of your appearance.

You lied in bed because yes, the sex had you feeling great. Right then afterwards. What do you do with the other 95% of the time? Bored if she talks or goes elsewhere? You're looking at the sex with a woman you really aren't that "into" possibly keeping you around. Again, what happens after the sex? You leave because the Oxytocin wasn't as strong as you thought? What if she gets attached to you and you leave? This talk sounds like one with a much younger man, who thinks this rush is what keeps people together. Communication is what keeps people together. Anyone can have sex and think they're somehow "bonded", at least until that feeling wears off, and it always wears off.

3 failed marriages

90 failed relationships

He should just laugh at your advice!

Just now, fredwiggy said:

Actually at least a few months. Most times a lot more time. Infatuation happens earlier.

Nope. A couple of weeks. But you read books lol

5 minutes ago, Celsius said:

in previous threads you claimed you like skinny girls. What gives?

I met Phuket Girl. Her gorgeous full body gave me a new appreciation fora proper figure that is well formed. The skinny wolf feet are not my ideal.

Just now, Harrisfan said:

3 failed marriages

90 failed relationships

He should just laugh at your advice!

Again you assume what happened in my life. This after I explained, although to your simple mind it obviously went over your head. Most relationships end. This doesn't mean failed. Most people aren't suitable for each other, even if both are decent, loving and caring people. Different family, future plans has most ending it before too much attachment takes place. Plenty of marriage counselors, most in fact, have had marriages that ended. this is how a person learns.

Most relationships that go into a marriage aren't childhood sweethearts that last forever. That you don't understand this shows how little you know, plus how little experience you've had with women. Paying doesn't count.

Marriages also end because either one or both didn't do the work intended. Attraction is why people come together. Working as a team is how they last.

What happened in your life? You never say, yet think you can comment on others lives. In all likelihood you are alone, haven't had many if any real relationships, and again, are only here to argue.

Love with Phuket girl is a difficult call. Given she's had you and she left. You can blame her seeing your texts to another girl - or maybe her past habits - but weeks later she's still playing games. You want the one you can't have but when it's your turn you won't be able to cop what happened up till now. Give up on that.

6 minutes ago, fredwiggy said:

If you can't stand a woman talking

You greatly exaggerate things. It's not that I can't stand Strawberry blonde. She just talks a lot. It's not great, but it's not a major issue.

7 minutes ago, fredwiggy said:

Communication is what keeps people together.

No. Attraction plus sex plus oxytocin keeps people together. I could communicate with Rose McGown all week long, nothing would keep us together.

1 minute ago, fredwiggy said:

Again you assume what happened in my life. This after I explained, although to your simple mind it obviously went over your head. Most relationships end. This doesn't mean failed. Most people aren't suitable for each other, even if both are decent, loving and caring people. Different family, future plans has most ending it before too much attachment takes place. Plenty of marriage counselors, most in fact, have had marriages that ended. this is how a person learns.

Most relationships that go into a marriage aren't childhood sweethearts that last forever. That you don't understand this shows how little you know, plus how little experience you've had with women. Paying doesn't count.

Marriages also end because either one or both didn't do the work intended. Attraction is why people come together. Working as a team is how they last.

What happened in your life? You never say, yet think you can comment on others lives. In all likelihood you are alone, haven't had many if any real relationships, and again, are only here to argue.

Lots of failures. Lots of bad advice.

Just now, Fat is a type of crazy said:

Love with Phuket girl is a difficult call. Given she's had you and she left. You can blame her seeing your texts to another girl - or maybe her past habits -

Actually I think her BPD and love for Phuket are probably the two main factors, with my texts to BKK girl.

It's not looking great no, but I'll find out on 9th Feb for sure.

1 minute ago, Cameroni said:

You greatly exaggerate things. It's not that I can't stand Strawberry blonde. She just talks a lot. It's not great, but it's not a major issue.

No. Attraction plus sex plus oxytocin keeps people together. I could communicate with Rose McGown all week long, nothing would keep us together.

Common interests

Sex

Love

Thats all you need.

2 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

You greatly exaggerate things. It's not that I can't stand Strawberry blonde. She just talks a lot. It's not great, but it's not a major issue.

No. Attraction plus sex plus oxytocin keeps people together. I could communicate with Rose McGown all week long, nothing would keep us together.

No, communication, similar future plans and trust keeps people together. Sex happens because of these. It isn't what keeps anyone together.Attraction only starts many relationships. Here that attraction is more money than looks, with westerners and Thais.

Just now, fredwiggy said:

No, communication, similar future plans and trust keeps people together. Sex happens because of these. It isn't what keeps anyone together.Attraction only starts many relationships. Here that attraction is more money than looks, with westerners and Thais.

Sex happens because of attraction. Oxytocin haze happens because of sex. Love and long term happens because of the previous two.

Communication is a nice to have, but it's vasly overrated in the areas we're talking about.

3 minutes ago, Harrisfan said:

Lots of failures. Lots of bad advice.

If you had any knowledge on relationships, you would see it's good advice, garnered from years of reading, listening, experience and mistakes, just like many others.

Tell us of your relationships, seeing you never have and only comment, falsely, on others here.

Just now, Cameroni said:

Sex happens because of attraction. Oxytocin haze happens because of sex. Love and long term happens because of the previous two.

Communication is a nice to have, but it's vasly overrated in the areas we're talking about.

You either communicate or you just stay for the sex. Most women will leave if you don't know how to communicate. Here it's different. many will stay because they get things to show off to others.

1 minute ago, fredwiggy said:

If you had any knowledge on relationships, you would see it's good advice, garnered from years of reading, listening, experience and mistakes, just like many others.

Tell us of your relationships, seeing you never have and only comment, falsely, on others here.

90 failures

Awful advice

Just now, Harrisfan said:

90 failures

Awful advice

Did you read where I asked you about your relationships? Did you also read how I explained that most relationships end? If you've never been with a woman, you shouldn't comment. I'm not talking about buying them of course.

1 minute ago, Cameroni said:

Sex happens because of attraction. Oxytocin haze happens because of sex. Love and long term happens because of the previous two.

Communication is a nice to have, but it's vasly overrated in the areas we're talking about.

Talking leads to arguments. Talk less, do more. Women want to have fun.

Let her pick one day's plan, you pick the next.

Ask her about her fav sex position and do that.

Just now, Harrisfan said:

Talking leads to arguments. Talk less, do more. Women want to have fun.

Let her pick one day's plan, you pick the next.

Ask her about her fav sex position and do that.

Teenage advice. I kinda thought you haven't much experience with women. Now that comment shows it. I knew that when I was 17.

7 minutes ago, fredwiggy said:

Did you read where I asked you about your relationships? Did you also read how I explained that most relationships end? If you've never been with a woman, you shouldn't comment. I'm not talking about buying them of course.

You are clueless about women just like every other topic. Communication lol

6 minutes ago, fredwiggy said:

Teenage advice. I kinda thought you haven't much experience with women. Now that comment shows it. I knew that when I was 17.

I see you know nothing about women. Explains the 90 failures lol

You're a 27 handicapper giving out golf advice.

1 minute ago, Harrisfan said:

You are clueless about women just like every other topic. Communication lol

I'm still waiting. What relationships have you had with women, or men, if that's your deal? You obviously don't understand good advice from a lack of knowledge and or experience, so tell us. Instead of coming back with your childish, false one liners, try and reply with something solid. I've actually been with many women, and had children, for over 50 years. Let's hear your story, or plainly, stay out of the conversation, because trolling is your MO, and everyone here knows it.

1 minute ago, fredwiggy said:

I'm still waiting. What relationships have you had with women, or men, if that's your deal? You obviously don't understand good advice from a lack of knowledge and or experience, so tell us. Instead of coming back with your childish, false one liners, try and reply with something solid. I've actually been with many women, and had children, for over 50 years. Let's hear your story, or plainly, stay out of the conversation, because trolling is your MO, and everyone here knows it.

95% of the last 20 years been in 2 relationships. I don't have failures like you. You are so full of it.

3 minutes ago, fredwiggy said:

Instead of coming back with your childish, false one liners, try and reply with something

The average Thai woman has the brain of a 18yo. They watch soapies, have a narrow world view.

You don't need to communicate much at all cause there is little upstairs.

They want money, sex, fun, nice food plus maybe a hobby.

It's not rocket science it's a woman with a limited brain.

1 minute ago, Harrisfan said:

95% of the last 20 years been in 2 relationships. I don't have failures like you. You are so full of it.

You failed at one then. if not both. That's how you reply to me. Knowing nothing about me and even less about relationships, this is all you have to say. If you had any knowledge on relationships, either from experience, reading, actually listening to women or a combination of those, you would know my advice is spot on. You either understand I'm right and are too jealous to admit it, or your experience is so little you cannot comment.

Just now, Harrisfan said:

The average Thai woman has the brain of a 18yo. They watch soapies, have a narrow world view.

You don't need to communicate much at all cause there is little upstairs.

They want money, sex, fun, nice food plus maybe a hobby.

It's not rocket science it's a woman with a limited brain.

Every reply you ever make is an assumption of one kind or another, just as this one is. That comment looks like you just look at women as objects and not having intelligence. My girlfriend now would run rings around your lack of knowledge and common sense, and yes, shes Thai.

1 minute ago, fredwiggy said:

You failed at one then. if not both. That's how you reply to me. Knowing nothing about me and even less about relationships, this is all you have to say. If you had any knowledge on relationships, either from experience, reading, actually listening to women or a combination of those, you would know my advice is spot on. You either understand I'm right and are too jealous to admit it, or your experience is so little you cannot comment.

I failed at none of them. I traded in a 56yo for a 36yo. Better ass and better face. From a 7 to a 9.

2 minutes ago, fredwiggy said:

you had any knowledge on relationships, either from experience, reading,

Woman are simple not complex. Thai women are dumber than western women but most of them are dumb.

Just now, Harrisfan said:

I failed at none of them. I traded in a 56yo for a 36yo. Better ass and better face. From a 7 to a 9.

Keep talking. Traded in? Guess she figured you out instead, as no woman in their right minds would be with a child minded middle aged man like you, from the way you act here, unless of course you're paying her. 2 women in all your years. How long were you with the first and second ones? Guess seeing you've only been with two women, your experience likely isn't too much.

1 minute ago, Harrisfan said:

Woman are simple not complex. Thai women are dumber than western women but most of them are dumb.

Assumption after assumption. Yes, the education system here leaves a lot to be desired, but schooling isn't everything when it comes to intelligence nor IQ. People here grow up much faster than in the west, which is both good and bad, but some of that good means street sense. Take money out of this equation, and they would use their heads more.

There are thousands of teachers, government workers, doctors, nurses and other professional women here that are probably a lot smarter than you, seeing how you reply here. Thailand does have colleges. Saying women are simple and not complex is all we need to hear about your lack of understanding the female mind.