14 minutes ago, Lightyear said:

That's a very good question. Holidays in five star places would need a bit of investigation too, as you mentioned earlier.

 

On the one hand, it could be an innocent thing: She might have her own source of wealth from family or business. On the other hand, she might have a boyfriend that she's in the process of dumping, which still works for you.

 

There's also a possibility that she might be someone's minor wife or mia noi, who's playing around - you should find this out, just in case. Jealous Thai men can be quite dangerous, especially rich ones. They all own guns....

 

 

I did ask about the pics in the Conrad Hotel, and it's not just pics in the Conrad Hotel, it's  Kyoto, Osaka, HK, KL, Beijing, Singapore, Ko Samui, that Insta is littered with luxury hotels and restaurants, museums, it's quite something.

 

What she told me "No that was my Taiwanese ex and one of my aunt's supported me". All plausible. She said she met the Taiwanese ex when she did an internship at a bank in BKK.

 

Her break up story is what really had me puzzled, supposedly she lost her mobile phone and could not access her accounts. Neither the Taiwanese ex nor her had each other's emails or any other means to contact each other again.

 

Very strange story.

 

In any event she does seem fairly honest with me, I've not been able to find out she lied in anyway. But she just may be very good at hiding things or telling lies, early days.

 

 I do get a distinct sense that material things are very important to her. Just hitting me up for a new phone case is also rather unusual, not complaining at all because it led to some good things, but I suspect this is the first of many tests. She will ask for this and that, to gauge what actually presents a problem, and thereby gauge your net worth. A very female strategy that happened to me over and over again.

17 minutes ago, Ralf001 said:

 

how often does the mother have to go for dialysis?

 

I don't know, good question, I should ask.

For the life of me, I can't understand why this thread is still open, and why the OP continues to talk to this woman.  Let me put it in simple words to you OP.

 

She is a hooker, simple as that.

She sounds like a greedy hooker that will leave you broke

With her many BFs, she is also highly likely to have no end of STDs

 

Why are you wasting her time?

6 minutes ago, SAFETY FIRST said:

Yes, this is a concern. 

 

I bought a girlfriend a new phone a while back, I have her old phone, she has gone back to Isaan. 

 

I turn on her old phone, I have access to her, Facebook, Instagram, Google, Gmail, messager etc, I read her messages occasionally. I noticed on her Instagram account, if remember, she has disappearing messages active. 

 

Blew me away, didn't even know about this feature 😂

 

Phuket Girl does this as well, all photos and videos she sends are on disappear mode automatically. It's quite annoying. And we know what kind of woman Phuket girl is. Hyper promiscuous.

 

These disappearing texts, videos and photos are typically used by women who talk to a lot of guys, promiscuous women who had things to hide.

 

Having said that BKK girl never hid anything, even showed me her phone, and she was unfaithful. So one does not necessarily mean the other is inevitable or not. It's an art, not a science.

 

Hiding things is quite underhand for me. I like transparency and openness in a woman.

Just now, simon43 said:

For the life of me, I can't understand why this thread is still open, and why the OP continues to talk to this woman.  Let me put it in simple words to you OP.

 

She is a hooker, simple as that.

She sounds like a greedy hooker that will leave you broke

With her many BFs, she is also highly likely to have no end of STDs

 

Why are you wasting her time?

 

You may want to read the latest posts.

1 minute ago, Cameroni said:

 

You may want to read the latest posts.

I read your latest posts.  It doesn't change her past history....

13 minutes ago, simon43 said:

For the life of me, I can't understand why this thread is still open, and why the OP continues to talk to this woman.  Let me put it in simple words to you OP.

 

She is a hooker, simple as that.

She sounds like a greedy hooker that will leave you broke

With her many BFs, she is also highly likely to have no end of STDs

 

Why are you wasting her time?

Oh Simon calm down. 😂

The thread is going strong page 50. 

 

We've already got Malcolm as best man and Georgie boy as brides maid 

 

It's all going to plan 

 

Beats watching Days of Our Lives. 

I did like to watch Jerry Springer RIP 

1 minute ago, simon43 said:

I read your latest posts.  It doesn't change her past history....

 

No you didn't or you'd know we're not talking about that girl anymore.

 

There's been a surprise pivot to a new girl. From CM.

58 minutes ago, simon43 said:

For the life of me, I can't understand why this thread is still open, and why the OP continues to talk to this woman.  Let me put it in simple words to you OP.

 

She is a hooker, simple as that.

She sounds like a greedy hooker that will leave you broke

With her many BFs, she is also highly likely to have no end of STDs

 

Why are you wasting her time?

Totally agree, she is treating this idiot like the mug that he is.

So her birthday is coming up this month. What do I get for CM girl?

 

Obviously we're not on the family close level yet, so I guess I won't be at any family party. 

 

But obviously I need to get her something. What do you get for a 26 year old girl that has an Iphone 17 Pro Max? 

 

Flowers of course. What else?

18 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

So her birthday is coming up this month. What do I get for CM girl?

 

Obviously we're not on the family close level yet, so I guess I won't be at any family party. 

 

But obviously I need to get her something. What do you get for a 26 year old girl that has an Iphone 17 Pro Max? 

 

Flowers of course. What else?

Depends on how well heeled you are. Girls like cars. Perhaps a Mercedes-Benz? 

3 minutes ago, Lightyear said:

Depends on how well heeled you are. Girls like cars. Perhaps a Mercedes-Benz? 

 

No joke, she did actually say she wants a car.

I'm flirting so hard with CM girl on text now, I'm practically having sex with her mind.

3 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

 

No joke, she did actually say she wants a car.

Perhaps you should buy her something thoughtful but not too expensive. If she's happy with that, she's a keeper.

When's the next date?

5 minutes ago, Lightyear said:

Perhaps you should buy her something thoughtful but not too expensive. If she's happy with that, she's a keeper.

 

Yes, I think she will be happy with it. You know, cause she's perfect.

 

 

 

10 minutes ago, Bacon1 said:

When's the next date?

 

As I understand it she is driving back to CM tonight.

 

She slept 3 hours today, so I'm not going to pressure her about a date. I'll wait till she slept long and is in a good mood. Maybe this weekend.

 

Let's see. No rush.

 

She's texting me all day. Sent me a video. Interest is high and things are going good.

 

You still lie, not transparent over age or your ways.

Her mom is now kidney stage 5 , so thats the end.

Prepare then for a funeral.

Why her daughter cant give her a kidney? As real good girl, she would, I think.

OK unless kidney is not compatible. But the chance from family being donor and fits, is bigger.

I hardly cant imagine, such a daughter and christian, wouldnt give up a kidney for mom.

Why you dont get yourself tested and give kidney? You are christian and every time, you promise her to help with everything ! Be a good guy then and help her out ! Then you really are THE man !

Maybe get a discount on mariage fee?!

 

A miracle then you get to know her, with mom being so sick.

A miracle she is in such good mood and dating.

When my mom was doing not so good, couldnt do anything about it, I had no desire in anything to do.

And then Im her son, but did effect me in my ways.  

So very strange, she all does it in "happy way" in this situation.

Weird you think about happy times with girl in this situation, not really christian.

Just go on and thinking what to buy for birthday, while in this situation.

All doesnt add up. But ok as I said, people are strange.

 

2 hours ago, Bacon1 said:

When's the next date?

 

After her sponsor goes home.

1 hour ago, xtrnuno41 said:

You still lie, not transparent over age or your ways.

Her mom is now kidney stage 5 , so thats the end.

 

 

 

Iam stage 4 so that why I asked about her (stage 5) dialysis earlier.

 

 

1 hour ago, xtrnuno41 said:

You still lie, not transparent over age or your ways.

Her mom is now kidney stage 5 , so thats the end.

Prepare then for a funeral.

Why her daughter cant give her a kidney? As real good girl, she would, I think.

OK unless kidney is not compatible. But the chance from family being donor and fits, is bigger.

I hardly cant imagine, such a daughter and christian, wouldnt give up a kidney for mom.

Why you dont get yourself tested and give kidney? You are christian and every time, you promise her to help with everything ! Be a good guy then and help her out ! Then you really are THE man !

Maybe get a discount on mariage fee?!

 

A miracle then you get to know her, with mom being so sick.

A miracle she is in such good mood and dating.

When my mom was doing not so good, couldnt do anything about it, I had no desire in anything to do.

And then Im her son, but did effect me in my ways.  

So very strange, she all does it in "happy way" in this situation.

Weird you think about happy times with girl in this situation, not really christian.

Just go on and thinking what to buy for birthday, while in this situation.

All doesnt add up. But ok as I said, people are strange.

 

 

Well, life goes on. Sure, the mother is not well and if she dies no doubt that will cause substantial disruption and tears. 

 

The daughter should cancel her birthday? I don't think so. She should still have a good day, presents and all the rest of it.

 

I'm sure she would give her a kidney but its' a compatibility issue. Me? I don't give up body parts to in-laws.

 

Yes, it is a miracle I got to know her. You are quite right. It truly is a miracle. That she still keeps contact when her mother is so sick is incredible.

 

I'm sure it's affecting her, but she has good emotional self-control.

2 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

 

Well, life goes on. Sure, the mother is not well and if she dies no doubt that will cause substantial disruption and tears. 

 

 

Can I wager the mother is fine and you are on a set up ?

1 hour ago, Ralf001 said:

 

Can I wager the mother is fine and you are on a set up ?

 

You could, but you would lose. See I have real life information, I got a video of the hospital. You just have ill-founded speculation. It wouldn't fair of me to take advantage of you.

8 hours ago, Cameroni said:

So her birthday is coming up this month. What do I get for CM girl?

 

Obviously we're not on the family close level yet, so I guess I won't be at any family party. 

 

But obviously I need to get her something. What do you get for a 26 year old girl that has an Iphone 17 Pro Max? 

 

Flowers of course. What else?

 

Given that she's previously said she's a Post Malone fan, how about getting a face tattoo in her honour? 

7 hours ago, Cameroni said:

 

You could, but you would lose. See I have real life information, I got a video of the hospital. You just have ill-founded speculation. It wouldn't fair of me to take advantage of you.

You made the vid or was it sent to you ?

13 hours ago, Cameroni said:

her birthday is coming up this month. What do I get for CM girl? 

Engagement ring, propose. 

 

Take a video and share. 👍

 

3 hours ago, SAFETY FIRST said:

Engagement ring, propose. 

 

Take a video and share. 👍

 

 

That would be a ballsy move! It would sure prove I'm serious. 

 

My instinct tells me it's too early though. Whilst CM girl's interest has gone higher, on yesterday's evidence of her initiating texting in the day and texting day and night, we haven't really kissed properly or had sex, it's been only 3 dates. I'm not sure if her interest  would be high enough to say yes.

 

Proposing at the end of this month would have the advantage of avoiding the death of the mother issue, which will happen in due course. And it will be hard to say what effect the death of her mother, grief, the stress of funeral arrangements will have on this relationship.

 

I won't propose on her birthday, but it may be advisable to speed up the proposal. It would take time and preparation

4 hours ago, Ralf001 said:

You made the vid or was it sent to you ?

 

First thing in the morning, no texts yet, and she sent this video of the hospital. So no doubt she was there. She's back in CM now.

8 hours ago, lamyai3 said:

 

Given that she's previously said she's a Post Malone fan, how about getting a face tattoo in her honour? 

 

I know, how can anyone like a "singer" with a face tattoo? She must have an inclination to the very wild, due to her ultra conservative Christian environment. Maybe she wants something wilder, more exciting?

Yesterday I had a bust up with Phuket girl. She was again engaging in this very hardcore money negotiation with me. Supposedly had installments to pay for Ipad, Iphone and Motorcycle. When I asked her to list the monthly payments, she replied "Secret, why you want to know". So I told her to f off and if she's trying to hide things she's not honest, and better she goes lie to someone else.

 

I have a feeling she may be honest about guys, but when it comes to money, not so much. :I don't like her money greedy attitude, I really had enough of it.  So that's probably at an end now.