I noticed many of you can't cope being alone ,you need to run off to the Philippines or Thailand to find a "mother figure " or have to be around people all the time 

 

I'm trying to figure out in psychology what's that called where you can't be alone , dependant maybe 

 

When you go to the gym ( which I know many of you DON'T) but the ones that do ,you use the treadmill next to someone when the other 20 are vacant .

 

.it's a bit like when I was in Sizzlers Pattaya back in August, myself and my friend were the ONLY ones on there , and where does a  stinky tattooed fat green singlet wearing sit ? Right next to me !!.

Yep right next to us and proceeds to join in our conversation 

 

Yep because he's lonely ,he can't be by himself 

 

And some idiot asked me the other day what is a "Singlet? .

Unbelievable.

 

You even get these type of people in work places where they want to talk to you constantly and gossip .

 

I had to put one on place the other night shift putting my music headphones on to ignore his constant chatter because he is obviously leading a lonely life 

 

And some you are like dependence I think they call it , it stems I'm told from your mother breastfeeding you too long apparently 

 

 

 

 

You seem to be an antisocial hermit.

31 minutes ago, georgegeorgia said:

I noticed many of you can't cope being alone ,you need to run off to the Philippines or Thailand to find a "mother figure " or have to be around people all the time 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Why do you keep travelling to Thailand.... the place you constanly complain about how bad it is ?

 

2 minutes ago, Ralf001 said:

 

Why do you keep travelling to Thailand.... the place you constanly complain about how bad it is ?

 

He is just plain dumb

Another click bait trolling sweeping statement thread from someone who knows nothing about expat life or the people that live here, and are actually quite happy with the way things are. Nice bitter and trolling post... give you that. 

Sorry but ASEANNow needs a feature to block some users from appearing in the side bar. Blocking members doesn't actually achieve this which is wild.

 

No bad feelings to the OP but this is just spam content and I don't want to see it.

 

At the very least demote members who are promoting low quality spam content so it doesn't appear in the sidebar and we don't have to block people outright.

George , I think you ,think too mut .. just get your head down ,

do your mopping ,and go back to your bedsitter or where ever

you live and stop trying to analyse people ,we don't need it ,

I think we are all happy and just living our lives ,we don't need

criticism from anyone.

 

regards worgeordie

 

 

Seems to me that OP is talking about himself when he mentions a "stinky tattooed fat green singlet wearing..."

1 hour ago, georgegeorgia said:

I noticed many of you can't cope being alone ,you need to run off to the Philippines or Thailand to find a "mother figure " or have to be around people all the time 

 

I'm trying to figure out in psychology what's that called where you can't be alone , dependant maybe 

 

When you go to the gym ( which I know many of you DON'T) but the ones that do ,you use the treadmill next to someone when the other 20 are vacant .

 

.it's a bit like when I was in Sizzlers Pattaya back in August, myself and my friend were the ONLY ones on there , and where does a  stinky tattooed fat green singlet wearing sit ? Right next to me !!.

Yep right next to us and proceeds to join in our conversation 

 

Yep because he's lonely ,he can't be by himself 

 

And some idiot asked me the other day what is a "Singlet? .

Unbelievable.

 

You even get these type of people in work places where they want to talk to you constantly and gossip .

 

I had to put one on place the other night shift putting my music headphones on to ignore his constant chatter because he is obviously leading a lonely life 

 

And some you are like dependence I think they call it , it stems I'm told from your mother breastfeeding you too long apparently 

 

 

 

 

I think you should get professional psychiatric help.  

13 hours ago, georgegeorgia said:

I'm trying to figure out in psychology what's that called where you can't be alone , dependant maybe 

 

What is it called in psychology when someone visits Pattaya frequently but then always bashes the place?

 

Post Traumatic Stress Disorder from visa denial?

Repressed bar girl fantasies? 

 

1 hour ago, georgegeorgia said:

I noticed many of you can't cope being alone ,you need to run off to the Philippines or Thailand to find a "mother figure " or have to be around people all the time 

 

I'm trying to figure out in psychology what's that called where you can't be alone , dependant maybe 

 

When you go to the gym ( which I know many of you DON'T) but the ones that do ,you use the treadmill next to someone when the other 20 are vacant .

 

.it's a bit like when I was in Sizzlers Pattaya back in August, myself and my friend were the ONLY ones on there , and where does a  stinky tattooed fat green singlet wearing sit ? Right next to me !!.

Yep right next to us and proceeds to join in our conversation 

 

Yep because he's lonely ,he can't be by himself 

 

And some idiot asked me the other day what is a "Singlet? .

Unbelievable.

 

You even get these type of people in work places where they want to talk to you constantly and gossip .

 

I had to put one on place the other night shift putting my music headphones on to ignore his constant chatter because he is obviously leading a lonely life 

 

And some you are like dependence I think they call it , it stems I'm told from your mother breastfeeding you too long apparently 

 

 

 

 

 

I noticed....  you need to write posts here to fill up (waste) youre time and escape youre (possible) sadly going life.

 

Find some friends out there if you can't handle youre loneliness. Or try to learn to be alone without feeling lonley. That means you have to work on yourself. Not easy. If you can't manage - get some professional help. You won't find this here.

 

Wish you all the best.

The other day, he tried to tell me New Caledonia is near my place, even so I live on the west coast of Australia, which is 13 hours by plane. New Caledonia is in the South Pacific, and I live on the Indian Ocean. 

It’s truly rich, @georgegeorgia. You’re constantly on AN lecturing about how others “can’t cope being alone,” while you’re here trolling and attacking people who just want some peace. You’re the one who can’t seem to stop posting, showing up in every thread and trying to drag anyone into a losing conversation, like the guy at the gym who insists on sitting next to someone even though there are twenty free treadmills. You love calling other people “lonely,” but it’s pretty obvious you’re the one who can’t stand a moment of quiet with just you and your moldy mops. Maybe it is the musty smell of those floor rags that makes you always desperate for attention, always needing someone to reply. Classic dependence, isn’t it? The same thing you accuse everyone else of. Maybe it’s just basic psychology, George. It’s called projection, but I guess that’s a little too complex for you to grasp.

2 hours ago, Sir Dude said:

Another click bait trolling sweeping statement thread from someone who knows nothing about expat life or the people that live here, and are actually quite happy with the way things are. Nice bitter and trolling post... give you that. 

 

Hypocrisy at its finest ,was that George Orwell?

1 hour ago, Schoggibueb said:

 

I noticed....  you need to write posts here to fill up (waste) youre time and escape youre (possible) sadly going life.

 

Find some friends out there if you can't handle youre loneliness. Or try to learn to be alone without feeling lonley. That means you have to work on yourself. Not easy. If you can't manage - get some professional help. You won't find this here.

 

Wish you all the best.

thankyou for your service Sir ,it's always wonderful to catch up with you 

Perhaps when I'm in Thailand next we go out dining together as I have more academic conversations to talk about 

2 hours ago, NorthernRyland said:

Sorry but ASEANNow needs a feature to block some users from appearing in the side bar. Blocking members doesn't actually achieve this which is wild.

 

No bad feelings to the OP but this is just spam content and I don't want to see it.

 

At the very least demote members who are promoting low quality spam content so it doesn't appear in the sidebar and we don't have to block people outright.

Oh ok Sir and thankyou for your advice and suggestions

,and may I ask what you have contributed to this business ,clicked on any advertising links perhaps,used the services ?

 

Because you "don't want to see it " ....oh ok then Bob from the Nirun apartments...your a VIP we must listen to you .."because you don't like it ! 

 

" I don't like it....I don't like it !!

Was it Sid Vicious who said this ?

 

perhaps you have a multi million dollar advertising account ?

 

,would you like anything else done , perhaps a change of forum  colour perhaps ?

 

Your a freeloader demanding service  and change Bob 

 

Come back with your advice when your contributing something to the coffers 

2 minutes ago, georgegeorgia said:

Oh ok Sir ,and may I ask what you have contributed to this business ,clicked on any advertising links perhaps,would you like anything else done , perhaps a change of colour !

Your a freeloader demanding service !

You are a sick little doggy. You can't even answer my question. I am waiting.

It's unfortunate another academic thread has to be closed because of the low class uneducated element.

10 minutes ago, still kicking said:

You are a sick little doggy. You can't even answer my question. I am waiting.

I will try to answer ASAP since I know your time is limited 

1 minute ago, georgegeorgia said:

I will try to answer ASAP since I know your time is limited 

No, I am not in a basement 

I'm sorry to all the members on here who have asked me to keep this thread open because they wanted to dissect the psychology discussion of dependance 

I have had to ask the thread be closed 

2 hours ago, georgegeorgia said:

I have had to ask the thread be closed 

Thread closed at OP request