2 minutes ago, richard_smith237 said:

 

And her phone contacts....  But not her mother of course - she'll still need to speak with her kids...

 

 

 

Oh you funnnneee....

 

Richard funneee..

Just now, Cameroni said:

3 minutes ago, richard_smith237 said:

 

There's the difference - in a 'normal' relationship partner would support their significant other in going on a trip without any concern for the welfare of their relationship....

 

The 'justifiable' reason is trust.

 

 

 

Well, you can do that if you want. With very good looking girls in the 20 something age range, that's a very bad idea.

 

I would never let my wife or gf go on a trip alone, and if she were to plan something like that, this alone would be major red flag.

 

You'd never 'let'....      there's that control again...

 

You don't trust your women because you know they have a pipeline like you - maybe thats why.

 

In a normal relationship such matters are never a concern.

 

 

 

 

This must win the Biggest Topic of the Year Award.

6 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

9 minutes ago, rumak said:

Just get her address where she "will be" .   Then take a long road trip to Si Saket and surprise her.    OR,   maybe you might be surprised !

 

Interesting idea.

 

 

"Mâe Mâe... is the falang my new Daddy ??"     

9 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

 

Thanks, I was wondering what it's like.

 

I hope they have good hotels there. 

Not too bad, Isaan style. Don't expect a decent western breakfast.

15 minutes ago, richard_smith237 said:

You don't trust your women because you know they have a pipeline like you - maybe thats why.

 

In a normal relationship such matters are never a concern.

 

Lol, yes that's why the divorce rate in the UK is close to 50%. You may want to check the cheating stats in the UK.

 

In Forex trading we learn to trust our analysis, but we manage the risk. Proper risk management in a relationship is just sensible.

 

If you want to put all your eggs into the trust basket, up to you.

10 minutes ago, emptypockets said:

Not too bad, Isaan style. Don't expect a decent western breakfast.

 

Thanks. I actually look forward to visiting the provinces. I find Phuket girl so delightful, it seems people there must be carved of different timber.

4 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

 

Thanks. I actually look forward to visiting the provinces. I find Phuket girl so delightful, it seems people there must be carved of different timber.

No they're not. Just good honest hard-working Thai people. You may be pleasantly surprised.

23 minutes ago, Will Iam Not said:

This must win the Biggest Topic of the Year Award.

 

Not much competition....... is there ????????

5 minutes ago, emptypockets said:

No they're not. Just good honest hard-working Thai people. You may be pleasantly surprised.

 

Phuket girl is very honest. Not sure about the hard working part though. Apart from sex maybe.

29 minutes ago, Will Iam Not said:

This must win the Biggest Topic of the Year Award.

I'm not sure"topic" is the word I would use for him.

8 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

 

Phuket girl is very honest. Not sure about the hard working part though. Apart from sex maybe.

 

"Habituation is the psychological process where the brain's response to a consistently available and predictable reward diminishes over time. In the early stages of a relationship, the partner is a novel stimulus, triggering high dopamine release and excitement. As the partner becomes familiar and predictable, the brain's reward and arousal circuits decrease their firing rate, reducing the initial intense desire and motivation to "secure" the partner."   (thank you Ai)

 

I'm sure we all look forward to page 100,  or 120,  or 200 ???   When the smitten Cameroni , after drifting downward , little by little ........ is faced with looking in the mirror, or maybe confiding to all of us "friends" ........ ........

"it just wasn't all I hoped it would be " .

 

BUT WHO KNOWS !    MAYBE THIS IS THE ONE !    

 

CAMMY , CAMMY,  CAMMY !!      (but you're only 54 .  you really wanna settle down already ?? )

21 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

 

Phuket girl is very honest. Not sure about the hard working part though. Apart from sex maybe.

Is she from Phuket originally?

I doubt it.

2 minutes ago, rumak said:

 

"Habituation is the psychological process where the brain's response to a consistently available and predictable reward diminishes over time. In the early stages of a relationship, the partner is a novel stimulus, triggering high dopamine release and excitement. As the partner becomes familiar and predictable, the brain's reward and arousal circuits decrease their firing rate, reducing the initial intense desire and motivation to "secure" the partner."   (thank you Ai)

 

I'm sure we all look forward to page 100,  or 120,  or 200 ???   When the smitten Cameroni , after drifting downward , little by little ........ is faced with looking in the mirror, or maybe confiding to all of us "friends" ........ ........

"it just wasn't all I hoped it would be " .

 

BUT WHO KNOWS !    MAYBE THIS IS THE ONE !    

 

CAMMY , CAMMY,  CAMMY !!      (but you're only 54 .  you really wanna settle down already ?? )

Thank you AI....

 

Really? Unbelievable but believable that people nowadays can't think of formulate their own considered response.

26 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

 

Lol, yes that's why the divorce rate in the UK is close to 50%. You may want to check the cheating stats in the UK.

 

In Forex trading we learn to trust our analysis, but we manage the risk. Proper risk management in a relationship is just sensible.

 

If you want to put all your eggs into the trust basket, up to you.

My policy is, I trust everybody until discover I cannot. In your case I discovered I haven't trusted you for a long time. What's true, what's false could be just about anything. But for me,.. I am unaffected either way, so I am not bothered. With those who matter, I am not checking up all the time If I discover dishonesty or downright lying or obvious deception, it's goodbye from me. 

3 minutes ago, emptypockets said:

Thank you AI....

 

Really?

 

why you keep bothering me ?   go away  

most of the trolls have kept off this topic.   why you wanna be one 

2 minutes ago, ChrisKC said:

My policy is, I trust everybody until discover I cannot. In your case I discovered I haven't trusted you for a long time. What's true, what's false could be just about anything. But for me,.. I am unaffected either way, so I am not bothered. With those who matter, I am not checking up all the time If I discover dishonesty or downright lying or obvious deception, it's goodbye from me. 

How can you trust or distrust someone on an internet chat site?

You may have deeper problems.

1 minute ago, rumak said:

 

why you keep bothering me ?   go away  

most of the trolls have kept off this topic.   why you wanna be one 

What on earth are you talking about?

1 minute ago, emptypockets said:

How can you trust or distrust someone on an internet chat site?

You may have deeper problems.

 

there you go again ..... seems like you have the "problem" .   

what purpose does it serve to include your personal attack ?

3 minutes ago, rumak said:

 

there you go again ..... seems like you have the "problem" .   

what purpose does it serve to include your personal attack ?

What personal attack?

 

You are not making any sense.

1 minute ago, emptypockets said:

How can you trust or distrust someone on an internet chat site?

You may have deeper problems.

I don't have any problems  deep or otherwise when it comes to my understanding of my philosophy of life. I have already said, what strangers say or do I am unaffected by, so I don't need to care trusting or not trusting, Internet or not. 

47 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

Lol, yes that's why the divorce rate in the UK is close to 50%. You may want to check the cheating stats in the UK.

 

In Forex trading we learn to trust our analysis, but we manage the risk. Proper risk management in a relationship is just sensible.

 

If you want to put all your eggs into the trust basket, up to you.

 

 

Comparing relationships to trading - no wonder you're such a relationship simp... 

 

'Proper risk management'  / 'eggs in one basket'  ..... thats hilarious... 

 

You'll be suggesting 'relationship diversification' next !!! 

 

 

12 minutes ago, ChrisKC said:

I don't have any problems  deep or otherwise when it comes to my understanding of my philosophy of life. I have already said, what strangers say or do I am unaffected by, so I don't need to care trusting or not trusting, Internet or not. 

I was responding to rumak.

Why do you need to respond. Are you the same person?

9 minutes ago, richard_smith237 said:

Comparing relationships to trading

they are very similar.

they're both gambling.

 

4 minutes ago, save the frogs said:

14 minutes ago, richard_smith237 said:

Comparing relationships to trading

they are very similar.

they're both gambling.

 

If you say so...  I don't gamble and neither I have I in my relationships.

 

The Op on the other hand is working from a very different set of information and has presented an extreme level of gullibility.

 

If he were really so risk adverse and this was like trading - this wouldn't be a 100 page thread now would it !! 

10 hours ago, Cameroni said:

Yes, I can also hardly believe a girl like this would come fly to stay in my house. I could be a serial killer. But they take the risk.

 

Thai people are trusting I guess. I once met a girl in Mae Suai and she invited me up to say in Doi Chang, in the same room and everything. I could be serial killer for all she knows but was willing to roll the dice.

 

As for this girl though I wouldn't get too attached. In 2025 a young good looking girl dating on those apps will be thousands of people to choose from. The fact you beat out so many younger people is interesting but I'm paranoid so I'd be looking for ulterior motives left right and center. At the least I'd expect her to just get bored and move on once something else comes along. Just my 2 cents.

47 minutes ago, emptypockets said:

Is she from Phuket originally?

I doubt it.

think he said from Si Saket. Phuket gets something insane like 120 tourists per local. I think it's totally occupied by tourists and Thai's coming to work in the tourist industry. I wonder what the actual native population is compared to transplants, it must be tiny.

10 hours ago, Cameroni said:

Yes, I can also hardly believe a girl like this would come fly to stay in my house. I could be a serial killer. But they take the risk.

 

Nothing to lose and being financially desperate leads to more risk taking... 

 

 

 

1 hour ago, Will Iam Not said:

This must win the Biggest Topic of the Year Award.

Why? There is only three posters here.

3 minutes ago, NorthernRyland said:

think he said from Si Saket. Phuket gets something insane like 120 tourists per local. I think it's totally occupied by tourists and Thai's coming to work in the tourist industry. I wonder what the actual native population is compared to transplants, it must be tiny.

 

Indeed - easy to up the odds of finding a foreigner who will pay a monthly salary...   or provide the GF service for those who are visiting by meeting them online beforehand...