11 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

 

She does sound like trouble, which is why I liked her, but it does seem like the trouble maybe weighing heavier than the payoff, for me I mean, which is the issue here.

 

That and her insistence I come to Phuket, which is a massive headache, and for what? If she just wants to come for a week or two for fun? I mean sure, the sex could be great, but I had great sex, I'm not that desperate for it. I was kind of hoping she was an intelligent, honest and attractive girl. She is all that. But sadly she's also a bit of a promiscuous serial dater. So that's a problem.

 

Indeed... use the force and trust your judgement, as usually your gut feelings are accurate.

I guess a possible deal-breaker could be (depending on your perspective) is that she also sounds fairly bossy and a bit of the control-freak type that likes issuing orders like, come to Phuket, I won't be "tied down", I will be free to do as I wilt regardless of anything blah blah blah.

Sounds like she wants her cake and to eat it, or maybe a soyboy lapdog that can be controlled and to provide funds. Hot women like that are, well, often toxic in my experience... however, you will know best as you are there in the present. You could just milk it for all it's worth, grab the great sex etc, then do a Houdini.

Maybe see if she will let a stoic and confident man lead... if not, and she descends in mental breakdown and a hissy-fit, then you know what to do.

1 minute ago, Cameroni said:

 

Ain't that the truth. It's sad, but that is indeed what is happening. They're outgaming us.

 

I probably will have to move on from her. This sorry incident just illustrates one more time how important it is to run a full stable of girls, I'm lucky I have several options on the go, so that will help me over this. But imagine, I spent 2 months wasting time with her, and only now she disclose what a slut she  is. If I'd put all my eggs in her basket, what a sorry time I would have now. Luckily me eggs are all over the place.

The Thai grapevine is strong. Girls talk.

Incel coming your way soon.

4 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

 

Of course not, I never ask, I just assume she will do it, so when we engage in dirty sex talk I raise that her ass will get some attention. This prompted this girl to make a big fuss out of "no anal" and how that is an iron rule for her. Obivously because she's done anal with other guys and doesn't like it.

You make some outlandish assumptions about this girl. 

Do you like anal? Have you done it and decided you don't Ike it?

I can see why she is avoiding you.

1 hour ago, ravip said:

 

555. 555 how about the old geezers 70+ parading with 25 year old girls?

22 & down for papa

6 minutes ago, Sir Dude said:

I guess a possible deal-breaker could be (depending on your perspective) is that she also sounds fairly bossy and a bit of the control-freak type that likes issuing orders like, come to Phuket, I won't be "tied down", I will be free to do as I wilt regardless of anything blah blah blah.

 

Exactly right, she does come across as "bossy" so many rules, "no anal" as well, come to Phuket, I won't be tied down. I'm not down with that attitude.

 

6 minutes ago, Sir Dude said:

You could just milk it for all it's worth, grab the great sex etc, then do a Houdini.

 

That was my plan all along really, with the added caveat to see if she was also worth keeping long term, but I have several other girls who seem better prospects, marginally, than her. so if it falls by the wayside, so be it. Of course the sexy time would be nice, but not at any price and she seems too insistent I come to Phuket. Had she been a real prize herself, and good for long term, then yes, I would have gone to Phuket, but like this?

3 minutes ago, emptypockets said:

You make some outlandish assumptions about this girl. 

Do you like anal? Have you done and decided you don't Ike it?

I can see why she is avoiding you.

 

Not at all, the only reason for any girl to make a big issue out of "no anal" is because she's done anal with other guys and didn't like it. Sex history 101.

Just now, Cameroni said:

 

Not at all, the only reason for any girl to make a big issue out of "no anal" is because she's done anal with other guys and didn't like it. Sex history 101.

Nonsense. This is starting sound like the teenage fantasies that they used to post in Playboy and Penthouse magazines in the 1970's.

Just now, emptypockets said:

Nonsense. This is starting sound like the teenage fantasies that they used to post in Playboy and Penthouse magazines in the 1970's.

 

We will have to agree to disagree on this point.

1 hour ago, Cameroni said:

 

Yes, there's that, she certainly was honest to a fault.

 

But this virtue seems rather negated by her aproach to life, fornicating with as many men as possible. I mean who then goes to announce to all the men that is what she will do?

 

It's as if a serial killer would tell his victims he will kill them BEFORE they meet.

Fornicating vs serial killing???

Like someone said earlier... what's sauce for the goose is sauce for the gander.

Just now, Cameroni said:

 

We will have to agree to disagree on this point.

You are delusional. Whining about a girl you met on a dating site, but it's not a problem as you have a super model on tap.

Sorry, your is credibility zero.

8 minutes ago, papa al said:

22 & down for papa

I hope you will keep away from balconies.

1 minute ago, ravip said:

what's sauce for the goose is sauce for the gander.

 

No asolutely not. You're creating a false equivalency that does not exist. Nobody ever said "Oh I admire that girl so much, she's had sex with so many men".

 

The fact is that a woman who fornicates with a lot of men is degraded. Physically and socially. A man who does that is upgraded, kings and emperors fornicated with thousands of women. Empresses never did the same with thousands of men.

 

It's totally different for men and women.

1 minute ago, emptypockets said:

You are delusional. Whining about a girl you met on a dating site, but it's not a problem as you have a super model on tap.

Sorry, your is credibility zero.

 

Yes, it's hard to believe, but that is the case. She actually participated in a recent modelling pageant in Thailand.

Just now, Cameroni said:

 

No asolutely not. You're creating a false equivalency that does not exist. Nobody ever said "Oh I admire that girl so much, she's had sex with so many men".

 

The fact is that a woman who fornicates with a lot of men is degraded. Physically and socially. A man who does that is upgraded, kings and emperors fornicated with thousands of women. Empresses never did the same with thousands of men.

 

It's totally different for men and women.

Great!

2 hours ago, Cameroni said:

So I'm writing for over 2 months now with this Thai girl, 25 years old, extremely attractive. First she agreed to come stay with me in CM, now she demands I go to Phuket for the weekend and says then she will join me in CM. But guess what she just told me? Just to be clear, she does not want to be "tied down", she only wants to have fun and is not ready to be tied down with anyone. "I am afraid to lose my freedom" (freedom to fornicate at will I suspect).

 

This is the first time a Thai girl has literally told me to my face "I want to ride the carousel, yes I'll come have fun with you, but don't have any hopes that I'll stay with you, because I intend to just have fun and ride the carousel until I'm ready to be tied down".

 

I mean I was well aware that girls do this, ride the carousel just to have fun, but to be so shameless about it and tell you to your face, that kind of took my breath away. Has anyone else had a Thai girl be this completely shameless?

 

You found love and she found a new bank account.

Just now, GoodieAfterDark said:

 

You found love and she found a new bank account.

 

Well no, she specifically took love off the table. it's as if you didn't read the thread at all.

 

She just wants fun.

 

Welcome to Thailand 2025.

3 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

 

No asolutely not. You're creating a false equivalency that does not exist. Nobody ever said "Oh I admire that girl so much, she's had sex with so many men".

 

The fact is that a woman who fornicates with a lot of men is degraded. Physically and socially. A man who does that is upgraded, kings and emperors fornicated with thousands of women. Empresses never did the same with thousands of men.

 

It's totally different for men and women.

You belong in another, ancient era.

Just now, emptypockets said:

You belong in another, ancient era.

 

Maybe you're right, but how to get there?

14 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

 

 ... but at any price and she seems too insistent I come to Phuket. 

 

Yes, that stands out as irregular and would make me cautious plus activate my spidey sense. Maybe a bit of investigation as to why she is so insistent that you go would be a good idea whilst you grab a bit of extra quality sex... call me cynical and cautious, but she may just want you were she wants you for some reason and hasn't the network in CM do what she has planned. Not saying/implying anything but that's what would come into my mind. I'm sure you have been here long enough to know when you're listening to BS.

To be honest with you, just personally, I wouldn't go to Phuket as is of now (unless you find out more credible info), trust takes a long time to nurture... longer than a couple of months and you have no idea what's waiting in Phuket for you. The risk and opaqueness seems too high for a caution-minded fellow like me... but your call on that.

You have ridden this ride well by the sound of it, take your winnings and run without looking back is sometimes a better option, unless of course you can find out the truth and that's hard to find out in a place so full of lies. Not worth the risk IMO. 

59 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

I posted her exact words above. Basically "I'm not ready yet. I don't want to be tied down to anyone. I'm afraid I won't have any freedom [to be a nasty slut and fornicate anyone]. So what do you think? I don't want to have anyone yet. Do you just want to have fun?".

The part in the brackets, where did that come from? Her or you?

Just now, Cameroni said:

 

Maybe you're right, but how to get there?

I think, mentally, you are already there.

You are so far out of touch with the younger generation. Guess what, they are different to what you are. Think differently, act differently and live differently.

Can't expect your rusted on idea of morals to apply.

My advice:

 

Buy the porno with her Thai boyfriend, but because your knowledge of Thai is krap, insist that the video has subtitles........

6 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

 

Yes, it's hard to believe, but that is the case. She actually participated in a recent modelling pageant in Thailand.

Photos please.

1 minute ago, Cameroni said:

 

Maybe you're right, but how to get there?

You belong in another, ancient era. You have never moved forward... and now its too late.

1 hour ago, Cameroni said:

 

I ain't not Grandpa, I'm 54.  But not so clever, because she talked herself right out of an all expenses paid trip to CM. She's still asking me to come to Phuket. But I can't muster any enthusiasm now she's put her cards on the table and disclosed she's nothing but a common serial dater. It's just such a turn off.

So you were corresponding with a hot, young thing 30 years your junior expecting what exactly??

Good god, the lack of self awareness!

 

PS. No wonder you hate women. How dare they bring up financial "incentives" when Grandpa opens his heart!

5 minutes ago, Sir Dude said:

 

Yes, that stands out as irregular and would make me cautious plus activate my spidey sense. Maybe a bit of investigation as to why she is so insistent that you go would be a good idea whilst you grab a bit of extra quality sex... call me cynical and cautious, but she may just want you were she wants you for some reason and hasn't the network in CM do what she has planned. Not saying/implying anything but that's what would come into my mind. I'm sure you have been here long enough to know when you're listening to BS.

To be honest with you, just personally, I wouldn't go to Phuket as is of now (unless you find out more credible info), trust takes a long time to nurture... longer than a couple of months and you have no idea what's waiting in Phuket for you. The risk and opaqueness seems too high for a caution-minded fellow like me... but you cal on that.

You have ridden this ride well by the sound of it, take your winnings and run without looking back is sometimes a better option, unless of course you can find out the truth and that's hard to find out in a place so full of lies. Not worth the risk IMO. 

 

Yes, her sudden insistence that I had to come to Phuket for one or two days, and only then she'd come to CM with me also had my spidey sense tingling. I see three possibilities:

 

1- She's testing to see if I have the financial acument to fly to Phuket for 2 days and stay in a good hotel

 

2- She wants to see me in person physically first before she decides to go to CM.

 

3- She is doing some nefarious scam with people inPhuket to relieve men of their wallet

 

Either way, going to Phuket would cost 10-000 to 15000 baht, her good time in CM another 10000 at least. And whilst this girl is attractive, like I say, I have other girls actually here on the ground in CM and in BKK, so I'm not all that desperate to see her. Though, yes, would I like to meet her of course, but like I say not at any price and her bossiness, which you rightly picked up on, is another issue. Also she seemed unusually standoffish, texting every 6 hours on some days, very odd. Unless she's texting lots of other guys.

 

I trust her very little, unsurprisingly. I'm still conflicted about going to Phuket, but leaning towards not going now I think.

3 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

 

Maybe you're right, but how to get there?

You are there already, and there is no turning back.

5 minutes ago, ColeBOzbourne said:

The part in the brackets, where did that come from? Her or you?

 

I added that for clarity.

Thai girl was totally shameless

 

Should we delete Thai girl and substitute ___ Man?

5 minutes ago, KannikaP said:

Photos please.

 

You twisted my arm.