2 minutes ago, Harrisfan said:

You're a troll who just whinges. The topic is 224 pages long and you target me cause you have nothing useful to say. You can't even produce those 2wd stats after 48 hours. You're a joke.

You could just discuss the topic and help the OP but no you're a troll.

I have made many comments on this thread over the period that it has been running.

I'm only commenting now because I detest the inane argumentative one line comments you make.

Go away.

Loser.

Nobody likes you or wants to hear your nasty comments.

3 minutes ago, emptypockets said:

I have made many comments on this thread over the period that it has been running.

I'm only commenting now because I detest the inane argumentative one line comments you make.

Go away.

Loser.

Nobody likes you or wants to hear your nasty comments.

Go speak to a therapist about your issues. You are yelling at a computer screen. Not only that you post insults then call me nasty lol

The OP is a good bloke. I wish him well. Sadly you show no signs of being a good bloke. I still wish you well with you little 2wd.

Just now, Harrisfan said:

Go speak to a therapist about your issues. You are yelling at a computer screen.

I'm not using or yelling at a computer screen. Technology has advanced since you moved into your mum's basement.

In the years that I have been a member of this forum, I have never blocked or reported another member to the moderation team.

That time is rapidly approaching.

1 minute ago, emptypockets said:

I'm not using or yelling at a computer screen. Technology has advanced since you moved into your mum's basement.

In the years that I have been a member of this forum, I have never blocked or reported another member to the moderation team.

That time is rapidly approaching.

All your posts are off topic and abusive. You must be having a bad day.

I gave the OP good advice.

I see you have nothing to offer. You are a troll.

Just now, emptypockets said:

I'm not using or yelling at a computer screen. Technology has advanced since you moved into your mum's basement.

In the years that I have been a member of this forum, I have never blocked or reported another member to the moderation team.

That time is rapidly approaching.

Jesus himself could come down and tell this critter he's a nuisance, and to try and act his age, but obviously to all of us, this will never happen. Some have suggested he is actually a teenager in his mum's basement or on dad's account, changing usernames, thinking it'll hide his ways.

Some people are so disturbed in their thinking they actually accuse others of what they've been doing all along. You point out the truth, but some will, for reasons only those in the know or a psychiatrist can explain, turn it around and put it right back on you, hoping others will believe their gaslighting, although more and more are really seeing these types for exactly what they are. You prove him wrong every single time, but the truth doesn't matter to him. Only to troll others and like you just saw, to turn that back to you.

He actually thinks he's helping the OP by being here, all the while everyone else here has actually tried to help the OP with good advice, from decades of experience, so he could recognize not only where he's going wrong, but to open his eyes to see what the woman was all about.

This behavior will never stop, so don't let it bother you. No need to block him, as his MO is clear to everyone in the forum. It's actually amusing that some "adults" can act this way, but like I mentioned, some were never taught respect in the formative years.

1 minute ago, fredwiggy said:

Jesus himself could come down and tell this critter he's a nuisance, and to try and act his age, but obviously to all of us, this will never happen. Some have suggested he is actually a teenager in his mum's basement or on dad's account, changing usernames, thinking it'll hide his ways.

Some people are so disturbed in their thinking they actually accuse others of what they've been doing all along. You point out the truth, but some will, for reasons only those in the know or a psychiatrist can explain, turn it around and put it right back on you, hoping others will believe their gaslighting, although more and more are really seeing these types for exactly what they are. You prove him wrong every single time, but the truth doesn't matter to him. Only to troll others and like you just saw, to turn that back to you.

He actually thinks he's helping the OP by being here, all the while everyone else here has actually tried to help the OP with good advice, from decades of experience, so he could recognize not only where he's going wrong, but to open his eyes to see what the woman was all about.

This behavior will never stop, so don't let it bother you. No need to block him, as his MO is clear to everyone in the forum. It's actually amusing that some "adults" can act this way, but like I mentioned, some were never taught respect in the formative years.

Your posts don't help the OP or anyone. Not one bit of useful info. You mostly talk about yourself or insult people who disagree with your nonsense. Only someone with a teenage brain would call everyone that disagrees with them a teenager. A dozen people have called you out on this behaviour but you have never grown up. That's why so many women left you.

Yes, a pattern of repeated relationship failures can be a sign of a personality disorder, particularly Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD). Individuals with BPD often experience intense fear of abandonment, unstable self-image, and extreme emotional shifts, leading to chaotic relationship dynamics—such as idealizing a partner one moment and devaluing them the next. This "seesawing" between love and hate, combined with impulsive behaviors and difficulty regulating emotions, can make sustained, healthy relationships extremely challenging.

Other personality disorders also contribute to relationship difficulties:

• Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD): Relationships may start intensely but deteriorate due to a lack of empathy, need for admiration, and devaluation of partners when expectations aren't met.

• Avoidant or Schizoid Personality Disorders: These involve fear of intimacy or emotional detachment, leading to avoidance of close relationships or superficial connections.

• Antisocial Personality Disorder (ASPD): Characterized by manipulation, disregard for others’ rights, and impulsivity, often resulting in turbulent, short-lived relationships.

Just now, Harrisfan said:

Your posts don't help the OP or anyone. Not one bit of useful info. You mostly talk about yourself or insult people who disagree with your nonsense. Only someone with a teenage brain would call everyone that disagrees with them a teenager. A dozen people have called you out on this behaviour but you have never grown up. That's why so many women left you.

My posts were spot on, as were many others. You're not helping him with your strange slant on things but adding to the problem. I would look at yourself and your reputation to see who's the insulting one. You never help anyone. You start topics and then take what people say and twist them around, either from ignorance or plain jealousy.

I do my part to try and help anyone here with what I know about certain subjects. I call things as I see them, and I'm hardly alone here. Do you not notice how many people here that are against how you talk in this forum? There is something very wrong with you and that was obvious right from the start.

The only people that have called me out on what I've said are those, you included, along with 4 others, who act exactly the same as you do. I wonder why that is. You all gather information, like that other weirdo that has "files" on members, then turn the truth we say around to make yourself feel better. You and they change usernames thinking you'll hide your obvious BS from others here. it doesn't work. You really have a very closed, sad existence if all you can come up with are arguments just to try and put down others here. Grow up and act your age. If you can't see how you act, look at your reputation and that might give you a clue. And I divorced the wives I had, because they didn't act the part nor care about the children like a mother should. I already mentioned why most relationships end. Seems you still missed that fact.

The average number of romantic relationships in a person's lifetime varies by source and definition, but most estimates fall between 5 and 8.

2 minutes ago, Harrisfan said:

Yes, a pattern of repeated relationship failures can be a sign of a personality disorder, particularly Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD). Individuals with BPD often experience intense fear of abandonment, unstable self-image, and extreme emotional shifts, leading to chaotic relationship dynamics—such as idealizing a partner one moment and devaluing them the next. This "seesawing" between love and hate, combined with impulsive behaviors and difficulty regulating emotions, can make sustained, healthy relationships extremely challenging.

Other personality disorders also contribute to relationship difficulties:

• Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD): Relationships may start intensely but deteriorate due to a lack of empathy, need for admiration, and devaluation of partners when expectations aren't met.

• Avoidant or Schizoid Personality Disorders: These involve fear of intimacy or emotional detachment, leading to avoidance of close relationships or superficial connections.

• Antisocial Personality Disorder (ASPD): Characterized by manipulation, disregard for others’ rights, and impulsivity, often resulting in turbulent, short-lived relationships.

Thank you for pointing out your issues. Now others here who might not already understand why you do what you do, will open their eyes and see for themselves why. Like I mentioned before, narcissists don't read hundreds of books looking to help others in relationships. They take what little intelligence they have and use it against others to feed a low self esteem. And there's no cure.

2 minutes ago, fredwiggy said:

Thank you for pointing out your issues. Now others here who might not already understand why you do what you do, will open their eyes and see for themselves why. Like I mentioned before, narcissists don't read hundreds of books looking to help others in relationships. They take what little intelligence they have and use it against others to feed a low self esteem. And there's no cure.

It applies to people with many failed relationships like you lol

3 minutes ago, fredwiggy said:

narcissists don't read hundreds of books looking to help others in relationships.

You had 90 failures. You need the help not others. Normal people have 5 to 8.

6 minutes ago, Harrisfan said:

The average number of romantic relationships in a person's lifetime varies by source and definition, but most estimates fall between 5 and 8.

There will be a cold day in hell when you actually base a reply on knowledge and not look things up trying to disprove others, as another just noted. Everything you have ever posted I, and likely most others here, already knew long ago.

Just now, Harrisfan said:

You had 90 failures. You need the help not others. Normal people have 5 to 8.

No, I had over 90 relationships with women. As I've explained many times before but you still can't fathom, most relationships end because of unlike future plans. Now write that down and post it on your desk so you can remember it. A failure is a relationship where you, or they, don't put in the work needed, or when you just use women, buy them, or neglect them. Remember, you said you've been with hundreds of women. I wonder why they failed.

4 minutes ago, fredwiggy said:

There will be a cold day in hell when you actually base a reply on knowledge and not look things up trying to disprove others, as another just noted. Everything you have ever posted I, and likely most others here, already knew long ago.

Just facts. Your history is abnormal. You need to see a therapist.

1 minute ago, fredwiggy said:

No, I had over 90 relationships with women. As I've explained many times before but you still can't fathom, most relationships end because of unlike future plans. Now write that down and post it on your desk so you can remember it. A failure is a relationship where you, or they, don't put in the work needed, or when you just use women, buy them, or neglect them. Remember, you said you've been with hundreds of women. I wonder why they failed.

You should seek help. Probably too late though. 70yo and 90 failures. Your good marriage days are past.

6 minutes ago, Harrisfan said:

It applies to people with many failed relationships like you lol

Actually a narcissist would have left my ex a month after they met her, looking for greener pastures.

A narcissist also doesn't stay in a country they don't like or can't enjoy their hobbies because of a child, but would leave.

A narcissist doesn't care about anyone, but I've raised 5 other children, and had custody of them, because their moms weren't capable nor cared about them enough to do their part.

A narcissist abandons everyone, including his children and responsibilities.

Narcissists cheat on everyone. I never cheat.

Narcissists neglect their women, but I've learned over the years. by reading those books a narcissist never would, to understand women better, to listen more, and do work many men will never do in the household.

Try to read that a few times so it sinks in, so you might educate yourself on what a narcissist personality really is, as you haven't the slightest idea but again, look to the internet for your knowledge, instead of already having it.

1 minute ago, fredwiggy said:

Actually a narcissist would have left my ex a month after they met her, looking for greener pastures.

A narcissist also doesn't stay in a country they don't like or can't enjoy their hobbies because of a child, but would leave.

A narcissist doesn't care about anyone, but I've raised 5 other children, and had custody of them, because their moms weren't capable nor cared about them enough to do their part.

Narcissists cheat on everyone. I never cheat.

Narcissists neglect their women, but I've learned over the years. by reading those books a narcissist never would, to understand women better, to listen more, and do work many men will never do in the household.

Try to read that a few times so it sinks in, so you might educate yourself on what a narcissist personality really is, as you haven't the slightest idea but again, look to the internet for your knowledge, instead of already having it.

Narcs always claim to be right. You are a narc. Normal people don't fail 90 times and blame others. Your failures are mostly due to you. I failed a few times, you failed 90 times. That is extreme. The problem lies with uno.

5 minutes ago, Harrisfan said:

You should seek help. Probably too late though. 70yo and 90 failures. Your good marriage days are past.

I actually try to help others in their relationships from all my reading and experiences, along with mistakes. i could have helped you, but for you there is no cure.

3 minutes ago, fredwiggy said:

Try to read that a few times so it sinks in, so you might educate yourself on what a narcissist personality really is, as you haven't the slightest idea but again, look to the internet for your knowledge, instead of already having it.

I knew you were a narc long ago. I proved you wrong with science so many times and you never admit it. You must be very sick.

Just now, Harrisfan said:

Narcs always claim to be right. You are a narc. Normal people don't fail 90 times and blame others. Your failures are mostly due to you. I failed a few times, you failed 90 times. That is extreme. The problem lies with uno.

Read what I just wrote, then go to your google friend you always use and read up on what really makes a narcissist work. You have no idea. I won't bother answering you anymore as you haven't the intelligence to have this register.

Just now, fredwiggy said:

Read what I just wrote, then go to your google friend you always use and read up on what really makes a narcissist work. You have no idea. I won't bother answering you anymore as you haven't the intelligence to have this register.

I post facts with proven science and data. Your behaviour is 100% narc. Why you failed 90 times and won't admit it.

34 minutes ago, fredwiggy said:

I actually try to help others in their relationships from all my reading and experiences, along with mistakes. i could have helped you, but for you there is no cure.

How could you help me Fred?????

Would advice would you give me?

There needs to be a new thread: 'The Wigster and Sparky debate' and then whenever they feel inclined they can have it out there.

Just now, Fat is a type of crazy said:

There needs to be a new thread: 'The Wigster and Sparky debate' and then whenever they feel inclined they can have it out there.

Sounds good.

1 hour ago, fredwiggy said:

Jesus himself could come down and tell this critter he's a nuisance, and to try and act his age, but obviously to all of us, this will never happen.

Don't feed the troll - do not give the most despised poster on this forum any oxygen...

The only way to deal with such insipid characters is 100% ignore..

1 minute ago, richard_smith237 said:

Don't feed the troll - do not give the most despised poster on this forum any oxygen...

The only way to deal with such insipid characters is 100% ignore..

Very true, and I've added an explanation why some act this way.........https://www.helpguide.org/mental-health/personality-disorders/antisocial-personality-disorder-aspd.

1 minute ago, richard_smith237 said:

Don't feed the troll - do not give the most despised poster on this forum any oxygen...

The only way to deal with such insipid characters is 100% ignore..

I'm very popular and well liked. Far more than you. Why so many follow me. I have 30 people who read all my posts. They love me.

3 minutes ago, fredwiggy said:

Very true, and I've added an explanation why some act this way.........https://www.helpguide.org/mental-health/personality-disorders/antisocial-personality-disorder-aspd.

Good luck with the treatment plan. 90 failures compare to Trump's 24 business failures. 4x the narc of Trump is a lot. Trump is very narc and you are much higher. Dr Phil would have fun with you.

26 minutes ago, Harrisfan said:

I'm very popular and well liked. Far more than you. Why so many follow me. I have 30 people who read all my posts. They love me.

Nobody loves you. Quite the opposite. You destroy every thread with your insipid vile comments. Why do you think Cameroni hasn't updated HIS thread.

Go away and start you own thread about 300 baht hotels in 100 Thai cities.

Troll.