That is only one part of their behavior, and it's a false one. Narcissists both love and hate themselves, but the hate gets worse as they age, and their behavior worsens also. It's not a normal self love but a thinking they are somehow superior, at least in their minds, and they will use and attack others until they are found out, when they will search out others. The best thing that's happened is many psychologists, psychiatrists and counselors writing books and doing podcasts on the subject, and they aren't getting away with their behavior as long as before. They are trained from birth, so they will still be made every day, as it's their parents fault for abusing, neglecting or spoiling them , making them what they become as adults. They'll use that deflection and gaslighting everyone, and some will fall for it, as least for awhile, until they are called out on their behavior. They ruin all relationships , and the only reasons anyone stays with them are fear or possible financial loss, or children involved.
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